/feels/ - Advice & Venting

So lately Ive had terrible events happen in my life, such as being in huge grief and going through a tough break up and losing my career.
And I have this particular friend in which he offered to comfort me and be there for me when everything is down, but he has been nothing but judgmental of my pain, and telling me how all the pain ive been experiencing is a stupid thing and that I am dumb for feeling this way.

He created a fantasy in our friendship in which he fuels for his own good and it makes me uncomfortable, but If I dare to end it, he will get extremely mad and act like I am in the wrong.
I know he will spread that I’m a bad person once I end it but I honestly need to protect my peace first.
How to deal with such situation nonas :c

>talking about brian kohlberg
>don't believe in the death penalty, don't believe in SA
>bf mad at me
>says i should, mad that if someone did something to him i wouldn't argue for the death penalty
>thinks that means i don't care
>tell him i want the best for him
>says i love everyone/want the best for everyone so it means little
blood just isn't a good way to show love

I have a lot of privilege in my life as a person. It's not fair to tohers and in a non self victimising way I want to walk away from society (not for some kinda pity party or whatever) and do the right thing by those less fortunate than me. I sound like a tool even saying it.I had a plan which was going to be leaving in forests and fishing and stuff, I would like some replieis about privilege that makes people feel lesser or unfortunate or sad that they didn't get or had or have what I do, and stuff and how I can remove that bad impact of my privilege from society somehow? I'm guilty about what I am but I realise that even if I selflessly try to do better, I am still benefitting myself aren't I? Any ideas, I know I sound like a vapid schmuck, this post getting ignored would be some good karma also. I feel really guilty about it all, what are some solutions? moving out into a state forest and camping and fishing to live and ringing my folks every few days but yeah? removing myself from society?

Share any positive feelings or positive things.

Garden your soul garden.
Every focus is infinite multiverses.
Keep watering the ideas/plants that make you feel the loveliest love


Here’s a thing that has made me feel so good and is important to me:
Thousands of Polska girls and Belarus girls are covering my NorthAmerican city with graffiti. They’ve somehow clearly gotten the idea to all become collectively like a splatoon. It has changed the energy immensely and really improved the omnipresent feminism quality~level vibe. These girls have religions about ancient euro queens and it really shows, lots of ethereal stuff.. I see so many soulful girls are more comfortable loitering around and making anywhere a party! That’s SO important! Sovl

Why do people get married only to cheat or divorce? Shouldn't they know if they're happy to be together BEFORE they get married?

I'm tired of making female friends only to end up being ignored or excluded because I don't share their political opinions. Female friend circles seem to be built on fear, and I'm done with it. I made a decision not to pretend anymore—but now, I don't have any female friends left, just because I don't believe that anyone who identifies as a woman is necessarily a woman.

I want my parents fucking dead and I've been in no contact for a year

what to do when you should leave but you don't want to leave

>>51270 previous bread

I never brush my teeth for the full 2 minutes

I want to have a family, I have wanted it since forever. I met a moid who I loved but despite his radfem single mother upbringing, he turned out to be an abuser.

All I want is a family. I am straight not stupid. I know that I will never get a moid that acts like a woman, like a human but I will be equally miserable with less and with nothing.
>pic unrelated