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Aw Nona you don't have to be guilty of anything, you did nothing wrong. No need to overthink this, you tried something once or twice, you didn't like it, end of story. I also think this virginity thing is crap anyway, only incel moids care about shit like this, it doesn't make you lesser.
About picrel, my first relationship was basically yours, except with the roles reversed, he was deathly afraid of getting me pregnant, so he would only finger and eat me out. I doubt this would make him a whore lmao, as the same for you

You're not a virgin if you've had oral sex.

>>14520
Don't be obtuse anon

>>14522
No, she's right, many lesbians manage to leave their virginity behind without suffering the indignity of PIV in the process.

If no penis in vagina then still virgin
Basically
>being seen naked
>fondling
>blowjob
>titjob
>rimjob giving and receiving
>cunnilingus
>anal
Still a virgin by sexual law

>>14540
You are probably not interested in discussing stone butch sexual practices.
Let us then instead imagine a male.
He was anally penetrated by a group of other males, one after another, an entire football team's worth, early in junior high as a typical act of inter-male bullying. This is far more common irl than most other physical bullying scenarios, every '80s high school bullying cliche was just an abstract means of eliding the reality of constant nonconsentual sodomy that defines male puberty.
As he grows up he works on himself physically, mentally and morally to gain the level of self development needed to forcefully sodomize smaller and weaker males himself. By late high school after a strong growth spurt he has even entered the high school varsity basketball team, and also he plays on that same team. Wink wink, nudge nudge.
As prom approaches he tells his naive cheerleader girlfriend who has been over for family thanksgiving and given him valentines gifts for two years running that he is still a virgin and would be honored if she was his first.

Is he a liar?

>>14543
>Virginity is the state of a person who has never engaged in sexual intercourse; it is considered a social construct, not an objective term with an operational definition.
In this case apparently anything I wrote up there gets thrown out of the window and even the guy you described is not a virgin, but as virginity is a social construct, I guess the word "virgin" might become a bit pointless because there isn't a really objective quality to it, it becomes subjective unless you want to create a "standard" value kind of virgin in heterosexual contexts and another "standard" value kind of virgin in homosexual contexts
Anyway feel free to discuss stone butch sexual practices

>>14540
If you have had sex, you're not a virgin
Oral sex is sex
OP is not a virgin
>>14549
>virginity is a social construct
Literally the same logic as trannies claiming penises are a social construct.

>>14564
>if you have sex you're not a virgin
Ok now we are getting clear definitions: all sex counts

>>14564
Okay.
Let's assume there are two women.
One is a stone butch and one is a stone femme, but neither knows that the other is a stone yet.
They are engaged with each other with the intention of applying their mouths and hands to the other's genitals, but as a prelude to this act they have placed their mouths against each other's mouths and have even penetrated each other's mouths with their tongues.
They have also held hands.
This act of extreme physical intimacy involves using their exclusive sexual implements on the sexual implements of their partners employing identical motions to those they would use during sex.
It even involves having entered into an intimate body cavity, the mouth, using a sensitive appendage, the tongue.

Have they done an oral sex?

>>14584
>is kissing sex?
Why are you arguing semantics? Is it abortion when a guy meets the gaze of a willing and fertile woman, but then looks away and never talks to her?
I think you have to go with your gut with this one. A good rule of thumb would be to just keep whatever experiences you regret to yourself should a guy ask you about them. Easy peasy.