Trouble having multiples Anonymous 14893
Is this normal?
I’ve only ever been intimate with myself. I can finish pretty easily that way. But about half the time I’m still turned on after. It’s possible to finish again but I have to use both hands and be pretty vigorous for about 20 minutes straight. I’ve seen some posts on here saying the second time should be easier. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do to finish easier the second time? I don’t want to use any devices because I become desensitized and can’t get there at all. Thanks!
Anonymous 14894
I would suggest doing it slowly and sensualy the second time. Take your time with it and feel the build up. This way you can delay the orgasm giving your body a little rest. It will give results slowly but you will not feel exhausted.
Anonymous 14909
Obviously give yourself time to rest before going at it again, how much time you need depends on your sensitivity levels. Make sure you're relaxed and not thinking about tomorrow's errands or whatever else.
And this will probably sound like it doesn't make any sense but try out a few different positions if you don't already do that.
I've recently found that laying face down and ass up feels pretty good and even better than just on my back, so now I'm doing that the second time around if I'm still horny after the first. Also it's hard to explain but I like to play around with tightening the muscles down there in a specific way I found that makes everything feel more intense even if I'm just doing external stimulation. Don't know how to describe it but it does help me get there way quicker.
Anonymous 14944
Thank you for the thoughtful answers! And sorry for the late reply. I’m going to try again sometime tonight. My problem is I’m still mentally and emotionally excited, but my body goes back to normal a couple minutes after I finish. I feel that I have a waiting period like a man and it stresses me out. I read online so many times that women are able to finish over and over but it’s never been me. It would suck to finish quickly and have to put up with intimacy while the guy finishes, when I finally have it. I’ll try to leave an update if anything notable happens :)
Anonymous 14946
>>14944You still have a waiting period lol in my case I get so exhausted that I fall asleep and it is kind of irritatimg because I want to keep going on