My bf keeps getting seduced by my ex who is a MENACE! help? Anonymous 12428
I don't know where else to post this besides the backwoods internet.
Sorry if this isn't allowed? But I mean its NSFW?
Forewarning, my ex bf is a FIEND and a WILD ANIMAL. I don't know exactly when, but he made a copy of my bf's "key". He comes around and SEDUCES him without my permission. Keeps coming around my job, interrupts me while im working, buys me things, all pretending everythings fine, sexily saying how we should all be together again. (We used to be 3) Using all this smooth talking to insert himself back into our relationship. But I know what he's done!!
Basically I changed the locks and kicked him out because he was verbally abusing my bf #1 and I was having NONE of that. I'm really strict about verbal abuse and mind games. Bf #1 is an angel and i know my exes ways, I know hes taking advantage. Thing is bf knows I really found them hot together, and we had amazing times in the past..Basically he knows this and he's trying to seduce us both. All I can do is temporarily get mad at bf 1, punish him and lock him up. (hes not allowed orgasms after this!)
Well somehow ex learned hes not allowed, so now hes taking advantage.
I changed the locks, and ex somehow made a copy TWICE!
Well its really starting to make me mad!! He has such an ego! I have booby trapped my house but nothing has worked. Those traps did NOTHING to stop him. It would really be best if i could lock up both of their dicks for good measure, but i know my ex is a wild animal. He's really doing this to seduce me, his goal is not just the first bf.
At what point do we just move to another state??? Should we go back to all being together? I KNOW my ex isn't leaving me for the ex pffft but the old days were really fire and this is my weakness. Hell no but im not letting an ounce of emotional abuse back in our home!
Help me defeat this menace? Thanks vm
Anonymous 12431
To clarify, your current bf and ex are bisexual and have had sexual relations in the past? I would think your current bf is the one giving your ex a key if that is the case. Never trust a bisexual moid.
Anonymous 12446
>>12431Good god you are so wrong. And deprived lol good lord.
I know this is true because my ex knew all my stashes, unlike bf #1. Now i even have this crazy feeling he's just picking the locks. He did it once before. I never knew he could be so crazy until we broke off with him. So I stopped keeping spares anywhere he could get to them. Whats a girl supposed to
do?? Bf #1 has all his "privileges" taken away. #2 specializes in mind control and seduction. Of course bf #1 is weak af to his ways. Either way im giving him some leeway because i KNOW our ex. Bf #1 is never a crazy transgressive and entitled, like our ex.
Thing is you know what? I'm also starting to get turned on by all of it ? I rally dunno what I'm supposed to do. Maybe I should invite #2 over and slip some special thing in his drink so I can cuff him up in my makeshift dungeon. He would def go along with it for a while and laugh at me and the whole thing. But i have to think of something more elaborate soon. Some kind of new system.. rules. Because hes not allowed to stir this much chaos I really can't be bothered anymore
Anonymous 12464
sounds like you need to reevaluate your life and learn some lessons from your experiences OP
Anonymous 12496
>>12464Ohohoho no.
Sorry I abandoned this post for a while.
Best relationships I've ever had has been with these two. All of the polyamory has been mutually agreed upon and worked out fine previously
. Unfortunately lines got really blurred because this kind of dynamic was sort of there before, tho I did not expect so much contention / emotional abuse from one directed at the other because I never experienced the same thing, i was pretty content before i saw 2 rile up and screw with 1. We are working it out and finding solutions in therapy now. I thought up a lot of brutal ultimatums and he caved to what I needed but he's still kind of diabolical sometimes. Just way less so.
Anonymous 12497
>>12496Gee , you get two boyfriends?
Anonymous 12617
>>12496> We are working it out and finding solutions in therapy nowyeah sounds like things are going great, no need to look back and reevaluate yourself
Anonymous 12620
>>12497Jill gets to have TWO weiners?
Anonymous 12628
>>12617If my post made you upset you don't gave to read it, shrug
Walk it off
Anonymous 12631
>>12497>>12620It is honestly a ton of work :(
But worth it if you can tolerate the wildness that can break out. They have a habit of bickering like old people.
Anonymous 12720
Wow it sounds like you should parade him through town naked for his crimes.
Anonymous 12796
>>12496Changing the locks on your apartment (?) does not sound like the "best relationships" I've ever had, to be honest. It sounds like you have two men fighting over you, and you enjoy it despite your pretensions that you don't want any of this "contention". I'm seconding 64, you need to reevaluate what you're actually getting out of this relationship. "Brutal ultimatums" do not sound like a solution, they sound like a temporary measure to get what you want.
IF you really want to know my opinion (you don't), cut one of these retards lose and get a grip. You're playing them against each other and you don't even realize it. Moids gonna moid.
>>12720Shut up!
Anonymous 12809
>>12796You realize polyamory exists and isn't strictly defined by your average heteronormative dynamics right ? If she says she's found a solution at this point why are you still carrying on?
Anonymous 13121
>>12428How do you get an all male polycule where the males aren't allowed to see other people?
Anonymous 13122
Has there ever been a polycule where the people involved weren't lunatics
