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>>113260
Im not necessarily in a rush to loose it, to be honest I don’t really care that much about loosing it, lately ive just been feeling as if I have to due to repeated experiences like the one I described. I wish there wasn’t so much emphasis put on it, in regards to having had or had not lost it. Men are weird.

>>113260
huh what are you blathering about

LMAO wtf all these scrotes bitch about the cock carousel and say all women are whores but then turn tail and bolt when they see a virgin.

Jesus fucking christ men are so stupid.

>>13267
Lose and loose are different words with different meanings.

>>13270
My bad, typo

>>13266
In my opinion, virginity is good, and all those moids you encounter are jackasses.

The guys who turn tail when you reveal that you're a virgin are fuckboys who don't want to deal with the additional complications that come with dating a virgin. They just want a casual fuckbuddy. You should be glad they do turn tail instead of leading you on until they cash in your v-card in for their scoreboard, and just ghost you.

What you should do is stop dating fuckboys. Are you picking them up on a dating app or something?

>>13273
Well im not intentionally going after fuckboys. These are all men ive met in person, who seem genuinely then get cold feet when I don’t want to have sex with them the moment they bring it up, or they get cold feet when they find out I haven’t had any past experiences which is odd. I also don’t know that id say I have ‘dated, just because these scenarios seem to be over as soon as they start, for better or worse.

Any moid worth his salt wouldn't reject you for such a thing. Let the useless ones filter themselves out

>>13274
They are expecting sex on date 1 or 2, even if they aren't just looking for a hookup, as that's the norm. They realize they won't get it with you, so they're disengaging. It's honestly fine because clearly you aren't looking for that. Eventually you'll find someone who is.

>>13266
how old are you? where do you meet these guys?

>>13274
> get cold feet when I don’t want to have sex with them the moment they bring it up
Wait what, they bring it up? Are they like "Hey, so how about sum fuck?" or are they actually asking you how many dudes you've boned lately?

>>13278
typically its leaning more towards "hey, so how about some fuck?", I guess they're just looking to hookup. In this particular instance though he had asked me about my prior encounters, after he had talked about his. So I opened up and was honest about having had none, and after seeing him that day he dropped me. I'm not too particularly upset over him, more so i'm irritated that this is a repeat occurrence. Id say my experiences are 50/50 between "Hey, so how bout some fuck?", and asking me about other dudes. Its like they're overly concerned with what other men have or haven't done to me, and when I say I haven't experienced sex in particular, it feels as though hey view me as having something wrong with me. I'd like to repeat that i'm not necessarily upset about this and I recognize that after further thought none of these dudes dropping me has been detrimental in any regards anyways, and if anything is probably a good thing for me, considering we were looking for different things and the mindset that may have been present with them. I'm here because I want to talk about it is all. Need to get it out of my mind, because I don't have many people to talk about these things with in person, if anyone at all.

>>13279
By CC standards that sounds like an unusually positive experience dating moids. They didn't assault you, play mind games with you, or fuck you after promising to forever be there for you, and then run off.

It still sounds like you're dating guys from tinder that expect a hookup or a fuckbuddy at best.

My best guess is that by having no sexual experience in your (presumably) 20s, you're not easy enough for them. In your stead they can be dating 10 other women who will put out by the 2nd or 3rd date. On the flip side there's men who fetishize virginity too.

Regardless, dating as a woman when you're actively looking for a serious relationship isn't easy.. Low quality men are abundant and standards for taking you on a date are low. Women who have plenty of experience get ghosted too, that's just the reality of dating in our time, especially if you're on apps (which I don't know if you are). Just keep dating, you'll find a guy who you like and who likes you and has patience for you.

>its supposed to be easy
Getting sex is, if you have no standards.

>>13281
Then thats the flip side of things though. Like I know I can’t be too picky but am I wrong for wanting a dude who hasn’t slept with a shit ton of people as well? Im just rambling, but I feel like in this scenario if he had then we wouldn’t have the same values. Like a few is fine I understand im in my 20’s and people fuck, but I would prefer less than more.

And I absolutely am irritated at being dropped over not putting out soon enough, although I know theres not much to be done about it. I don’t know anymore.

I guess all I can do is keep trying and dating like you said.

Same thing happened to me and I'm still so confused by it.
This guy I was talking to: awesome, kind, affectionate etc. We would cuddle together, he would give me forehead kisses, and hug me so hard that my feet weren't touching the ground. Then he realizes I'm a virgin. He continues to act normally, but apparently is not okay with me being a virgin. Though we are not officially dating, our dynamic is almost that of a couple.
He sleeps with another girl- I don't find out because he told me, but because his neck is covered in bruises.
He then goes two days without saying a word to me and avoiding me at all costs. The third day comes around, and he's at my door ready to talk. "I still see you as a great friend and care about you so much, I just can't commit to this and am not ready for a relationship", is what he roughly tells me.
From other people, I find out that amidst us spending every day together, he said there was no way things were going to work out between us because I don't have "experience".

I am still so lost about it? I feel like I always hear about how men want "pure" and "modest" women. That they like virgins because they've been untouched or whatever. And yet I was entired rejected because of just that. I could see how it may be overwhelming for someone with a lot of experience to be another's first, but the whole thing just stings so bad.
I'm sorry you had to go through a similar thing.
Can't stand moids. Thank God for bisexuality

>>13283
THIS omg. Everything you just described encapsulates how I feel exactly. This guys would hug me and cuddle me too!! And its just all so confusing and at the time it made me feel very empty and sad, although at the moment im feeling better. I just think about it often since it happened somewhat recently.

I'm going to guess the turn off isn't that you have no experience, but that you won't put out easily. Sounds like you've dodged a bullet