>>2365>>2387Yeah men don't really care either way about labia because it's not a sexual target for them. They don't look at it in sex. Scientists have done studies on what the sexes find attractive, and men generally prefer to look at the "shapely" parts of a woman ie breasts, hips, butt… then things like hair and feet… but vagina barely come up at all apart from a minority of fetishists. I think labia one of those things many women tend to think about the vulva is focus of their pleasure in sex, so they instinctively assume men care about it a lot, like how men get pleasure through their dick so they obsess over their penis size and whether it curves left/right etc etc, and assume women are caring about such things
My mom got a labiaplasty (against my advice and as I understand it her husband's) and she says she likes how it looks now but it was very painful. I can imagine… I would recommend you stay away from anything like that