>>139959
>7ft tall aryan Chad.
She said at the start she was lesbian, lol
>Chinese
She is too dark to be chinese. She is probably closer to vietnamese.

>>139968
>She is too dark to be chinese
No she's not. She's maybe a bit darker than average for East Asians. The lighting in the video doesn't help and she's probably tanned (unlike many who religiously stay out of the sun for this exact reason). Also, there are Vietnamese (Southern ones actually i.e. not the ones bordering China) who are as light as the lightest East Asians. Gene pools are not determined or limited by territories controlled by states. East Asians themselves range from olive (by European standards) to light brown to brown. They tan easily and darkly as well.

No, she’s the ultimate Stacy. Did you even watch the presentation?

fun fact: the contraceptive pill can change which men you find smell good, meaning you can end up marrying a disgusting scrote and not realize it until you try for a baby

Weird, yet delicious, mix of musk and fine wood. He's also really good at choosing colognes so it's a plus.
But his "natural" smell drives me crazy. I love hugging him in the mornings.
>>139370
I've heard about that and I find it quite scary. I'm glad I've never been on the pill.

seems a little weird, but i recently went to visit my ex (who im still in love with :/ he broke it off when i visited last after being LDR for 2 years) and he smells just.. manly?

its strange. good strange. most dudes just cover themselves in cologne and hope it attracts but he doesn't, and he just smells manly.

to go into more depth, its like a deep smell, kinda musky/sweat smell? its just really fucking alluring ugh

I’m so jealous of people who smell nice naturally. My sweat smells like onions, regardless of my diet. I even tried taking fenugreek as it’s supposed to make you smell like syrup but it didn’t work. My diet is pretty good so I’ve no idea what causes it.

My SO has the same nice musky smell as the others here. It’s funny, I’ve always liked how my partners smell but to them they always think they smell bad. Maybe someone out there will love my onion smell?

>>131264
I wish I had a smelly man to curl up with at night. We can be smelly and hairy together.

>>139371
I'd love to see men wearing coats like pic related again. Or anything interesting at all.

>>139368
No one thinks so however, certain people are going to be reluctant to tell you “go lose weight” or anything to that capacity until you yourself express interest.

Hot men don't have to dress up to be hot
When undesirable men dress up it just makes them look even more undesirable

>>139382
True, but wearing clothing that's a bit revealing isn't "dressing up" it's the opposite.

>>139371
I agree with these hats, we need these hats back

Inb4 everyone says go to therapy

You can do cognitive behavioral therapy on yourself a bit. Talk to yourself as if you were a friend giving advice, explain to your friend-self what the feelings are like, where they are in your body, and what happens to them over time like when they peak and then subside.

Explain to friend-self what the triggers are . Can you avoid them? Can you practice gradual exposure to them in the same way you would treat fear of the dark?

Next, probe deeper into whatever underlying fears there are. E.g if the trigger is a place, what happened at the place? Why did that thing upset you? Does that thing play into some core belief such as fear of rejection or unworthiness? For most people anxiety gets worse as the mental self-talk approaches the core fear.

Once you’ve identified the deepest fear you can, imagine the worst case scenario for that fear coming true. Is it reasonable? If it happened, how would you deal with it? (If this is difficult to figure out, again imagine giving this advice to a friend.) You are more capable of strategizing and overcoming this scenario than anxiety leads you to believe. Next time a trigger happens, lead your train of thought down this strategizing path rather than the catastrophizing path.

Finally, start practicing living in the third person. What this means is that you start observing the feelings and things that happen to you, rather than experiencing their grasp on you. (You can also think of the anxiety as an external force rather than identifying it with yourself.) E.g. instead of “I feel butterflies in my stomach”, think “I notice Mary is having a feeling which is being caused by memories of this place, interesting.” While in the third person you can experience instead compassion and love for yourself. This helps because it seems that emotions of love and anxiety cannot be felt simultaneously. Welcome the anxiety as a guest, allow yourself to feel it, and let it leave when it does. It only has power over you if it is a real part of you. And I’m certain it’s not the real you.

One last thing, expect results in the course of a few months rather than same day. The last thing you want is anxiety about not getting rid of anxiety ;) that’s typically the biggest cause of spirals but also the easiest to snap out of. You got this sis.

I’ll be around if you need me to clarify anything . I’m in the process of purging out traces of my own anxiety, Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>139336
>How do I cope?

I'd first start by recognizing if you actually have an anxiety disorder or just a shitty life(very similar surface level wise). You wouldn't happen to be someone who has middle class income, friends, a college degree, can afford rent and food, has a meaningful hobby, with good physical health, and has a fulfilling relationship, would you?

>>139341
>You can do cognitive behavioral therapy on yourself a bit. Talk to yourself as if you were a friend giving advice, explain to your friend-self what the feelings are like, where they are in your body, and what happens to them over time like when they peak and then subside.
I do this a lot. I havr a narrative running through my head, sometimes I pretend I am talking to myself or just explaining to someone I know. I put a lot of it on paper in a diary, thousands of pages of this.
>Explain to friend-self what the triggers are . Can you avoid them? Can you practice gradual exposure to them in the same way you would treat fear of the dark?
I don't wanna be particular about what I'm anxious over with this date, but it really isn't unavoidable. I am directly exposing myself to this and its got a chance of actual occuring and fucking ke over.
>Next, probe deeper into whatever underlying fears there are. E.g if the trigger is a place, what happened at the place? Why did that thing upset you? Does that thing play into some core belief such as fear of rejection or unworthiness? For most people anxiety gets worse as the mental self-talk approaches the core fear.
Its pretty simple and tangible and rooted in real events.
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Once you’ve identified the deepest fear you can, imagine the worst case scenario for that fear coming true. Is it reasonable? If it happened, how would you deal with it? (If this is difficult to figure out, again imagine giving this advice to a friend.) You are more capable of strategizing and overcoming this scenario than anxiety leads you to believe. Next time a trigger happens, lead your train of thought down this strategizing path rather than the catastrophizing path.
This is good. I do this sometimes to make myself feel better but I feel like if I do things to make myself feel better instead of mentally preparing myself to handle catastrophic events by living out the worst case scenerio in my head, then when it does happened I will be to weak to handle it, or that it will happen simply to spite me.
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>>139352

> I do this sometimes to make myself feel better but I feel like if I do things to make myself feel better instead of mentally preparing myself to handle catastrophic events by living out the worst case scenerio in my head, then when it does happened I will be to weak to handle it, or that it will happen simply to spite me.

Seems like the most work needs to happen here. The point is to actually be prepared for things that may reasonably come to pass, not just cope. Based on your reply it seems a lot of things could come to pass, so it’s not all in your head.

For me as well it was the home situation that induced anxiety. Things I had to be prepared for that actually happened were having my phone stolen, books confiscated, given glares/shouting throughout the day, being told not to play with my siblings since I was a bad influence, and refusal to accept my wedding. I’m not gonna lie, there was a lot more to fixing this than mere coping. You’re right, feeling better only helps somewhat and can blind you to what you need to do in these situations. I had to make all the preparations to leave home at the drop of a hat: saving money, buying a car, reducing possessions to fit in said car, getting my own phone plan…basically avoiding any potential financial leverage my parents could use to coerce me (I was 21). The stuff I said earlier was more how to cope when you’re in the grip of anxiety , but it sounds like you need more preventative measures. Unfortunately having an LDR may not be compatible with your current situation , I’ll leave that to your judgement though.

Couple more tips I forgot, if you want to avoid being weak when the worst comes to pass, the anxiety state of mind is actually counterproductive. Why? It’s not you, it’s a primal fight/flight response. So
1) the earlier you can push down the anxiety feelings the better since it gets harder as you wait. If the feeling is in the early stages, you may have to decide “nope, not going to listen to that passing emotion bc it’s not helpful now. Maybe later”. If it’s getting bad, this is counterintuitive but lean into the feeling. Imagine it has a shape in you and feel every aspect of it as if it felt good. This oddly enough can cause the bigger pains to subside; they are like those optical illusions that are present at a distance but fade when you gPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>139341
A lot of low level therapists just sit there in silence anyway and let you talk yourself around to a solution. You might as well save your money and just do it yourself, with some selfhelp books to guide you in the right direction.

>>139209
I do not care. They're not the threat to women that trans identifying males are, and gay men can protect themselves so they're annoyances at best and women who encourage other women to hate themselves at worst.

>>139254
Pretty sure this is a terf drawing but you're spot on about their own community hating them, tims are extremely misogynistic towards tifs and claim they have male privilege lol. I feel bad until I remember they allow that treatment and then turn around and tell radfems to kill themselves when they try to defend them. Can't help someone who refuses to be helped.

>>139314
It’s not a terf drawing it’s from /lgbt/ which is mostly by self-hating transwomen

>>139209
It is truly a tragedy every time one of them does those drastic and irreversible changes to their bodies and ends up killing herself.
As much as I hate all trannies, TiFs dying somehow gives me an angry-sad-pity feel instead of relief when a TiM kills himself. Perhaps because I believe they could have done so many things like being an advocate for, say, affordable child care for single mothers. But instead, she ends up in the gender cult and kills herself in the process.
With TiMs, as the meme goes:
>and nothing of value was lost.
They would still be incels if they "detransitioned" either way; you cannot take the misogynist out of the man, LMAO.

>>139299
Girls don't need any more influence for them to become trannies than there already is.

Something to hug. I usually cuddle with picrel but soft pillows also do. I think it stemmed from my childhood when I loved Mickey Mouse a lot and always hugged my Mickey Mouse pillow. Now, I can't sleep without anything in my arms. It just feels so wrong and empty.

>>139350
Me too. Sometimes when I’m visiting friends or on vacation I have to gather the blanket in my arms so that I’m hugging something or else it’s so hard for me to fall asleep.

- fan on during the summer
- pillow between my legs. pillow to hug, pillow behind my back
- memory foam pillow for my head since my neck/shoulders get sore without one

>>139332
Thunder rain and lightning are such a perfect bonus and so is cold like 64 degrees.

I can't sleep when someone in the room is talking, when the tv is playing, any lights, or if it's too humid/the air isn't fresh in the room, also when it's too hot or it's cold but I don't have a blanket. Other than that I can sleep just fine.

>>139021
what is wrong with aggressive? you should be ashamed of it. i wish more women on here were aggressive honestly

>>138929

ngl OP if solitude is so important then why are you even on here?

>>139121
aggression towards moids is based. directing your anger at other women reflects poor emotional control.

>>139326
some people don't listen unless you're an asshole sometimes too. because everyone tells them what they want to hear. i don't believe in coddling women just because they're women.

>>139357

not being aggressive =/= telling someone what they want to hear

Girltalk

Wintery :3

>>139066
Same I need my themes dark or else my eyeballs burn

Wintery, it's very soothing to my eyes.
I love Girltalk too, but I'm unable to use it because the color contrast between the text bubbles and the background is very low for me, so everything looks like a single long text

>>139064

Me until just now! Nice!

I'll have to remember to switch over to Autumn Light and Halloween for October. Really like it.

>Pretending it's the early days of the internet
>Talking like it's the 00's
Ah, youngins…

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Also very nice

>>139262
I miss her art every day of my life sisters

>>139263
did something happen to her?