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Anonymous 116666[Reply]

What was the most fun/creative date you’ve ever been on?

If you've never dated, what are fun/creative dates that you would like to have?
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Anonymous 116729

>>116666
I usually just go on hikes, long walks, and eat out at restaurants or cafes for my dates.

Don't know what movie fantasies ya;'ll be living, but count me jelly.

Anonymous 118112

>>116666
i want to lure and kill a man after having sex

Anonymous 118958

>>118112
but why nona

Anonymous 124346

I am completely unable to feel attraction to anyone. I cannot date.

Anonymous 124351

Not technically a date, but
>2013
>Boyfriend has travelled 3500 miles to be with you for Christmas
>You both have a glass of eggnog on the coffee table
>It's blizzarding outside
>We're sitting in my parents livingroom at night on the big sectional sofa
>Almost complete silence save for some christmas smooth jazz on super, super low
>Snuggled up together
>Watching the snow fall through the big glass patio doors
>Heater on in the corner
>Cat quietly purring as she naps in her bed next to it
>boyfriend gently rubbing my back as we watch the snowfall
>Other hand holding my free hand
>heads touching

Amazing memory. One of those ones you think about and all of the feelings of warmth and comfort envelop you.



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Lonely life Anonymous 119497[Reply]

Who would have known. Turns out that my paranoid unhealthy bullshit is a detriment to my character. I have lost my only true close friend because of a falling out and it seems that I have lost contact with them so no matter how much I want to try to make amends, it won't happen. It takes a lot of conscious effort for me to truly be close to someone because I am scared of not being in control of my feelings and letting my paranoid delusions get to me, and I thought maybe this would be different despite the issues between us (we both don't have the best mental health.) But it turns out, not really. I've always been isolated from my peers ever since childhood. I don't work; I got an informal job before but my cognition wasn't up to it. My hobbies are mostly isolated like drawing and writing. I've always had a lonely life. Friends come and go, but it seems they always go in the most painful ways possible. I always had looming dread whenever I had this close relationship, even when my friend was as nice and understanding as possible, like I was not enjoying it at all or being conflicted about being happy or scared. But at least despite that, I was a bit more in control of my emotions and my friend made me smile a lot. But now, everything is a mess. It might take a while to be more stable, but this is nothing new to me. Maybe I should just keep to myself more, and I should just be more accepting of an isolated life.
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Anonymous 119971

My ex bf was my best friend before and after we broke up. We stayed really close for like a year after the breakup. He had girlfriends and it never became a problem until now. He got a new girlfriend and he barely talks to me. I get paranoid and freak out on him and he just says he’s busy. That he got in touch with old friends and so he just has less time to yap with me but when he was single he had a lot more free time. But he still wants to be my friend and likes talking to me. How am I actually supposed to take that? He talks to his old friends more so he talks to me a lot less. So I’m less important. I freak out and I know I’m just making things worse but I can’t help it. I’m so lonely now. I just liked being apart of his life still. Moids are never the cure to loneliness they just make it worsen

Anonymous 119972

>>119971
Plus side his girlfriend is short and over 200 pounds. Thinking about how fat and disgusting she is, is the only remedy to my pain.

Anonymous 120024

>>119971
do you think his new gf might be uncomfy with him having close female friends or something?

Anonymous 120044

>>120024
I genuinely couldn’t care less. I’m sure she does. She’s a hog. If she wasn’t uncomfortable. It would be a shock. That’s not my problem. We have been best friends for 7 years. It’s not my fault she’s a void of a human being. She never developed a personality outside of her last bf. So now instead of developing a personality outside of her last relationship she’s just latching on to his personality. Within a month of dating she bought him tickets to Vegas. I can’t imagine being that desperate and I think it’s pathetic. She lives four hours away and she comes down every week and spends like 4 days at his house. Again imagine lacking an identity to the point you can spend that much time in someone else’s space, especially a moids space. She’s a turbo Reddit liberal who fucking does that moon water shit. So basically I hate her as a person and also because I don’t get to talk to him as much. Like if I met her under different circumstances I would still think she’s a pathetic hog. Who’s desperate for male attention.

Anonymous 124347

>>119497
If you care about women, do not use discord. They fund men who traffic women.



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Anonymous 124339[Reply]

my bf is having sex with a surrogate (his friend he thinks is hot) so we can have a baby
how do i know he won't cheat on me during the sex?

Anonymous 124340

by realizing your story is made up

Anonymous 124341

him having sex with anyone else but you is by default cheating, what are you on about?
even if you consent to it, it still doesn't change the fact it's cheating, it would just make you a cuckold



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/rock bottom/ - general Anonymous 76609[Reply]

This thread is for people who have hit rock bottom. Not people who are having a bad day, but people who are living in the depths of despair. Whether you're a nona who is struggling with serious addiction, mental or physical illness that severely precludes your life, constantly feeling suicidal, whether you're being abused, have any other serious life issues or if you are simply unable to function and don't know where else to turn, vent here and let's try to support each other.
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Anonymous 123716

>>123667
update ive unpeeled the gray shit from the floor. it came off in one huge piece and had a reallly weird waxy consitnecy. ive thought abt taking a picture of it and posting it here but this website is like dead and rotting + no one gives a fuck i fear. shoudl i use this thread as a diary? im rlly bored and lonely

Anonymous 123718

>>123716
this is the first step nona! whatever that was probably wasn't too good for you lol
but,,,,,,, i would like to see The Rot

Anonymous 123737

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>>123718
Sorry Ive arleady threw away the big one that was under my table. Theres a simmilar kind of rot in the corner of my room tho. Picrel. I think its a mix of accumulated dirt and mold

Anonymous 124208

I'm totally worthless. Morbidly obese, unemployed, no college degree…nothing. I'm living off the good graces of others but I know this will end soon. I don't have any family that supports me. Once I can't live where I currently am, I'll kill myself. There is no future for me.

Anonymous 124335

I was reading reddit and saw a picture of a gutted bathroom with people saying this is how you fix a black mould problem. Is this really the only way to deal with bad black mould. Christ. I don't want to know.



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madonna whore complex Anonymous 124291[Reply]

"inability to maintan sexual arousal in a committed and loving relationship" any other nonas with experience on this? i think this is happening in my relationship and it makes me so sad and worried

Anonymous 124293

Skill issue

Anonymous 124317

>>124291
its a misogynistic meme nona, you are just learning who he actually is. If he was worth your time this wouldn't be happening. Either leave now or stay and cheat on him. Dont forget he is literally a man though so maybe you should stop considering his feelings this much. Just do what makes you happy nona, stop living for a moid.

Anonymous 124318

I had 1 relationship and the other person was insufferable so yeah but the arousal was never there in the first place



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Anonymous 124286[Reply]

How would you feel if you found out that your bf was dating a tranny before you?

Anonymous 124287

>>124286
dump him dump all moids all they do is lie regardless

Anonymous 124288

never date gay moids nona

Anonymous 124289

honestly nona it really depends on if the ex trooned out before, during, or after the relationship. if it's after, then it's funny, if it's during, I'd ask serious questions about wtf happened, and if it was before, major red flag and dump him.

Anonymous 124297

That would be a massive red flag in my book, but you do you.

Anonymous 124299

>>124286
depends on the context of the relationship



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Anonymous 124256[Reply]

trying when the other person doesn't
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Anonymous 124290

then stop trying, don't waste energy on people who can't be bothered

Anonymous 124292

>>124256
i always wondered what the perfect amount of effort is most attractive overall. too much and youre a try hard. too little and you seem like you dont care. its so confusing..

Anonymous 124294

>>124292
>>124256
I don't try, I simply do. The "perfect amount of trying" is who you are. Sometimes who you are is a mentally retarded, disgusting slob who doesn't care, and that's ok. "Hurr durr everything is trying" - in which case, "try" however much you feel like, or maybe don't try at all.

Anonymous 124295

>>124294
>who doesn't care
sounds like you're just like OP except you decided to devalue the other person in question kek

Anonymous 124296

>>124294
I agree. If one has to try, its no longer genuine.



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how to cope w how ugly i am Anonymous 123748[Reply]

what subject says. i'm obese and very likely mentally ill. i could lose weight but i'm not strong enough to not overeat so there's no point in that atp. i've been exercising more lately which has been somewhat motivating but i still know there's kind of no means to an end here.

i know i'll never find love, which sucks, but i guess that's just how it is.

picrel my dream body
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Anonymous 124128

>>124020
18 is way too young to give up. You could be hot by 20. Getting fun workout clothes and and personalized water bottle can make exercise easier (mentally). Meeting friends who are fitter than you can be a cheat code too since you get to parasite off of their experience as you give them an ego boost.
Your cravings might be crossfiring in your brain. When you feel a craving, try chugging some water first and see if it goes away. If you still want the thing, less of it will probably satisfy after the water.

Anonymous 124266

You'll be ok, focus on weight loss until you hit your goal

Anonymous 124268

>>123807
>>124020
Where do you live? I live in Europe, and there are private doctors here who describe not-Ozempic here if you have a somewhat medically justifiable
reason.
Losing weight is important, if you live your life overweight, then by your mid 30s your body will be a wreck.

No offense, buy you're super obese. You need to lose weight NOW. You're way past the 'I don't wanna, I'm not comfortable with asking my doctor'. Besides your doctor is there to help you. Results matter more than niceness at this point

Anonymous 124281

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>>124020
probably not the healthiest advice, but pic rel is your friend. Over the counter in american pharmacy's and the watered down ephedrine kills your appetite, also helps with focus. You do have to scan your id at the pharmacy's counter to get it, it's so they make sure you're not stockpiling enoungh to cook meth, 1 box every 6 days is the limit in america. This helped me move on from a 30 year old 5'6" 300lb+ hamplanet to a now sub 200lb chubby woman that still has crippling issues with her body image thanks to a lifetime of being fat. Also please try to eat real food , you need more than processed meats and cheese.

Anonymous 124282

>>123748
Abandon worldly life, get a cat, join a monastery maybe.



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Anonymous 124196[Reply]

im too scared to tell anyone i was groomed. i fear that when i say the words out loud i admit to myself that its a part of who i am now and i dont want to make him a part of me. i dont think anyone will understand but i sometimes wish i went all the way with him. to make it something i wanted instead of this lingering feeling of fear. i dont want to be scared or alone anymore.

Anonymous 124276

>>124196
Listen I was banged in the butt when I was 6 years old by my cousin. I didn't even clock that what he did was wrong until I was well into my late teens and had a memory flashback. It's not something I tell the world about. My spouse knows. My mother knows and when I told her about it she freaked the fuck out and told me to shut my mouth and stop lying even though it was pretty crystal what happened. Do I count it as "part of me"? No. It was something that was done to me by an evil little retard. He knows I remember because at a family gathering he made the mistake of approaching me whilst I was propping up the bar alone and asked me if I wanted another drink. I said "Yeah no. I remember what you did." He knew exactly what I was talking about. The guilt and fear was scrawled over his little rat face. I said "You might have been a kid too but you were way older than me… Tell me why I shouldn't go and pick up that karaoke mike and tell everyone. Seeing you get your skull caved in might liven things up."

He stuttered and spluttered out "I'm sorry. We were kids. I didn't know." The creepy little bastard was twice my age when he did that. I told him "You were old enough to know better. I want you to know that every time I see your dad I think about telling him. You know what he'd do if he knew. You'd be eating through a straw for the rest of your life."

Again, the spineless bastard just stood there not knowing what to say. The fear was making his pupils shake. I watched him and waited for his response. Really I was looking for an excuse to get up and really fuck up that 80th birthday party, but sadly I couldn't bring myself to do it. Grandpa only turns 80 once and the shock might've killed him. I settled for "I'm going to finish my drink about then sing a song. Lets see if you're man enough to stick around until the end."

I haven't seen him in 20 years. Weirdest part is that he's gay. I guess he didn't know it back then which is why he went for the butt hole instead.

So that's my story kiddo. Don't let it have power over you. You can't change the past but you can weaponize it and it does provide some solace.



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Anonymous 119969[Reply]

Anyone else just accept the fact that they'll never have a husband and kids? How do you cope?
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Anonymous 124079

I have the opposite problem! I never wanted a husband or kids, but back at college all the men REALLY wanted me as their girlfriend!!!! They all LOVED my pikachu hoodie.

Anonymous 124081

>>124079
damn, maybe one of them could have saved you out of your predicament, so to speak?

Anonymous 124168

>>123715
I like your mindset. Would you expand on your personal story with your moid?

Anonymous 124171

People are dying nonas. Getting married and giving a moid babies does nothing but benefit him. You all need to get this through your heads.

Anonymous 124269

>>124168
I've tried typing this out a few times now and it's far too long. Is there anything in particular that you're interested in?



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