Physically, I resemble my father a lot more. Same eyes/nose/lips/eyebrows/hair. Additionally, we have similar voices (at least that we both speak somewhat shyly and quietly, although I inherited my deep voice from my mother). Due to lack of contact with him, I don't have much of a similar personality to him (except maybe being very possessive over my personal belongings)
My personality, ultimately, is unfortunately very similar to my mother's. She can tend to snap whenever she feels some kind of unfairness or low self-esteem. She also has a habit of REALLY assuming negative things about other people, and nonstop saying negative shit about others. It may be to feed her own ego into believing she is the only good person, but I suspect it may be due to her own anxiety that everyone will disappoint her. In some strange ways, she can "turn off" her empathy, and unfortunately I have noticed I can do the same thing in very certain specific situations which maybe wouldn't normally be appropriate. This results in her having a very domineering personality. Regardless of having this beaten out of me, I think I am just naturally an easygoing person which doesn't feel a need to dominate.
I guess hating her somehow keeps me from going off the course of becoming like her, though. I feel like I mostly absorbed the good and positive traits of my mother, and while I did absorb the negative, it mostly sprouted out in other ways (like low self-esteem and anxiety over whether others will treat me bad). I'm not so scared of abandonment physically as I am over emotional abandonment. Sometimes someone staying with you is in and of itself a threat.
>>295927So fucking real lmao, like the average woman is assumed to have a dainty nose and jaw but my face is overall round and with a hook nose lol. Let women be ugly, damn.
>>266575Same lmao. I look like a carbon copy of my stern grandmother, except the dark/tan version.
