Have any of you ever been able to transform yourself to Stacy? How did it change your life?
My biggest dream.
I just want to be a "normie", not even extremely popular, just a somewhat pretty girl with enough friends.
I know that it's probably unlikely, but does anybody have any advice?
Based on my college roomie?
Marry a top-tier guy.
All I got, details on request
i was the worst neet during middle school, never went out and basically spent all my free time at home watching anime
one day i kinda just realized that i wanted to be more 'accepted' and to fit in with others, so i called old friends, went out, made an effort to be nice, smiled all the time and put some effort into my looks.
i'm definitely not a stacy lol, but at least i have a decent amount of friends and get along well with a lot of people. don't wanna go back to my neet life. i'm still kinda introverted but i really push myself to do stuff with others and end up enjoying it a lot!
but honestly, exercising, taking care of myself and changing my mindset helped me the most. just smile at people, try to be more cheerful it automatically makes you a lot more approachable and people will want to hang with you!
I remember one summer in middle school all I did was sit at home and play video games. My mom got super pissed at me and I realized that maybe I shouldddd start going out more. It was a long process but I started communicating with my friends more, reaching out, and focusing on my looks. I’m still a pretty socially anxious person but working on communicating with others (specifically newer people) more and more each day.
I think if you focus on looks, and being nice to others, your bound to create some type of social life for yourself and be on the road to becoming somewhat of a ~Stacy~
No, and I don't think that that's a good philosophy to subscribe to. This Chad/Stacy thing really oversimplifies the human experience. I'd much rather be the best version of myself I can be, if that makes sense. Like, work on the shit I need to change and accept the things that I can't.
Reminder that Chad doesnt go for Stacy,he goes for the largest, highest test girl he can see in the club
/fit/fags should only lurk at maximum tbh
especially pron addicts like yourselves
takes a /fit/citizen to know one brehs
honestly if you want to look half decent why don't you just take anavar and lift heavy 3x a week and eat more healthy it's not that time consuming.
anavar can cause hair loss in some individuals
>Selfie at the right angle
Becoming a stacy is really easy if you have some discipline.You should be asking why do you want to become one?
I'm far from Stacey but I just dropped 15 pounds (I'm still fat, i weigh 157 now) and got contacts and literally the change in my life is dramatic. Guys now ask me out and stare at me everywhere I go including white and Asian guys who barely used to before (I'm black jsyk).
Literally just like in one of those horrible films where all the girl has to do is take her glasses off and get a new haircut and BAM! Stacey. So my advice would be to get contacts if you wear glasses and just lose weight.
Great job anon!! It's crazy that as little as 15 lbs can make such a difference.
>Literally just like in one of those horrible films where all the girl has to do is take her glasses off and get a new haircut and BAM! Stacey.
Lol, this. Reminds me of Lisa from Ned's declassified when she got rid of her glasses and braces and she was suddenly popular with guys who would ignore/avoid her before. Kind of fucked up.
The same happened to me actually, I couldn't believe it. I was neither ugly nor fat before, but now I actually get hit on which used to NEVER happen to me. People just treat me better overall. I also started wearing slightly more feminine clothes and even women are nicer to me than they used to be. Salesladies and waitresses used to look at me like "yeah, whatever, what do you want" but now all of a sudden they've become so sugary sweet and nicey nice. Not every single one I approach ofc, but a LOT more compared to before, and I go to all the same shops I used to.
I'm still the same bitter sperg on the inside but I can totally see why good looking people find it easier to be all chipper and happy. It just leaves me wondering what's going to happen once I grow older, I'm 25 so I know this won't last for long.
Can you be fat and be a Stacy?
Yes if you hang out with guys who are attracted to your type and have a Stacyish personality. Bitter frogs from 4chun will say otherwise, but don't listen to them.
There’s no such thing as a subjective Stacy. There’s only a true Stacy and she isn’t fat.
This. Having sex with beta orbiters does not a Stacy make.
>during middle school>NEET
whoops sorry anon im not a native speaker so i kinda just used this word bc i've seen it being used a lot to describe shut-in people lol
that's understandable, a lot of people seem to use it in that wayI too also thought that was meaning behind it tbh
That's not a Stacy, that's a grotesque bimbo.
"Not in Education, Employment, or Training"
Not Stacy. More like Stacy's wholesome friend.
Wavy blonde hair, minimal makeup, and pastel colors.
Basically I lost some weight and starting doing skincare/exercise.
Just become an art-hoe tbh
I was a Stacey for a while when I was a teenager and figured out how to be charming and make friends with everyone and look nice. I found out that I didn't actually want to be friends with everyone, and it was tiring and unrewarding to be cheerful all the time.
Basically went from Elphaba to Glinda back to Elphaba again, lol. I can switch to stacey mode if I'm in a situation that requires it but I'd rather be a bookish loner. The only real upside to stacey-ing out is that other women are much nicer to you. I miss having a large group of female friends.
Please explain, is it behavior or looks? I want other women to be nicer to me ;_; WHat do?
Number one is to be clean and tidy with your appearance - no dirt under your fingernails, no unibrow, no bad breath, no greasy or tangled hair, etc. Number two is a little bit of makeup - eyeliner, bb cream, just enough to show you put effort into making yourself prettier. Third is to be outgoing and fake total confidence in yourself - be the person who invites others out for coffee, or organizes a movie night, etc.
Basically, imagine the attractive alpha stacey you wish would scoop you up and introduce you to her friends and welcome you to the group, the kind of girl you wish you were friends with, and try to become her. I'm a weeb, so I tried to become more like a genki character, lol.
>>6897>other women are much nicer to you
I've noticed this too and I don't get it. When I was younger I was pretty ugly and awkward and girls either made fun of me or avoided me as much as possible. I wasn't even super cringy, I was just quiet. Guys didn't know I existed but I didn't care about them anyways.
Now all the saleswomen, classmates, acquaintances actually treat me like a normal human being and it's sad because back when I was an awkward teen all I wanted was female friends and now the only ones I care about are those who saw past my looks and stuck around. I would've been so much better adjusted to life in general, and so much more confident.
I think other women judge you more for not visibly making an effort to "follow the rules". When I was working retail I never wore makeup and female customers were usually cold to me, if not outright rude, but for the one and only day I wore makeup to work I was shocked by how nice and friendly and kind all the female customers were. The male customers either didn't seem to notice or just went "hey! you're wearing makeup! :D can I get my usual cigs" and so on. A couple of them told me I should wear makeup to work more often, but that was it.
I think women socially punish nonconformity much more than men do. The experience was eye-opening.
They're probably just mad you aren't poisoning your face with industrial chemicals. Crabs-in-a-bucket.
I get your feels. I'm attractive enough to be treated as a stacy and I've done stints of it, but it's just not rewarding enough. I'm an introvert, I don't even like socializing. Rather curl up at home with a book and a cute bf. I'll be very cute, and very cute only for him.