I can answer your questions.
I keep my moid locked during the day and I free his bird for the nights. I give him the key for the showers, this is based on trust, and he is going to bed afterward anyway. At times, I keep him locked for a few days to make it fun.
>>14889>Did he or you introduced the idea?He did and I opposed it initially but eventually it came as a kink and evolved over time.
>Do you keep his key?…yes?
>Does it change his behaviorIn the bedroom, yes. It's a day and night difference, it used to be all about him and now it's all about me.
Outside of the bedroom, not so much. He often says nice things to me which almost never happened before and make small things to please me but he is otherwise unchanged.
>>15725We have talked about that. He is now disgusted by male orgasm and only watch women only porn, mostly softcore, and a lot less. I don't think that you can "cure" them off porn.
>>15730It won't destroy him, it's a game between the two of you.
>>15760What you can be sure is that there will be precum everywhere.