>>70333
>cant tell them about trauma that bothers you
whats even the point???

>>70333
therapy isnt a solution to everything

>>71076
BPD is actually treatable via therapy (DBT) and has a pretty respectable recovery rate

>>70300
Based. i'd also add don't perform femininity and don't have children. Seriously, not having children might be one of the best choices you can make as a woman

>>70333
>yeah yeah therapy will fix all your issues bro you just gotta learn to be normal its sooo easy
Spoken like a true neurotypical.
What are you even doing on imageboards?

If you're from a third world country like I am, I don't think it's all that irrational to hate your local moids.
As much as western patriarchy sucks, it's nothing compared to "developing nations".

I can't describe the local moids as anything else but "wanting a surrogate mommy and a slave all at once". In fact, one of my classmates and a former friend is in a relationship with a quite disgusting moid, who driven by his third world primitive morals, disallowed her from hanging out with her friend circles, because moid insecurity about cheating and so on. This is considered normal here.
The sad parts, he's like a head above the average moid here, in that he has a good job, a car, is completely independent, etc. In comparison, it's normal and expected of moids here to live with their parents til their late 20s.

Shortly after she got involved with him, she became completely socially isolated, which also means she lost her support network. Typical insecure moid behavior, cutting of girls from means of escape from their clutches.

Is it normal to be racist towards your own ethnicity, but only when it comes to males? I feel weird saying this, but males of my own ethnicity disgust me for all the aforementioned reasons.

"The stronger sex" my ass. Completely coddled by their parents, while girls here have to try twice as hard to get a good career, because the only alternative is being married off to a retarded moid who lives off his family.
I hate this country.

>>71137
I'm from eastern europe and yeah it might not be as bad compared to some places but it's pretty much exactly how you described it here
what also repulsed me is how much more vulgar our language is compared to english so whenever I hear a moid open his mouth 80% I wanna kms
I don't think I have ever found a moid from my country attractive (aside for like models etc but that doesn't count)
but western euro moids treat eastern euros like shit too (experienced this myself) but at least they're (supposedly) less likely to beat me to death so there's that I guess

>>71138
I supposed its 2ch? If so - you never used it before, but prefering foreign imageboards?

>>71140
nah I'm not Russian
it was a shitty board that's supposedly the most active in my country but even lc has more activity in comparison kek
but yes I prefer english speaking imageboards

>it wasn't anything I haven't expected or seen on 4ch but for some reason reading all this shit in my language made me irrationaly angry and disgusted
Well the fact that you realize those moids might be living near you and are saying depraved shit might play a role.

I’m having a lumbago, and I can’t wipe myself in the toilet. I’ve been holding my shit for days, and I rinse my piss off with water. It’s fucking stupid, and this is like 6th time this year. Probably have to kms when I get old and it becomes chronic, because I can’t even sleep without the pain waking me up every few hours now, it’d surely will be even worse in my 50’s.

>>71121
I know. I just don't understand it.
Seeing vodka bottles stashed around the house whilst having no food in as a child just really fucked me up. Provide for your children first.

>>71123
Use the showerhead to clean yourself. Have you seen a physio?

>>71104
I used to feel this way but without snow it's just not the same

>>71128
Showerhead gets the front rinsed all fine, but I’m paranoid about not getting to use paper to make sure the backside’s clean.
I have seen one, but there’s not much to do except gymnastic exercises, once the worst days are over.

>>71048
I guess I expect too much from an app that focus on hookups. I expect some more effort before giving contact info, mostly because I've had bad experiences with online stalkers

>>71049
Have you tried Okcupid/Bumble/Hinge?

>>71047
>>71049
What kind of messages did you send?

>tfw dyke
>look for women on dating apps
>Full of trannies, couples looking for a threesome, married bicurious, plain ol straight dudebros, woke enby qweer genderspecial women and obvious catfish/bots
>tfw probably going to die alone
Feels bad

>>71097
Tried OkCupid and I while it looks better than Tinder, here in my country people don't seem very active there. Bumble was the same
>>71106
I guess you meant when I was the one starting the conversation. I usually asked something about their bio, interests or something in a pic. Some guys had pics doing outdoors activities so I asked if they have ever been to X place or something like that. Still, no luck.
I think it's mostly because the type of guy I like try those apps, doesn't have much success and after a couple of days-weeks they uninstall the app.

Either post lots of photos and use lots of hashtags to get randoms following you or only post one pic and make it look like you just don’t use the account much.

Snapchat is dead among normies. I think they mostly use Tiktok or Instagram now. Or if you don't want to use it but feel left out just wait a few years, the older I get fewer and fewer people I know are posting on social media, a lot of their profiles are dead now.

>>71069
I'm not sure why people keep saying this, I and a handful of friends, old classmates, and coworkers still use snapchat. I'm not sure if maybe it just depends on the type of person you are or what. I do notice people using it less as they get older, but that was a small handful of friends out of the 20 or so who still use it.

Anyways I think Snapchat is only as good as the friends you have that use it. Instagram for example I can make internet friends/mutuals on, same with twitter, but I feel like snapchat is strictly something for people I know directly, or I'd have to meet the person I'm adding online somewhere first.

I think making friends on social media is similar to making friends in general, whatever you do you just have to be consistent. Regularly commenting on a post, seeing other people in the comments and checking out their profiles and following them, commenting on their stuff, etc.

I think you should re-consider if you really want to get on social media. Social media is a cesspit, everything about the apps is calculated to make you addicted and all it's content is made to make you feel insecure. Most people are better off without social media in their lives and it'd be easier to just continue not having it.

Why not just NOT use it?
I never used social media to post about my own life and it was never a problem around my friends. You can use it to follow them and like their pics, but there is no need to be an active contributor.
If you feel like you're missing out on their conversation just download TikTok, literally all the normie memes come from there and spread into other social media.

>>70870
>>70872
We actually had coffee before and it was a pretty nice time. He never tried to break the touch barrier but paid for my coffee. He even hinted at taking me to the zoo some time when we had to split up for class.
>>70875
Really? He didn't seem the type but then again I wouldn't be able to tell one from a glance.
>>70887
Okay

>>70861
>he sat beside me and slipped me a note
you need to be 18 to post here

>>70930
Stuff like that happens in college. I knew a guy who asked a girl out by throwing a paper airplane with a note at her from a higher floor.

>>70894
Okay now that im thinking about it, im getting really anxious about seeing him again when the next semester starts. What if i say tge wrong thing that fucks up our friendship or turns him off me??

>>70955
Just relax and be your normal self because obviously he likes the normal you

>>70873
Well every relationship will eventually lose the infatuation/honeymoon/whatever you want to call it spark it just has to develop into a more meaningful form of love. Don't know your situation but just don't expect that any relationship will have you feeling infatuated forever.

>>70876
somebody just finished reading the stranger

>>70896
Tell me why it isn't then.

>>70896
lmao

what's with men having autistic spergs about women being lonely and having full on incel meltdowns while pretending they aren't incels?

based moid meltdown

seethe more you waste of genetic material

>>70408
>being rejected for wanting to wait
it is always better to be alone than to settle for someone who pressures you into sex. DO NOT SETTLE!!!! that being said, sex is an important part of a relationship and we do need to consider the other persons sexuality here because relationships are a 2 way street. for any hope of a peaceful and lasting partnership, you need to have at least started on the path to becoming comfortable with your sexuality… it will take a while and if you need your moid to wait for you, a good moid will. but it isnt right to keep him waiting forever. it wont work.

>>6873
begone tradthot

OP are you still around? curious if your outlook changed at all.

I wasn't sexual until at least 20-21. Before that point I just wanted a shoujo manga style relationship, cute handholding and cuddling and kisses and emotions. I had a relationship as a teen but eventually he wanted to touch my tits and finger me and I was so uninterested. He tried to get me to touch his dick and I was like "whoa ew no sorry" and then like two weeks later he broke up with me

I thought I was asexual but suddenly that changed in college. I don't know what happened but one day I woke up and was like "yep ready to fuck, time for some dick"

Seems like a fair amount of late bloomers in here too

>>68703
No guy on Earth will stay in a relationship with you without sex, and if he does he's probably got a few screws loose. The only "exception" are religious ones that are willing to wait for marriage. Outside of that you can tell he loves you through his actions. Also, if he's waaay hotter than you it's pretty much a guarantee you're a temporary thing.

>>68703
Wait until marriage to have sex. The only he has to stay in a relationship with you and then propose, without sex, is if he loves you for who you are.
It's a very simple and effective filter.

While religious guys are more likely to wait, the reasoning behind waiting is independent of religion. It's hard but possible to find guys who understand and value the ideal of monogamy for life.

jesus christ you people are bitter
if he loves you he'll want to be around you and talk to you regardless of how you look. my dad always wants to sit closest to my mom, talk to her, watch movies with her, etc, even when shes wearing gross cleaning clothes. if he only wanted you for sex he wouldnt care about your thoughts outside of sex

As long as he treats you like an equal human at all times. Mine has every reason to leave me, but he gives me chance after chance. He must love me to put up with my shit, kek

A pretty good way to know that is by how he reacts when you propose things that don't involve sex and how he behaves after sex. Does he try to come up with any excuse if he thinks it won't lead to sex? If he just want sex, he will try to avoid any activity that won't lead to sex and probably will propose something else that gives him a chance to have sex.
How does he behave after sex? If he doesn't show any sign of affection or doesn't try to talk, and he just avoids anything after sex, wants to leave or inmediatly falls asleep, the chances are that he doesn't care much about you besides sex.

Besides that there are other things that you can notice. Does he actually listen to you when you're talking? Does he care about your well being? Does he always tries to include you in his plans? Does he propose activities that don't involve sex? Those are good signs

>>70732
No, and I feel bad now that I read my post because it does give that impression. I won't disclose a lot because it owuld make me sound like a schizo but I'm afraid of being attacked by a specific person.
I'm not depressed but I do identify with the >>70733 anon on being scared of death for myself and the rest of my family. I quit exercising outside and am considering dropping out of college because of the things that can happen if I go out.

>>70693
it's serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin and healthy relationships
if you don't have at least 2 of these, your brain gets fucked

>>70806
brb googling how to inject serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin into my body

>>70806
>Stimulants
>Masturbation
I'm all set

>>70856
Masturbation makes me more depressed tbh. It's not the same with you?