/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>21586
aerobic exercises are the galaxy-brain tier of caffeine

>>21588
*drinking lots of water and eating plenty of meat and greens

I got turned down for 3 jobs in the space of 1 week. All mainly down to location. I can’t deal with this anymore, I can’t move, all I can do is basic functions like eating and bathing and even that is a mammoth task. All I do is lie in bed and listen to audiobooks and stare into space, I can’t deal with this anymore. I have no future and I don’t see the point in trying or living anymore when I already know my outcome is always going to be failure. (Pic unrelated).

I've ruined my life and there's no way do to anything at this stage.

I feel so pathetic about crying over a job because they want to revisit the next steps after I graduate. Ik I posted on lolcow but god I feel so fucking pathetic crying about something that wasn't even guaranteed. It might not even a soft rejection and I'm just overreacting because they didn't give me an offer.
Shit hurts but I'll be better tomorrow. I just can't focus on my studying fuck

>>21505
Sorry to hear that, this is why I was kinda skeptical to the whole thing. People lie to spare feelings as if somehow it's better. It's not and this is why I'm forever single with a deep rooted hatred to humans at this point. I hope you're doing alright aside from being a bit drunk.

>>21506
I really want to call him out on it… If your'e not emotionally ready then why be on tinder???? But I do not want to cause any problems by looking crazy since it was the first thing I saw in my feed. Seriously like why? I've been honest. Don't spare my feels gh why.

>>21507
Don't bother, honestly all it's going to do is consume you in anger and he will just feed you more lines of bullshit prob to defuse rather than admit his shitty actions. Someone like that will try to defuse the situation rather than let it explode. Just be happy you weren't baited for multiple years like I was. Just label him as an asshole and try to move on, and if you need to vent anger, do one of those bullshit anonymous letter things or scream and punch a pillow if you're the violent type.

>>21508
Thank you anon. All I want to do is cry because I felt lied to… I don't care if there was anything between us anymore, but please don't lie to me. It just shows you have no respect for me nor my own feelings.

>>21509
I feel that, I share the same sentiment as well. I hope you feel better soon.

This thread doesn't belong here, unless we're supposed to talk about our feelings too.

Moved to >>>/media/4496.

>>21101
Kek, thats just mean anon! True, but mean.

I'm sad that this thread has ended like this. At least you got a nice friend group out of it.

Ask his gf if she posts in crystal.cafe

>>21051
This is so painful. Reminds me of all the times I was rejected by boys in high school. At least I wasn't frens with them, they just ignored me
But it still hurts. I'm sorry anon. M-men suck anyway

>>21122
I guess sometimes things can't turn out like movies and shows.

>>21149
Sorry to hear that. W-We don't need them..

>>21123
she normie

>>13822
Well not to be judgy but on average they're not the most socially capable people; plenty of doctors, lawyers, accountants etc too who make money, right?
but I guess it comes down to what you're looking for and if it's bfs in stem then that's that
my question was answered by >>13795 anyway

>>13671
Women don't hire them, typically.
https://www.eastbayexpress.com/oakland/the-gigolo-myth/Content?oid=3213768

>>21447
Exactly. So if you hire a gigolo, he's most likely had lots of gay sex. Do you really want to be near that?

>>21453
Doesn't that mean you could easily hire two gigolos and have them yaoi each other?

>>21482
>have them yaoi each other
I can't stop laughing at this, 10/10 expression anon

Hedgehegs pour toi!

>>1167
That one person who is up for any adventure.

This pic is my life in a nutshell. T.T

>>2074 omg my heart

>>1870 I love birds so much

>>15424
Oh. Yeah if you don't even know his name then don't go for it yet. Get to know him a little and then ask him out.

Today he said "You really are a gem you know that" to me and he walked up to me and told me I looked lonely and invited me to stand with his friends, we didn't really talk then outside of me telling a joke they all found funny but this makes me really really happy. Maybe I'm finally going into normiehood

update: nothing happened with this to my dismay, but just today i messaged him a joke (we're still friends - its just clear he doesnt like me like that) and he responded telling me his friend wanted to 'hit me up', and one of his friends added me and we've been conversing all day and they are very clearly into me. i hope this works out!

>>21399
good luck!

how old are yall? curious because i havent had my first relationship yet either and im 21

>>21391
I think so, but the insane number of episodes could keep someone late to it busy for a while.

>>21380
I made a new year's resolution to finally learn Japanese, since I've been meaning to do so for years but have never bothered to actually start. Now I'm a month into kanji/vocab, and honestly it's easier than I thought it would be, though prior to this I already knew my kana and had picked up a lot of vocab/grammar from anime (of the +500 words I've gone through so far, maybe a couple were something I didn't already know).

Hardest part is definitely starting because learning thousands of kanji seems so daunting, but after a while doing your daily reviews becomes a routine.

>>21391
Yeah, but there's a sequel, Boruto, which is currently ongoing.

>>21392
i know what you mean, the worst trope for me is the tripping one where the guy always catches her. It even seems to worm it's way into the more stand out original anime/otome games.

>>21356
Normal brain:convert friends to weebs
Galaxy tier brain: convert parent to weebs

My mom watched Candy Candy and Heidi in her youth and I recently showed her how to view it online. I’ve been noticing her watch history that she is viewing sailor moon (which was reccomended by algo).

If all goes well she should be familar with such gems like Shirobako by years end

>>12859
Every home schooled guy I know (and I know a ton) is better adjusted than the public school guys

>>12867
really? it's the exact opposite in my experience.
i was homeschooled for two years and i'll be honest, when i got back to a school setting where i had to interact with other people my own age, i had very little understanding of how socializing was conducted.

>>12804
oddly enough it was after learning what i think of as a 'script' for normal social behavior, i've done fine. but my script is something that's completely the opposite from PUA behavior: giving attention to people's interests and lives, being incessantly positive, and showing appreciation for others.
if i were a dude, incels would probably call me a beta for this kind of behavior, but man did it ever help me to actually make friends.
imo PUA act the way they do because they think they have to trick women into liking them. these dudes actually have seriously low self-esteem; they think without gimmicks like 'negging' or 'peacocking', nobody would ever give them the time of day.

>>12801
I spend a lot of time on places where they hang out - TRP, /r/seduction, returnofkings, etc. - it's really easy to pick up on the formula and it's easy to sniff out forced "alpha" behavior

>>12945
>returnofkings

Cringe

>>12878
It be much easier is they'd just admit that they are not steve mqueen

>>10256
better just be a lesbian or commit suicide then

>>10233
Do you have any source for this /r9k/ tier generalization?

>>11312
Kek

>>10256
And the one who's always known he can get as many as he wants somehow doesn't want any? He's the one who's satisfied with a single girl who's less attractive than him?

That really does not make any sense. Sounds like you're just falling for the halo effect.

>>9370
I was in a similar situation anon. I was with this guy who had similar characteristics as the guy you were with.
>at a better university than me
>in an honors program and aiming for a prestigious degree & career
Personally I didn't find him really attractive but the fact that he had a lot going for him, was good at his hobbies, and had a great personality made me like him a lottt more and I did feel inferior to him.

Would he ever cheat? I don't think he would've. He seemed way too sweet to ever do that but we weren't together long so I don't know. What we had was very short lived and not very serious.