>>15737Why is it a problem if you have autoandrophiliac urges? Let yourself have them, it doesn't make you a man. I've had them too and they sorta went away again. Doesn't have to be a big deal. I sorta felt very self-conscious as a woman because of some experiences I've had and I hated the thought of being sexually submissive because I couldn't separate it from the shame and degradation I'd experienced via misogyny from my father and brothers. Imagining myself as a man allowed me to be free of those gender insecurities and just focus on the sex. It's also why I used to read lots of yaoi. I've since overcome a lot of the internalised misogyny and generally improved my self image apart from that too. I like myself as a person now and even as a woman in a sexual context. I'm not ashamed of myself anymore. Just be yourself, noona, build sexual confidence and if some autoandrophilia gives you comfort in the meantime, just do that. It doesn't suddenly turn you into a man, it's just about feeling good about yourself as a person first, then good about yourself as a woman and finally feel secure as a woman in a sexual way.
>I accept my body>I don't want to be transThen you're probably not. I'm friends with some trans people, they seem pretty secure in their identity. I wasn't for a while, but I am now. If you're really not trans, you have nothing to worry about. Last time I checked, the consensus was that people are born trans and figure things out along the way. If you're actually binary trans and not just in-between with gender confusion or simply insecure about your birth gender, you'd figure that out soon enough. If you can picture yourself being happy as a woman in a space removed from misogyny, you have nothing to worry about, I promise.
>b-but my fetishA fetish isn't a gender, anyone can get off on putting on costumes during sex.
