How do we draw more people to the site without attracting moids?
I would say promote this website in female-only Discord servers, but I don’t even think those are safe from… them.
i've been wanting to join all female server for a while. even saw some being advertised on /r9k/ but i was too late and invite expired. i really wish for a place like that. we could confirm our gender through voice etc.
I would join if this existed, but I can't make one because I have no clue how Discord works. We'd need to keep all of the chats private until users were verified though. I don't want men having access to anything we post in case they try to sneak in.
I've also heard that men sometimes sneak into places like these using their girlfriends' accounts. Is anyone willing to make a server specifically for femcels/fembots/fa women so this doesn't happen?
I don't know how reddit works but are there female only boards to post on? I doubt we can trust those.
I advertised in a bathroom at my uni.
They swing a certain way, so you'll run into a lot of "MA'AM"s that way. They do have a femcels board.
Why would you want others to live this life? You should be actively making sure people avoid this site
But this site is so nice yet so inactive :(
I agree with >>2490
. I don't have much of a life. And posting here sometimes feels like I'm yelling at the wind. I like imageboards. I just hate the male dominated ones. I just don't like how they talk about women, so hostile and arrogant. I've seen threads get derailed by incels.
what life? this site is much nicer than most imageboards as other anon said and there are people posting that have satisfying lives but are still loners and are more comfortable with online communication. you can't just decide that it's bad for everyone.
This site is nicer than lolcow. I wish it was more active too :( Y’all have great advice
I've never been I've seen it namedrop all the time.
How do you like it?
Today was this first time I went to lolcow.omg. for a lack of a better word that place seems ugly? Is it nothing but call out posts?
I’m not >>2506
but I usually stay away from those boards. /ot/, /g/, and /m/ are the only tolerable ones.
lolcow has some worthwhile threads in /g/ /ot/ and /m/. I usually go on /g/ to ask for advice but since it’s very slow I rarely get responses. /ot/ is very active but is dominated by radfems/gender crit/pink pilled anons… every post eventually turns political with instigators fighting and clogging the threads, and then there are mean anons who think you’re a larping “Scrote” if you go against their echo chamber. Then there’s /pt/ and /snow/ which nitpicks and critiques internet nobodies, which I find is a waste of time so I never go on there. Ironically, that is how I found lolcow; I used to follow Venus Angelic’s drama on PULL.
I actually heard about this site from an anon on /fit/, when I was asking for some exercise advice there. This place seems great, but also kinda dead? Or is it just slow?
It's slow but at times there a small spurts in activity. I've only been lurking here for a few months, so maybe I don't know where all the popular girls actually hang out.
>How do we draw more people to the site without attracting moids?
promote the site on either a discord server you feel totally safe in that is small in population size, or share with your online friends via DMs.
also, if people are reluctant to visit, show them some cool stuff and go like "oh i got this from a site called crystal.cafe"
oh yah (this is gonnna sound weird) but if you search for the topics we discuss on this site on Instagram and them DM those accounts you might get some more hits
I just found out about it on /v/. I'm looking forward to having a place like this to poke around.
why would you want a server with femcels and fembots
would be a toxic fiesta
IMO discord servers are always a bad idea, unless its with personal friends you know. Even if you "confirm" everyones identity it doesnt stop the drama that will always inevitably happen. Now you have to deal with server admins and mods and hope they arent power tripping assholes. And all text conversations are essentially recorded on Discord and anybody that joins the server can scroll through all of the messages, which can lead to doxing if you are accidently posting too much personal information because you are using a name now.
I prefer anonymous posting myself.
we can start by not actually trying to attract their attention but who actually cares
Is this imageboard safe from trannies?
Frankly, not even the discord server where verification was needed to join was safe from them, or men for that matter. You're posting amongst them both in even greater numbers here.
The safest way is word of mouth, but it's also the slowest AND is not 100% male proof.
While growing the community would be nice I'd rather have a slow board than an active board that has more male shitposting than any sane post.