Obstetric violence thread Anonymous 22508
Pregnancy is unironically some horror shit. As if it wasn't enough of a strain on your body alone, it's like society goes out of their way to treat pregnant women like shit because they're helpless. Strangers, doctors, etc. (even your partner can start treating you much worse)
It's just sad. You would straight up benefit from having a bodyguard during birth.
Anonymous 22511
>>22510uhhh who the fuck is a reliable source then
Anonymous 22512
>>22511One who calls them PREGNANT WOMEN
Anonymous 22513
>>22512it calls them women within the same paragraph you retarded sperg
Anonymous 22514
>>22513That's the only thing they should be calling them you dehumanizing cunt
Anonymous 22515
>>22508How anybody thinks they would gain anything from pregnancy or childrearing is the real mystery here. It's financial death and the end of your life as you know it. The worst thing that can possibly happen to you.
Anonymous 22517
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>>22516Not everyone here is American nona, but don't worry, there's plenty articles about the American healthcare.
https://www.vice.com/en/article/obstetric-violence-doulas-abuse-giving-birth/Funnily enough the article refers to doulas as bodyguards who were mentioned in the OP.
No wonder women get postpartum depression so frequently.
Anonymous 22518
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https://birthmonopoly.com/obstetric-violence/A map with personal stories.
>the nurse began to (without asking) manually deliver my placenta by putting pressure on my stomach, and yanking on the umbilical cord. I didn't notice any of this, but my husband did and says she was yanking HARD. My placenta came away, and I hemorrhaged, badly. I lost 1.2 liters of blood, which is just under the threshold to need a blood transfusion (which I did not receive). Anonymous 22519
>>22518There's always a chance of this happening when you try to remove the placenta…
I'm a huge feminist but a lot of these stories are just women with no knowledge of medicine
Anonymous 22520
>>22519>these stories are just women with no knowledge of medicinenona yanking the umbilical cord is literally medical malpractice
Anonymous 22521
>>22520Who gets decide what is "yanking" the cord? Mothers are seeing these things happen for the first time when they give birth. Also I've been there when a new nurse was afraid to pull hard on the cord, patient ended up with an inverted uterus
Anonymous 22523
>>22522>bodily knowledgenot a thing
she's a midwife though and that's worth something
Anonymous 22524
conflicted.webm
Don't care.
Im still having kids.
And Im still loving THE SHIT out of them.
Anonymous 22525
personally I hate it when moids devalue how hard and damaging pregnancy can be (also there'sthe denial of medical gaslighting/abuse of women)
Anonymous 22526
>>22523>a creature that evolved for millions of years to give birth under dangerous conditions doesn't know what it needs Anonymous 22527
>>22524Lmao, I hope you think back to this thread and your response, when you inevitably become unhappy, even despite having had kids.
