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shit normies say Anonymous 57823[Reply]

>Why do you never talk?
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Anonymous 65297

>>65296
I already had to begrudgingly take the fucker or the school wouldn't let me attend classes.

Anonymous 65311

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>When are you going to start dating?
>What do you wanna do after college?
>When are you gonna start driving?
>Have you made any friends yet?
>Keep your door open it's hot in here
>Are you playing video games? Are you playing games? You're on your phone a lot, are you playing games? Are you playing games on your laptop? Do your homework
I AM DOING MY HOMEWORK IM NOT ALWAYS GAMING

Anonymous 65312

>Do you have a boyfriend?
I was 12 btw, my cousin asked this. She got pregnant when she was 16

>Stop being sad
>Why are you so serious all the time?
>Do you ever smile?
>Do you want to kill yourself?

Anonymous 65314

>>65278
Yeah, I mean what I do all day is post on imageboards and play video games, and that's not something you can really discuss with someone who has no concept of what they're like. I just feel really awkward telling the truth because I can see people turn uncomfortable and confused, since like you said they assume it's universal, and it does not compute when you don't fit into their worldview.

Anonymous 65329

>>65292
I know what you mean anon. Look, propaganda is very effective when it comes to controlling the people's opinion. It's not normies' fault that they're tired and trying to go on with their lives while so much shit is happening around them, it's the fault of those who are in power. It also serves as a way to cope with reality. It would take some really extreme situation for normies to wake up and fight for themselves.
Once you understand and accept how all of this works, it gets easier to stand normie political views.

>>65282
It's either that, or
>Why do you look so sad?
Haha… Bruh…


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Birthday Anonymous 65276[Reply]

It's my birthday in a few days and I would like to do something nice but I don't know what I could do.
>recently broke up after 4 years and still hurting over it
>recently had to withdraw from college, NEET time now
>no true friends, a few people who like me but I don't feel connected with them
>people are mad about COVID here (leaf) so there's a lot of restrictions still
>live in small town
>don't want to drink or do drugs (I have addictive tendencies) or have casual sex
Does anyone have any ideas? I think I'd feel bad if I didn't do something special and different, but I'm not sure what I can do that'd really set the day apart.
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Anonymous 65284

>>65276
>live in small town
Go for a walk anon, it is really reflective. You may feel sad that you did not did anything in your birthday, or that you were alone, but it is better to feel sad than to feel nothing. Godspeed.

Anonymous 65304

>>65276
Happy Soon Birthday :D

Anonymous 65313

>>65280
I used to spend the day with my bf and just have fun playing games or chatting, it wasn't particularly unique but it was nice. He'd urge some of his friends to celebrate with us too.
I don't really want to say my age but this year is considered a sort of milestone birthday so I feel like I should have something to look back on.
>>65281
>>65284
>>65287
Thanks for the ideas, I guess a self-care day wouldn't be the worst :)
>it is better to feel sad than to feel nothing
That's an interesting perspective, and I suppose at least if I feel sad then I'll have the motivation to do something instead of doing nothing at all
>arboretum
That's a cool idea! I dunno if we have stuff like that here, but it sounds really lovely.
>>65304
thank you!

Anonymous 65325

Aren't birthdays so often just making other people feel special and showing how happy you are?

If it's just you, you can just fill the day with doing stuff you love and feeling good. Like having a fun workout and then a really luxurious shower with scrubs and hair masks, and playing games all day or writing stories. Maybe make an awesome birthday lunch like a sushi selection and plum cake. Stuff you like. But you can have a whole day dedicated to making yourself happy without having to impress people! I'm sorry if you're still hurting, but I hope you find happiness on your birthday.

Anonymous 65327

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happy early bday be sure to eat lots of cake c:

maybe you should go somewhere for a day out, like a forest or a city for a hike or something. maybe you can even go somewhere nearish (like a restaurant) you've wanted to go for a while.

or you could just go shopping at a mall


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Anonymous 65009[Reply]

What do you do when you crush on someone? Is it bad that I sometimes ignore or ghost him?
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Anonymous 65012

>>65009
>What do you do when you crush on someone?
I get nervous when around him and feel like crying when I think I do something stupid while he's watching. I'm too much of a coward to take the first step.

>Is it bad that I sometimes ignore or ghost him?
Not if you don't see yourself in a relationship with him in the future.

Anonymous 65118

>>65009
I also ignore my crush because im nervous and feel like i might say the wrong thing and i care too much about what he thinks of me. I stalk his social medias and every girl he follows. and i become interested in his interests and copy things about him.

Anonymous 65271

>>65009
>What do you do when you crush on someone?
I usually try to suppress it and avoid the person I like. I am getting better though in learning to "sit in it" rather than running away.

>Is it bad that I sometimes ignore or ghost him?
it sounds like you have self esteem/attachment issues anon. I really reccomend you do more research on the topic if you are open to it! Doing so has personally helped me get less nervous around people in general, and I believe that if I keep going, I could eventually try to approach someone I like :)

Anonymous 65279

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I no longer crush, i avoid making eye contact with potential lovers as much as possible, another heartbreak would kill.

Anonymous 65307

>What do you do when you crush on someone?
Me, I become a nervous wreck. I feel like everything I say or do is cringe, and want to curl up in my own shell.
>Is it bad that I sometimes ignore or ghost him?
In my case it’s her (am lesbian), and yeah I’d say it’s pretty bad… since she blocked me recently. Can’t blame her, I guess. Idk what I expected. I think I just took too long to reply this time. Maybe I was waiting for her to ask me if everything’s okay, which was stupid of me, but yeah.


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Regrets Anonymous 663[Reply]

what do you regret, anons?
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Anonymous 64714

>>663
letting my ex keep our kids when we split up.

Anonymous 64727

>>970
I feel that. Did a science degree. Didn't have good enough grades to do anything with it. Now in the final throes of a techie degree, but not sure I like it enough to finish. I finally have a decent job but everything would have been a lot smoother if I had the willpower to do things right the first time.

Anonymous 64728

>>663
Joining the army.

Anonymous 64736

everything

rn i wish that i had friends who were serious about game art or that i went to a better psychiatrist that could have made me admit my retardation and helped me with it and not have fucked me up with zoloft and benzos like literally wtf i dont want to think about how fucked up that was

Anonymous 65272

>>663
I regret not taking the time to spend more time on my hobbies during hs. Im a khv, but i honestly didnt care about that, I just wish I learned and did more of the things I liked. At least I am doing it now, but it would have been helpful back then too..


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Dreams and wishes thread Anonymous 1652[Reply]

Wanted to make a thread for us to write about stuff that we want. Could be:

- Attainable dreams
- Unrealistic dreams
- Stuff that you want for the long run, like a type of career, housing and moving plans, etc
- Stuff that you really just want right now, like a holiday, a cute set of clothings, food
- An imaginary setting in your head that you want and want to talk about, being it realistic or not, like imagine a life you wish you would have

And all the stuff in between, I guess.
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Anonymous 58736

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I wish to stop having ADD. More realistically, I wish my country would legalize Adderall

Anonymous 58739

I want to attend a top tier uni, like Ivy/Oxbridge/etc for a masters.

I used to think these things were impossible, but having met a handful of people who attended these, or went on to attend them, none of them were mega geniuses. In fact, they just seemed to apply themselves well when it came to studying and were sharper than average in their subject (but sometimes dumber than average in other things).

Oh, and all of them were incredibly full of themselves but I guess I can fake that. I suppose you need to have self confidence to apply for these things.

Anonymous 60222

I wish I could stop being dead inside

Anonymous 65208

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I want a job that pays well… I want to be able to travel while working, so I can get a taste of life in other places too.
I want to be able to afford the newest fancy tech gadgets, too.

Anonymous 65268

>>1652
I want to hug and kiss a good fellow


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Is it okay to pursue roommates? Anonymous 63751[Reply]

A few weeks ago, we got a new housemate in the house and I have a massive crush on him. He's good looking, tall, super kind and makes us all dinner, very clean we have a lot of deep and meaningfuls and I think if we were to go drinking, I could pretty easily successfully make a move.
The thing is, I've had roommates in other houses go after me before and I haven't been interested, so it made things super awkward and frankly, awful for me having to avoid people in my own house. So I know how badly this could go if he turns me down.
Have any of you had experiences of hooking up with roomies or trying too, or it happening to you and how did it go?
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Anonymous 65151

>>63751
You're asking for suffering and misery. If you have a good roommate don't fuck it up theyre rare. Don't screw yourself, you might have to vet 80k more people before you find something like that again.

Anonymous 65152

>>64419
She knew him for 3 weeks, I don't think she loves him.

Anonymous 65157

He won't turn you down unless you're very ugly, men don't turn women down.

Anonymous 65165

>>65157
Don't listen to this retard

If you wanna confess, make sure that he likes your back first. If you don't see any signs, don't do it, it would be too risky.

Anonymous 65215

>>65157
Booty call isn't love and my guess is she won't like it if it's like this. Moids won't turn you down, but won't always want a relationship tho
And remember that good looking and tall are quite wanted so this probably means multiple girls are into him just because of that (depending on how much tho).
So don't rush unless you want dick from pretty boi


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Anonymous 65154[Reply]

THE ANGEL FROM MY NIGHTMARE

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Why do random teenage girls laugh at other people in public? Anonymous 65148[Reply]

I hear it happening to moids all the time but it just happened to me too. I think they fucking followed me home. I had just got back from the gym so I looked like shit, maybe they were calling me ugly and unkempt or something.
It reminded me of when I was in highschool and the "popular girls" would straight up verbally harass people in public, and get away with it because… they were pretty I guess?

Anonymous 65149

Yeah this is something some girls do, particularly the really pretty ones with nice hair and clothes, but they only do it in groups. I can never tell what they say but whenever on the tram or subway if I'm in a cart with a couple of them I can feel their eyes on me and know they're saying and gossiping about me. It makes me want to cry.

Anonymous 65150

>>65148
Because they know how easy it is to laugh at teenage girls.


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Lifelong perm neet Anonymous 62718[Reply]

Any other disabled neet here? I’m a woman and a lot of neet communities on discord resent me for such. I’m asexual and aromantic and have no boyfriend or interest in one. I also can’t drive and am essentially a adult child. My therapist even says my mental age is 12 due to me still loving toys at my age. I am autistic. I typically lurk here figured this will be likely my one and only post. Im in my late 30s almost 40. I like my life and it’s fairly ok. Parents gave me the master bedroom and I chill all day with my hobbies and internet. Curious, am I the only one? Totally fine if I am a lot of times I feel like the only one. I lurk the entire internet never or rarely ever posting.
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Anonymous 65019

Sometimes idk what to do because everyone’s expectation of me is to either get a job or get married and start a family but the truth is I have an aversion to hard work and am extremely lazy and both of those things require so much investment of energy and time. I honestly just wanna sit around.

Anonymous 65021

>>62819
u aint gonna do shit. just lmao @ ur life and keep waging away

Anonymous 65026

>>62819
blame the system

Anonymous 65031

>>62819
>I expect that soon you will have to become like me or die.

Sounds like a parody of a wagie

Anonymous 65140

you live my dream life. unfortunately i was born stupid and to poor parents. therefore i cant live my neet dream


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confessions thread 2 Anonymous 63992[Reply]

>>51270 previous bread

I never brush my teeth for the full 2 minutes
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Anonymous 64959

>>64811
Is sleeping with your parents acceptable in your country? When did you first realize that it weird to do?

Anonymous 64964

>>64561
Why did he pick you up?

>>64811
Do your parents just not have sex anymore? What do you do when they ask you to leave them alone for night? Sleep in the bathroom?

Anonymous 64975

>>64959
>Is sleeping with your parents acceptable in your country?
No.
>When did you first realize that it weird to do?
I knew it since I was a kid, but strangers do not watch us sleep, so I do not care.

>>64964
I am sure they still have sex, just not while I am home or in the bedroom, I have my own room, and I sleep there too sometimes, specially when I am feeling sick, or when I'm having period pain.

Anonymous 64983

>>64942
Understandable
>>64958
>I don't shower every day.
That’s not weird/shameful at all. I only bathe every other day usually.

Anonymous 65028

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>>63992
I never brush my teeth


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