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Something you wish someone would say to you Anonymous 21124[Reply]

Whats something you wish someone would tell you right now?

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Anonymous 21234

No words, I just want a hug.

Anonymous 21235

would you prefer they ask/announce the hug prior, or surprise you with the hug?

Anonymous 21240

"I think you're fine just the way you are"

Anonymous 21261

You're so beautiful, please come live with me in my huge house and marry me. While I'm at work all day, take this credit card and go shopping or do whatever you want with it. Please make sure the maids are doing their job. And please take care of my 2 very cute dogs while I'm out. Also start packing because we're going to Dubai for vacation.

Anonymous 21276

"Let me take a deep breath and eat the sandwich
I didn't want to kiss you. Your thoughts are too naive.
Please remove the defense and restrictions on the wolf
I am a good boy drinking milk before going to bed.
You are a beautiful girl but I want to go home
You said that you and your parents are quarreling to stay at my house tonight.
Stay and live, anyway, my home is big enough.
I have to sleep on a big bed, where do you like to sleep?"


Virgin Thread Anonymous 19173[Reply]

Post here if you haven't lost your virginity.

>turn 22 in two weeks

>never had sex
>never had a boyfriend
>only kissed a boy once in high school
>too afraid of rejection to actively seek relationships
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Anonymous 21262

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Anonymous 21263

Asexuals are taking over the kids minds with their shitty Hamilton music and steven universe fanfics

Anonymous 21265

Yeah that's bullshit, with the new hook up culture that means the ones who aren't having sex are the ones who are the desperate fucks where a woman needs a lay but she has no good choices around. Now they got all the choices possible at the tips of their finger, so they don't need to dip into the 1/8th of the pop that would be getting laid by no other means but because they had nothing else better available to them.

Anonymous 21267

Anonymous 21272

The. Article. Is. Bullshit.
They are trying to say "The sharp rise in the number of young people waiting longer to have sex may be because of a "fear of intimacy" and the pressure of social media, according to analysts." which is bullshit. The reason those people normally got laid in previous generations is because before high tech hook up culture, the only way to get laid is whoever was physically available around the person who wanted to hook up. And it's not a mystery that most women are the one who chooses who they fuck seeing as men would fuck anything and without the availability of being able to choose someone from half way across the city like you can in apps like Tinder and such they had to make due with what they had around them. Now with modern hook up culture, the choosers can be even choosier because their pool of who they want to have one night stands with has increased significantly which means the ugly/charming men who might have gotten that lonely pity fuck aren't getting laid now which are the that 1/8th.

It's not a fear of intimacy, it's just a failure to be physically pleasing to people to want to screw.

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Talk about how you suffered as a child Anonymous 20177[Reply]

Share how you suffered as a child or what scarred you as child.
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Anonymous 20423

I'm not suicidal. All things considered my needs are met as I am. I live in a nice house in a crime free area of a 1st world country and don't want for anything. My life is pretty good. I'm like a retired spinster at 34. I'm getting too old to consider having children anyways so it's probably too late. So my legacy won't be in genetic form. I'm not big on legacy anyways because I'm pretty nihilistic at this point. Not depressingly so but if nothing matters you can make the individual moment matter more than living in the past memories or future hopes and worries. That's pretty freeing. I can't do much irl because of the illness but we live in a technological age where I can get anything I need delivered to my door and talk to people all over the world any time I want and without any worry. This is the golden age for people in my situation. How could I not be content in this world? Eventually I had to realize my limits and I have met them so I would call that a success. It's a little sad that the bar is low for potential for myself but there's no use hoping for things that can never happen. My grandfather was blind but he reached his potential without the ability to see and was a success because of that. My legacy will be the positive influences I put out to the world hopefully make enough ripples to make the world a better place for a while. I'm happy if that's what I can do.

Anonymous 20431

Anon… you're not very bright, you're trying to give input on situations you don't fully understand or comprehend, it's time to stop.

Anonymous 20433

Yeah, I guess it's probably too late in that case. Be sure to get your prescription upped. Good luck anon.

Anonymous 20435

Thank you.

Anonymous 21253

Literally a movie-tier life story. I'd pay to see this.

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/Aspie/ Feels and Vent Anonymous 19645[Reply]

Non-spergs are welcome to join in too, but, this is a thread about all the bad (and good I suppose) feels that are a part of a spergy life.
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Anonymous 21047

>Flipping an egg

As in a fried egg? Why are you flipping it? Just spoon oil on the top. You crazy Americans, next you'll be telling me you keep uncooked eggs in the fridge or something…

Anonymous 21050

>keep uncooked eggs in the fridge
Are you not supposed to?

Anonymous 21198


I'm 21 and I just accepted I will never know how to tie my shoes at this point. I just wear laceless shoes now. I get comments sometimes "are you just coming from work."

Anonymous 21233

American eggs should be kept refrigerated until they're cooked, because our eggs/hens are raised in deplorable conditions that give rise to a lot of nasty stuff in unrefrigerated uncooked eggs. The rest of the world doesn't have this problem on nearly such a scale, which is why you'll often see Japanese just eating raw egg like it's no big deal.

Anonymous 21244

>> Usually it's so bad I have my father tie my shoes for me

That is super cute, I wish I had a dad :(


Anonymous 21178[Reply]

I gained weight. I keep eating, I hate myself, I have to lose weight or I will not go out of the house ever again. This is a nightmare.
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Anonymous 21197

What do you eat on a regular day OP? Making a food diary helps to show which foods are high in calories and refined carbs.

Anonymous 21211

Dear god, can anons stop recommending fasting in every thread related to food and weight? You had an eating disorder, we get it.

Anonymous 21212

it's literally the same anon. ana-chan needs to go home.

Anonymous 21213

Agree, OP just needs to cut out junk and cut out snacks, then lower calorie intake from there. Gradual shit.
Exercise is also good on top of it if you're up for that (recommend lifting).
>not wanting to leave the house because chunky during this process
That's a mental health issue. No one but shitty assholes will hate you or really notice, unless you're 300+ lbs and even then it will be a passing thought.
OP, try to change your mindset to "fuck em all." It's not as if they're going to physically assault you or something, and if they're smaller then you can easily defend yourself lmao.

Anonymous 21224

If its not too much to ask, whats your weight/bmi?

Either way, you just need to acknowledge why you're binging and deal with it. Or go onto keto


Anonymous 21053[Reply]

Tfw:posts comment on meme page receives dick pics and tit requests for three days…
Anyone else relate?

Anonymous 21070

Who knew people into memes were abnormal blokes heh

Anonymous 21096

It's like the internet houses the insane

Anonymous 21144

I haven't been able to maintain presence on any form of social media because of this. Even down to QUIZ UP. I CANNOT PLAY QUIZ UP BECAUSE OF CONSTANT CREEPY BROKEN-ENGLISH DMS

Anonymous 21156

no, people just become crazier on internet

Anonymous 21669


ah these are the best

>yes helo i have big balls u want slut

>you have turkish cock beofre white bitch
>you want slut
>fuck you cunt have rape

holy god

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Anonymous 20905[Reply]

anyone else here /bpd/? this is hell
i either cant form a connect to someone, or i do and then when they dont respond fast enough or if they make other good friends (specifically female) i get so so so so so jealous and it hurts so much. i hate this


/exfeels/ Anonymous 20981[Reply]

what are your relationship with your exes like?

>ex 1, female, online, a few years ago - she ghosted me after we broke up, we were best friends since i was 8

whenever i see something that reminds me of her i get panicky and feel physically hurt inside, and a lot of things remind me of her. she left a hole in my heart
>ex 2, online, male, broke up a few months ago
i still obsess over him/think about him every day/night
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Anonymous 21114

>who hurt you
Passive-aggression doesn't make you seem any less bad of a person. I thought you were done here?
>flirting with another guy over Facebook
Anon, that's not even close to cheating. That's like considering a LDR a close relationship. Sounds like he overreacted, especially since he didn't want any kids to begin with, so why would he even be upset? I swear some people just don't know what they want half the time. Whoever you're with now doesn't believe in that stuff right?

Anonymous 21115

I mean, I personally feel like I cheated emotionally and it was still a breach of trust with my ex. I've told my current bf and he kind of had the same reaction and even laughed, but only because he thought the entire situation was a mess of immaturity and poor judgement. Still, he said even if I "physically cheated" he wouldn't have minded so long as I was honest, so yeah… I think we have a very positive relationship.

Anonymous 21116

Eh, what did he expect? For you to just die with him? You did the right thing. Actually cheating on someone because you're "bored" is what's wrong. You weren't married, and he obviously was too immature for marriage. Good riddance to him, and good luck to you two.

Anonymous 21118

>Passive-aggression doesn't make you seem any less bad of a person
Why would I be a bad person? I never even cheated. And I didn't say I was done.

Anonymous 21126

Enabling it is pretty bad.

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Growing up in a religious household or community Anonymous 3316[Reply]

Did it fuck you up? How?
Did it help you in the long run?
Are you still religious? If yes, how much?
Do you wish you were raised like other people?
Is your family still very religious?

Share and discuss.

Just looking to relate to other people as my upbringing fucked me up in many aspects, but I am thankful for several things as well.

Should I post this to /b/? Not sure. I know we already have a thread asking if anons believe in god, so I wanna hear from people who were raised to do so.
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Anonymous 20791


>Did it fuck you up? How?
I had cognitive dissonance between my sexuality and my beliefs, which definitely fucked with me for a while. I've had romantic feelings for women for as long as I can remember, but when those feelings became sexual in my preteens I was plagued with anxiety and depression. I'd often go to bed crying and praying for God to take those feelings away. I still haven't come out to anyone even though I know my parents would accept me.
>Did it help you in the long run?
Praying has always been a good coping mechanism for me. I still believe in God and there are several moments in my life in which I think divine intervention was involved.
>Do you wish you were raised like other people?
There were a ton of problems in my family but I don't think religion was ever the stem of the problem. Both my parents had really terrible childhoods and that showed in how they treated my siblings and me.
>Is your family still very religious?
They've pretty much stopped going to church completely in my late teens. One of my sisters flip-flops between Catholicism, Buddhism, and atheism, but I think it's because she's going through an edgy phase.

Anonymous 21063

>religion keeps the waman in check! waman will be happier if they only have sex within a marriage!
also men
>lol fuck religious chastity imma go cheat on my gf/wife with escorts and fap to 20 year olds nudes well into my 70's, dont tell me how to control my peepee God

I wish I could kill my dad and every other "religious" scumbag out there. If hell really is real, they should all burn there forever.

Anonymous 21065

You can tell they're genuine Christians when they have about 144 children.

Anonymous 21083

Mom is very Catholic and dad is a theologian for the Catholic Church.
You bet my family is religious.
Did it fuck you up? How?
Did it help you in the long run?
I think so. I can always count on my education to help me figure out what to do.
Are you still religious? If yes, how much?
Very religious still, yes.
Do you wish you were raised like other people?
I was??? Almost everyone I know is at least a little religious
Is your family still very religious?
Yes, very.

I think that it helps that my parents mean it. Mom is constantly helping other people and I have never in my life hear her utter a harsh word about another person. My father has strict limits but is very loving and let us all be us, I guess is how to put it?One thing I am told is unusual is my parents always apologized to us,
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Anonymous 21093

Mt father, close quote,
"90% of what is said about any Pope is hearsay and gossip, but it is very bad now. The Church has people in it, and people sin. We cannot approve but condemning the Church for the sins of men is like blaming a school when a student sins. Punish the person. The Church always needs reform because it is full of people."


Who else here /middleofnowhere/? Anonymous 20872[Reply]

>Be me
>23 years old
>Live in the North of England so everything is expensive and moving out of my parents house isn't an option
>Trying to make a career in a creative field
>Don't drive
>Transport links from my shitty tiny town in the middle of nowhere to the city are abysmal
>Tfw constantly being turned down for jobs due to location
>Absolutely no career options closer to home
>Literally being cucked out of making a life for myself due to this

Anyone else feel absolutely hopeless sometimes? People who live in suburbs near the city don't know how fucking lucky they are, the world is their goddamn oyster. It's honestly so depressing to be stuck in a dead end town where everyone knows who you are when you go out. It's so freeing to be in the city and to just blend in with everyone.

Also just general /inthemiddleofnowhere/ feels
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Anonymous 20915

One state away isn't awful, unless someone is dying soon or needs a lot of support you can manage the drive for holidays or when you need to see them. Minneapolis/surrounding smallish towns area has a lot of opportunity.

Anonymous 20916

That's 100% how I feel and I'm 29 now. Everyone has been driving since they turned 18 here and I'd just be completely overwhelmed. If I did something wrong and someone honked at me, I'd just freeze. Literally - I'd just stop the car and panic and not know what the fuck to do. No matter where I'd be at the time. So no thanks, I'll just stick to public transit, even if it's a total pain. I cherish the times I can afford a taxi or someone pays for it for business reasons.

Anonymous 20918

Everyone feels that way when they start. It goes away with practice. Also, not everyone is a great driver, even if we think we all are. I hate being a passenger with some people, but I haven't found anyone uncomfortable with me driving, so I usually am the driver and we have no problems. If you ever do decide you start, just remember that there is always more road and most people are observant, you can always keep going with the flow of traffic if you miss an exit or whatever. Insurance does suck but I literally couldn't hold the job I have or enjoy several hobbies without personal transport.

Anonymous 20954

That's pretty much the situation, a family member that needs care daily. I don't know how people dealt with being out here before the internet… The only thing to do here is go to the little bar and get hit on by the bottom of the barrel dudes from my high school or go drive an hour to the nearest Wal-Mart.

Anyways I digress. Are you in Minnesota, sis?

Anonymous 21000

Born and raised. Getting super sick of the cold, though. What keeps me here now is the dying years of older relatives and my current company. If you decide to check out Minneapolis, don't actually look to live in the big city, live in a town a bit away from it like Watertown, Chaska, Chanhassen, etc. Very suburban/borderline rural but the job market still reaches out there.

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