/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Part time job as a toilet cleaner in offices and you're good to go, until money runs out of course

Would you rather be a tradwife?

>>129234
So because I dont want to be a slave that means I should just be homeless and die? That's sociopathic
>>129398
I am autistic so I can't stand schedules. That's the problem I have with working. I only want to work when have energy to do so. Autistic people are just not meant for this world. It sucks having a brain that's wired the opposite of surviving in normalfag society basically
>>129416
I mean, im ok with being a tradwife as long as I dont have to cook or clean everyday. That's too much work for me tbh

I knew a guy who worked with homeless people.

according to him, there were many homeless moids who owned cars who literally refused to get jobs because they enjoyed homelessness too much. as long as they had a car and some cash for the occasional hotel room, they were happy. I stress "moid" here because they didn't have to worry about getting raped in the streets lol.

these were regular men with no drug addictions or mental illness. they lived like John Candy in Planes, Trains and Automobiles and loved it.

This is understandable but for me it's less the work that sucks and more the not making enough to make ends meet. My goal is to get a degree and rent a small apartment (I don't need much else) but I always told myself that if I reached a point where I truly hated working I'd just become a hardcore crust punk and spend all my life listening to good music and hanging out with alcoholics. I'd probably save up enough to get a trailer/van and live the van life or something. Then I'd do the kind of work that's enjoyable yet not enough pay. With the rising gas prices that's not very realistic but it's probably less than renting an apartment.

>>128939
It's ok to talk his ex. A bit weird though but tolerable, I guess. Just don't expect him to accept it if he discovers that. Would you be ok if he were stalking all of your profiles on Insta/FB/Whatsapp and talking to your exes, too?

>>128878
They're notorious for betraying their friends and family to conform to the new rhetoric, I personally experienced that.

>>129150
Can confirm, my sister has no loyalty towards her family that keeps supporting her throughout her life, just blindly defends people she has never met (at expense of those who are closer to her). As if to mechanically compensate for lacking natural human virtue, she clings to crude ideas of morality.

>>129157
Update
>talked to his ex
>she was nice to me (gave me a cupcake)
>Didn't tell her I knew him just poked around her life she surprisingly didn't mind and they basically broke up cause he is always doing something, if he is not studying for college or at college he is either at his job or doing charity work (he also helps out at a church, I found that kinda cute) she told me he was great as a partner when he was with her the main issue being most of the time he wasn't with her. She also told me he wasn't very close to anybody she told me he is surrounded by friends and people who like him but he doesn't have best friends or even close to his family. I mean she told me they are on good terms but not close, she found that odd and I do too
>>129150
>>129157
I kinda see what you mean nonas, I don't think he betrays people, he just stays outside of everyone's life's and offers them help when they need it, I guess that's honorable/selfless¿?

We went on a another date today, he is sweet but I noticed what his ex meant, he listened to me and we had a great chat but after being 5 hours together, he never talked about himself, the only thing I learned about him was his favorite ice cream,I need to ask who he is to get to know him
Bottom line is
>I don't like that at all it makes me feel as if he doesn't trust me, plus I do know myself well enough to accept I like attention from my partner, I would be miserable if I felt as if I was just a way to fill his freetime a hobby not a partner… so yeah I'm ghosting him but props to him, at least he is the most selfless person I've ever met… I guess…

no, political moids will always love their ideology moer than you.

>>129351
it really sucks too because borderlines are frequently raised and abused by narcissists. i know i was.

>>129365 My mom wasn't a narcissist, nor was my dad, but they were both traumatized by their childhoods and themselves, with their own issue, but both refused or were clueless to therapy. It's not even just narc's, but people who have children, but refuse to fix themselves first and when their kids also have issues, they blame and torment the kids.

That's another form of untold abuse. People need to wear condoms. If they aren't mature enough for therapy, they aren't mature enough for children.

>>129366

Agree entirely. Not sure how old you are, but one of the things that bother me is when we're called the weaker generation whenever mental health is mentioned, just for being self-aware and not being an asshole to people despite your upbringing.

If anything they are the weak ones for taking the easy path (People were assholes to me so I'll be an asshole to them) And not being neither smart or aware enough to even try and make a difference.

>>129365

I'm pretty sure my dad is narc as well :/

stopped believing in all of these
im just me

>>129376
It depends who the man is and who the woman is but if a woman is unhappy with me I do sometimes take it personally

>>129376
Yeah, same for me. When men insult me I dont really care as much unless it's something extremely important to me. But with women are mean it makes me so sensitive for some reason. I'm not sure why this is tho. Maybe I'm just used to men being rude and bitchy but when women are rude to me I do take it more seriously and introspect more when it happens

>>129376
Same for anyone who owns a brain. Women are honest, more emotionally mature, smarter and not brain rotted from porn and red pill.
And most importantly, women are humans, males are subhumans.
Opinion of subhumans doesn't matter to humans.

Same

it gets better after i promise. just hold thru this is how i felt but my life’s changed so much n its only been a year and a half since i graduated . wishing you the best

I graduated a while back but yeah I used to do this

>>126729
No, it's the other way around. Porn doesn't reflect real sex dynamics, it's real sex dynamics being affected by porn because 99% of moids are porn addicts and expect porn sex from their partners

read the bible

>>126636
this depressed me

>>126636
When I have sex with my partner we usually do it standing up facing each other with our fingers interlocked. We both thrust into each other. This is far more respectful than being put on my back.

stop thinking about sex so much and you will be less miserable. yes, heterosexual reproduction is fucked up when you really think about it, but you have to ignore that and go on with your day

Love is cuddling under a heated blanket. It's him respecting my wishes to wait till marriage. It's us cooking for each other. It's us doordashing each other medicine or sweets even though we're too far away to get it ourselves. It's the stuffed animal he sewed by hand. It's the drawings he's made of us. It's the warmth I feel when he holds my hand. It's way we still are kind to each other after we get a little too heated during a discussion. It's the patience we have for each other when one of us messes up.

>>129197
This is a good answer, Love this!

Love is quiet and not flashy. It will still be there after the storm and is often confused for infatuation and temporary feelings that always pass. In the end its a life preserver that will always save you in a stormy sea of unknowns. It will only abandon you if you abandon and betray it first.

love is when you wake up in the middle of the night from a bad dream but everything is okay because your partner is sleeping soundly next to you

Love for me I guess isn’t really anything I can’t define or summarize because nothing is that perfect of idealistic. I grew up with two parents who hated each other enough to love one another can remain married for my whole life. They yelled and argued, and were abusive to each other, utterly toxic and kept running back like those shitty high school love wannabes.

So I suppose love for me silence. Absolute silence. No talking, nothing…and if in that silence it feels like I’ve had a million and one conversations with them over the span of a millennia in which neither of us censored how we felt, an were as weird and strange with one another as possible. That would be love and someone worth carrying a child for.

But I can’t leave for a millennia so love isn’t fucking real and stop giving divinity to chemical hormones that hone you into survival. You fall in love to get someone to protect you and keep you alive for a little bit longer and so you two breed like mutts and keep the human population booming like roaches. That’s love. It’s like food and water, all about keep you alive to goon the next day.

>>129284
There are no normal guys. If it upsets you that much leave but don't be surprised when you find out the next guy is also a sexual deviant. Not every dude is a loli freak specifically, but you gotta be realistic, girl.

Does he play genshin impact?

>>129303
girls also play that trash for some reason…

>>129284
Is it Depravia?

Beat him up.

Don’t capitulate

keep going! you'll not only look better, but feel better too. :3

>im not gonna lie im pretty ugly, fat, and retarded LOL
Same ;_; ive thought this exact same thing lmao.
But I mean just stay consistent with working out and I would say just try to make content you never know, your profile /might actually blow up so shit y not try. And people that make fun of people and lolcows on the internet are sad as fuck, so just ignore

>>128827
metabolism doesnt factor into the equation at all. you eat too much

>>129260
I've never met a man like him in person before. I wish I had nerdy stuff around me so I could have more of a chance doe. But tbh I don't think men like him exist irl. He is so perfect real men could never compare. I mean he is quirky and cute, like and manic pixie dream boy. Too perfect to be real

You don't actually like emotionally unavailable men, you just think you do

nophono

I want to hit him with hammers

The Hindu code of Manu is very clear on these matters: any woman who disobeys him will be reborn in the womb of a jackal and tormented by diseases