/b/ - Random

>>52193
Self defense weapons are illegal in my country, but I feel like carrying in your purse is kinda dumb. Like if someone grabs your purse, they've now got not only your purse, but also your gun. Makes way more sense to keep something like that on your person. At least that's what I'd guess.

I use one of those Eastpak bum bags. Have been using it since 2014 or so, it's still holding up well and I wear it every single day. Best purchase I've ever made. I wear it over my chest like this.

I wear a hip bag I bought off Amazon. It has a second leg strap so it's secure.

>>56525
Pics?

>>56408
Yes, 4 kids in a countryhouse, my husband and some chickens and palmtrees.

>>56429
What kind of job?
>>56522
edgey

>>56534
It's my dream to work with animals in a shelter or aquarium, but as they don't pay much i would be happy with a nice programming or tech support job.

>>56537
What is that? Do you need a degree or preparation for those things, don't you? Animal sheltering and programming look like two completely different things, it's cool.

>>56407
To be heroic and help those around me.

>>56433
i used to fall for this meme. but then i realized i have a ridiculously high sex drive, higher than the men i’ve dated, and it contributed to the tearing of the relationship. of the many factors that contribute to having a happy relationship with someone you love, i would prefer to have my sexual needs satiated, regardless of how much i love a person.

You need to go after those virgins so you can train them to be your personal hitachi

>>56511
Queen tier strategy

>>56459
>>56460
>I have orgasms
>I don't coom
Anon….orgasming is cumming (for women). I'd think a fellow avid masturbator would know this shit.

Squirt is pee. Women don't ejaculate kek.

>>56527
Female ejaculation is real, and you can have an orgasm and not coom. For a sec I thought I was wrong but here you have some proof:
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323953#health-benefits
We can ejaculate too, it goes through the urethra (sounds a bit weird but fun). I get wet in seconds but this is a whole different thing. Of course female ejaculation is something people never really cared about until now. What a surprise.

>>56311
You’re entitled to your shit taste I guess.

Keep in mind these guys are 4chan retards with no concept of context. OP in the image looks like pic related but uglier, I guarantee.

>>56316
anal is only based if I'm doing it to a man

>>56315
what kind of amerigoblin is that?

>>56358
El mullato del criminales con labio muy grande

>>56362
Lol. I still can not wrap my head around on the fact he is litterally yellow. Do americans dip their children in mustard when they are born?

My friend is having issues with trauma and I think she's going to be unable to enjoy life if she keeps accidentally revisiting it without the mental fortitude to face it headlong, not running away.

The problem is that I don't know if there is a consistent and productive way to build mental fortitude. I have a difficult time empathizing because I fear nothing, and channel everything into anger or indifference.

I'd like her to be able to move on and accept that trauma as a stage of her life that is over, but as a relatively healthy individual I don't know how to provide her the tools to do so.

Any ideas?

>>56481
Maybe look into cognitive behavioral therapy. It can be done on one's own or with a friend, and doesn't require any drugs or equipment.

>>56482
This seems like an extremely pragmatic approach, and suits my style.
I picked up "A Modern Introduction to CBT" by Hofmann, I'll see if I can get something useful out of it

>>56483
Good luck! You are a good friend and I hope you succeed

>>56483
Be careful though, sometimes CBT isn't suitable for trauma in particular. It can be helpful in some cases, but sometimes it works to label intense negative emotions as "overreacting" and "irrational responses" etc., while the reason people have these trauma responses is that they needed something to protect and defend them.

It isn't always wise to just disarm these defenses. For example, if a person is in an abusive relationship, or has a tendency to end up with toxic people, she may use CBT to be okay with an environment she absolutely shouldn't be okay with (because it can inadvertently be used to dampen negative emotions). CBT can also just feel invalidating and dangerous for this reason.

>>55325
strong contribution

>>55290
chew

>>37435
Kek

>>56403
I think you're mostly right, but gfd is just vanilla enough for many people in the community to feel like they're morally superior to the rest of BDSM, specifically the parts they personally see as gross. And I guess >>50004 anon is probably a manifestation of that lol.

What's people's opinions on the services available for finding a sub? From what I've seen on the sight it doesn't look like most options are great so I wonder if it would be worth creating our own

>>56950
it might be worth it, but the sheer number of scammers and horny men are extremely costly to regulate. The best ways I've heard from other people are posting a personals on your local subreddit (like the subreddit of your city or something), meeting them through some of the discords (which can be a pain because a lot of them are horny cesspits and usually have using the server for dating as against the rules) through friends, or just a normie dating app with a profile that styles itself seeking a very specific type of guy. Online dating and online kink always seems to attract the worst types of people though, it would be the most ideal to have specific gfd meetups or munches, but I'm unsure that's possible given our small numbers. Maybe some forum or app that organizes people into local regions so they can sort of build a community and eventually have those meetups? That's what usually makes gfd discords so appealing, but everyone is always all over place, and the best communities are all private.

>>56976
If CC did anything it would have to be off site, I do think that considering the high incidence of women here that are into femdom as well as general femcels who struggle to find a partner regardless of kink that people here would appreciate a dating site specifically targeted at them

>>56241
no it's from /mu/

Disregarding the high possibility of this being a bait post.

Are you faggot or something? Does your entire life revolve around your sexuality? Homo or otherwise? Even if you're straight, the implications behind your post imply that you act like a faggot. If the only driving force in your life is the gratification of your sexual urges, congratulations! You're a faggot. One should pursue these things for greater understanding, appreciation, and gratification of one's self. Imagine just sniffing and scuttling around bars like a fucking rat, trying to find some cheesy pussy. Don't get me wrong, I was once like you, acting like a faggot, whose only goal was to satisfy my sexual urges, but after years of getting turned down (because people saw straight through me, much like they do you, or they will eventually), I began to focus on making myself better and just treating people like fucking people. Not like some cheesy pussy to be snuffed out like I'm a fuckin faggot ass rat like you. Since then, I've only dated attractive women, and have had some pretty great random fucks with women that I've met out and about. But was any of that my end goal? Was that the ONLY fucking thing I was looking for? NO, you FAGGOT! I was having fun dancing to some random euro-trash techno on a dance floor in Santorini, and when I saw a cute girl laughing I just laughed with her and asked her to dance with me! The end goal wasn't to fuck, the goal was to have a fun moment and experience with this complete and total stranger! Am I paying my way through school to get some puss puss? NO. I'm paying my way through school so I can eventually pay for the lifestyle I want to live, and if someone happens to come along that shares my view in that regard, then great! If not, no worries! I will still be fulfilled with the accomplishment of my goals and dreams.

Your self-satisfaction and happiness should never rely on someone else. Stop being a fucking cumbrained zombie.

>>56308
For Christ’s sake. I’m getting arthritis in my thumb from scrolling past this post ten times a day

>>56387
Working as intended

>>56387

doki doki..

Nah I'd just go over and fuck him. Guys who care about that masturbation fuel shit don't matter. Only actual skin on skin contact does not a video of you moaning and trying not to be worried he'll upload that shit someday.

Absolutely not.

Sure, I’m a yoga teacher so I work hard to look good so it’s be fun to show off but idk… couldn’t have my face in it and would have to be posted somewhere hard to find

>>56365
>>42978
You could always do so on condition that you get to store and then delete the video file, and you leave ir saved on an encrypted USB that only you know the password to. Depending on how technical your guy is, you might also want to look up ways to make sure the deleted file cannot be recovered. (Programs like bleachbit, what Hillary used to wipe her email servers)

>>41842
>i can't respect or think of someone who's had no experience as, like, a potential partner at all

>>41853
>>if a man sees you as a commodity based on how "pure" you are and how "valuable" you are. that is disgusting

Hmmm

>>56346
There's no point anymore. It was perfectly normal to have insecurities at the start of a relationship.

>>56328
Based.

>>56334
>>56340
But what if he knows I prefer virgin men (bc I'm also a virgin) and he lies to get into my pants?

>>56346
Hum, I see it as the other way around. When you meet someone you don't want to admit secrets so you might give a white lie. When you get closer to someone you might feel inclined to tell them the truth. I know I personally do this with some subjects that I feel are too personal.

>>56355
>But what if he knows I prefer virgin men (bc I'm also a virgin) and he lies to get into my pants?
Just don't let him know, if there's something you want to know about a person you should never tell them which answer would please you more, especially when he's doing all he can to get on your good side you.