/nsfw/ - xxx

omegle.com
4chan.org/soc

Anywhere you look for an erelationship is going to be overrun with ugly moids. That's just how it is.

>>9190
I wouldn't touch a 4channer with a 10 foot pole, I even checked it out out of curiosity and as expected theres more faggots than in grindr. I thought of Omegle but I was hoping there might be some less shady options. I guess that's all there is, though. Damn.

>>9189
Most are ugly as fuck creeps or trannies so be careful. But on reddit there is a femdom subreddit, pick them well. Block them instantly if too ugly and too socially retarded.

>>9189
Depends how unstable you wish to go. A place where I found my personal sub was a hypno-fetish server. I got dick pics for days and got full control over his cock ring. Not to mention he looked actually good. It was pretty swell but, he was kinda mentally broken and not through any fucking hypnosis scam.

So, if you want to just use them an option could be a discord hypno servers. You don't even have to do anything hypno related, just acting dominant is enough to attract a few dozen of them. Just know that going after sub moids is just a recipe for instability, bail immediately if red flags start showing.

>>9201
I forgot reddit was a thing. Yeah, that seems like a good option as well.

>>9201
>>9202
Reddit is unironically worse than 4chan. Prepare for hundreds of low IQ moids messaging you with "hey", getting mad when you don't embody their dream porn mommy domme and generally being spineless speds.

>>9201
Oh, thanks! I had actually forgotten about reddit, probably since it was such a cesspool last time I checked. I might give r/femdompersonals a shot, it seems like the easiest option. Though it's annoying as fuck they require you to have some karma to post.
>>9202
That… sounds pretty insane ngl. I feel like sub men are already cringe and creepy enough but hypno moids are even worse. I want a regular sub that's looking for a domme, not a sissy hypno coomer in fishnets that wants me to brainwash him with catgirl hrt manifestation youtube videos. I'm glad you had a good experience though but yeah, it sounds a bit too deranged for me. And I doubt many of them are gonna be hot.
>>9210
Lol I'm kind of expecting that, sadly it's probably that way everywhere. I disagree on reddit being worse than 4chan but I can't say it's much better.

there is a femdom thread on /trash/ and they post csm pics like you

>>9189
Pretty much all the discord servers I guess.

>>9189
Just go to a femdom discord server, look through photos to see if any are hot enough, and rinse and repeat until you find some one to your taste. As a girl you can basically get your pick of the litter by showing a moid any amount of attention. I got some really great subs that way before I stopped with the online stuff. The trick is to take your time and really be picky though. one of my actual irl subs use to use discord femdom servers before I found him, so there are some actually high quality subs looking online. Make sure they’re worshiping you and not just glad you’re a woman though, other wise you’re just not going to get the right dedication / connection from them.

>>9189
Careful with doing that because some sub men online you find could be underage, and have a thing for that, so just be careful.

>>9189
You can go on fetlife

>>9229
I never added an anon from the femdom thread but I've had good experiences with csm posters I met elsewhere (outside of femdom circles)

I just want to find a cute male sub irl to munch my pussy. I've checked local scene on fetlife and they're all old or women. The men are meh and creepy. Dating apps have nothing of value.

>>10509
ummm… look for a vanilla guy who's impotent?

>>10511
>>10518
Neither of these things are submissive breedable males you fuckwits. There's a difference.

>>10524
Please explain then.

>>9189
Literally everywhere. I run into them online all the time it feels. Try discord or reddit. On 4chan there are a lot too but I understand when you don’t wanna use that

Any self-identified "submissive" man is nothing but a lazy shithead demanding to be catered to, literally no different than so-called "dominant" men but with different presentation. Actual submissive men do not call themselves that and you'll never find them in kink-oriented spaces.

>>10567
>lazy shithead demanding to be catered to
>actual submissive
There is no difference.

Most of the submissive and 'open-minded' moids (aka degenerates) I talked to were barely willing to send me selfies let alone something more revealing or even do what I tell them to.
So even if a moid is submissive don't count on it because most men still want to be "perceivers" rather than "to be perceived".

>>10670
+ sadly women are more than willing to do a lot of things on camera for either an audience or for a specific person. I'm not sure what's the root cause (but that women are taught to prioritize men's validation and attention contributes) but that's usually the case, men will expect that you'll send them pictures or videos of yourself but they're not willing to return the favor most of the time. At most they would send their dick and that's it.
They won't put any effort into making sure what you're going to see will turn you on or that you'll find it attractive.

>>10670
>>10671
I'm not sure if photographs are the ideal metric. Submissive men are known to be the most horrendous looking rats in the sewer and sending you anything would kill the atmosphere worse than not sending anything. There is an eventual limit to how many times any individual male could be expected to trigger a hard 'ick' while ostensibly trying to do sex things before even his smooth, tiny, male brain gets conditioned against it. Because they're all hideous. It's not as though non-submissive men have any hangups about sending dick pics and embarassingly inadequate muscle poses to every random stranger they meet.

>>10670
You can definitely coax them into it, but ymmv. They might be cute, they might not be cute. They might get really turned on by the fact that you enjoy their photos, or they might get cold feet and feel weirded out due to their own self-esteem issues.

I think you're not wrong, and it sucks that men think they should exclusively be "perceivers" because there are women who wanna "perceive" too… It's also a shame that the majority of males don't take care of themselves enough or have much hot to show.

It's also a shame that hot guys tend to be unappealingly overconfident rather than cutely embarrassed about when they expose themselves to women…

>>10682
Thank you for this picture. From the bottom of my heart.

>>10670
>Most of the submissive and 'open-minded' moids (aka degenerates) I talked to were barely willing to send me selfies let alone something more revealing or even do what I tell them to.
That's because a huge amount of then are ugly, and among those who are not, they're afraid of being catfished and blackmailed.
>So even if a moid is submissive don't count on it because most men still want to be "perceivers" rather than "to be perceived".
This is true sadly. You need to educate them a bit and be clear with them from day 0 to filter them out

>>10682
>It's also a shame that hot guys tend to be unappealingly overconfident rather than cutely embarrassed about when they expose themselves to women…
It's rare when it happens but it's super hot and cute. Although even then I feel they need know you're into femdom in the first place before their ego allows them to be vulnerable.

>>10674
>Submissive men are known to be the most horrendous looking rats in the sewer and sending you anything would kill the atmosphere worse than not sending anything.
Nah I'm not gonna waste time talking with an ugly moid. I'm pretty visual so I need to see who I'm talking to, and I need them to send me things to get me going, or at least to appreciate their body/face. And it depends who you consider ugly… For me, it's old, balding, fat, all that shit. But I don't like effeminate or very young moids either. I have found quite a few that fit my standard but they're not exactly willing to fulfill my desires… Although, some were more willing than others

>>10682
>It's also a shame that the majority of males don't take care of themselves enough or have much hot to show.
Yeah I know… But men don't even need to do much to be attractive. They can stay fit easily and they don't have to be buff, most women don't even like buff guys that much. Their weak point is they don't know what to show or how to show it. They're bad at taking pictures and even if you want to see something explicit it still has to be filmed nicely.

>>9189
Unironically just go after small twitch streamers, anything with vtubers, femboys, eboy, voice acting, etc. Will probably do whatever if they're under 5 viewers. Just take your pick.

>>9210
What did ylu excpect? submissive men are all like that

>Is there anywhere I can find this?
no. actual submissive moids only really hang out with their guy friends as in they go on pseudo dates and stuff. you need to put yourself out there irl and aggressively court ones you find attractive. it's mostly a matter of luck. some are on dating apps but they'll never message first.
>>10690
>and among those who are not, they're afraid of being catfished and blackmailed.
yeah i've found subs to be more noided more than usual. better off going into it with being a fixer than a courtesan. proactive approach is better.

>>9189
Just find a normal moid and convince him to do femdom stuff, it's hotter that way anyhow. Most men who are desperate and lonely enough will do anything for the company of an attractive women. The only downside is putting up with his socially inept behavior and general retardation. Just don't send him nudes of yourself or he might spred them around.

>>11004
>dating partner for 3 years
>he refuses to engage with anything femdom to the detriment of our sex life
Am I too late..

I like some of the aesthetics of 2D femdom: objectified guys taking care of their bodies, sometimes naked, sometimes in cute uniforms. squrming, moaning, emoting in general. necks and collars are also appealing. i like seeing passion. but i have no experience irl

>>9189
I met my submissive bf on a site kind of like fetlife but it's local for my country. He'll do pretty much anything I want and tell him to which is fun. Especially since he's a masochist
He's also a femboy which is a plus for my fetishes

>>11044
What hot/interesting acts of femdom have you tried? Please tell me he wears a collar and cat/dog ears.

>>11008
If you're still dating partner and not "married to husband" then you're not too late to find someone who fits what you're actually looking for.