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We're all aware of pornsick men who treat women like shit because of unrealistic expectations. But has anybody else encountered a guy who watches absurd amounts of porn yet goes in the opposite direction?

I'm asking because I recently discovered one of my best moid friends who I've known for over a decade is probably the biggest coomer in my life through half-drunk idle conversation. He's the sweetest guy I know; he's attentive, he's never dropped sexist remarks that weren't very obvious dumb jokes, he's helped me through a lot of dark times mentally. He's never once made rude remarks about how I look or act, and all of this applies to other women he's been around… And then I discovered he's a chronic masturbator that's glued to furry porn websites and extreme grizzly fetishes.

Is my moid friend an outlier? Has he achieved some coomer nirvana where his constant meat beating has made him treat women with more respect? Is he just that mentally sound that he can filter between fantasy and reality with no trouble? Is he a serial rapist, and I don't know?

I'm just… stunned? Everything he drunkenly blurted out should be the makings of a raging incel who calls every woman an "ugly slut" because they won't sleep with him. I mean, I'm no innocent, pure angel; I look at porn too, but not every single time I'm by myself.