>>12422>>12423Oh god spare this board the pickmeisms.
Therapy is a medical framework that exists to help solve concrete problems. Society's therapeutic resources should be spent where they have been shown to be beneficial, such as in helping women deal with real sexual trauma. It does not exist to help to a man whose negative experience with a woman seems to have healed and whose pre-existing, obvious, pre-"victimization" problem is that women do not have earnest sexual interest in him. A problem that was so obvious that it singled him out for some movie b-plot tier storyline about a vamp archetype making a fool out of a stiff straightman. I very much doubt that one woman who pretended to have a sexual interest in him once because lol, just imagine, lmao, is the sole architect of an entire lifetime in which literally zero women have had sincere sexual interest in him, both before and after. Therapy is for people whose sense of unlikeability or unloveability are not reality-based, not someone whose day to day reality consists of not being liked and having never been loved nor having had possibility of love from anyone ever. I have seen enough statements from therapists regarding the incel question to believe that there is no possibility of a therapeutic solution to the incel question in any cases ever. One of the most common therapist refrains on incels can be paraphrased as "they need to understand that they are someone who is worthy of love" and that's such a morally irresponsible thing to say, holy shit.
And his problem, to the extent that he has one, IS the real and observable absence of positive interest. If his problem were say generalizing the one woman's trivial insincere game out to all women being fundamentally untrustable and insincere in all things then therapy would be appropriate but that would also be shown in his entire life being completely fucked and oh let's say careers or education being unattainable and attempts at such being markedly unstable since he would have to interact with women daily in real life. That's not the account we've been given.
>sisterDaydreamers' feelings are insubstantial. It is common to meet or interact with women who daydream about killing people with their true crime husbandos, or about cheating on their husbands and abandoning their families, or about weird furry stuff. It's only when a woman takes any step to make it happen that it turns into a matter of concern. Without any step towards reality, daydreamer interest is even less real than the obviously fake interest of the vamp who seduced him.
There is little to no reason to attribute any negativity to the one girl who put any effort towards this male, even if that effort wasn't coming from a place of love or affection or appreciation. I'm sure her joke was funny in its own way in its time. I've laughed at similar jokes before. Most people do.
