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Early pregnancy Anonymous 19774
So i recently discovered I'm pregnant (blood test), I might be in the 3rd week or so, I haven't even been able to see a doctor yet.
I'm so anxious and I can't even tell anyone (apart from my moid who doesn't seem take it really seriously, he even offered me a drink and cigarettes, saying our grandmothers smoked and drinked during pregnancy and it wasn't a problem…whatever,i didnt choose him for his medical literacy), what makes me especially anxious is that there's so much risk of miscarriage at this early point and also I'm afraid my baby might come out with disability (i will do every test i can to determine if it has disability, and if it is the case i will terminate the pregnancy… I want to be a mom but i couldn't raise a person with heavy disability)
I want to tell my mom but she will instantly go crazy. So let's wait a few months until Im sure it's safe
For now i don't really feel different, i just have some light stomach pain fron time to time but maybe that's just psychological.
Have you ever experienced pregnancy? Feel free to share your experiences of (early) pregnancy.
Also if you have any tips.
Anonymous 19788
>>19774Hey nona any updates on this?
I haven't experienced pregnancy myself but I feel like it can happen to me any moment cuz I have a moid who impregnates me frequently while I am on safe-ish contraceptive
> I'm afraid my baby might come out with disability I remember I told him the same thing and he broke down and cried because he said "that will be our child, I'll love them no matter how they come out"
Watch karma get me in the future, kek. I don't even know how a doctor can catch it fast enough before it gets developed and it'll be too late to terminate.
Anyway I heard that pregnant women get constipated a lot and their feet swell, those are common symptoms.
Anonymous 19793
>>19774>he even offered me a drink and cigarettes, saying our grandmothers smoked and drinked during pregnancy and it wasn't a probleWhat the fuck…
Anonymous 19796
girl u are with a freaking bum
Anonymous 19825
congratulations on your pregnancy! now get the fuck off any antidepressants or mood stabilizers you may be on (taper). do not under any circumstance drink or smoke (your babydaddy is a fucking retard for offering). do not eat ultra-processed goyslop. if your baby does test positive for any disabilities, do NOT terminate the pregnancy. you'll regret it for the rest of your life. you think you're not strong enough to raise a disabled child but you are. see your doctor FREQUENTLY.
Anonymous 19829
>>19825>advocating to keep a disabled pregnancymoid post
Anonymous 19832
I had a baby with someone who was just like ur moid. Idk how old you are but id RUN. He became abusive and now I'm a single mom. Whether you choose to abort or not is your choice but PLEASE don't raise that kid with him.
Anonymous 20035
get the abortion , you're not with the right guy.
Anonymous 20038
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>>19774I hope you come back and update on this story
Anonymous 20156
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>>20038Trying but apparently I've been banned forever from posting here (using a VPN rn) idk even why. No reason specified. So idk if there'll be more updates bc i won't keep paying for the VPN for long just had it for something specific a while ago and thought I'd give a try posting here.
Update : im up to 15 weeks now, hopefully my baby tested for no disability and is a girl, the feelings are awful (neauseas, vomiting and such) but they say it's normal. The gynecologist is good but ver stubborn like for example she doesnt trust me when I tell her the medication she gave me for nausea doesn't work.
Ps : yeah my husband has stupid reactions (and it isn't the only one) but whatever we live in a 3rd world country and it's not uncommon here.
Good luck to other preggo nonas
Anonymous 20158
>>20156You married someone who thinks it's okay to smoke and drink whilst pregnant and are now carrying his baby to term?
>15 weeksGirl get an abobo before you hit 16 weeks, that's the cutoff most places
Anonymous 20159
>>20158Tbf his mom smoked the whole pregnancy so i think he'd just been rationalizing it in a weird way.
What did you not get in "third world country"?
People here are not very educated.
At least he's working his ass off rn so i can rest because of the debilitating nature of the pregnancy and so I can take care of her when she's born and not have to put her into daycare… Actually pretty proud of him lately, although i admit he had a difficult time accepting it is a girl.
> get an abobo before you hit 16 weeksHere it is 14 and even if it didn't was, don't want to kill my 10cms 15 week old unborn daughter just because some north american with superiority complex tells me so, sorry
Anonymous 20160
>>20159>he had a difficult time accepting it is a girl.Can't wait for you to raise a girl in this household with a misogynistic, idiotic father :^)
Anonymous 20161
>>20156I genuinely pity you. You're going to be a single mother raising a daughter and handling a manchild.
Anonymous 20162
>>20159Good luck with your pregnancy. I hope and pray for success with your family. <3
Anonymous 20166
>>20160oh but dont forget shes in a
third world country Anonymous 20193
>>19774>he even offered me a drink and cigarettes, saying our grandmothers smoked and drinked during pregnancy and it wasn't a problemHate to break it to you, but this man is retarded. You might want to get your baby screened in case it's genetic.
>>20159>although I admit he had a difficult time accepting it is a girl. Ah, looks like you're retarded as well. Why did you reproduce with this shitbag?
Anonymous 20199
>>20193Apparently she's in a third world country so I assume this is all a result of her doing whatever she can to survive as a woman, tbh. It was probably somehow the least shifty of her options.
Anonymous 22959
I didn't take folic acid FUCK
Anonymous 22962
Also so far I didn't notice any rapid mood changes due to hormones nor vomiting.
I was pretty sore though and noticed I started smelling different, maybe I was also much sleepier. My head hurts now too and there's a bit of nausea triggered by smells.
Also it unnerves me how everyone else is reacting much strongly than me, makes me apprehensive about disclosing this. Hearing another freak out over this would be so annoying.
Anonymous 22965
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This thing looks comfortable, but perhaps similar comfort can be achieved without spending money.
Anonymous 22968
wtf reading a book about pregnancy and now I’m finding out you’re supposed to get a bunch of vaccines too
And I guess there are some vaccines you are supposed to get every 10 years or so? I don’t think I got vaccinated past school age
