Cyberstalking Anonymous 140
I do it, do you?
I love finding hidden accounts and secret blogs and I dox just to see if I can (but never post it or interfere with the person otherwise)
Oh no, confession time.
There's a boy that I fell for. I am in love for the first time. So of course now that he's ignoring my mails I dig around in archives, finding out which anonymous posts might be his, finding out what he likes and dislikes and I keep blowing up his mailbox with random stories of me, all with the goal to make him like me.
Seriously I have so many old pictures and data and texts that sometimes I scroll through his folder and wonder how crazy I really am or if this is all kind of romantic?
Digging through the web, finding small links and hints is so much fun though. Because you just keep on finding stuff!
is there anyone who stalks people online who could maybe teach me a little bit about how to do it? i promise it's not for some nefarious reason, i just want to find my old accounts and get rid of my digital footprint for peace of mind
I've been there before, it's just craziness
google like a pro.…
Google, for starters. See pic to google like a pro. Then there's the wayback machine. Sometimes on really old forums and stuff you can find out who was the site admin and just write them a mail asking. Cause surprisingly many keep archives on their own HDDs even when the site gets down.
For reddit there's snoopsnoo and for imageboards there's almost always someone backing it up, too.
Then think about all the data that might be out there, not just usernames also different ways of writing it, backwards googling profile pics and phone numbers, addresses all that might be there. And when the google crawler didn't get the most updated info and now it's gone, always check the Cachelink.
>>144>reverse image search
10/10 would recommend this. I've found some really juicy stuff this way
I used to cyberstalk a lot but I have done it less nowadays. I just got a rush from finding out all kinds of info I wasn't supposed to have, that I knew/know about things I shouldn't.
Sometimes I have tried searching usernames or some other words related to them from pastebin to see if they or someone else had dropped for example chats they were part of or were talked about in there and sometimes they had.
i'm not a doxxer, but i do get obsessive about people. whenever i'm into someone, i check their social accounts everyday. and i take screenshots of every single thing that could maybe JUST MAYBE be about me. i check all their friends profiles too to make sure i'm not missing anything. anyways, i did something really stupid and someone noticed my habit. the person basically went to my phone's gallery and saw my thousands of screenshots before i realized and pulled the phone away. all the screenshots were posts she had made. ever since, the person keeps their social media accounts private. they also change their social media accounts aaaaall the freaking time. i mean, changing names to starting all over again from scratch. probably so i wont keep tabs, but i still do. but i don't have the heart to start a fake account to try to see the person's private stuff though. i don't know, i've considered it a lot and it just makes me feel like a creep. just remembering the persons reaction to seeing my gallery… FUCK, it makes me feel terrible.
there was also this person i followed back in the day. i would send anon messages everyday for like two years before they said i was creepy and deleted their account. they do that thing where they change their social handles a lot too, but i keep tabs on her still. she changes her names like every other week but i always find her profiles. i don't send her any more anon messages though. it makes me feel bad.
i don't have any friends. so seeing the way other people have fun entertains me, i guess.
I found a bunch of accounts of people I know irl thanks to a single twitter account, and it amazes me that people aren't careful when posting things online. Basically:>created an fb account not long ago>someone from college (let's call them A) posted a link to their twitter account that they use for professional reasons>I'm curious and check who A follows>find person B this way, only recognized them because their avatar is a selfie, noticed they post way TMI about really personal things>B posts their tumblr on twitter>they post even more embarrassing shit on tumblr, still with their selfies and personal info attached. Even vaguely mentioned me in a post>B posts a link to their instagram to get more followers>follows a bunch of people we know irl through highschool or college on instagram, though they don't post as much embarrassing shit as B>they're all the type of people who pretend they're nice and sweet and having fun all the time online when they're actually entitled obnoxious spoiled brats at the very best irl
It's cringey but also hilarious. I hope they won't find out that I found their accounts. When I think about them I'm glad I don't post selfies and personal info that could make it easier to find me, and I'm also glad I'm mostly lurking on social media and posting on imageboards.>>364>i don't have any friends. so seeing the way other people have fun entertains me, i guess.
It can be entertaining, really depends on what they post I think.
I spent a good amount of time on /cgl/ board cyberstalking people because I had my own problems. I "escaped" to a place where I felt a great high uncovering past posts that made another person's life a hellish witch hunt.
I was scorned and obviously not mentally well; college was completing exams and projects on 3 days of no sleep and only eating a poor diet of cabbage and hotdogs. I only drank coffee. This went on for 1 year. I look back and think it was a bad place to be but I do the cyberstalking way less now. If people want "real" facebook profiles or something minor like that I can find it with ease.
This is really creepy, have you ever considered going to a professional about your obsessiveness about people? Maybe it's what has stopped you from having friends, that is, if you even want irl friends.
I'm cyberstalking this lolcow on G+ and Instagram. I took 2 days out of my week just to browse through her insane ranting and some of them I could relate like expectations, social pressure, being a virgin at age 25 and some other stuff. Some other people who also cyberstalk her tried to warn her parents when she started going suicidal but had no success.
Do any of you leave a trail of things that are ok to find while hiding others? I keep picturing the situation where someone decides to do this to me but always run into dead ends.
I´ve always been a lurker and endlessly fascinated by how much some people share on their open accounts. So for years I´ve been gathering and saving screenshots of irl people and continuously kept going through their social media. My hard drive is like a personal lolcow, I have so much dirt there. It´s like a weird hobby where I will spend hours on end digging through Tumblr or twitter, finding their old blogs and wattpad (lol) accounts. I just like collecting those cringe pictures or text-posts, it´s not like I would ever share them with anyone or post them. So in the end, my work is kind of useless, but as mentioned, it´s basically a hobby now. I do wish I knew how to view someone´s private profile without going through that whole "make a fake account" thing, though.
i started creating fake profiles to keep looking at the people i like stalking and i told my therapist and he straight up didn't care. anyway, that person that i was talking about in my post doesn't post anything online anymore and i'm sad and have nothing to do with my life tbh
I live in a rural area and people here barely use social media outside of facebook and insta where they share mostly garbage.
Occasionally I find something interestin like an old Ask.FM account or similar but nothing too bad
Wanted to get this off my chest for some time: I used to cyberstalk a girl for a few years and saved most of her photos and blog entries.
I don't know what made me do that. She was very open and detailed about her reclusive life, depressive thoughts and relationships, all of which fascinated me, I guess. It was like reading a stranger's diaries where they pour out their innermost feelings and record every daily thought they have. Her life was quite different from mine, from having a turbulent relationship with another girl to dropping out of school, and I probably found that interesting to follow.
It was a piece of cake to find her social media accounts because she used the same usernames on every website. I managed to dig out her old teenage blogs on Livejournal via her Photobucket's account name, and suspected she posted to a certain Livejournal community with several accounts simultaneously, but each time pretending to be someone else which was more or less against the rules. Every time she remade her Tumblr blog from scratch, I just went through her Tumblr friends and their conversations and always managed to find her new blogs along with some new selfies which I'd religiou1sly save to my laptop. I sent her a couple of anon asks, too, but that was the extent of our interactions.
One time, I tried to find her home address using Google Maps, based on a photo she uploaded of her house in all its glory and her frequent mentions of her small town's name but I didn't succeed. It's incredible what little sense of privacy some people on the internet have, though.
Nowadays, I still check up on her infrequently, to see if she has a new crush or finally moved out of her small town, but sometimes I'd go months without looking up her blog. Honestly, I'd be lying if I said I haven't started to care about this girl in some way although at this point, what can you do? It'd be inappropriate and wrong to approach her out of the blue, pretending you haven't saved every selfie she has posted since 2012 or looked up her house's address.
>>601>Honestly, I'd be lying if I said I haven't started to care about this girl in some way
i´ve been through exactly the same, only I managed to find the girl I was stalking´s house on google earth. I have every selfie, every blog-post and every tag she ever posted saved, and sometime I wonder why. I think the main reason is that I would really like to be her friend, because I feel that we are very similar, but I´m absolutely hopeless at socializing IRL and she has made it clear many times that she´s not interested in people or friends.
Would any of the stalkers ITT be willing to post some of their collection? You can blur out names and faces or just take screenshot of your folder, I'm really curious
I recently had to transfer my huge folder of shame over to a hard-drive, since all the screenshots I´ve saved up over the years finally ate up all of my computer´s memory lol. So I was a bit shocked when I realized that the folder had more than 2000 screenshots/images/archived websites etc. I didn't think it was that bad. I would share some of it, but blurring out names and faces would take time, and even then I´m scared it wouldn't be good enough, and I would hate it if the person I´m stalking somehow saw that some lunatic on the internet is saving their every move.
I'm not really sure how to explain this. I'm not anywhere I shouldn't be, I just obsessively make a note every time I see this person. I tried to find his social media, but he apparently doesn't have anything, at least nothing attached to his photo, name, or emails. I've never attempted to contact him in any way. Be honest anon, is it bad?
honestly, if you´re not doing anything bad with that information , I don´t see the problem. It´s not normal, as far as I know, but it´s pretty tame compared what some actual sick people do.
I've got a folder of memes with a guy I've only ever seen once, not sure if that counts.
There's this person whose writing I love, I've been combing through their blog and saving their more interesting tags & all their writings in a folder on my computer.
I also infiltrated their discord ( she runs this collaborative writing thing ) and saved what she had posted there.
Trying to find out if they've got a GoodReads or something. I'm hella interested in finding out what what they like in literature.
>>633>offers co-habitation even though it is a sin
>tfw cyber stalking that person you adore
>using your sockpuppet account of course
>seeing one of those insta posts with multiple pictures
>accidently hit like while trying to see the other pics
>blocked almost immediately cuz that person just knows
I do this too, but I use it to make a quicker/'deeper' connection with people.
i´ve done this so many times, mostly because i love the rush of digging up information and knowing a lot about a person when they have no idea that i know, if that makes sense. But it has also ruined some potential friendships for me - I´ve met the people i´ve stalked and since i a pretty bad memory in general i get really paranoid about revealing things to them that they haven´t told me and being exposed.
Wish I had read this 5 years ago
because of a psycho stalker ex I met online
I´m sorry to hear that, anon. I think for me, personally, some of the reason why I obsessively collect information/stalk people who shares a lot of their personal lives online is because it really fascinates me. Being able to "know" someone without them knowing is a lot easier than actually befriending people sometimes. But I don´t do anything with the information, and I don´t share it with anyone. It´s kind of like hoarding.
i've only done this if i have reason to believe there's something interesting about someone worth finding. i used a username and email trail to find several old and really incriminating blogs and ask.fm accounts of the guy i liked a couple years ago, and would probably do the same again if i liked someone and wanted to know more about them/be sure there wasn't anything dangerous about them. it's kind of an addictive rabbit hole to go down, and pretty useful. i think doing what i did a couple years ago saved me from a potentially bad situation.
>i think doing what i did a couple years ago saved me from a potentially bad situation.
This got me really curious, would you mind explaining how, anon?
It's pretty tame but I would visit this Québécoise girl's tumblr often, not weekly or daily, it was random but definitely frequent (about 3-4 years.) I decided to stop because I knew I was taking it a little far and put myself in her place.
I don't really have a reason besides that she was quite gorgeous and I admired her for that. I picked up on a lot of hobbies she had and copied some makeup styles she used. I feel like a huge creep whenever I think of this stain in my memories.
in your defense, I think it´s pretty comparable to being a fan of a female youtuber or blogger, for example, and picking up on their tips and tricks. If you put yourself out there for other people to see, you can´t expect that no one´s going to find your style cute or hobbies interesting, if that makes sense. I don´t think checking up on a blog every once in a while to be particularly creepy
it seems like you could probably message this person if they're putting their writing up there publicly…
i want to get better at this, there is a girl i want to check up on who seems to have no internet presence AT ALL besides her DA from years ago. I wasn't the best to her in hs (not a bully, we were friends but i'm afraid i must have used her as a scapegoat a lot of the time and i feel so fucking shit about it. i said so many mean things under the guise of friendship) and i really want to know how she's doing. i've become obsessed with it. i want to be a secret guardian angel and support her some how without her knowing its me. i tried to approach her a few years ago and it was clear she didn't like me and thought i was out to get her. I'm always gonna be fucked in the head but maybe i can use it for good. How do i go about finding her?
Anon, the best thing you can do for her is leave her alone.
Being genuinely sorry and forgiving YOURSELF is what you need to do.
I was a dickhead bully too, forgive yourself you were a child.
Long story short: i was IP banned from a Discord server and i'm too scared to do VPN shit (because thats rather illegal in my country).
If i were to create an account on my phone, would i be able to get into that server if i stay solely on mobile?
My stalker heart is itching to know what my former "friends" have been talking behind my back…
Yeah. No one's gonna hunt you down for using a VPN though lol. If you decide to use one, vpngate is free and easy to use.
I am pretty sure you can, give it a try and report back.
Only if you're using mobile data. If you just try to reconnect through the same WiFi network your computer uses, it'll be blocked from connecting.
The good news is that you only have to do it once- if you join the server from a different IP then you can log in from that account on a banned IP. Have you considered just restarting your router, too? Your IP may not be static in which case you can just get around the ban just using a new account.
Incidentally, you can run multiple discord accounts on the same machine if you just have them logged in to separate private browsing windows, different browsers and the discord app.
Not true cyberstalking per se, but I have way too many photos of Valeria on my phone. She was gorgeous before her excessive surgeries. I hate her as a person, but her look is so cute/hot to me. I used to do the same thing with Britney Spears.
I met this guy and I can't stop stalking his profile. I'll even check his friends profiles to see pics of him that they have there. I've been doing this quite often lately that it's taken up so much of my time. I wanna stop because I know it's just a waste of time to stare and find new pictures of someone but I enjoy it too much.
I feel like the only way to overcome this would be by actually developing a relationship with him where we text and whatnot, but I'm way to nervous to actually initiate things with him.
I posted a vent in /feels/ about this a few months ago, but I've been able to track down almost every crush I've had in the past few years on social media. The latest one I didn't even know the name of, but was able to find his three facebooks via his workplace. It's ridiculously easy since most people have a facebook or an instagram, and super useful for avoiding wasting your time on someone you'd be incompatible with anyway. Because I'm very tfw no bf I still keep tabs on these guys, one who I'm pretty sure experienced a downfall in the time I've been fixating on him. I think he was fired from his job because all he did was post about drugs, then he deleted all the shit off of his socials because someone was using his selfies to gay catfish with. Wild.
There have also been 2 artists I've been able to find after they deleted their blogs and reinvented themselves just by keeping track of their friends'/enemies' social media. Another just stopped posting altogether, but due to remembering their father's name which they posted temporarily on their personal blog, I was able to find their facebook. I just wanted to know that they were okay (they had suicidal and SH tendencies).
One of the aforementioned artists' (ex) friends also became a bit of a personal lolcow for me. She was originally just an average tumblr mtf who posted brash, angry things and vents on her blog, but recently got into hard drugs and prostitution. I guess that's more sad than anything, though.
I kind of wish I was more tehcnology-minded so that I could actually dox. It seems fun.
I used to date a guy who had a really weird ex, and I started stalking her blogs. I even kept going well after I broke up with the boy and stopped caring. I stopped a long time ago but she was so odd it was weirdly interesting
What was odd/interesting about her?
This was some years ago, and we were in our late teens back then, a lot of things, anon. She had really bad people skills and she'd always talk and talk and talk about how big her boobs were, she'd even force boys to touch them or nag them to do it, even her friends. She was one of those people who really thought they were a cute anime girl irl and didn't shower and was very inappropritate all the time. She behaved in a very strange way, even for a weeb (and I should know, I am a weeb)
It’s so nice to hear that other people do the same thing as me. I get ‘fixated’ on online personalities and obsess over finding their personal accounts, old posts and personal information. I don’t do anything with it, I just get a strange feeling of satisfaction and a false sense of ‘closeness’ with them. It’s very hard to explain. One time went as far as finding a girl’s house on Google Maps.
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man, today has been a blast from the past.
do you ever look up someone you used to cyberstalk years after you've stopped and find that they've completely changed?
so when i was a kid i was really into femme anime goth boys like in Black Butler and Godchild, and i stumbled across (via myspace) this guy who I thought fit the bill perfectly. He went by ~Xavier St. Valentine~, which to 15-year-old-me sounded super cool and spooky, and he played the piano which was so !romantic!, and he made instrumental electronic music which was extra ~edgy~. plus he took photos like the top left, wearing these black suits and colored contacts and with his long hair blowing in the beach winds at sunset, etc. all of this was like fucking catnip to me back then.
so naturally I started finding all his online profiles/blogs/forum accounts and stealthily acquiring data. he had a musical project with his girlfriend at the time (who was also gorgeous) but once they broke up (15-year-old me was very excited) then he went through an experimental phase where he shaved half his head and started getting into witch-house-type music and also maybe drugs. i suggest this only because his music got weirder and weirder, and the backgrounds in his photos got grungier and grungier, and after a while i stopped being able to find updates on his personal life, so i slowly lost interest.
cue today where i was looking through my computer to find images to post to the guy crushes thread in /img/, and I found a ton of his pictures that I had saved from years ago. curiosity sparked, i went looking for him again. turns out he is now involved in a project/persona called 'Sofia Reta' which involves wearing a plastic bag around his head or these long hacked-up wigs because Sofia Reta is something something all about deconstructing identity markers like sex and age.
tbh his music isn't half bad these days. When he was going by 'Ʌ', he made a track called Revenge City that I'm listening to right now and it's actually quite catchy.
but i'm also slightly annoyed that he's essentially gone completely dark aside from his musical career. as in, i can't find anything about him on any social media platforms, any photo that has his face in it, it's either obscured by face paint/wigs/taken from a distance (or all three) and career things like his bandcamp/soundcloud career pages are as minimalistic and mysterious as possible. they don't even have his real name. Possibly it's Xavier Martin (tbh i would be shocked if Xavier was his real name) but that is ALSO the name of a football player or something so finding any personal information under that pseudonym is practically impossible. it's all very mysterious, and short of actually going to Baltimore and physically tracking him down at a show or something then my ability to learn more about wtf is going on in this guy's life or head is limited.
i do wish i could find more of the pictures that i had saved during the myspace era, but iirc they were all on my photobucket account which is now (since photobucket decided to be assholes) probably lost forever. dangit.
i found an old site that apparently used to contain some of his short films http://cargocollective.com/arc
(you can tell it's him because email: [email protected]
) and .gif related
but the films are all gone now. maybe some of them are on his vimeo but it's impossible to confirm whether they're the same ones. going to try one of the internet archive engines maybe.
It's so frustrating because every time I think I've found anything personal (his tumblr, for instance) then I go there and EVERYTHING is deleted.
the closest i can find is some poetry on that cargocollective site. also the images all have odd titles like POUND_OF_BLOOD.gif so that sounds like something he'd do, too.
I'm low-intensity stalking my ex to make sure they're not anywhere near me at any given time, and sometimes to cackle at whatever miseries they're going through.
More intensely stalking a tumblr crush. Started out trying to verify his crazy stories, but then I saw he was hot and now I'm just indulging myself because he's totally unattainable anyway.
I have a good memory, and my friends are always forgetting that they've told me really specific things. A lot of the time they'll even repeat stories to me and change certain details.
So if they bring it up, just feign that they told you already. They'll be charmed that you remembered such a weird detail. Bonus if you can cite a party where they got blackout drunk or something.
It's too easy nowadays. If you google even steam accounts, you can generally find the breadcrumbs to the owners true identity. It's too tempting. I just cannot make friends online anymore because from the day I meet them, I know whatever there is to know about them.
I long for the olden days of keeping shit secret on the web.
i'm xavier 979
i did a search on myself looking for an old picture, came across this which is really touching in a strange way. my name is indeed xavier martin. i do also have social media.
anyway feel free to email me anytime and say hello(YOU CAN'T SIT WITH US)
I’ve always been unnaturally good at finding things I shouldn’t. I rarely go out of my way to do it but I end up finding “private” accounts and blogs I’m not supposed to know about. I ended up finding private accounts my ex made after we broke up a month ago. Turns out he reconnected with a group of assholes I had cut contact with because they treated me like shit. On the one hand, I don’t care what he does. But on the other hand, I’m angry he’s doing this and I keep wondering if he’s doing it to be petty.
The problem is I know it’s toxic to expose myself to painful things, but I keep doing it. I want to move on with my life and be happy with what I have now but it’s really tough to break the cycle. It’s been a few days since I’ve looked at his accounts, so I’m hoping I can keep it up.
i realize this is probably someone trolling me but at the same time
I have the habit of checking the social media of people I used to hang out with to see what they are up to and random people on the internet who I had minimal contact with and was checking up on them in some way
the most "extreme" case of cyberstalking I've done was with an old classmate of mine who greeted me randomly a few years ago and had changed drastically(from obese to thin and very attractive to me)and after a bit he started working at my father's business but not at a place I could see him daily.My stalking was mild till then till I got a weird crush on him the last time I got to see him.then I started stalking him and having annoying obssesive thoughts over him for a while.He isnt super active on social media but I get to stalk on his friends' profiles too so I got to see extra stuff from him.
fast forward to september,he started working for us again and we get to be on the same space and it's super strange to see him most days of the week and pretending i didnt know about his social media and all that.I also got to learn a lot of stuff about his life that he doesnt share on social media which left me at a big state of shock bc I had a different image of him in my head.I have a folder of shame with insta stories and old posts of his that I can't let go of because they are "receipts" of what he has done and it makes me feel good to have such proofs
since he has a gf(which I was partly sure of since he was way to friendly with my at first but then i realised it's just his attitude)I have toned down my stalking in regards to crushing on him but I keep doing it out of habit and to make sure he isn't bullshiting on the things he says and does
it's such a weird situation to be into.I just expected to never see him again or just randomly and the crush would fade.I've been in a weird rollercoaster of emotions-partly-bc of him but I have finally started to ease myself and at least act somewhat normal around him
I have a question, not exactly related to stalking but I didn't find an appropriate thread and didn't want to make a new one. It's a bit weird. Say if you follow someone on social media and they don't post personal info at all (I mean somewhere like a forum or blogging site, not facebook) and somehow you find out it's a person you know in real life, how would you react? Did it happen to anyone?
Sadly I haven't so I don't know exactly how I would react. I think it would be really cool if it happened.
I would probably be surprised and maybe bring it up in a conversation with them.
Did this happen to you recently?
This hasn’t happened to me either, but if it did… if the person interested me enough, i wouldn’t mention it and might even keep tabs on their posts just to secretly learn more about them. But if it just were some aquaintance i barely knew or cared about i wouldnt really take any action.
I'm really good at doxing, finding accounts, social engineering, catfishing and general mischief of this sort. As a result I spend way too much time on gossip boards trying to find a victim I can justify stalking. Sometimes I daydream about being part of a group of semi ethical hackers who fuck with cheaters and scammers. I've broken into social media accounts and email addresses of lolcows and sometimes didn't even take necessary precautions. I need someone to keep me in line or I'll go to prison over petty internet drama one day.
If you have a specific thing in mind I can maybe help
do you know how to break into someone's discord?
or maybe how could i learn more about someone with just a picture of their face + state
I thought this tall cute blonde guy in my chem class was hot shit and had good fashion sense which made him hotter. I googled enough and found out he had an account for perverts to watch him masturbate,so basically he was gay. I usually know when they are even though it was a heavily Republican city.
How have you been logging into people's emails and what steps do you usually take to make sure they don't find out?
I wouldn’t call it stalking but I have a habit of clipping cvs and random social media pages of people I never met and will never meet in a attempt to map and track their achievements as a guidline/benchmark to compare myself to. Periodically saving their cvs and glancing at their twitter vents every couple of months. It’s not about a inferiority complex/jealousy when comparing yourself to others as opposed to just feeling disappointed in yourself in stagnation despite the opportunities given. Though I don’t do it with people I met from school as it hits too close to home.
Never cyberstalked someone I was attracted too though
Discord is impossible unless you have access to the email account. Logins from new IPs have to be approved first by clicking an email link. If you have access to the email, you can just reset the password. I did this one time when I was in someone's email account and waited until they were asleep, logged into Discord, clicked the email link, then deleted the email (and deleted it from the trashcan too).
In your case it sounds like social engineering is more helpful, trying to find out more details either as yourself or via catfishing. Get them to sign up somewhere, for example a google form if you can think of a way to ask them to participate in a survey, find any excuse to ask for their email address and google it or enter it in social media searches. Once you have someone's main email address you can typically find a lot about them. The photo is unlikely to help you, but you can try the image search on yandex.ru which often finds more results than Google image search. Google all the usernames you know them by. Really play with it, if they're a smartass type then make assumptions about them and phrase them as if you're convinced, they might correct you.>>1047
Emails are hard and I don't do that regularly, but I've been doing it on and off for years and it keeps getting progressively harder. If you can
get in, the provider will most likely alert the user if a recent login was suspicious. Find a VPN with a location close to the person's actual area, IP geolocation bounces all over the place and isn't very accurate, so as long as it's close by they'll probably not notice anything was off. You should also spoof your user agent to get as close as possible to what a normal login would be like. Of course none of this would fool Google or protect you if you did get into hot water, but if your subject reads their emails with an iPhone and Safari and gets notified of a login from their (spoofed) area with a (spoofed) iPhone and Safari then that's not going to arouse much suspicion. You can delete the notification emails if you're fast enough, but Gmail for example keeps a record of logins which the user can view at any time. I definitely don't recommend doing this for fun or out of curiosity, it's very illegal and a breach of trust and very easy to fuck up. I'm dumb for doing it. Emails are kind of the end boss because they allow you access to pretty much everything through password resets, so start with a smaller site that won't flag new logins and that doesn't ask security questions.
And don't do it if you think you wouldn't be able to keep whatever you find to yourself. Don't make it your mission to expose someone or deface their accounts, that's the easiest way to get in trouble.
Disclaimer: I have no actual education (formally or otherwise) in any of this and am just going by what worked for me, I'm not responsible if you get v&. I'm a legit dumbass and this is in no way shape or form good advice. I have no idea what I'm doing whatsoever.
do you guys post the info you find publicly?
A lot of young twink types make money this way and even sell sex to other gay men even if they're straight. That doesn't necessarily mean anything, I dated a guy that cammed and made porn for other men just for drug money.
What kind of people interest you? Be really honest with yourself for a moment, I know I used to stalk exes, girls that were prettier and more social than me, or people that had bullied me or made my life hell.
It's okay Anon, I'm your friend. Now tell me your mother's maiden name and the name of your first pet.
You joke, but these are the easiest answers to find if you want to crack the email of someone to whom you've never spoken. As long as they have Facebook, their relatives are an open book.
Ayrt, the people that interest me are kind of odd. I only have (sort of) cyberstalked males, no girls. I’d lurk incel/“forever alone” forums until I’d find a post that piqued my interest and then I’d start checking their post history daily. These kinds of accounts are goldmines because it’s where they post all their vents and you can learn a lot about them. These guys are usually interesting to me because they’re usually neurotic but also evoke a sort of sympathy/pity from me. It’s like I almost.. care about them even though they can be really misogynistic at times. I found a guy’s instagram too because it had the the same username, and the juxtaposition was interesting because his insta was so… normie-like in comparison.
Is this what lurking c.c is like for men? I'm almost intrigued.
I have saved in bookmarks pages with pictures/posts from different sites, and I check out their content from time to time. It's not that I don't want to follow them, but I don't want to make an account on all of those sites. I know it's slightly OT but I feel like a stalker because of it.
There was a fanfic writer I loved who just stopped updating one day. Almost two years later, while I was rereading some of her older stuff, I decided to look up her username to see if she had moved to a different site or switched to an alt or something. Long story short, I found her real identity and saw that she had gotten married a little after she stopped updating. I felt like a huge creep and stopped looking through her shit after that.
How did you manage to find her identity? That looks like a lot of searching.
I've never really cyberstalked someone but part of me wants to. I know lots of people have old cringy accounts and I'd love to find them for a laff or see if i can find something interesting about them.
This. I found my oneitis's reddit accounts (normal and fetish one) using this method. It's surprising how much you can find about a person when you know a few things like what school they went to and their favorite book :^)
>tfw he hasn't posted on his reddit account a year to this day.
It helped that she had an uncommon name and unique username. She used the same username for several other sites, one of them being an abandoned Twitter which had a link to her instagram username. It was private so I wasn’t able to see any of her info, but I could see posts that others tagged her in and found a newer account with her real name attached in photos that had the same girl in them from those other users. So searching her real name lead me to her FB, Linkedin, etc and an article covered by a local news site about her wedding. Like I said I felt creepy and stopped at that point.
Yes, I’ve been hunting info about a previously tumblr famous girl who went from broadcasting her every little detail all over tumblr to total crickets. Most of her accounts are deleted and purged but I found some older accounts that aren’t shared anywhere and are still updating off the radar. That rush of discovering new info is addicting and it’s scary - especially since she has a bunch of weird creeps looking for info on her and posting about her but these are accounts are ones no one else has publicly discovered and outed. I wasn’t around when she was tumblr famous so now it’s just looking up the posts that were reblogged here and there, and hunting for recent accounts just to see what she’s into at the moment. It’s weird because it’s all public info, since I don’t make sockpuppets or anything like that, but it feels so wrong at the same time.
i agree, i love finding random hidden accounts it makes me feel a huge rush of excitement jdjjdj yes unfortunately though i'm fucking shit at stalking people on the internet i have urges to stalk people irl on a daily basis, but i've never actually stalked anyone irl because of an obvious fear of getting caught.
also if u have any advice for cyberstalking or any experiences with it please share thanks ok by,e
I'm just an idiot with too much time and not a lot to lose. I wish I had a cause at least, something better than e-gossip. Oh well
can you share more of your techniques? The worst thing I've done is keylog my own computer to get other peoples passwords.
I don't really know what else to say, but if you can give me any specific examples, I'll try to come up with something helpful.
I'm very anal about what pictures/information exists on the internet about me, since its insane how easy it is to gather information about someone with only an email, for example. I've discovered some seriously personal information about people ("secret" blogs, profiles, entries etc), and that's only been through googling names, usernames, emails and so on and following the breadcrumbs. And I don't even feel bad or like a creep, because its all out there in the open. They probably feel safe, since the information doesn't have their real names or pictures attached, but its still linked to them and if I knew I had an old blog or a personal profile floating out there I would not sleep at night.
Are there many people who re-use one username?
NTA but a lot of people have one username because it's their identity or it means something to them and they just use variations or different names when the preferred one isn't available somewhere. It's also a big thing for most people who want to "brand" themselves and try to be e-famous.
Not so related but still belongs here: has anyone had their private accounts found by anyone? I mean, in real life. What did you do?
I change mine basically every few years just to prevent people from my past finding me again. There's no real reason, i just don't like leaving a trail of all my stupid bullshit on the web
Somebody knows how i can look at alteady deleted photobucket photos from livejournal? I‘ve tried wayback machine but nothing
You can't, images are rarely cached/archived.
I do it in moderate amounts, and it kinda makes me feel like a creep. Glad to see that it seems to be so common.
Anyway here's some stuff that works for me:>>144
is what you start with
Googling the nick with the option site:pastebin.com works well with nerds, as it usually gives you some IRC or other chatroom logs. Those can point you to some communities they are active in.
Reverse image searching photos they posted or their profile pictures is an obvious one.
When you can't find out much about them at all, cyberstalking one of their best friends might give you new leads.
It's good to have a list with their interests and stats ready, in case you find a profile where you're not sure if whether actually theirs.
You can join a chatroom they are in, or some online community to interact with them and stalk them more. Just remember to use a vpn.>>1050
is good advice, though logging into someone's private accounts is a moral limit for me. It has become more difficult as well, back in the day you could just ask to use their wifi and start up wireshark, but now even the smallest shittiest sites use tls.
Don't forget to listen to some dank hacker music when cyberstalking.
Good luck and have fun <3
Okay, confession time.
Me and one of my IRL friends had a hate boner for a girl from our city who was in the scene we were. We even found her kink blog and everything and used to make jokes about it to one another. We rarely used to see her irl but we used to stalk her online a lot. We used to get really confused because like, all of her friends seemed to live really far away yet we were like close by and trying to be friends with her but she was just so like, dismissive lol. She just seemed a bit vain and all of her friend's had to fit this 'image' to be friends with her and we just weren't cool enough to be part of the clan lmfao.
We continued to do this for like a good 4 years or something and then we just grew up and were like 'this is kinda stupid' and just realised we were probably just jealous of her online fame.
>Mfw we just wanted to be friends with the cool kid and it turned into a 4 year long hate boner
thanks anon this is some good advice ill try it the next time i cyberstalk
dank hacker music
So why do you do it anons?
For me, I'm just fascinated with other people and it gives me some weird rush to connect bits and pieces of their online presence they didn't intend to be interconnected, like for example someone's Tumblr/Twitter is usually the most personal, shitposty, deeply intimate social media, especially once you get into side blogs/finstas/secondary accounts.
Do you stalk people you hate, or end up hating them? What do you do with the information?
Sometimes I hate-stalk, but it's not the norm. I stalk when someone interests me. I just like to learn about people, I haven't abused it often.
I know it’s weird but I cyberstalk estranged family members and people who bullied me in school.
>hate my dad, he’s a prolific internet user
>uses the same name everywhere - literally
>after divorce, found his TypePad journal that he made during the 4 years my parents’ marriage started falling apart
>he was having an affair with someone he called ‘wonder woman’ and only mentioned my mother once in passing, he never acknowledged my existence which confirmed a lot about our relationship
>found other places where he commented using the same damn username, like kink and cheater sites
>his ‘surface’ accounts are all religious crap with him in church acting holier than though rambling about politics and gossip
I like using sock puppets to look up people who bullied me or that I just didn’t get along with as their accounts are always lulzy and dumb and it’s interesting to discover how insecure they are, they can’t spell, they’re boring, stuff like that. People post their insecurities online and it changes my perspective on someone who acts one way in public, only to discover they’re not what they seem to be face to face.
It’s made me aware of not leaving paper trails for people to find. I’ve always deleted stuff like LinkedIn, Insta, Facebook if I am not using them consistently, and try to use fake names and make throwaway emails so I don’t have to worry about abandoning accounts.
I don’t cyberstalk as much as I used to, but when I did I would stalk people who were assholes to me, some “popular” people, and this one girl that I didn’t even know irl. I was obsessed with her for a long time and it was because I thought she was so pretty and I wanted to be her.
My obessesion started when I found her on Twitter in 2014. Since then I would keep tabs on her. It got so bad that I would sometimes catfish using her pictures. I also would go through her friends’ social media and her father’s Facebook account just to see more pictures of her.
Anyway, around my late teens is when I forced myself to stop stalking these people. It was hard because I wanted to see what all these people were up to and I wanted to know how she was doing. But I’m doing much better now.. I just hope I don’t fall back into my old habits in the future.
How does one find accounts linked to an email?
Ugh, this is so stupid but once and awhile I like to stalk the children in old shows like Supernanny/Wife Swap and shit like that. I'll watch an old episode on YouTube and then search their full names. They are usually adults by now and I get weird voyeurristic satisfaction from seeing how their lives have turned out. A lot of them have children of their own now.
Search either the full email or just the unique username part in quotes on google?
I also like doing this but with random people I find only, when I'm reading old forum posts and checking an abandoned art account
I do it to people I work with, people in my classes, pretty much any person I can get my hands on. I memorized names of other psych ward patients so I could search them up later on social media.
I would do the same but most of the people I get to know irl only have 2 accounts, Twitter and Facebook and they barely use Twitter, they're as basic as they get
That reminds me, years ago I got the email password of one of my classmates,she borrowed me her laptop to do something and I just checked the saved passwords option in Chrome, I still have it with me but nothing interesting in her mail or social accounts
Is lurking considered cyberstalking? If so, consider me guilty.
I just like to check up on people that have wronged me. I like seeing if they've improved/changed or if their life is as terrible as mine. Both bring me equal amounts of joy.
Made a fake facebook account years ago out of curiosity.
(I never had nor currently have a "real" facebook account)
Join random groups with my fake where people who did not necessarily know each other IRL would post about random stuff (those were a thing back in 2014 at least, no idea how it is today)
Actually learn a ton about how people work from just observing conversations, absorbing bits of personal info that they carelessly spill, stalking their (often public) year-long profile histories and testing reactions without fear of repercussions, I genuinely think that in a sick and twisted way I gained a lot from that
>Had a co-worker who used to undermine me in front of clients by saying I was wrong (but when I would check later I wasn't).
>Always seemed to look down on me.
>Dreaded going to work with her.
>She and her partner went off to study for Master's degrees somewhere prodigious together.
>I'd had a rough time at uni and wouldn't be accepted anywhere.
>My love life was a mess.
>Later found she's had amazing scholarships.
>Her and her partner opened some businesses together.
>From time to time I'd think of her and wished I could study hard enough to go somewhere even half as nice for a Master's and maybe even open my own business one day.
>Stumbled across her forum account completely by coincidence.
>Learn she's now stuck with 2 young kids that she has to struggle support herself as husband is running a company that makes zero money (despite having done an MBA)
>Wasting her Master's.
>Lives in a shitty house.
>Mounting credit-card debt.
>He's a slob that does no cleaning, nothing to care for their kids and doesn't even acknowledge what she does.
>I'm living my best childfree life with my hottie bf in our home we own fully.
>He does more housework than me.
>We both have high salaries from own company.
>I'm also studying for another undergrad and getting excellent grades.
I know this is 2 years old at this point, but definitely relevant to it and the thread and generalhttps://youtu.be/ixyCT47LGzY
Same anon. I just finished reading all of her posts. It’s fascinating to see how many assumptions I made about life because her attitude and where she studied made me feel like I was not as smart as her and worthless. I assumed everything in her life was perfect, she was so clever, living a dream life, etc. In reality she lied to me about some things to make herself look better which is pathetic.
Most interestingly, she proudly declares herself “not like other women”. Every woman who wrongs her in even the tiniest way (intentionally or not), she repeatedly writes paragraphs about and she seems to hate the few women in her life. In contrast, she barely mentions men who treat her much worse, such as her shitty husband who she admits she doesn’t even have strong feelings for. Where we worked was all men and we were the only woman. No wonder all her snide comments were reserved for me.
I know it sounds like I’m overthinking all of this, but it’s honestly such a revelation for me. I can see how I’ve idolised other people in the past and there’s just no way what they said (or I’ve assumed) was true. The funny thing is, from idiolising them and feeling worthless in comparison, I’ve actually worked to have what they “have”. While I thought that maybe we were similar now, in fact I was comparing fakery vs my reality. Such a good feeling to realise all of this.
I have a fairly rare first and last name combination but I have almost no online presence with my real name. I would often google my name out of paranoia hoping something wouldn't show up about me (there were some bits they were really uninteresting and lacking in detail for it to matter). At some point this girl with the exact same name in the same country as I starts showing up in my search results. She was in her early teens while I was in my early 20s and I would obsessively follow her online life over the years, watching her become regional champion in some kind of swimming sport and making digital portfolios. I know there's nothing special about any of this but I felt a little connected to my namesake.
2 years ago she died, though, really young too (I think 16?). I can't find any details about it either so I'm having some closure issues :(
I accidentally started to cyberstalk my now-BF, it's how we started dating. It wasn't malicious or anything, I just found him really interesting and connected some dots without meaning to.>>1561
I'm sorry anon, hopefully you can get some closure one day.
I do this too! I am very paranoid, just so people wont find family or people im close to. I dont really have anything against myself. but its just a fear.
sorry to hear about the death :(
I used to stalk my now-BF on Steam. Being Steam friends with someone who has the program open all the time and is sloppy and doesn't hide their status is super powerful.
If your target consistently runs Steam, i.e. they probably have it set to run on startup which is the default behavior, their Steam activity serves as a proxy for when they're at their computer/how long it's been since they were, down to the minute if they last logged on within 2 days.
Steam user statuses approximately mean:
Online: mouse input on a computer running Steam and logged into their account within the last 10 minutes
Away: no mouse input within 10-15 mins
Snooze: no mouse input for at least 2 hours
Offline: computer is asleep/off or they're logged out of Steam or not running the program
At some point I think Snooze turns into Offline no matter what, but I'm not sure. You get the idea though, the statuses off a good degree of detail about when someone was last using their computer. The statuses aren't affected by the user's interaction with Steam or any game, just activity on a computer running Steam, even in the background.
Another piece of info that Steam exposes to friends is amount of time spent playing each game a user has played. I used to look at this info and record changes to see when/how long my now-BF was playing when I was asleep or couldn't look at Steam. I also used this to get an idea of when he went to bed the night before, if I had made note of the time he had in the game he was playing that night before I went to bed.
If you know enough about a person/their friends, you can use their recently played games to get an idea of who they might be talking to or hanging out with recently. Even if you don't know much, you might be able to look at their Steam friends' profiles and see what they've recently been playing. Obviously that sort of analysis becomes a lot more theoretical but depending on what you're trying to figure out, it could open up possibilities to explore of people they might associate with.
Steam has various privacy options so some of this info might be hidden if you aren't friends with a user or even if you are, but it seems like the default is for things to be wide open, even to non-friends, so it's worth looking.
I used to wake up and obsessively check my future-BF's Steam profile, and I would check it throughout the day, to see if he was online/playing games. It would reassure me if he was because it provided some weird/fake/crazy reassurance that he wasn't out with another girl or with friends or not being a loser? Which would make me feel better because I was (am) also a homebound loser. And it would also soothe my anxiety if he hadn't texted me because I knew he was playing games and not intentionally ignoring me. I knew it was pathetic and weird but I have horrible abandonment issues and I tend to get really obsessive over certain friends when I get attached to them, and it's hard for me to control my impulse for reassurance that they aren't going to leave me.
Another way I would stalk him, and have stalked others is via Slack. I was in several Slack workspaces with him, and I knew he always had the Slack app running (another app that people often run at startup, or just have open constantly). So if he was active on Slack, I knew he was at his computer or was recently.
So… does he know you did this?
Yes, I've told him about it. He's very aware of my issues so he wasn't shocked and didn't seem bothered by it. We were already close friends irl at the time, and I didn't do anything with the information nor did it change my behavior towards him. It also wasn't a factor in how we started dating. It was just for my own reassurance. When my mental health is bad I get obsessive about knowing what people I care about are doing when I'm not with them/talking to them because I have a huge irrational fear of people suddenly leaving/distancing themselves from me. Having more info gives an illusion of control that temporarily soothes the fear. Not justifying it, I know it's pathological and I need to get a handle on it, just explaining.
For what it's worth, I'm pretty sure Steam allows you hide most of this info. I don't think you can hide your Online/Offline status from friends, but you can just close Steam when you're not using it. I know this doesn't justify stalking but honestly it's hard to know where the line is when people are essentially choosing to make this info available. Nothing about these features or the settings to turn them on/off is hidden.
Wow, that’s very interesting. Thank you for sharing your perspective on the psychological aspects of it.
Haha I never thought someone would find me being a le epic bpdchan interesting but I appreciate it.
I got addicted to stalking people via social media and online/offline/"time since online type" statuses on various platforms in high school when I joined Facebook and discovered Messenger's online/"time since online" system. So many tears shed and hours spent staring at the green dot when I thought I was being ignored by someone who was online, when they very well could have fallen asleep with the FB app open or something. I know it's dumb but my mind just gets ensnared in it because like I said, information = illusion of control even when you're using the information to spin up paranoid daydreams about what another person is doing.
I'm convinced Messenger's down-to-the-minute "last seen" feature is made by sadists though. Normies don't understand that too much info can be unhealthy for some. I used to check that feature to see if my friends were still sleeping (i.e. their status was 6, 7, 8 hrs away) to reassure myself that they weren't ignoring me if they hadn't responded to my text from the previous night or something. This article is about an interesting project someone made to track their friends sleep schedules based on super easy to get Messenger data: https://medium.com/@sorenlouv/how-you-can-use-facebook-to-track-your-friends-sleeping-habits-505ace7fffb6
I used to do this to, down to the letter. I wonder if I have BPD haha
I like to check instagram profiles of my old classmates. We were classmates in middle school. It's been a really long time and I should've forgotten about them by now, but I can't for some reason. They are so normal. I like seeing how far they've gotten in life while I just keep getting worse somehow.
I used to do this obsessively, like checking everyone I used to know from over a decade ago every week. Like I didn't suffer enough from their rejection then, I had to reinforce it again now.
So glad I managed to get out of that loop.
There are three degrees of separation for people I know a lot about.
There's this one Reddit user whose page I check regularly. She's fairly active in femcel communities and always complains about the same things over and over. She is a very talented writer. I had a conversation with her once (pretending not to know of things's she has written about in her account).
I also regularly check IG pages/tumblrs of other women that I find interesting, mainly only those who provoke feelings of jealousy in me. I'll try to calculate their body/facial proportions if I can't find their height/weight online (some of them are models), and examples of their art/writing/academic publications/etc. Like another anon mentioned, a lot of people use the exact same usernames for all of their accounts so it's easy to find really obscure accounts (like on myfreediary) that go into stuff that is a lot darker. I do this with ex-girlfriends of men that I've been attracted to, or women who get a lot of male attention despite being average-looking. I found a secret Tumblr this way full of provocative photos and dark thoughts owned by a girl I went to high school with. She posted once about wanting to kill herself and I sent her an anon message telling her not to. The blog was deleted the next day and she is very alive and well (studying linguistics, I believe). There's some tool online that lets you look at only original posts (not reblogs) from any tumblr account. This is a very good way of getting photos of people.
I also know about a Reddit account belonging to one of my close friends that I stumbled upon purely by accident a couple years ago (the username has nothing to do with her name or interests). I like reading her posts and comments. She's a lot more open about grievances with her family/boyfriend/friends/children on there, and she even mentioned me once (not by name, obviously). Sometimes I'll say something to her just so I can see her post about it later.
I've also made a fake Facebook account that I use to check up on people regularly. This isn't as rewarding, since people usually know that Facebook posts are seen by people for whom they want to keep up appearances.
ive been keeping tabs on someone in my circle and recently, kiwifarms has begun to take an interest in her because of the things she posts. ive kind of made it a secret goal of mine to dox her, find her irl pictures, workplace, her family, etc and post them to kiwifarms and lolcow just to watch what would happen. i dont hate her, but i dont really consider her a friend either. im sort of jealous of her and her popularity, and the fact that she brags about being a professional artist with a large following and exudes fake-ness just twists the knife deeper, so i hope it will satisfy my vigilante itch knowing ive made something she fears come true.
There's a big chance it will be obvious you, or someone close her, did it. Unless she's actively scamming people, being malicious, or you feel revenge is justified, it's not really worth the hassle.
place where kiwis grow
this thread <3 been doing this for forever.
how do you guys get emails and passwords though? are you only successful if there is no 2-factor auth?
btw,, how can i get into """hacking""". not just making connections – should i take cyber security or software engineering, or some other subject?
>>1681>how do you guys get emails and passwords though? are you only successful if there is no 2-factor auth?
no one here is actually hacking accounts
you can probably take security courses but real hackers don't have qualifications, it's usually done by mentoring.
Logging into people's accounts while they are asleep isn't hacking. Keylogging is the most hackerish but even then it's just recording passwords.
Not bait. I work in the security industry. I don't hack people myself but I investigate other people who have been hacked. No one has posted anything here to suggest that they know what they are doing.
well that's a horrible thing to do and you shouldn't do it
I've found passwords and emails through pastebins and gotten to the second stage of logging in. Even if you have the right password, emails now a days aren't that easy to get into, they usually detect the strange change of location and device and usually require some kind of extra confirmation.
You're better off finding what websites that email is signed up for and trying the same password.
I have been cyberstalked and people blame it on me and claim I did the damage? How the hell did I make everyone pay attention to me? That's my experience on it. Very disgusting and backwards
There's two other websites that harass people, and maybe even more I don't know of. Very funny to assume it was KF tho
i guess i should probably post mine.
whenever i get a crush on a guy irl i start trying to find out about him.
>tells me approximate age through talking about star signs
>find first three letters of last name on work roster
>find normie book and insta account which is sadly sparse
>find marriage records in previous state he lived in
>came across his address but i cant remember how
>find his wifes normiebook, kind of annoying and chola but meh
once i find someone's married i really step back since at that point i feel i crossed a line. it was weird to give him a ride home a few times when his car broke down and i had to ask for directions even though i knew where he lived lol
>a lot more open with talking about his backstory, mentions he was in a paranormal society and he wrote some kind of expose/report in college as well as ta-ing
>find student reviews of him
>he's quoted by first name only in a school paper
>find page on his departments site congratulating him for some kind of community service which i think is related to his report
>couple of academic papers under his name
theres another boy i want to find online but i havent begun yet and im kind of worried if i'll find something since he's my current 'daydream crush'
where does this Reddit user frequent?
This. Even most social media sites will flag an unknown login. I've been successful logging into Wikipedia accounts (but that's only fun if they're active and you can stalk their edits), Reddit (also only fun if they have cringy DMs), bulletin boards (rare nowadays), Tumblr
I still kept tabs on friends for a long time, they (?) are now some whacky quirky ftm demiboy with a partner that is not physically transitioning or presenting otherwise than whitebread dude. I was honestly salty about it for a long time as I felt this friend changed due to spending too much time on manga and koreaboo stuff - nothing wrong with those interests inherently but making that your whole personhood is so strange- literally just went down the manga to fujo to ftm pipeline.
I found and kept tabs on their entire friendgroup through that - twitters, deviantart piss fetish sites for one, even found a community group they were a part of. I also wasn't the best friend either so maybe I couldn't let that go either.
Then I used to keep picture archives of crushes, nothing too creepy just stuff that was already on fb. I also had a "blackmail" folder, just some embarrassing tweets and a picture of an ex in a diaper.
For crushes, I'd use pipl when it was free, reverse image search stuff, never really "hacked" in any way but man do people behave poorly in terms of personal SEO.
On that note, I got a dude I'm curious about but his name is the most common shit ever- think John Doe. what do?
>>1885>I also had a "blackmail" folder, just some embarrassing tweets and a picture of an ex in a diaper.
Honestly, this is a sensible thing to do these days.
>I got a dude I'm curious about but his name is the most common shit ever- think John Doe. what do?
You have to find something out about him to narrow it down, e.g. hometown, hobby, school, workplace. You can search Facebook for "John Doe London" or "John Doe Microsoft" and get a narrower list of results. You can probably find his LinkedIn very easily from basic information, then check the url to see if he added a username. Same for his Facebook profile. If you still can't find him, find his friend and go through the friends list.
Has cyberstalking ever led to anything positive for any of you?
I had a really bad relationship almost 10 years ago that really fucked me up and I kept tabs on the guy and the gf he had after me out of paranoia and for work related things (we worked together on projects and he tried to sue me for publishing something he assisted me with, while continuing to release things he barely worked on). I did this every half year or once a year. Eventually I found out that he moved to be with his new gf, who happened to live in the same area that I had moved to. I was always paranoid about running into him.
Last year during one of my random checkups I found a link to the gf's blog and clicked it out of curiosity. The blog had been abandoned by then, but the latest post was about their relationship. She detailed that she still dreamed about him abusing her and locking her up and wrote about a few incidents she had with him and how it messed with her even years later. I was so relieved I began to cry. Being with him made me feel so crazy and out of control because he was a schizo alcoholic who gaslit me to the nth degree and believed all of his own lies, it was such a relief to see that the girl after me experienced the same thing. I reached out to her and she was open to having a chat and we talked about everything. She even apologized for hating me at the time (although we never met or even spoke before this) based on things he told her about me. Since then I've finally gotten closure and I'm happy it went so well, even though of course it sucks that he continued being abusive to other girls. She told me that he left her for her own friend and is married now. I feel bad for his wife but I can finally move on knowing I wasn't alone.
rip pipl, have you found a good alternative yet?
It has helped me to get an insight into the minds of people who treated me badly. If you find an account they think is private where they post a lot of text you can easily see connections and patterns. It's never just about you. There's always something more to it than them just randomly being mean.
On the other hand, it can be hard to stop reading and forget about them if you find a live account. They can end up taking up a lot more mental space than they would have if you'd never found them.
Has anyone here been cyberstalked?
Not in the sense of having someone collect info about me or anything like that (that I know of), but I used to have an artsy tumblr blog where I posted stuff I liked, little notes about my day, exchanged asks with friends and such. I had a visitor tracker, as one does. I wasn't a very popular user but got a bunch of followers because I posted my photography and things like that. It was always pretty quiet, I didn't get much attention outside of my friend circle. One day I noticed the views spiking and scrolled through the IP logs and noticed repeat visits from a town where an old friend lived that I had lost touch with. I used statcounter, so you can see which page the user is on, where they
clicked, which tags they're visiting etc. He visited every day, multiple times, often checking in in the early morning, a few times during the day, and then went through different blog tags all night, often going as far as 30 pages back in one sitting. He never reached out though. It could've been someone else from his town, but the odds are small because we live in a small-ish country.
It made me feel more self-conscious about the content I posted, and I stopped posting some things altogether. A few times I wanted to contact him and just casually ask if it was him, but I thought he'd probably just get defensive. I don't even think it's a big issue or creepy, I do it a lot when I stumble upon interesting blogs and it's what they're there for after all. Tumblr specifically was great for getting a sense for someone's personality through the content they shared, text posts, layout choices and all that. So I don't think it's weird to spend a lot of time on someone's blog, it's just that we weren't talking anymore and he seemed to check my blog first thing in the morning and last thing before he went to bed. If he's thinking about me that much he might as well just reach out again. We never had an argument or anything, we just drifted apart.
I assume so but I don't have direct proof, just someone obsessed with me.
Former friend made a long post using my name with some fanfiction he had concocted about us dating. In reality we'd only seen each other once in about 5 years and had barely kept in touch. The fanfiction involved the last time we saw each other.
I sent him an email asking why he was doing it and retold how things actually went. This included me leaving early and soon after telling him I was cutting contact with him for being creepy again.
He deleted that post but then vague posted that I was the creepy one for contacting him and forcing him to delete the post, which I hadn't asked him to.
I haven't had any social media presence since then.
how do you trace a Reddit IP?
This thread and you guys are honestly fucking creepy so I hardly want to respond, but I just wanted to say I know exactly which person you're talking about (the femcel on Reddit). I kind of want to believe that it's just an elaborate writing exercise because it's sad to think someone actually spends this much time moping over their past and writing monologues about it on Reddit.
I know what you mean, I fell out with a friend a while ago and I know she thinks she's better than me but a few months ago I was clicking through followers of a mutual friend and stumbled upon her "vent account" and see how terribly she's doing and how sometimes she has moments of clarity about how she keeps pushing people away because she's too neurotic to maintain friendships and I feel less bad.
What do you consider your biggest find, anons?
A really long time ago I was dealing with the most irritating person I'd ever met who was desperately trying to be efamous, but she didn't have a good internet connection and so she was always using her friend's computer to upload her "photoshoots" and stored massive amounts of her files on her spare computer. One day she and that friend fell out and the friend sent me the entire folder of the girl's MSN messenger chat logs and all the photos she had stored on her PC, meaning full-resolution unedited photoshoots including all the bad outtakes and unflattering shots. I never did anything with the photos, but the friend whose computer she used posted some of them on /cgl/ when drama threads were still a thing, which I feel bad about now because we were pretty young and I'm sure some pedos enjoyed seeing her scantily clad awkward proto-costhot pics. You bet I searched the logs for my name and mutual friends because that girl loved to shittalk all day long. I found some interesting stuff and most notably the full extent of how big her compulsive lying problem was.
Also one time I was at a birthday party and the host was a giant bitch who spent the entire time putting some of the guests down to impress her cooler friends. I asked if I can use her computer for a moment and went into her browser settings to screenshot her passwords. Later I logged into her account on cringy dating advice forums and read about her orgasm problems. God I miss the times before 2FA
I found the account of someone I used to know by recognising a random picture she posted as being the same as had been on her instagram before she deleted it a while before. The chances were incredibly slim of it happening as there was zero identifying information in the picture, just that I had seen it before and it had stuck in my memory. Her instagram wasn't easy to find either.
She had always acted like she was right about everything and everyone was beneath her. I read her posts and found she often tried to shill her partner's business, pretending it wasn't connected to her. I waited until she did it again and pointed this out publicly. She denied it of course, replying in a really patronising way, pointing out a minor unrelated mistake I had made in my post as a way to discredit me. That just made it more glorious.
I then posted overwhelming proof. She deleted her posting history, the page I linked to on her website, and had my post removed. She then tried to continue using the same account so I replied to her again asking why she had denied it yet deleted things and what a coincidence it was that the website had changed too. She stopped using it after that and deleted her posts again.
I'm sure she's posting on another account now as she posted something and then quickly deleted it (I set up a service to get emails when she posted for a bit). The great thing is that my post detailing what she did still shows up when her name is googled as it's still on my profile and her name is unique.
>>1698>I've found passwords and emails through pastebins
Elaborate. Do you just get random emails from pastebin, or are you looking for specific people when you do this? If so, how do you find their pastebins?>You're better off finding what websites that email is signed up for and trying the same password.
How do you do this?
They are searching for breaches. For example, if Facebook has a breach, someone will eventually post all the emails and passwords on Pastebin (I don’t know why, they just do that). That anon then googles their friend’s email address or searches for it on Pastebin. They can then log into their Facebook account and try the same details for other sites that person might use.
NTA but I go to haveibeenpwned.com and enter the email address. It'll show which breaches the email has been included in. Then I google the name of the breached website(s) with combinations of dump/pastebin/leak/database/hack and go from there.
Update to previous post, don't ask me how but I have, in ascending order of difficulty: facebook, instagram, reddit, youtube, address and a mobile phone number. What can I possibly plug the latter two into? everything is very profesh and surface-level so far, I want the dirt
What exactly are you trying to find? For basic shit/lurking:
google username to see what he commented on>reddithttps://www.redditinvestigator.com/https://redditmetis.com/>youtube
type username into yt search bar to find playlists he made>address
depends on country>phone number
depends on country
The reddit ones aren't loading for me :(
Thank you for this. I could find info about a dude who was preying on me 2 years ago. And he's preying on another 20 year old in Eastern Europe now. He's 40.
I want to vomit and cry.
Please let her know what a creep he is.
If you have someone's full name and phone number, you might be able to call their service provider and get their address. (You can use simple one-click tools to go from phone number to provider, just look it up.) Same goes with just IP and name, but that still depends greatly on the particular representative you end up talking to and sometimes the company's policies.
That said, what are you trying to get if you already have someone's address? At that point, you can order them pizza or whatever the fuck. I don't really see how you can dox anyone other than literally getting their SSN and stealing their identity to fuck with their credit and ruin their life.
Redditors will tell you this is impossible, and others will tell you it hasn't been possible for years. Both are incorrect, and I'm willing to bet serious amounts of money neither of these have hung around the types of crowds where this kind of stuff actually goes down.
Literal underage moid teenagers were able to get access to a Twitter admin panel enabling them to Tweet from ANY account simply by doing a little SE for a couple weeks. That's how the Bitcoin scam you might have heard about in July went down. SIM swapping remains easily possible as well, even though people have lost hundreds of millions to it. With all of these security vulnerabilities still present in massive platforms, do you really think it's not possible to con someone into giving you someone's address if you already know much of their information and can make up a reasonably convincing cover story? Look up "isp doxing" to know more about it, including particular scenarios you can give them. I've found that younger moids are very willing to trust you if you're a woman in particular.>>1944
Breaches or databases, but Googling your info is a really shitty way to go about this, to be honest; there are so many databases (probably the majority of them) that won't show up being indexed by Google. There used to be WeLeakInfo as a pretty decent breach search engine, but that got shut down and now there are only watered-down, dollar-store versions of it up.>>1681
"Hacking" communities are full of shitty people. Why do you want to get into that? It probably isn't worth it.>>1930>>1931
Did this end up working? I can't imagine anyone would click on an IP logger link.>>1040
Sis, 18% of property crimes are solved by police, at least in America. You won't go to jail for shit. In most cases, using NORDVPN or a residential (if the specific platform you're trying to crack will block logins from obvious proxies like public VPNs) is enough, unless you're getting into serious shit. It's not simming.>>1050
Old, but this is good advice, especially logging into people's accounts from VPNs close to their actual location. You can variably log into someone's PayPal account without extra steps if you are geographically close to them (detected by IP), and provided you're not spending huge amounts (or you just get locked by chance because it's a shit platform that has relatively arbitrary holds and restrictions), you can even send their money to another account, lmao.
Feel free to ask any questions if you want to know more about any of this. It's usually creepy, extremely bigoted moids that know about this kind of stuff because they want to get back at another moid that scammed them for a social media handle or some stupid shit like that, but I have experience with this type of thing since I sit inside basically all day like they do.
Oh, and I forgot to mention that those are property crimes in real life. Unless you get the FBI involved (and that's virtually impossible for small offences), you won't be tracked down. If you, for instance, crack someone's email with a no-logs VPN on, their local police force isn't going to do shit, and they literally can't, especially if you're outside of their jurisdiction or your IP is. Depending on the VPN, they might not even have access logs (and they shouldn't if you use a VPN that doesn't keep them, which is what you should be doing) to be able to tell who was accessing that IP.
Wise Based hikki femanon, thank you.
, but I actually don't want to fuck with him at all - I was looking for more online stuff - a blog, secondary reddit account, something linked to something pornographic or emotional.
Have you ever used any of the stuff you suggested? How did that go?
Yes, it all comes from experience. Keep in mind that although I've personally tested everything I suggested, it may have been quite a while ago (because I don't really have the need to do much of it), so there's a chance it won't work. With things like ISP/phone number doxing, you really just have to get lucky with the service rep, and some
If you have names he's used online, you can really only look up those names and he might be using the same one on other platforms. People don't really link their addresses to anything which you can find (that would be an incredible security vulnerability if you could get people's profiles on sites from their addresses), and you can't go from phone number to username, either, unless you literally put that phone number into different websites.
Your best option is to look for commons (when he uses the same alias on different platforms). Trying to find someone's other online accounts is something I've rarely done, I usually go straight for the jugular. There's nothing apart from exploits (which you won't be able to access as they're very limited in who has access to them, especially zero-days) that you can use to find accounts on more platform with a phone number or address. Hope it helps! :)
. I appreciate the insight in the law enforcement aspect, but I'm still too chicken to really risk it. I know the chances of getting prosecuted are close to nil, especially since I don't even live on the same continent as the people I stalk, but I just don't want to get too careless and desensitized, otherwise I'll take it too far. I already caused one suicide with my meddling. Another person died soon after I started looking into them, and although that incident had nothing to do with me, it still spooked me. I know people will call bullshit on that, but I can't give more info, so I'll just live with that. I just don't want to end up playing with this too much,
although finding sex offender communities has really been tempting me.
I used to make tumblr blogs that were related to the person's interest, add a statcounter tracker and DM them the link. But statcounter stopped working and coding your own tracking solution isn't very beginner friendly.
>>1977>I already caused one suicide with my meddling
Yeah, I'm pretty good at finding old stuff people think is gone for good, and someone's online footprint in general. It's crazy how much you can do with just an image or a word. I research everyone in my life because I'm traumatized and paranoid.
Has your own ability to find stuff made you act differently online? I have next to no social media, hoping to delete all as soon as I no longer need it for college. The fact that certain kinda of social media have also become indispensable if you want to succeed at uni or even grow socially is also dystopian and idiotic imo.
>>2036>Has your own ability to find stuff made you act differently online?
Yes, I don't use social media at all.
> The fact that certain kinda of social media have also become indispensable if you want to succeed at uni or even grow socially is also dystopian and idiotic imo.
Maybe Facebook for events in uni but you do not need social media in the workplace. Not yet anyway. All the boomer managers don't care about social media and don't understand it. LinkedIn is good only if you are applying for jobs, delete it after this. In person connections are much more important.
i wish i could ask you to research me and see what you find so i can delete everything
Urgh, the same guy posted something sexual about me again that he made up and directly using my name. I'm going to contact him and threaten to contact the police for sexual harassment. I know it's probably OTT but it's the fourth time I have to tell him to stop. It's really creepy and I don't want it to escalate.
Trying not to cry right now. He posted about my email mocking me and claiming I was making it up. I replied with all the evidence I had. I don’t know what I expected but some of his female followers blocked me and replied in support of him. It’s like they thought I was being hysterical or something. He did the same thing last time and it feels like by replying this time I fell into his trap to discredit me.
I didn’t say in my other posts but this has all happened over ten years. We were friends in high school but first stopped talking when he started being creepy in a sexual way. Five years ago we spoke a bit again after he moved across the planet to just see me (he said this later in his fanfiction, I didn’t know it then) and was sexually creepy in the same away so I blocked him.
For years he has been posting about me in various platforms (not just text), sometimes with my name, sometimes just identifying details for anyone that knows us both. It alternates between sexual comments saying I did things, how hot he thought I was, saying we dated, or insulting my personality.
I don’t understand what his obsession is with me. I don’t know if he wants revenge for being rejected or what. I feel unsafe posting anything with an account. We don’t live in the same country now so I don’t know if I even can go to police, not that they would care anyway.
I know I should probably just ignore everything but it’s hard :(
>>2093>I don’t understand what his obsession is with me. I don’t know if he wants revenge for being rejected or what.
Don't try to understand it by normal standards. His "reasons", if you could ever extract and see them, would look and feel completely alien to you. If he wasn't capable of developing these fixations and acting on them then he wouldn't be a stalker. These people are capital-N Narcissists who choose their food/prey and then do whatever they can to maintain supply, like how he managed to bait you into engaging. Their whole lives are based around screwing others over and drawing them into torturous traps, and they are better at it than you can ever hope to be.
Some of the advice about getting rid of them involves grey-rocking, i.e. making yourself boring to them, but it sounds like their obsession has lasted years without you feeding it (I hope). You cut off communication so he did whatever he could to try and force you to re-establish it, to establish a dance where he pulls the strings and you jiggle. The next step is to try and normalise the response, to try and establish some kind of stakes that forces you to act when he wants you to.
The only protection is to say to yourself "whatever, this is boring" and completely cut off. He will then go after whatever levers he thinks will force you to act. Whatever he does, you must respond like a grey rock. Stalking victims of most kinds get shit all help from the cops, even in physical stalking cases, unless they take action that the cops can use as evidence of a crime.
By the way, it's likely that he has other sources of supply that he feeds off with different games. I had to deal with one at a workplace and I ended up physically ill from it before I managed to get away. I was very fortunate that it wasn't a long-term fixation that caused them to follow me, but I heard later from people at my old work that he started behaving erratically after I left, randomly humiliating employees and being creepy in hard-to-hide ways. I think that being starved of the supply I unwillingly gave maybe made him desperate and sloppy, but it's not something I want to think about any more.
Anyway, the majority of material on normalfag sites don't go into enough first-hand detail about how awful and destructive they can be. Know your enemy. I got a lot of insight to this stuff by reading a book called "Dangerous Personalities" by Joe Navarro. There was another good website I learned a lot from, but the writer since turned into a bonkers Q-tard so I'm hesitant to link it here.
Good luck anon.
Thanks, this is really helpful. I have only had communication 3 times in 5 years: the first email after his long fanfiction asking if I was missing something as to why he was posting about me (which he then promptly deleted and said he meant no offense, sure…), the police email, and then replying to his latest about me. There have been other things that I didn’t engage with.
I think you could be right about the narcassist thing, I never thought about it before. When I cut him off for sexual comments the second time, his reply was just “ok, let me know if you change your mind” after I explained how I felt. Like no emotional engagement at all.
I also didn’t realise this clasifies as stalking, but I realise it now. That definitely fits and I will start grey-rocking immediately.
I dunno if this counts as cyberstalking, but I did some sleuthing on 4chan the other day. I went to post a thread on /b/, and I saw a pic (face blurred) of a girl who looks just like someone from my boyfriend's gym.
I looked at the girl's insta and she had a pic with a wall of sex toys identical to the one in the blurred pics. Same bedsheets, same hair, and on closer inspection same septum piercing and hoops.
Forgot to mention, the only reason I cared to do so was that it was her boyfriend posting them in a cuck thread. Apparently he shares her with her ex. When I asked if it was really him, he gave a ":)." Gonna be weird the next time I see them in the gym.
I used to have a lot of fun on social media and had a knack for communicating with people, but I can't do that anymore at all because I feel too hyper-conscious of my online footprint and the thought of someone finding and going through one of my profiles gives me the worst feels. I also used to post art online and haven't done that for years now. The idea of having a username and profile is just eerie to me now. I only feel comfortable posting on c.c and on small group chats shared with friends. I have a (private) 12 years old Twitter account that I still use, but mostly just for lurking and DMs.
An update on this: the anon (>>2094) that said his reasons wouldn't make sense to me and about him pulling strings to maintain supply was 100% right.
It's been 3 weeks since I said that I wasn't going to contact him anymore and he has tweeted directly or indirectly about me almost every day, multiple times per day. He completely downplays what he did (and deleted tweets to hide it - I have the screencaps though) and makes it seem like I am crazy for reporting him to the police.
He's also weirdly fixated on something inane that happened the time we saw each other.
>Him: So what have you done recently?>Me: Oh, not that much.
That's it. He has repeated this exchange multiple times over the years and says it's why he rejected me (ignoring that it was me that blocked him for being a creep and that I wasn't feeling well that day).
I was pretty upset when I posted before but now it seems pretty farcical. I was also worried a bit that I wasn't going to have enough evidence as a lot of this happened years ago but he's displaying his weird obsession daily, it's actually kind of funny now (he doesn't know my location so no real danger thankfully).
I have a habit of building up people around me to almost mythical status. Anything good that happens to them must be because they are so much more clever, hardworking, talented, etc than me.
Cyberstalking has helped me realise a lot of it is just luck and that I’m actually doing pretty well for myself when comparing the hand I was given.
For example, I once overheard a super smart girl talk about the time she met the prime minister. I always assumed she must have won an essay contest or done something really amazing. In comparison, I didn’t even know such contests existed.
By chance I recently came across some details about her meeting and it was down to pure nepotism. The thought never crossed my mind in all these years. It was just an automatic reaction to assume I was not good enough.
I’ve done similar things for other people many times. Cyberstalking has made me so much more confident in myself from being able to see the reality of situations. Is anyone else like this?
yeahh… met this guy like 10 months back. fell for him, and were good friends for a while but lost touch. sometimes i go and look at his family's social media and read news from his town. im still in love with him though i havent spoke to him in 6 months. so i stalk him
once this me and this girl were fighting in a discord server. i regularly pretend to be a man on discord for obvious reasons and me and some dudes all pressured her into telling us where she was from and sending pics of her face. posted her info around some places. she freaked out and begged me to take the posts down.
how can i connect a face to a name when i have an actual photo of their face, a general idea of where they live, where they work, etc?
Google various combinations of:
site:linkedin.com/in “location” “job”
Sometimes pictures don’t always show up with you click the profile for some reason so check the profile links and the image results too.
If they're active on social media, try image search on Yandex. It will give you more hits than Google image search.
No, it's unsettling being on the other end. But I'm all for safety tips or hacking advice.
Strange question but have y'all thought of saying hi and messaging that person instead of cyberstalking?
Technically, it's an invasion of privacy. But social media and servers are to blame for lousy security.
i'm not telling hi to my piece of shit ex
Ok. I won't pry but aren't you hurting yourself more by staying in the past? Just a thought …
i plead the fif, as dave chapelle so eloquently said
I have returned to this thread once more to seek advice. Currently investigating someone who's parents are supposedly "super rich", and I'd just love to find out more. I have a name, twitter, facebook, youtube, and possibly some of the siblings and parents names. Where could I find info on wealth or taxes, businesses, the like? I'm EU
Sis I dont know how to help you but I wanna say:
Yes, you get that bitch, you fucking find his money and snatch that shit up
If you know what their parents do you can look up their job position at their company on glassdoor for an income range.
I’ve been on the internet since I was 8 years old, I was a latchkey kid and had no friends ever, coming home from miserable lonely days at school and going onto my laptop was a refuge for me. I was in chat rooms talking to adults at like age 9, on text and microphone. I got myself into lots of stupid trouble online back then, but I also learned lots of fun tricks to mess with people lol.
I learned how to IP grab when I was 10, i learned how to ddos people offline (with a shell booter) aka script kiddie stuff at age 13. I learned to use VPN early
On, I learned to never click links.
…most importantly I learned how to leave no digital footprint online ever, no trace ever.
I won’t lie i probably doxx everyone I meet, or I try too atleast, but I don’t post it anywhere it’s not malicious intent, I’m just curious.
I even doxxed my therapist (which was very difficult, but all worth it in the end)
the father seems to found lots of company, averaging one every year for the past ten years, spanning the range of entertainment, IT, fishing gear etc. Two of them were liquidated
I love going on what are obviously private diary or vent tumblrs and read the entire thing for hours and very intimately getting to know the person and even relating to them. I love doing it. Especially when the blog owner has the same issues as me. It's like finding a sister
same. kind of related, does anyone remember that girl on tumblr that edits her head EXTREMELY tiny and she has a very noxious attitude but is so interesting? she was a muslim or some kind of orthodox something and she switches between religions i think? i don't make fun of her but she's just so interesting and i want to read her blog again.
Same, sometimes I'll re-read the same one a few times, even if it is super long. I have to remind myself at the end that I don't actually know them.
What are some diaries/tumblrs that you recommend?
the opposite for me, i purposely go out of my way to find them so i can privately have a laugh ( when they crytype and do things of the sort like scattered text etc )
i will admit i can relate to them sometimes but its mostly the fact that i think ventposting in general is cringe lol my bad im sorry but i cant help it
Can I get stuff deleted from the wayback machine?
Yes, just send them an email and they will remove it if it's your site.
is there any way you can add someone specific by quick add on snap without searching them? can you sort of 'influence' your quick add at all? i don't want to seem weird adding this person by search.
i hate snapchat so much, it's very de-anonymized and that sets off all my lurker alarm bells but unfortunately the girl i'm friends with/slightly stalking made a new one and i'm insatiably curious
get her phone number and add yours too on your profile if you haven't
snapchat recommends you people you have added on your contacts, and since i suppose she's a normie girl she has used that feauture
oh thank you, i'll try that tonight as i don't have her number(yet). pretty sure she'd add hers but fingers crossed
I has a friend in high school who was a bit of a compulsive liar, though kind enough. None of lies were malicious, just more like pretending she had friends or tickets for things that didn't exist and which meant finding out plans she arranged involving these things would fall apart at the last minute. The weirdest ones were pretending to be a year younger than she was and so having a fake 18th birthday, and also paying a guy she had pretended to know from myspace (and his friend) to come to a party. She was ESL and from a muslim country and had moved to my high school in the final years so I think she just really wanted to fit in.
I lost touch with all my high school contacts not long after but still google them from time to time to find out where they went in life. I couldn't find any social media for this friend though. Eventually ages after high school I did find mention of her deep in a thread on a lolcow-esque site. People were laughing at her for pretending to go a good college and be dating a fairly well known sports player when it clearly didn't add up.
I feel kind of bad for her that she hasn't grown out of this, especially as she is living in a third country now and could have made a clean break with her past if she'd wanted to. Have to wonder why she feels the need to do this.
Yeah i've stalked people before online. Especially teachers. It was a good challenge. I don't find many people i care to stalk anymore and a lot of people don't even make it a challenge
Only person I've ever cyberstalked/doxxed was a redditor who was raising his girl to believe Harry Potter was real and she was going to Witch School when she grew up.
Some guy that I had an inappropriate relationship with almost a decade ago (and which got him fired a few years ago after he tried to restart it and I contacted his employer) sent me a creepy stalkerish message. It was on an account I seldom use and sent months ago but I only saw it now. He accused me of "hiding" and asked if it was worth it.
Does he really think that years later I am organizing my entire life around him? It couldn't be that I deleted my social media accounts before I even reported him. Or that I got rid of other stuff more recently because of a different creep. Oh no.
Like no dude, my whole life just doesn't revolve around you. Got better things to do with my time unlike him trying unsuccessful to guess my password (I got it wrong for the first time in at least a year and it immediately said there had been too many failed attempts).
I get looking someone up after a while out of curiosity but then assuming the results you find (or lack of) are all about you years after you last had contact is just unhinged narcissism. Having limited internet presence isn't even that weird if you're a professional or just not that online.
And sending a message about it which is just going to make yourself look even worse… Just why?
I've had similar experiences where people have treated me with suspicion or like I'm hiding something for not using any kind of social media. I think for a lot of people they genuinely can't imagine how they would interface with the world without social media anymore. I hate to sound all holier-than-thou with people like that, but it really is disgusting, the narcissistic way they approach internet presence.
I just want a nice cozy image board. I don't need my fucking name attached to it. Is that so much to ask?
What'd you do with that guy's message anyway? I feel like it'd be tempting to rub his nose in it but that doesn't feel wise, from experience.
They are entitled, simple as that. They are entitled to have access to your information at all times.
>>4560>What'd you do with that guy's message anyway? I feel like it'd be tempting to rub his nose in it but that doesn't feel wise, from experience.
I was tempted to just reply with something like pic related but either he wouldn't get it or would think I was joking in a good way.
My first thought after that was to reply and tell him that if he didn't leave me alone, I would contact the police. Messaging me for no reason, years after what happened, and in such an unsettling way, plus trying to hack my account, would probably all be of interest to them.
He was also pretty stalkerish too after things ended, sending nasty messages, accusing me of dating other men, and then not taking a hint when I didn't reply half the time. He enjoyed putting me down and calling me stupid when we were together, while playing up how smart he was himself. It's clear that he wanted to provoke a reaction so I just deleted the account as I'm not using it anymore. Also replying to a months old message would be a bit weird.
Thankfully I'm pretty sure he won't have another way to contact me or gain information about me and I live in a different country now and not in contact with anyone from my past. Though if he does contact me, I guess I will have to go through will reporting him. I don't really what to have to explain everything that happened previously to the police but I don't want to deal with (another) stalker either. I did decide that I'm not going to bother with warning him first as he's a grown adult and can face the consequences of his own actions.
Maybe I should just make an easily found instagram profile and post a bunch of pictures of me being really boring, doing mundane things, and looking slobby, so the creeps lose interest. Though men will literally fuck comatose woman and inanimate objects so I doubt that would work.
>I just want a nice cozy image board. I don't need my fucking name attached to it. Is that so much to ask?
Same, I'm too socially awkward to enjoy social media. I never used the accounts I made much and always ended up deleting them not long after. I guess if he had ever actually gotten to know me he would have realized this.>>4561>They are entitled, simple as that. They are entitled to have access to your information at all times.
I can’t stop cyberstalking my friends. Every time I meet someone new and get to know them I can’t help myself but uncover as many of their profiles as I can. I know it’s wrong but I don’t mean to be malicious but I just get curious. It’s so bad to the point where I got a vpn service just so anyone who is smart enough to use an ip logger on their blog won’t know it’s me. It’s so stupid. I’m so paranoid and I just wish I could quit.
Sounds smart. Don’t waste energy on a friendship when you could have found out before that they were too weird.
>Make new mutual based on femslash
>She compliments me a lot and I take it to heart, stupidly think I have a chance despite thinking e-dating is retarded
>Obsessively search for her other accounts
>Find one, she mentions her boyfriend on it
>Get irrationally angry and even more obsessed
>Find her high school and yearbook, now I just have to narrow it down
I think it's funny that I know a lot about her and she barely even knows anything about me because I'm careful about the kind of information I attach to my accounts so they can't be easily associated with one another (and she's already a privacy conscious kind of person). Sometimes I think about scaring her telling her what I know to get back at her for all the lovebombing. I don't know why I'm so attached, probably because the first time we ever talked she told me she could tell I had an ed… she said she's recovered but she makes comments about it without any prompting from me. I want to get worse with her
yeah imagine that 'friend' of yours was in fact some kind of creepy cyberstalker
Ngl i think that's kind of hot. I would be terrified but very into you if i was her. Don't do that though, she's probably not as unhinged as me lol Keep that shit for yourself.
holy shit this thread is three fucking years old
anyway i would cyberstalk my online friends social media when theyd get mad at me and i was worried they were gonna block me, its also fun to look up old friends once in a while to see if anything new and dramatic has come up in their lives but its a rarity
I was in a discord community a few years ago and we no longer keep in touch but I still remember everyone who was there and cyberstalk them regularly. I've done everything I can to try to access the old servers and it's driving me nuts, I even have a server ID but without an invite code I can't access anything. I don't know why it's so hard for me to let go of this online community in particular, loneliness I guess.
hve you tried to see whether they have advertised on disboard or similar sites?
I'm more of a normie but I can relate.
I remember months ago a friend made me play VR chat for the first time and it was incredible.
We went to a map with a weird train and we ended up finding a ton of randoms that were just goofing around then came together to act like there was some big mystery on that train and telling some elaborate, hilarious storyline–even including me in it as some passive observer.
…mind you, these were complete strangers. And I was just sitting there awkwardly with my mic off like a boring idiot, my movements and my friend doing the only speaking for me.
It made such a huge impression on me that I'm sure I would have probably wanted to find out way more about them if I could, even if I'd be stupid over it.
I don't cyber-stalk that much, I have my parasocial fascinations where I check on people every now and then but I never stalk if you know what I mean, I only stalked one person I cyberstalked was my e-bf who lived with his parents, he love-bombed me and convinced me to get into an e-relationship when I was so vulnerable then pulled that away and became distant and cold, I was yearning to know about him more and see him more when he didn't even return my good morning texts so I did some looking up and found his public records, through it I found his mother and cyberstalked her facebook, then his aunt because he mentioned that he had an aunt who owned a stable who had a three-year-oldgirl… I doxxed his address and phone number using public records, pictures he sent, and info he told me like what car model he had, I saved these along with other info in a file and archived them.
I also found his old accounts on many social media platforms because he used the same combination of words for a username, while cyber-stalking his family I found out that his aunt is a bit of a cool Instagram mom who posts on her stories often so I viewed them daily without following her because she would visit her sister and take videos and pictures with him in them, he never sent me pics or updates when he had a big day like a bday and he was so much of a loser that he celebrated his bdays by drinking with his parents and aunt and her husband, even on his graduation day I had to cyberstalk his aunt to see him in his cap and gown, the aunt eventually blocked me and stopped posting much and it made me so paranoid that he might've known.
even after breaking up with him I still cyber-stalked his mom on facebook, she got a new job lol,, and as for him he doesn't post on social media much and only uses twitter afaik so I stalk his likes from time to time even two years later and I think that he got in another e-relationship with this 18 year old girl who lives on the opposite side of the world from him, I feel like reaching out to her and talking her out of it since I've known him for longer than she ever could and I know that he is only using her for validation and to kill time until he finds a stacy irl who would be interested in him that and the fact that he is a pedo furry.
Anon please seek help and leave the guy alone.
i've used the internet for almost 20 years so i kind of developed a pattern recognition if certain people change usernames and whatnot. there was a time when this personal website i browsed was literally taken down overnight, and it wasn't archived anywhere, so ever since then i started collecting and saving anything i found interesting just so that will never happen again.
over the years i've actually ended up finding out scandalous things about people of interest (artists with secret fetish alts, personal tumblr vent blogs meant for close with messed up confessions, nsfw blogs, etc.), if i really wanted to i could "cancel" a lot of people. but i don't support that kind of culture so i've never collaborated with a callout post or anything. i just take notes and move on. i've also never doxxed anyone (though i've found people's real names by accident) and don't care to. i just treat the internet as my personal zoo and try to follow the "animals" if they leave
>force myself to stop stalking as I realize I'm creepily obsessed with them
>miss the fun of stalking them and start stalking them again
Anyone know how to get out of this loop?
send her screenscaps. you'd want those screencaps if you were in her shoes, wouldn't you?
I finally found the original invite link I used to join the server years ago. I had to use a python script to download an archive of the website it was posted on to retrieve the link. I clearly remember that invite link being a forever invite link since I used it multiple times in the past, but now the link says expired. So the server has probably already been deleted. On the one hand I'm upset it was a dead end, on the other hand I'm relieved I can put this obsession to rest and move on.
Oh yeah she would definitely freak the fuck out on me so I'm never telling her. Funny thing is I got her number but she pissed me off again recently by not texting me back after 2 days and it fueled me to finally find her real name and pictures of her face. I legit thought she was ignoring me but it turns out she was just busy with school lmao.
Was looking for the female creep thread to post this in, but this one works just as well.
I found his general Twitter account finally. This isn't simply limerence anymore, this is downright sickened obsession with this poor boy. But I can't stop myself. I've trained myself to be this creepy from all the fictional characters I've stanned before over the years. This is not okay to do to another person, but I just can't stop. Not even distracting myself with games or other men makes me want to give up on him. It's rotting my brain and ruining my life but I truly cannot stop.
I'm not surprised by his Twitter likes. I don't quite fully understand why he faps to blacked porn, of the types of women he enjoys getting fucked by black guys. I earnestly think he is a cuck at heart, but I also notice that some of the other liked porn is about the viewer fucking a trashy skanks while dogging on prudish types like his old girlfriend. Probably some kind of self-insert, regretting that he didn't have a better girlfriend growing up. Likewise, I wonder what it is about the more unsavory things he enjoys that makes his dick twitch. His brain runs in taboos that I don't usually think much about, and it fascinates me.
He's such a cute little virgin. I wish he would tease me again with IRL pictures of himself, but I think he stopped caring about my pleasure a long time ago.
I can't really tell if his followers are anyone he actually talks to that's worth a damn. They mainly look like spam and e-thots looking for money. I'm going to sift through who he's following, not sure if I should cuddle up with a warm drink or not.
I have no guilt about cyberstalking him because he makes himself too fun to cyberstalk, and we'll probably never date anyways. Even before I was obsessed with him he was pretty clear about not seeing anyone. He has a lot of his other accounts set to private even though mine are public, and I'm not afraid to hide anything from him, other than the extent of my obsession with him. I love getting a daily dose of him in some form or another, and I tend to cry when I get into withdrawals without him.
I'm disgusting. Revolting. A grown woman shouldn't be acting like this. I should be just dating normal men and living a normal life instead of being turned on by drawings and obsessed with someone that checks so many of my own tick boxes. I know I need help but until I can replace him I'm just going to continue to behave this way. I'm sorry.
I saw a macro of a newspaper that said "I married my stalker" and it made me unironically think GIWTWM and him, but with IRL sex instead of marriage. I might be batty but I just want to get all my terrible horny out before I commit to someone, if I ever do marry and settle down and have kids.
Sometimes I wonder if that's what he wants from me; to go ahead and cuck him by getting a husband and use him as my little side piece. My only problem with that is I don't know if I could actually unironically do that to someone and live with myself.
I wish he would just accept being in a Mdlb relationship with me, where sometimes he can dom if he wants to. No third parties unless we agree on it, plenty of solo sex with just him and I.
I've searched a good amount of his following, choosing to stop for now. Only a few of his followers were anything but bots.
A deeper analysis tells me there is nothing much else to be concerned about. His pornrot extends past much else I care about, and I cannot see if he's talking privately with others, nor really care much to know, as I've witnessed how that tends to go a few times now.
I can't tell if he's following findoms to be milked by or if he wishes to engage in the practice himself. But if anything, his lazy behavior says it all. He won't ever be much of anything if he cooms his life away on empty harlots that will take the ego boost and forget he ever existed in the next week or month.
What a sad soul I stalk.
A foolish part of me wants to snap him out of it and retrain him into being a proper young man, try to make him into something
useful and successful, and yet if I hadn't any feelings for him at all I, too, would likely spit on him and pass him by as a sorry cuckold unworthy of being any pet or lover of mine.
This cyberstalking was successful. The results were semi-fruitful in other information I won't include here, and I can rest a little easier now. Part of me still thinks there might be another account surely for less porn-oriented things, and I'd love to find it if it exists, but knowing what a slimey little pervert he is, it simply might not exist.
I find it curious that even my old account was more popular than his. He isn't as social as I assumed him to be. Perhaps that's part of why he withdraws himself, ashamed of all the wretched filth he hoardes within him.
The two of us are like two sides of a cautionary tale for people to never ever become, I feel.
Ngl, don't really care for reactionary non-replies like this. You could at least have the guts to criticize me or say something more specific to what I posted than just "wtf".
As a small update, more blacked porn and I found a couple more non-porn goofy accounts he's following, so I don't think there's a non-porn alt. I'm not really sure what to think about it, because there's old and recent stuff, and he's never really implied to my face that he's genuinely into this. I saw from other archives he used to post on other image boards about it, but that was over a year ago and from my own research. I didn't think it was still something he was interested in now. I don't know how much of this is really healthy or not, but I'm also aware I'm pot and he's kettle; and I'm calling him blacked.
(Sorry, awful joke.)
The moid brain is a strange one, especially when it's sheltered as hell. Weird disturbed sexual fantasies.
you're worse than the entire LC userbase. get your head checked. i hope you two never meet.
i see you i understand you although he is a bad quality one for the blacked porn but I too love cute little virgins who are sexually frustrated, I'm sad the one i'm obsessed with practices good online hygiene and doesn't use social media much and has the accounts he has on private but i tried to squeeze as much as i could and he likes hentai and not real porn, i still keep all the pics he sent of himself, i look at them every day before bed, i should try and find his online accounts maybe i can find a twitter or a facebook.
best of luck nona <3
Rude as hell. You sound like someone that actually uses LC for a social life. Stay miserable, I am
actually trying to change if you couldn't catch that.>>4711
Thanks, glad someone else kinda gets it. Apparently my radar was completely off anyways, and he picked back up being active somewhere else even while I was posting that. I know I'm not his keeper, it's been a pretty self-destructive journey being so dependent on wanting to be the one that makes his highest highs. I realize that's not realistic and he's kind of a typical moid manwhore anyways. It's all been an escape from trying to make my own happiness myself.
I've done the opposite, I used to look at his pics almost daily but now I don't. I'm trying to get back to how I was before I met him as best as I can, even though it won't be fully possible because I made some major life changes during the time we've known each other.
I think my biggest problem is this parasocial relationship I've attached in addition to the reality. He really is not the angel I imagine him to be, and the reality hurts sometimes. It hurts a lot, actually.
i understand that too well, i too know that i wont end up with this guy but i cant help but think about him when im feeling down so its really like you said just an escape.
no one is an angel but selective perception is not a joke, hope we two can walk away from this lifestyle soon enough.
is there any way i can possibly deduct someone's email from their spotify or steam accounts? it's all i have and i desperately need to find more.
search their username in breach databases
where can I find those? google isn't turning up with anything for me. I'm sorry I'm being such a noob.
you need to buy them or pay for a subscription to somewhere that shares them
it's not really worth it tbh