/b/ - Random

can't speak for hormonal IUDs since mine is copper, but holy shit the insertion hurt SO MUCH and the worst part is I HAD NO IDEA IT WOULD HURT AT ALL. First and only time I felt so much pain that I literally thought I was gonna puke and the medical staff was giving me rubbing alcohol to sniff so I wouldn't vomit. I'd still have gotten it knowing that, bc the copper IUD is non-hormonal and im bipolar so I rly dont need the extra mood swings that hormonal bc gives me. I just really wish they had used some kind of local anesthetic, ffs why wouldn't that be the norm, with that level of pain.

Maybe the hormonal ones have less painful insertions than the copper IUD bc they seem to be made out of silicone or something else that is definitely more flexible/able to bend than copper.

Also, the copper IUD gives you longer, heavier, more painful periods. I was told I'd simply get used to it and it would get less pronounced over time, which it hasn't. But as I said, hormonal bc makes me cry for days for literally no reason so I still prefer the physical pain over feeling suicidal for days and days every time I menstruate. Ofc your mileage may vary if your brain isn't defective like mine.

>>267136
copper IUD haver here, can confirm its worth it, but no anesthesia was ever even discussed as a possibility. they did give me prescription ibuprofen like 30 min before but yea, most pain ive ever felt.

the good news is that the pain is not prolonged.

felt like i had to use the bathroom after but I in fact did not really have to

>>268387
lmao my moid compared the feel of recent-IUD-sex to fucking SOUNDING xD i kekd

Mine went in fine it didn't hurt

>>267135
Get Nexplanon, the arm implant instead. Same mechanism, but no one has to shove their fingers up you.

>>270067
… on opposite day. In reality it's the second most visited board after /vg/.

>>270074
t. Loli vtuber

>>270075
No, but I do like some of em.

>>270070
/pol/ and /v/ almost always rank higher than /vt/, abeit not by a great extent

>>270095
Yeah and shooting games cause shootings.

diapernona is my favorite poster now

>>269873
I am trying to work on myself. I’ve gotten a little better with time (I’m not as scared of men for instance) but I’ve had so many bad experiences since my teenage years that it’s going to take a lot to unravel that stuff. Maybe I’ll find a moid who’s actually caring and willing to work through this stuff with me, but from what I’ve experienced, I’m not holding my breath.
I use the asexual label because it’s easier to say that than explain all my issues to people. I don’t like traumadumping on my friends

Too schizo for a relationships and I refuse to take my meds

>>269956
twauma dump on me ;)

>>269956
I understand, yeah. It's good that you're working on yourself and I wish all the best for you. If it helps, there are some good moids out there, you just have to weed through a lot of trash, unfortunately.

>>269519
>that would mean tradfags were sorta right about conversion therapy
I see what you mean…that’s why talking about this stuff is so tricky. I always (pseudoscientifically) thought of it as someone is born with a predestined range of potential gayness but early life experience will determine how gay they’ll turn out. Even if I do not agree with the full “born this way” explanation, it’s useful enough to get nuance-proof idiots to accept it without thinking they can change it.
As far as whether there even is a “gay gene” I think things like antenatal diet of the mother or sperm age or even what >>269374 said is just as likely. Even though it’s technically not “genetic” it’s from that murky conception to birth time so it is something people are born with. Part of the reason that I don’t think it’s just from birth is that I think we’d be able to pinpoint why people are gay by now if it was that simple.

>>269522
The purpose of research that shows that a variety of factors affect sexual orientation is to indirectly prove that sexual orientation is not a choice, no matter how bisexuals try to instill it in everyone.
>>269488
Interestingly, women also change their preferences in appearance types and preferences in sexual activities more than men? If there are only changes in sexual orientation, then it is mysterious.

it definitely can be influenced imo. i think i was 7 when my sister's friend showed porn to us (it was the first time i learned what sex was). we were kids so we obviously found jt disgusting and disturbing, and our curiosity didnt let us just turn it off and forget about it lol. i often wonder how i wouldve turned out if i found out about porn later in life, bc im almost 20 and i still have a slight tendency to percieve sex as something nasty like i saw in porn 13 yeas ago dhsgxhsdh i tried rly hard to develop a normal positive healthy relationship w sex but there's still that part of me that finds it a little disturbing

>>269610
again, the division into active and passive.
>>269604
Most people learn about porn early and it's terrible. I'm sorry that you feel that way.

>>269531
oxychan's whole thing doesn't serve as enough of a warming against this practice to you?

like this isn't 2005. 4chan hasn't been a cool underground site in a long time. you're likelier than ever to meet a legitimate predator looking for a victim like you exactly.

it's blast my music to bother moids with loud cars day

>>269531
It worked for me. You just have to vet people out like you would on any other website.

>>269948
Why 4chan of all places though?

>>269948
ive used soc for years and met some cool ppl on there but few and far between theres so many emotionally damsged ppl with like selfesteem issues, i think dating sites are fucked so 4chan has the appeal of like grabbing the outer rim of society that has a potential for an unclaimed gem, have yet to find it though.

in a big counrty dreams stay with you…

im so bad at talking to men that i seriously started considering going from femcel to fem volcel lately..

>>269605
How can you be bad at talking to men? Most of the time they do all the talking anyway.

>>269606

im scared of men i feel like they all hate me bc im a girl and their energy is always off, so i never feel comfortable to act like myself around them….i just stay quiet and its bc im quiet that they dont wanna talk to me lmao plus i think most of them r a bit stupid and shallow so we rarely have anything in common.

>>269607
I think men and women naturally don't have much in common and we wouldn't even associate if we didn't want sex. Before puberty it's mostly like this, then you start getting horny and it changes. I had zero interest in boys until one day biology forced me. And now I suffer because of it.

>>269609

i agree to an extent. a few of my girl friends have genuine male friends who wouldnt try to persue them sexually or romantically. i met those guys they're actually nice but i still think we have nothing in common. and i have no idea how my friends befriended the honestly?? but yeah i feel like being attracted to men while not being platonically compatible with them is a curse. knowing i have to hang out with a guy alone in order to find a bf just makes me want one even less…

>>268758
Do you think Japanese homosexuals are like yaoi characters?

>>268758
you might actually be retarded

>>268783
they absolutely are not

>>268687
Lmao so does otome, hentai and anime in general you dipshit, btw women hate you.

>>262582
call me pathetic again~

No, the measures of success are arbitrary and cultural. Spite the system and live your life, lil' goblin

Nah, don’t do it. You just need a change of perspective. It’s not easy, but we’ll worth putting in the effort.

No, the world needs losers like you

negatory ghost rider

>>268516
You say the Black Panther movement died 50 years ago. It was primarily known for operating Cop Watches (hard targets, surveilled carefully).
The KKK is still running, still gathers large numbers at public demonstrations, and occasionally still kills people. The Klan was known primarily for bombing churches (soft targets selected indiscriminately).

Really seems like soft targets are the way to go.

>>269795
The klan is half a honeypot and half a sad joke that could never effectively show force anywhere. Not even in the small impoverished towns they still organize. As soon as it stopped being acceptable for political figures to openly be involved (who need I remind you started the klan, there are just endless reasons why the klan is an invalid comparison the more I think about ) they lost power indefinitely.
The klan is a massive failure. Numbers and rallies are meaningless when their project is over.

>>268516
>a movement that died 50 years ago.
You mean a legitimate movement that the CIA infiltrated and destabilized due to feeling threatened?

>>269822
Yes that is exactly what I mean. The movement died when it was killed by the CIA. And then the subsequent aftermath movements were also destroyed quickly after.

>>269824
Pretty much any legitimate leftist movement was destroyed by the alphabet letter agencies. "Leftist" movements these days can barely be called a movement and is why it has shifted from addressing actual problems that affected people such as class consciousness to now idpol shit. It's not tin foiling to say that this has been deliberate and is why we won't ever see actual change as capitalism benefits those in power at the end of the day. The interesting part about the panthers is that they were also advocating for Marxism-Leninism and a lot of other leftist movements during that time advocated for similar beliefs which what the government was actually threatened by. It's crazy once you actually look into this and see the evil shit that the US did to its citizens and other countries and their governments as well.

Tulpas aren't real.

Moved to >>>/x/10390.