>>644I'm OP but kind of forgot about this thread, oops!
Anyway, my boyfriend got us the set with the vibrator and fleshlight. The vibrator is really powerful in the way that it feels like it's a blender inside of you. Really weird. It's also super huge, so it takes some prep to even fit in. I'm a bit of a size queen and couldn't really enjoy it because it felt like getting my insides tossed. It was kind of like a forced orgasm because it's so intense and the clitoral + vaginal stimulation is overwhelming. I haven't used it again since then, to be honest.
My boyfriend's experience with the fleshlight is similar, he said its vacuum is too harsh and it's kind of robotic and weird.