did anyone here tried orgasm denial with their partner? I've never had a bf, but I was fascinated with the idea of orgasm denial for years
here's a brief summary of what that is
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_sexual_denialI feel kinda weird, because normally I would describe myself as a submissive kind of person and I'd love to be the one who is denied
I sometimes do it on my own, though I rarely last more than one week, but I'd also love to try being the one in control
did you try it? does it even work irl, or is it to frustrating and being constantly horny interfere with work, school and life in general too much?