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What the hell is that lol

Real subs are extremely rare, almost every single "sub" you'll meet will actually be a dominant masochist trying to push your boundaries to order custom treatment a la carte. You will not make significant money off of verbally abusing them. They still very much consider you a sex worker whose services they are entitled to. Expect to be fully involved with their sexual urges, they'll beg for physical engagements, photos, videos, around the clock tending to their cumbrains, and more. They'll try to tempt you by promising more money, but you can never let your guard down. All of the online findom "success stories" live paycheck to paycheck trying to uphold the facade of being superior and independent while struggling to pay bills subs consider too boring. Instead of looking for cash, you'll fare better demanding gifts. You only make the big money if you meet up with them irl, and even then most of them will still waste your time scheduling appointments and then ghosting you. I recommend only doing it for gifts, shoes, clothes, electronics, re-sellable items, gift cards, fancier food, but no essentials ever. Take it as a bonus but never rely on it. Never show your face or personal info, many of them are addicts who enter terrible phases of regret whenever they overspend and you never know when they'll break. NEVER make yourself look even a tiny bit desperate or vulnerable. Never let them think they can negotiate. If they're not paying during the first conversation, give them a deadline so they can sleep on it and block once it's up. It's better to lose a potential sub than to be stuck with one that gives you the runaround because he knows you want his money. There's a lot to this and it's way more than insulting men for easy money. It was the hardest job I've had and even though I made a lot of $$$, I haven't done it since I went on a break because it drained me.

>>3398
Interesting insight.

>>3401
Hope it helped. In any case, I'd say "I love insulting men so findom is my calling" is like saying "I like sex so I should go into prostitution/online sex work". Also, findom is even more oversaturated than any other kind of online sex work.