oniisama20-03.png Manipulation Anonymous 05/18/18 (Fri) 11:11:49 PM 787 >What's the most extreme manipulative scheme you've completed? >How did it affect the people involved? >Would you do it again? >Do you feel guilt manipulating people? >What are your feelings in general regarding manipulation? >If others were severely harmed in some way because of your manipulation, would that matter to you? Why or why not? >Have you been manipulated in an as extreme way as you've manipulated others? What happened and how did it affect you? >Do you take pride in manipulating people? >Do you feel like emotional abuse is inherently wrong when it is purposefully inflicted? Why or why not? Anonymous 05/24/18 (Thu) 12:56:10 PM 788
I pretended to throw a ball for my dog. She looked for minutes for it. I've done this a few times now, each time more confused than the last. She still doesn't know it was me.
Anonymous 05/24/18 (Thu) 07:40:23 PM 789 >>787
I made others believe I was a sociopath. Lol
Anonymous 05/26/18 (Sat) 04:52:08 PM 790
I'm the type of person where it shows on their face what they think so I never really attempted to manipulate people.
This is bad but sometimes I kind of wish I was good at manipulating. Others have done it to me so often, I want to be able to do it too as some type of weird revenge. Anonymous 05/26/18 (Sat) 07:40:08 PM 792
i know this is child's play in terms of manipulation. this is more of a confessional. i hate myself for it but i couldn't stop.
>What's the most extreme manipulative scheme you've completed? well… i was in love with a man so i told the girl he liked he wasn't interested, then told him the girl wasn't interested. broke up dude and his girlfriend beforehand. i wanted him more than anything. i faked screenshots, broke into his friend's accounts for DMs with his current girlfriend and them, skewed actual evidence to my whims and wants, all because i didn't have what i wanted. i didn't physically hurt anyone but i was awful, manipulative and abusive. but we've been together since high school now. he's the love of my life. >How did it affect the people involved? the boy was depressed for about two weeks hardcore then we started dating and everything was peachy. possibly ruined something beautiful between them because of jealousy and possessiveness. >Would you do it again? i don't know. i would if it meant having someone i loved. i can't stop. >Do you feel guilt manipulating people? yes. a solid yes. >What are your feelings in general regarding manipulation? i wish i could stop. this probably isn't even the worst i've ever done. it just sticks with me. >If others were severely harmed in some way because of your manipulation, would that matter to you? Why or why not? i don't really know how to answer this because my guilt won't let me. >Have you been manipulated in an as extreme way as you've manipulated others? What happened and how did it affect you? no, i recognize my own manipulative tactics too well. >Do you take pride in manipulating people? sometimes… but reluctantly >Do you feel like emotional abuse is inherently wrong when it is purposefully inflicted? Why or why not? i know it's wrong and i can't stop it. it hurts so many people and prohibits actual natural relationships. i don't ever want it to happen to me. and that's the worst part. i don't really know what's normal. i loved him a lot, and i still do. i'll never tell him about what i did. i've been living like this my whole life - i'm awfully jealous but you'd never let anyone see it. in high school i lied my way through everything - grades, relationships, prestige. like i said - this isn't even the worst i've done. it's just the one i feel the worst about. i legitimately ruined him and he still loves me and i still love him and everything's fine so… was it worth it? sorry for getting all emotional and whatever. like i said… a confessional… i don't have a name for why i do this. i wish i knew what was wrong with me. also worth mentioning (very much so): in high school a boy talked about me and i just cried until all my friends fucked him over super bad. house rolled 6 times in 5 nights, egged 3 times, tires slashed, mirrors broken, and back windshield shattered. this was a long time ago, and i didn't have to do any of it. i was always seen as a very protectable (???) girl so i just… cried whenever i needed something done. i literally feel awful about it now. but again… i can't stop. it's been my way of life for a long time. sorry if this is messy and hard to follow. just typing as i go. you know. Anonymous 06/12/18 (Tue) 09:49:17 PM 807 >>792
I was in a similar situation when I was in HS and the hard truth of what really helped me was being honest with myself and being honest with the people around me.
Being able to not only acknowledge my wrong doings (which you've already done) but change the way I act because of what I have done was super helpful in just getting over myself.
Anonymous 07/29/18 (Sun) 04:48:52 AM 849 >>792
You are/were kind of scary.
Anonymous 07/29/18 (Sun) 01:36:16 PM 850
uUkRWdO.jpg >What's the most extreme manipulative scheme you've completed? I don't know about the most extreme one, but I'll go with this one: I have a lot of my (online and irl) friends' and acquaintances' passwords/credentials without their knowledge and use them to read their personal posts, DMs, really anything I can get my hands on >How did it affect the people involved? I don't think anyone has found out because nobody has tried to change their passwords. I'm trying to use it for good by being there for them when I know they need someone, making myself out to be a great match as a friend because I know all their likes and dislikes and so forth but I know that in the end it's not real. >Would you do it again? Yes, I'm still doing it whenever I have the opportunity to get access to an account >Do you feel guilt manipulating people? Yes but more than anything I'm just afraid of getting caught. >What are your feelings in general regarding manipulation? I think it's really interesting to see how far you can get. But I know that if someone did that to me, I'd feel extremely violated. >If others were severely harmed in some way because of your manipulation, would that matter to you? Why or why not? >Have you been manipulated in an as extreme way as you've manipulated others? What happened and how did it affect you? Not in the same underhanded way, but I've been bullied a lot. It really fucked up my self esteem and now I have an extreme desire to be liked. I want to be everyone's best friend even if I don't particularly like them. I also try to get any guy to like me no matter if I'm attracted to him or not. It works a lot of the time because I'm very aware of the "type" I am and the kind of guy most likely to fall for me. >Do you take pride in manipulating people? Yes. >Do you feel like emotional abuse is inherently wrong when it is purposefully inflicted? Why or why not? It is, that should be obvious. Anonymous 07/29/18 (Sun) 02:04:07 PM 851 >>792
The idea of doing this to people sounds pretty exciting. I wouldn't blame you for doing stuff like that.
Eh, with how little people open up to each-other these days, I'd say your kind of activity is pretty justified. Such low trust warrants it.
Anonymous 08/02/18 (Thu) 02:06:45 PM 855 >>850
I don't understand, how do you get all this login info from people? Are they just giving it to you?
Anonymous 08/13/18 (Mon) 03:50:14 PM 876 >>855
Well, for one thing, don't leave me alone with your computer. Most browsers have an option to show all saved passwords, which I take a photo of with my phone. If I have enough time, I might quickly log into their email address with my phone and delete the suspicious login notification while I'm still able to use their computer, but this is risky. Once I'm in the email account, everything else is just a matter of timing my logins when they're asleep.
If I can't do the email, I just stick to logging into sites that don't notify the user.
Anonymous 08/14/18 (Tue) 11:36:27 AM 878 >>850
eugh, sounds familiar. some people are just not very careful with their passwords and im a nosey person, i suppose… i'm just curious about the personal lives of others
Anonymous 08/14/18 (Tue) 10:18:52 PM 879 >>850
You just encouraged me to change all my passwords, because you sound exactly like my ex friend. He somehow knew everything about all our friends, even though he was a filthy gossip that no one trusted with their secrets. Gross to think he could’ve and probably did go through my emails and Facebook. Hope someone does it back to you both.
Anonymous 08/15/18 (Wed) 01:14:25 AM 880 >>879
Good on you, really. Enable 2FA where you can while you're at it and check if there's any recovery emails set up in your account that you don't know about.
Anonymous 02/10/19 (Sun) 12:42:03 AM 1178
May have tried to groom a young guy to shoot up his school and be first live stream shooting and only stopped as I revealed who my identity was and was no longer anon.
Got trannies to hurt themselves and tried to get a racist pol person on HRT by pretending to date them and sissyfy them but they got scared off when they mentioned suicide and I indirectly encouraged them by wanting to watch it. Scam people of money. Make someone think I was in love with them for months just to hurt them for fun. I manipulated someone slowly by seeding them with the idea they should start using opiate drugs from online and then I started to convince him he should just do heroin as it is more cost effective. I just wanted to see if I could fuck his life up. I scammed some incel guys (they deserve it as I heard they want to roofie womam) >that is off the top of my head I have hurt and played with many people for fun >How did it affect the people involved? hurts my friends the only people I care about so I am ceasing all bad stuff I do >Would you do it again? I hope I dont >Do you feel guilt manipulating people? No not at all but I would never ever hurt a friend or manipulate a friend, I got a friend a gift who left me for a while because I kept trying to fuck with people and she asked if I scammed for it and I did not lie…I never lie to friends. >What are your feelings in general regarding manipulation? >If others were severely harmed in some way because of your manipulation, would that matter to you? Why or why not? I would not care to be honest is what I would say but I am chnaging to be a better person and learning empathy with help of a friend I care about >Have you been manipulated in an as extreme way as you've manipulated others? What happened and how did it affect you? no not at all, only psychological abuse from my mother >Do you take pride in manipulating people? yes some people for sure as I see it as winning. being able to beat psychiatrists at their mental chess is great >Do you feel like emotional abuse is inherently wrong when it is purposefully inflicted? Why or why not? if they are bad people it is ok. I am a garbage human and I am changing and I do not want to be bad. I am not a bad person I just need to change. Anonymous 02/10/19 (Sun) 10:05:06 AM 1179 >>1178
wow. you (were ?are??) terrible. other posters' confessions are just catty but you're just. terrible.
pretty sure this is illegal in most places.
Anonymous 02/10/19 (Sun) 02:08:59 PM 1180 >>1178 >I am not a bad person
you definitely were but at least you're trying to change. i wish you all the luck, anon.
Anonymous 02/11/19 (Mon) 05:07:03 PM 1181 >>1178
Incels deserve it
And nobody who'd shoot up a school because some girl on the internet tells him to wouldn't do it without her input. What I mean is that if you had been enough to convince him to do it, then he would've done it anyway.
Same with the drug addict. Everyone knows drugs are shit, he's still responsible for his own actions.
The only one I feel bad for is the one you led on. You're not that horrible.
Anonymous 02/11/19 (Mon) 06:39:47 PM 1184 >>1178
Wow, that's awful. You're awful the best you can do is it at least stop doing it.
Anonymous 02/12/19 (Tue) 09:02:02 AM 1185 >>1178 >I am not a bad person
You're the worst I've seen in one of these confession threads, and I've seen a lot.
Anonymous 02/12/19 (Tue) 03:05:55 PM 1186 >>1185
Am I just completely desensitized from a decade of chans because I don't think that Anon is the worst I've seen? At least she didn't rape anyone or got anyone to actually harm themselves. Boundaries and morals break down when you're in that kind of environment with anonymity and hostility everywhere. It happens.
Anonymous 02/12/19 (Tue) 08:13:32 PM 1187 >>1186
Yeah I didn't word it clearly. It's not anon in particular, because you see this a lot on gossip sites for example, but the actions with the mindset are… very low tier. Most people try to justify themselves in some way (even if it's fake) but seeing someone openly carefree is a bit different.
Anonymous 02/12/19 (Tue) 10:06:40 PM 1189 >>1187 https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/49109958/#q49109958
not fake, that guy who try expose me was an incel who fell in love with the girl (yes I know it was a girl but you have to LARP as a guy on R9K and discords INB4 I am a male)
I did do it to try help a friend at first.
OP of the thread is same guy I was seeding to take drugs and I even manipulated him to stress I shouldnt be doxxed while I told the girl I had to pretend to be scamming her to my "incel friends" or they would disown me
Incels deserve all the hell they get, stupid guys that ignore other girls who are not stacy.
Anonymous 02/12/19 (Tue) 10:57:06 PM 1190 >>1189
You're a bit confusing here, at least to me.
Anonymous 03/11/19 (Mon) 05:09:19 AM 1216
You are all terrible people…
Anonymous 03/11/19 (Mon) 12:02:08 PM 1218 >>1178 >Make someone think I was in love with them for months just to hurt them for fun
what happened to that guy?
Anonymous 04/10/19 (Wed) 02:39:09 AM 1234
cute animal cat 1.… >>1218
Well I recently talked to them again and decided to be nice to them and I told them 4chan had their info so I had them contact the website to get it removed as pics of them on there were posted when they tried expose me.
Anonymous 04/18/19 (Thu) 02:09:16 PM 1248
Newbie here, as I further read the comments in different threads I get a scary manipulative vibe
4chan is condescending in comparison but I feel anger instead of fear
Anonymous 04/22/19 (Mon) 02:52:17 PM 1262
even though i would feel extreme guilt too, i wish i could manipulate well like you do because whenever something bad happens i just drown in my own sorrow and anger. please teach me how i could do this like how did you fake screenshots without being found out, couldnt he have told the girl that the screenshots were fake, how did you get into his account?
Anonymous 06/05/19 (Wed) 03:40:39 AM 1290
I wish I'd encounter someone horrible enough to justify messing with them. I've been getting bored.
Anonymous 06/12/19 (Wed) 04:57:10 AM 1294 >>1178
actually honestly think you should kill yourself
Anonymous 06/12/19 (Wed) 02:15:20 PM 1295 >>1178
You unironically do not deserve a chance to redeem yourself. You can try, but it will be to no avail. Only death will wipe that slate clean.
Anonymous 06/13/19 (Thu) 02:04:35 PM 1296 >What's the most extreme manipulative scheme you've completed? There was a guy I was dating that went to a different college than I did. He had the tendency to be EXTREMELY insensitive (when my mum was in the hospital, he showed no empathy, but he got mad at me because we couldn't watch Star Wars together), manipulative, and hot-and-cold; he would randomly distance himself from me. I would get breadcrumbs in terms of attention. He would treat me as if he found me disgusting, and that he wasn't attracted to me at all (saying ew when I would attempt to kiss him, etc,) and when I would get sad, or ask if he didn't wanna be together, he'd paint me out to be a pathetic, crazy, insecure person. I realized he had a female friend he went to college with that he'd talk fondly of. I met her. I got a terrible vibe. He started ignoring me FOR DAYS to spend time with this girl. I was hurt. He would rile me up on purpose (admitted to this), and I went full on-psycho at some point. I made a sock-puppet account after some time (to not make it suspicious so soon after I expressed discomfort with this person,) and I pretended to be the girl he was ignoring me for's "Secret Admirer". I began harassing her with anonymous questions on Tumblr, obscuring my identity; using a VPN to hide my IP (they aren't very bright enough to see through those types of things), changing my typing style, cyber-stalking his entire friend circle, and listening intently in on conversations, and when I would give information to this girl as "Secret Admirer," my boyfriend had no clue it was me, as "I" didn't have the information "Secret Admirer" had. It came off as convincing that "Secret Admirer" went to school with them because I knew so much information via cyber-stalking. I began asking her questions like, "I saw you and -My Boyfriend-," and I pretended to be a crazy person that was obsessed with her, and was convinced they were together, and that "Secret Admirer" was jealous because they were in love with the girl. When in reality, it was the guy I was obsessed with. LOL. I copied the typing style of one of his friends I hated, and started giving fake "hints" about my identity, trying to paint it as if "Secret Admirer" was my boyfriend's friend I hated. A scapegoat. I began fishing for information, from the girl about her relationship with my boyfriend, and his entire friend group. Threatened to "bring a knife to school," to scare my boyfriend for lulz, and he contacted the police. His dad is a sheriff, too. I never got in trouble for it. The girl ended up messaging me privately, and admitted to me (for some WILD reason that is beyond my comprehension) that she uses my boyfriend for attention because she knows he has feelings for her, but she doesn't reciprocate them, openly calls him a "pathetic loser," and brags about her social status. I pretended to be impressed, and she went on and on, bragging in the Twitter dms, and theeeennn … >How did it affect the people involved? … I leaked the DMs, and now, HE, and his entire friend group hates her. She was exposed for speaking very negatively of her friends, and for using beta orbiters for attention. After our DMs were leaked, more people came forward and more and more and more DMs were leaked from other people's conversations with her, and she was exposed. Apparently cheated on her boyfriend too? LOL. She had this whole manipulative thot persona exposed. My now ex boyfriend has terrible intimacy and trust issues. >Would you do it again? No. I felt extremely batshit insane, and guilty. I've never told him, and he doesn't have any idea it was me. What's weird is that he lies about the details, pretended that "Secret Admirer" actually came up to him in real life? Maybe he was testing me. My BPD has made me do psycho shit at times, but never really to this degree. >Do you feel guilt manipulating people? Yes. >What are your feelings in general regarding manipulation? Eh. It's wrong. >If others were severely harmed in some way because of your manipulation, would that matter to you? Why or why not? Depends on what they did to me. I can be extremely vengeful. >Have you been manipulated in an as extreme way as you've manipulated others? What happened and how did it affect you? There was a guy that made his living off of blackmail and scamming, was a pedo who pretended to like me when I was 13 years old because he had a plan to get nudes from me, and then blackmail me with them and extort me with said nudes and put me into a child porn sex trade sort of thing. Unfortunately for him, you can't really manipulate a manipulator. Didn't send him nudes. >Do you take pride in manipulating people? Sometimes. I'm very bitter, and I feel better at getting back at people who "wrong" me. >Do you feel like emotional abuse is inherently wrong when it is purposefully inflicted? Why or why not? Yes. Causing pain is usually always wrong. Should always make an effort to see how you caused it, even if you don't see it. I didn't realize I was manipulative for a long time. Anonymous 06/15/19 (Sat) 05:57:49 PM 1298 >>1296
That's a bit intense. Why did you go out of your way to hurt the thot instead of your boyfriend though?
Anonymous 11/18/19 (Mon) 06:30:40 AM 1423 >>1298 >My BPD
Because she is a legit insane person.
Don't try to logically understand what a Bipolar does and never ever believe what they tell you.
It wouldn't even surprise me that much if no person involved did any harm to anyone but her.
Bipolars have that kind of psychotic view during stronger episodes where everyone is evil and deserve what they get by twisting and altering reality so much a healthy person can't even grasp the basics.
Anonymous 11/18/19 (Mon) 07:30:26 AM 1424 >>1423
BPD, or borderline personality disorder, and bipolar disorder are different from one another, Anon.
Anonymous 11/21/19 (Thu) 08:45:07 AM 1426
I manipulated someone into sustaining my neet life and giving me money sex etc for an entire year. I didn't once feel love or even happiness.
Anonymous 12/14/19 (Sat) 05:08:43 PM 1441
This kinda' stuff never works out for the "manipulators" it's some Wile. E. Coyote shit where he always fucks himself over in the end. Grow up
Anonymous 12/20/19 (Fri) 07:49:41 PM 1443 >>1423
You don't even know the difference between Bipolar and BPD. kek.
Anonymous 01/08/20 (Wed) 11:08:37 PM 1461 >>1426
Is it possible to learn this power?