Have you been professionally diagnosed with ADHD or internet diagnosed?

>>64649
That doesnt even matter, doesnt matter if i use the term adhd or not, i keep focusing on the wrong things and cant keep my mind off them and need something to control my brain

>>64653
It really does because internet ADHD diagnosis doesn't get you access to Adderall (legally).

>>64655
this. used to be in the same position as OP, making excuses but then I put the work into getting a diagnosis and now I understand my symptoms better. also doing speed obviously helped.
>I have the fucking mindset but I just can't do it
then you don't have the mindset stop lying to yourself

I accepted that I am special, therefore I am.

>>64644
I'm a schizo but I gout through university.

>>64644
>hiki
>school year
choose one

>>64674
You can be intelligent and schizophrenic, for the most memey example there's Terry Davis. As, while he may have been batshit insane, he wasn't stupid.

I am in a similar situation, except I'm not going. I refuse to go.

>>64665
>>64663
Ok valid i understand

>>64702
Same but bro what are you gonna do when they start forcing


>>64677
I don't understand what you don't understand,i haven't stepped into school or work stuff since 17

>>64673
maybe you have a very superficial view of it all, or you simply developed a fear of compromise.

>>64673
The cause could be you have unreasonable ideas of what a relationship is from movies, shows, games, or your own imagination and reality can never live up to your expectation, so you have all these high hopes and a craving for a relationship, but then when the opportunity is in front of you, you realize it isn't like how you imagined so you back out. Have you ever been in a relationship before?

Maybe the guy who showed interest in you just wasn't your type? Being interested in romance doesn't mean being interested in every single person who tries to romance you. Try finding a guy who interests you more and making the first move yourself.

>>51183
do you consider yourself sex positive?

>>51364
I dunno, gut dysbiosis can make people behave in some pretty insane ways

porn ruined an entire generation of men

>>51183
Gave me unrealistic expectations, made it harder for them to enjoy actual sex, and made it harder for men to empathize with women.

>>64705
Gave men*

>>64566
are you disabled, anon?

>>64577
both

>>64513
The thing about loli/shota drawings is that, yes, they're not real, so you can draw them. However, if you're drawing/consuming drawings of underage children then there's something fucked in your head.

>>64566
Hate to break it you there pal but 20-25 is just as much of a kid as a 16-19 year old…..

>>64634
Hate to break it to you, but anyone beneath 30 might as well be a fetus.

I fucking spilt a tray of rainbow sprinkles as I was walking on my very first day on a job

>>64490
I was the exact same way, here is that I did.
slow, deliberate action - you need to practice.
also, work out. nothing insane, just do push-ups/sit-ups on a yoga mat.
knock it off with the caffeine, Starbucks is literal poison.

>>64490
My coordination is so bad I got diagnosed with an actual medical disability. So I just use that to make people feel bad if they make fun of me.

>>64527
I second working out. It's done wonders for me in terms of getting more coordinated and aware of my body and just being more graceful in general. You can also go to youtube and search up exercises for coordination specifically, or look for dance workouts. Do them very slowly at first if you need to, but you should see improvement and be able to do them more quickly if you do them consistently.

Sorry anon. Stage 4 stuff usually means they dont have much time. I would say spending all the time you can with him before he passes. Take lots of videos and pictures so you never forget him.

Unfortunately there is nothing to do but enjoy what little time you have together. If there have ever been things you wanted to tell your father or questions you wanted to ask him, do it now while you still have the chance. Once he's gone, he's gone. Enjoy him while he's here. Mourn once he's gone.

Fill him with love. Kisses, hugs. Not doing that with my mom in her final moments is my biggest regret.

Cook or bake something for him maybe, I'm sure he'd be happy about that. I'm sorry I can't give better advice, I wish him and you well.

>>64581
Best thing you can do is to just be with him.

Do you have a therapist

Some things you cant simply talk to your bf/friends about, you need a professional who knows how to help. After a certain point imo it’s unhealthy to depend on normal people for all your emotional support if you have issues like this

He sounds a bit obsessive, best just not tell him things that will upset him.

thank you all for your replies! I came to conclusion I will attempt recovery, this time for real.

>>64465
18 and I don't think he tries to manipulate me, he just really loves me and cares about me.
>>64471
I don't just talk about it for no reason, mostly it's him who starts the conversation because he noticed I lost weight or just don't look well.
>>64466
I know he tries to support me. I just don't want my problems to become his and I feel hopeless because I don't know how to stop. Now that I'm motivated to recover I feel it might be easier.
>>64468
I'm trying to tell him how it's not his fault and I know he doesent feel like he caused my problems. I sure will try to reasure him more often!
>>64470
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>>64471
I have a therapist and I don't feel like I just vent for no reason. He's the one who starts the conversation. I try to tell him I'm fine but it's obvious I'm not when all of my clothes are way to big because of weightloss.
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>>64483
>Just really loving and caring
It seems like this, but if he can't separate your problems from his it will eventually start consuming him and he'll start to be angry with himself and it might reflect negatively on relationship. It's his emotions so it's his problem, but you should probably keep in mind he's like this and 'spare him'.
If he's ruined a "boy's night" because of your message his friends won't see him as caring or loving, but as a little bitch and eventually they'll get tired of him, and he will get tired of himself.

>>64464
Are you sure it's just your ED? I have met several persons with eating disorders and they always had some bigger issues like personality disorders, and the ED was just the icing on the cake

>>64328
>>64330
OP again, I guess an example is I want a picture of us together but I don't want to be the annoying girl who asks for selfies so I just drew us on a sticky note and keep it around my room

>>64323
It's alright to just say, "I don't want to do this." If he's a cool guy he'll understand. Don't be afraid to invite him, if he doesn't like it that's just being human

Hissing speaks louder than words and lets anyone annoying you be reminded that you are the alpha female.

>>64353
Oh yeah i think i get what you mean. You need more practice taking up space and voicing your needs/wants. There’s nothing wrong with having a request/wanting to do something. If someone makes you feel like “the annoying girl” for wanting to do fun stuff then they’re the problem. I used to be the same way, and still kind of am sometimes. I guess as you get older you stop giving as much of a shit. It takes practice but eventually you’ll grow a thicker skin.

>>64353
>hey can we take a picture together?
>sure
Its that simple, try to stop overthinking so much