Anonymous 13621
I recently visited my long-distance boyfriend, and at first, everything was great intimacy wise. But on the sixth day, when he initiated, he started to get soft, and we didn't end up having sex. He said his dick was hurting and I was upset, so we stopped. For the next four days, we didn't have sex at all, and today I left. We were drinking a lot and doing physically exhausting activities, so maybe that was it. What worries me the most is the fact that he said he has never had this problem before with other girls. Is it over?
Anonymous 13622
>>13621>he said he has never had this problem before with other girlsWhy would he bring that up? Did you ask about it specifically?
Overall no, it's not over because of that. Just make sure to communicate and ask him directly if it's an attraction issue or something else. Sometimes it just happens to guys for no specific reason I think. If you still want to make it work just calm him down and make sure that he knows you're not going to judge him or be disappointed if it won't work another time. If he thinks you will, he'll be under a lot of pressure and that'll make everything worse.
Anonymous 13623
>>13621>other girlsIt was over before it began. Imagine wasting time on a long distance slut.
Anonymous 13625
>>13621I doubt it's anything significant unless he indicates further. Especially with a LDR where there's such a strict time limit it can just be a matter of nervousness/fear of disappointment throwing off the vibes
Anonymous 13626
>>13621this is why I tell everyone that "LDRs" don't exist. Anything that can end with one press of a button isn't a relationship.