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NAY. It honestly makes me uncomfortable and feels pretty trashy to me.

Nay. I feel like it is too easy to "abuse" that kink if you're the dom and want to act out on pedophilic urges. Such a kink demands a level of trust that I could never have for another person; no matter who I know, if I hear a child saying they violated them, I have to believe the child. My point is, for me to believe the dom is not a pedophile requires trust that I can't have for another person.

Yes, it isn't the "real thing", but it's getting as close to it as possible.

In terms of the "little", I don't care that much. I think littles are just subs who like being so in a specific context.

I'm not saying every dom is a pedophile, I'm just saying given how abused that role is anyway, I couldn't trust someone who openly was into that as a dom.

I'm into it, but I am ashamed of it. The only person that knows is my current bf. He doesn't mind. We don't do it often, though

I am very much into it… too much. I started getting a bit more involved with it and noticed more and more that it was affecting my entire life. To wit, I refused to go to bed on time unless someone threatened me to, I'd start using a "baby voice" talking to my supervisor at work, and I would act childish in public. It was also starting to creep me out how very benign wholesome things- like seeing little girls in public wearing adorable dresses- would make me jealous or even turn me on. I thought I could quarantine it, but it had too much of a hold on me and sadly I have to give it up. Also SO thinks it is super creepy

>>429
>>428
I'm >>427 and I do wonder; why can't people be cutesy and babyish without it having to be ddlg? I've often played being innocent, naive about sex, cutsy, etc. with my partners, but it isn't like I have to make it a power exchange or something. Sometimes I feel like people who are into ddlg are quick to slap on the label of "little" to people who just like being sweet and displaying childish behaviors naturally.

>>430
TBH want to wear j fashion in public ( Lolita and Liz Lisa ) but I can't seem to be able to shake when some dude asked me in public if I was wearing a diaper because my clothes looked like I was into Ddlg

>>427
Idk I kind of feel DDLG is okay -for- the reasons you mentioned. Like, I know pedo is gross, but at least they're just trying to act out their urges. Plus, tbh, most of what I've seen of it, especially on tumblr, the girl is more into being a pedo-bait loli anime waifu than the guy seems to be into being a pedo. With most things, the actual act has to revolve around the sub more than the dom, and this is no different.


That said, I really dislike it because I think the idea of either person involved making being a child specifically into a sex thing is creepy as fuck. I definitely agree with >>430 in that being cutesy and innocent acting doesn't mean you have to act like a fucking child.

>>432
instead of "acting out their urges" they should go tf to therapy. sane people don't have unhealthy, disgusting pedo kinks.

I think it's creepy and wish this trend would be over already. I also wish that people would keep this in their own communities and stop pushing it onto everyone who wears cute clothes.

I can understand the lifestyle aspect of it. I think regressing to take a break from being an adult by colouring or watching cartoons is really theraputic and ties in a lot with self-care. For a lot of people, being a child was the best few years of their lives (myself included) and re-living that time gives a sense of comfort. I've actually done similar before the whole DDLG trend came about. I love it when my boyfriend takes care of me and takes the responsibility off of me for a while. I love being able to go back and do things I missed out on when I was a child. I've even spoiled my inner child with dolls or other toys that I coveted but didn't have the money for.

Although the fetish side of it is disgusting. You have to ask yourself what kind of man wants his partner to act/dress like a child during sex (even expecting women to be stick thin and wax their pubes is so dodgy to me). There's nothing sexy about taking advantage of someone vunerable. Even though it isn't actually pedophillic and it's something two consenting adults partake in, I think the idea of sexualising things like nappies and bottles is vile. A lot of women see BDSM as innocent but men don't think the same way as we do.

>>445
not that anon, but being able to satisfy their urge safely is part of the therapy in many cases. not defending pedo, but there are pedos who's brains are fucked up and can't control it and don't want to hurt children, and then there are people who actually want to hurt children. i feel fine knowing the first type is dating a woman who fakes being a child but the other kind should die.

>>447
you're thinking of ageplay, anon. ddlg is only the kink side (daddy dom little girl) also, i've seen many more women into it than men, who just seem to go along with it. the women in ddlg relationships tend to take on a lolita/nymphet kawaii loli persona which is fucking gross.

NAY
Speaking from experience here. Of course it sounds nice, having an adult, being a happy careless kid again and not having a single worry. Well, you can ignore reality but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality. Also the types of predatory men that are attracted to this are grade-A manipulative borderline psychopaths. Don't do it. Please love yourself, girls. You are special and deserve something truly good and fulfilling.

>>456
Ohhhh I see. Well then that's sick lmao.

>>425
I find it so cringey, mainly bc it attracts underage girls who clearly are trying to run away from there issues (too much homework ig) or maybe they feel embarrassed about still liking childish things so they use ageplay as an excuse. I know that the kink steams from the humiliation of being an adult doing childish things (much like how petplay is based in the humiliation of being someone's pet) wearing diapers, sippy cups etc but now it just seems like a lifestyle/roleplay thing and not a 'kink' so much. And the sexual side of it, freaks me out bc as said its less about getting off on being humiliated as an adult acting like a baby and now (at least in current ddlg 'trend') more about being ~daddy's kawaii princess uwu~ 24/7. The same for petplay, its trendy bc there's cute gear and you get looked after, its BDSM without the scary black latex and dungeons. I doubt most of these young girls do any actual research into BDSM deeper than surface level. I dont really think about the guys who into much, but there is a difference between the guy who gets off on the humiliation aspect (which trendy tumblr/instsgram ddlg just seems to ignore) and the guy who gets off on the child aspect

That's more for ageplay tho, as for daddydom stuff, I hate to admit it but its kind of sexy to me. I've always preferred older guys and if they could look after me as a fatherly figure that's cool, the whole thing about subs and doms learning and growing from each other just makes sense to me as a relationship dynamic. If I didn't have someone to look out for me in the way I'd be very lost. ofc you don't need dd/lg for that but I like having power exchange and 'daddy' is kind of a hot nickname ngl. Also acting innocent/naive has always been something I do just generally so I guess I fit the LG role well. I'm not very proud of it tho, and I haven't told this to anyone.

In general, BDSM is just one of those things where if it's not for you it's not gonna make any sense at all (Like marmite, heh)

>>425
Something about it even on the surface level just feels really wrong to me, and like I'm gonna cringe myself inside out. I really don't see why either side would want such a weird view of relations.

Nope.

Just the terminology itself makes me feel uncomfortable. Sometimes I'll hear "oh she's the daddy or mommy of [name]" and it makes me uneasy.

>>425
I like Mdlg and being the little girl.
I guess it's probably because I had a bad relationship with my mother before she died. The kink is kind of mourning but not really for my mother but for the 'idea' of a mother, what could've been.
I just really like being coddled and vulnerable and older women

>>512
I have a horrible relationship with my mother and wish she would die! so I can second that mommy issues are tied up in "what she could have been."

but even if she wasn't so terrible i would still want an older woman to cuddle and finger me. is this why frogposters REEEEE? its a strange and uncomfortable feeling that demands expression, even if I could never say so in real life.

I like the idea of calling my bf a little boy and teaching him everything he needs to know, and making him ejaculate really fast.
Is this type of kink or associated with DDLG?

I don't wanna be call mommy, I'm very inexperienced myself, and I don't see him as a little boy by any means. I just like being his first and only and corrupting him. Where do I stand in all of this?
Is it just a normal kink?

NAY, but I would make an exception for Daddy Paddy because he was into it, and I like to imagine he would be a very convincing person.

>>425
I like it. Well, to be honest, I like domination involving diapers more than the actual infantalism/baby roleplay.

>Are you into it or do you hate it?
I'm gonna be honest and say that I used to be okay with it as a fantasy. I found the idea of doing stuff like actually wearing a diaper and calling your male SO "daddy" all of the time to be cringe-worthy. However, I could find enjoyment in being doted upon and doing fun activities (even if they are meant for children).

Now? I'm pretty anti-ddlg. I've read more about it and am now more aware of how toxic the imbalanced power dynamic in 90% of ddlg relationships can be for littles. Seeing how that kink plays out in real life like in this video make me feel more than incomfortable… I get thoroughly unsettled. The little in here is my age but acts like an infant more than a little girl. There's also the fact that her dom is thirty so that raises some questions as to why he's going after someone who's barely an adult. It's nice to be taken care of at times but I didn't know it'd be to this extent until more recently.

Not gonna stop others from practicing it but there's no way that I'm NOT gonna judge the fuck out of those people.

>>917
Where do we find older women though?

I think the girls/'littles' into DDlg tend to be emotionally stunted, and need someone to hold their hand in life (not unlike a parent.) or at least want periods of it. Of course those people still have the right to a loving relationship. Also calling someone 'daddy' just rubs me the wrong way
>>914
I judge people on DDlg too, but I try to keep in mind that a toxic relationship can happen no matter what the couple are into, and while kinks may play a part, it's not directly related to kinks.
>>530
I'm not sure if that's the same thing. From the people I know who are into it, DDlg has less to do with corruption, and more to do with that carefree (at least for the little) relationship. But then again nothing is set in stone you can call it whatever you want really.

Sorta yay. I used to be really into it when I was emotionally stunted as the above poster says, and then it reduced. I told my boyfriend I'm into it and now when he wants to tease me he makes me say it to him haha…. but it's really embarrassing and weirds me out.

Being called little girl or boy and treated with love and cuddles is the best. It doesn't have to be super creepy.

>>425
Yeah, I mean who wouldn't like to be treated like a princess

>>428
>The only person that knows is my current bf.
not anymore :O

I am not sure actually. Whenever I used to see ddlg text posts I'd cringe all the time, but I feel like my relationship with my bf kind of includes some ddlg stuff.Or at least I feel like I relate to "littles."

I love being doted on, called kitty, meowing, letting him pet my hair and treat me like a cute, frail little thing that needs to be protected. But I don't call him daddy, and he doesn't like being called daddy.
I just feel so comfortable and safe doing it