/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>very attainable low 6 digit salary rolling through!
yes women do this job aswell

>>124044
Idgaf im learning how to code from scratch though i dont want a corporate job

>>124073
truck companies with dangerous goods like to hire women because they are less risky drivers

>>124149
I drove trucks and can second this, It's great money if you're okay being alone most of the time and putting in effort to eat proper food that isn't from the truck stop. I fought hard to resist all the ready made delicious slop kwiktrip/Loves/FlyingJ had to offer, if you don't you'll look like a greasy man after a year.

>>124262
Forgot to mention stay away from armored trucking, that whole industry is a shitshow and you will be misreble from the horrible working conditions if you go into it.

>>124239
What's so awful about it?

>>124238
idk if these people truly will ever be capable to live as normal if they have gone as far as to take multiple lives, not even one.

there are many instances where law enforcement failed to take action on people who exhibited criminal and violent behavior, which led to bigger, worse crimes

>>124241
Plenty of people live "as normal" after having killed people. Consider people who have fought in wars, or even the people who participate in trials in which people are sentenced to death. Plenty of murderers have continued to live normal lawful lives after having not been caught. Systemic and institutional murder is significant as well.
There's nothing out of the ordinary suggesting that this guy will commit similar or worse "crimes" in the future. If you're truly worried about inaction against people who may commit bigger, worse crimes, you should turn your attention to protected classes who commit some of the worst crimes in society who remain unpunished.

>>124242
>protected classes who commit some of the worst crimes in society who remain unpunished
like murder? I agree, it should be punished, because getting off easy after ruining someone's life isn't a good look.

>>124241
Glad we can at least agree on something.
That said, I don't think I would consider murder a form of life-ruination. Both can be bad, but they are not the same thing. Of course, they are also not mutually exclusive.
In general, life-ruination is perhaps one of the biggest crimes, imo. I think people should strive to reduce suffering in the world.

>>123681
Making laptops thin and lightweight brought us here. An extreme example is the 2015 macbook that one that introduced rose color scheme and in a later iteration the butterfly switch keyboard that was btfo by mere dust. Corporations hid their ill intentions you mentioned under the guise of thinness and people fell for it. Think about the thin smartphones that were bent because people had them in their pockets and sat on them

>>123684
>under the guise of thinness and people fell for it

yeah. the manufacturers act like they are innocent and were merely trying to reduce the size and weight of the load the poor students had to carry in their backpack. that's not all they were doing.

i love how my old laptop battery type does not use pouch cells and instead has the round 18650 typical battery shape. i have seen so many pictures of pouch cells being swollen.

>>123363
You asked lmao
Why are you so angry?
>>123684
>>123717
Are you guys unaware that you don't represent the majority of consumers? Normies want "big screen" and "thin computer" and nothing else. They will just buy whatever gives them the most social points.

Framework is neat, but at the end of the day, it's just more gimmicky consumer-junk designed to be a fashion statement. They're just appealing to "tinkerers", because they realized that people LARPing as computer nerds are an unexploited market. For example, their desktop line is an absolute joke.

There's more to "repairability" than just being able to take it apart and buy parts (albeit that is a big hurdle for some products). Framework laptops are "repairable" but at the cost of a greatly overpriced ecosystem (For the cost of one of their laptops you could've bought multiple old thinkpads, for example) and there's more to repair-ability than just being able to take it apart and having the company sell you spare display hinges. The build quality is supposedly pretty mediocre, especially for the price. You're also fucked for spare parts when the company inevitably keels over because their volume is shit compared to something like IBM or Lenovo which shit out millions of thinkpads for enterprise use which can all be cannibalized for parts and the Chinese factories keep making off-brand spare parts because they have a ton of tooling and leftover stock with loads of demand for parts from nerds with thinkpads. That said, for what it's worth, framework is certainly doing better than something like ARA/Phonebloks.

I realize that a lot of the "right to repair" shit has people dogpiling against modern consumer electronics which are difficult or impossible to open up with firmware that refuses to accept new parts, but the solution to that isn't a violent reaction in the other direction, but to reform product demand. People love to shit on manufacturers because they think "the consumer" is people like them (individuals, home users, etc.) but the real force behind the "thinner and lightweight" trend is enterprise users. It is the "big companies" at fault, but it's not the manufacturer; it's the procurement bPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>124016
I’m not reading this all

>>122991
nona why are you being so hostile to everyone ITT

I'm not a tech wizz by any means but it kinda sounds like it could be faulty components and you should try testing to see if your pc will work without a video card or with a different psu etc

^
Try taking out your OS and running through the components one at a time until you get to BIOS. Start with the RAM. That sounds like it would be the culprit. Take one out and try booting, if the problem persists try the other one. If that doesn't fix the problem start replacing components one at a time until you get some signs of life. I doubt it has anything to do with the CPU, those things are super durable. Just my process, you're on linux so you almost definitely know more about these things than I do.
Good luck and please give updates!

>>124183
I tried to boot into the bios in all sorts of ways but it didn't do anything. I tried swapping out the drives too, same thing.

Additionally I scanned the whole system for malware but didn't find any. I ended up wiping the Linux drive just in case.

I fixed it! I ended up reseating the ram and fixing the Linux system and it works like new now!

>>124097
How are people real. Anyways >>124103 is obvious

>>124103
>>124106
He is trying to get into her head to eventually fuck and destroy her and it seems that asshole is starting to get a grip on OP. This >>124104 is where OP fucked up first. Never drop your guard. Her second fuck up was not immediately leaving after the guy showed his true colors. There is no use in arguing or trying do understand moid trash

I don't wanna be that person but maybe don't take the comments from a guy who is presumably tried to hook up with you despite being at least a decade (probably two) older than you. Like this isn't the guy you should base your entire perception of men off of. He's just a creep.
Look the fact that a decent amount of guy have tried asking you out show they your not considered "ugly" by them. If they just wanted a hookup they'd use a dating app or actively go for a girl who is known to be easy, not, you know, a girl in a committed relationship like yourself. Your probably a decent looking girl nona it's just that the guy whose opinion your taking so much stock in is a creep.

>>124097
Ick.
If I were you I wouldn't EVER offer to be friends with a man like that. One who asked you out randomly and doesn't know you, because they probably arent interested in friendship and think they can redeem their chance. Also, men with bruised egos can be DANGEROUS. Dont go out with strange men.

He might've said that to make you feel bad for rejecting him. Like men when rejected will say something like "whatever, ugly bitch, i wouldnt fuck you anyway".

Something similar happened to me. I was at work and some old dude asked me when I got off. I said "why do you ask?" because I didnt wanna be rude but also I would never tell a man when I get off. He said he was joking.

He then told me about how he asked a "homely" girl the same thing because he felt bad for her because she was ugly. She told him when she got off and he said hed be waiting outside. Apparently the girl got mad and said "dont you dare!" or something. And he said he was like "jeez, I was just kidding".

>>124097
Why does it matter to you what they think?
Moids who see you as meat will stop trying to date you if you make it clear that they won't get you without a massive investment of time and effort. Just make them do that and you are set.

4chan guild in a MMO

Hinge

>>122454
I met my husband many, many years ago when we were both 8 or 9 years old. We had recently moved in and his family was visiting the old lady next door who turns out was his grandmother and things started when he accidentally kicked his ball over our garden fence. I was just in the garden playing on my swing set. His little head popped over and smiled at me and said hi, he asked for his ball back and then invited me over to play with him. Turns out we were the same age but he lived around an hour away which was why he only appeared on weekends and spent the entire day at his grandmothers.

Every time he visited from then onwards I'd get excited when I saw their car or he came to knock on our door inviting me to play. In the summer we'd ride my bike around the neighbourhood and through the park, we shared ice creams, climbed trees, fed ducks at the parks pond and in the winter we built snowmen and igloos.

I quickly became infatuated with him. Looks wise he was nothing special back then, he even had a goofy haircut that looked like he lost a fight with a pair of scissors but his radiant personality and boyish charms more than compensated for his looks. I found him to be friendly, outgoing, caring, kind, excitable, sporty and above all else considerate. He encouraged me in our games and never got impatient or mad. He used to hold my hand a lot. Originally it was only when crossing the street because I wasn't allowed to cross by myself, but then whenever we were walking to the park or to the shop to get drinks or snacks he'd extend his hand and I'd take it.

Then, one day he stopped coming over. Turns out his mother had a really bad argument with his grandmother and they stopped visiting her. It really hit me hard because unbeknownst to him, he was my only friend. I didn't have any friends in my school and was being bullied pretty badly. Our playtime on the weekends got me through a lot of rough weeks at school and even after he stopped coming over the memories and things he'd said to me allowed me to just about brush off the childish and mean insults the kids threw at me. I figured if he liked me and he liked playing with me and he thought I was cool then anything they said were just stupid lies. I clung to those memories and even on really, really rough days I'd remember zooming down hills with him on my bike or him cleaning up a graze onPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>124038
So Beautiful.
Thank you for sharing that story.

>>123649
"haha we met on online gaming" which is somewhat true since it was on a thread looking for gaming buddies

>>123583
tranny hands typed this……

>>123583
I hate the pickme girls that just drag other girls for existing. It's so common in NYC wannabe socialite circles…I unfortunately was friends with a few and they went full crazy.

>>123583
you’re already a man though

>>123583
Troon

moids
1/4 of girls are molested or SA victims. How is nothing done about this? If 1/4 of cars exploded there would be a massive nationwide recall

>>123693
This is how a lot of moids act nona. They silent breakup so we have to break up with them and they feel ok. Moids today are disgusting and have zero sense of accountability. When this happened to me I wrote a really long letter and broke up with him and then he kept apologizing like a madman. I didn't take him back and now I am with a much better moid who does treat me like a human being.

Women need to stop wasting their time with these moids who play games.

What kind of things does he do that would constitute abuse nona? You should keep a tally and confront him about it.

Men do this all the time. When they dislike their s/o they'll just start torturing her with no remorse. I wish a lot of suffering upon him, maybe you could do it. Why don't you drug him or something?

Fuck his father

I hope he fucking kills himself

Save yourself nona

Save yourself and leave that man

Brr Brr Patapim

>>124015
Move back to israel?

>>124015
Assuming you're just a girl with a bigger nose it really isn't a big deal, yes that beautiful boy with the beach bod running female firmware wont be eagerly approaching you unprompted. But if you get out there and get to know people on a personal level you may find a guy you never knew could exist. Happend to my older sister who inherited my parents huge noses (stereotypical italian nose). They simply got to know each other and fell for each other over time at work. They've been married 10 years now. Now I hate a moid like you wouldn't believe but I hold out hope that I'll find one that actually talks and connects. Good luck, for me I'm an introvert unlike my sister so I doubt I'll ever interact with the few non terrible men that exist.
>>124027
thanks for visiting and giving your sage advice /pol/fag, please exit through the gift shop.

Your Proboscis Is Beautiful

>>124077
No one makes fun of trump for dating a gold digger, though.

>>123286
>When people have an effectively unlimited dating pool and casual sex is normalized, sex and relationships become increasingly cold and transactional and the basic standards of inter-personal intimate behavior change and/or vanish.

It's not just a problem with men either, sadly enough. Between cheap and effective birth control and medical treatments for STDs, social atomization and increasingly relaxed sexual mores, women can and do reward this kind of behavior as much as men do - what is the incentive for delayed gratification when instant gratification is all of a tinder match away? This leads to a mutual increase in bitterness as women perceive men (even the ones who don't practice this lifestyle) as being cheaters and emotional cowards only interested in sex and men view women (ditto) as whores. And for the unstable or immature, these same factors make cheating and/or bailing on relationships trivial because the supply of easy sex remains.

And again: this basically didn't exist ~20 years ago. Smartphones changed everything and everyone is now suspect until proven otherwise.

>>124091
Tinder has, like, 8 million US users out of its 72 million young adult population. (many of them never using the app for real probably) People grossly overestimate how much of a grasp dating apps have on society for some reason. If anything zoomers are having sex less and less.

That said, I'm not sure OP stated where she meets her men, so maybe this is true for her.

>>124092
>If anything zoomers are having sex less and less.

This is an observable fact, and in general, society is way less sexualized than 15, 20 years ago. People just percieve otherwise because it is easy to look at porn on your phone and because they grossly overestimate how many people use tinder, onlyfans and so on.

>>123286
Men don't want you to be much much more. They want you to be their servant. They want to impregnate every woman they see (yes, all of them) and they want to keep 'the best' around as domestic servants.

99% of them can't do that, but they all get as close to that ideal as possible. You choose where on the scale of 'too much of a loser to pump and dump' and 'chad enough to pump and dump' you wanna land.