/nsfw/ - xxx

Not sure if this is the board to make this post, but well.
As someone who has tried BDSM and as I see that you're both inexperienced, the best advice I can give you is to just start vanilla. Trying BDSM with both persons having little or no sexual experience can be pretty awkward, not to say that it can be dangerous (emotionally, physically, etc).

Start vanilla. If you want to be on the same page about what you want to try, make tests like bdsmtest.org and then start to read a lot about how to do everything in a safe way.
Also, you're submissive, so make sure that you can actually trust him and that he cares about you, because being submissive to someone you don't trust can be even more dangerous. You don't want to be tied or in any position like that with someone who doesn't care about your well being.

And being romantic and sentimental doesn't make it impossible to be a dom/domme. Gentle or affectionate domination is a thing for people who aren't into humillation or degradation, but still has a D/s dynamic

>>6663

Thank you so much, I've read about BDSM and I'm still reading, I'm inexperienced and I know I'd better start slowly.

He is someone I trust and he cares a lot about me, thanks again for your help! :)

>>6664
No problem. Another advice I can give, is to have a couple of safe signals besides the safeword, especially if you're into some activity that won't let you talk. Also, if you both agree to try it, use the safeword just to test him, even if you're not uncomfortable, but it's good to make sure that the other person will stop no matter what, if that's what you want.
The aftercare is also very important.

I don't know what else to tell you right now, just take care and don't forget that a sub is supposed to have fun too.

>>6665

Yea! I'll try to have a lot of fun, I'll be very careful, I'm just thinking about how I'm going to broach this subject with him.

I'll be as natural as possible, maybe he thinks it's weird but I think he'll be fine with it.

Or maybe he was just surprised

>>6670
If you have been dating for a while, just bring the topic about kinks. It's a pretty common thing to do

>>6671

Okay :)