/feels/ - Advice & Venting

This image makes me so sad ik it's probably AI but it makes me so unreasonably sad

>>125947
why are you so angry
>>125948
he brought it upon himself sadly

>>125868
My parents 😭

>>125870
I'd say it's pretty normal to not want to get up in the morning if it means having to deal with some assholes who berate you all the time and don't even want to listen to you. Some people are just incapable of dealing with a human they have power over. And some of them are parents. Best of luck nona.

>>125860
I've been there. I promise, it can get better, even if it's a slow process…
But yeah, you're not "making excuses", you're struggling and those people could help you instead of pointlessly complaining about what you're actively suffering from.
But some people simply don't get it. It can be so frustrating, I've had breakdowns over this before with different people. It's a special kind of hell when people don't understand you and you try to express it in different ways and rather than just taking you by your word, they pretend like they can relate somehow and totally get it but by what they're saying, you can tell that they really don't…
I hope you have a therapist you can talk to at least… And that you're getting support, even from the people who don't fully understand. I'd hope they're trying to help at least, even if they're apparently quite bad at it.

>>125860
They don't understand because they never had something like that happen to them. Unfortunately depression is something very few people can actually understand or even sympathize with, people always think there are worse things in life etc etc Trying to explain to them is useless because they will always try to rationalize it when it's not something to rationalize.
Give yourself time, try read things online, self help and care can help a lot

Radahn, stop being a baby and brush your teeth, they smell like your sister´s rot

>>125851
>a nasty reputation for being misandric
…You know where you are, right?

>>125861
No.

>>125779
Monday's come and gone so how was it?

>>125779
Tell him you won't have sex before marriage.

Just deny him on the first few dates and see how he reacts. Get to know his interests and hobbies first, too.
Be careful those nerd types are usually insecure, but they can get really nasty when they don’t get what they want in a short period of time. Most men are like that, but a nerd can become obsessed since he doesn’t have anything else to move on to.

No.

Honestly sounds like it might be a point of view problem. Maybe you are underestimating how much effort the other parties are putting into the relationship. I did the same thing when I was younger.

>>125548
Warren the Eagle?

Nope.

Theyll always gonna talk about themselves or their favorite football team no matter how much you dont give a shit about it. At least youll know what they are easier so thats a positive thing.

>>125644
Nobody said otherwise idiot. I highly doubt you’re a woman and even if you were I have no interest in engaging with one who thinks women who critique degeneracy don’t enjoy sex. Very male centered way of inserting yourself into the conversation. Also just very out of touch. Do better dumbass.

>>125647
Nta but you post like such a caricature of a radfem I wouldn't be surprised if you're a man deliberately trying to sow discord. Chill out nona

>>125648
Zzzzzz

>>125647
>I have no interest in engaging with one who thinks women who critique degeneracy don’t enjoy sex
never said that

sounds like classic male negging. dated a guy just like this once. my favourite is when he denied why he would follow these girls in the first place. glad that’s over with. you can do better girl

Why does he not like mogeko games?

same but we are 3 years in ahahaha

why aren’t you guys compatible? don’t leave us hanging nona

I genuinely think if I have a kid they're going to end up an asocial weirdo and I'm not sure I want to subject anyone to that fate.

Yes, I want to be a mother but I'm scared of pregnancy and childbirth. My sister-in-law had a very dangerous childbirth (she and the baby both turned out ok) which really put the fear of god into me. But I want to raise a child.

>>125730
I have neither the money, nor the confidence nor a partner. Also, pregnancy sounds like body horror and I already have incontinence among other health issues.
Kids are cute, but I'd rather be a cool aunt than a mum.

I would love to be a mom but I just know I'd end up being toxic or abusive like my mother was to me and her mother was to her. I want to be a mom but know I wouldn't make a good mother. Also I do not trust men enough to procreate with one so it would be adopted.

no i’m not suffering through child birth just to have a kid in this economy. no thanks. i like the idea of never experiencing a vaginal tear.

>>120663
look a the website youre typing this out at. do u really think YOURE normal? be honest.

>>125750
Nta but people who come on here to gripe about how abnormal and ugly they are are the only abnormal ones. Speak for yourself, you sound like you just capitulate to moid opinions 24/7 constantly regurgitating their opinions in feels. I don't have you're stupid moid mindgutter problems or desperation to suffocate myself to appear normal

Your attitude is what isn't normal. If you had self respect it would show to others and you wouldn't experience what you do. Your obsession with appearing normal and rigid social rules is probably why people hate you in the first place

This has nothing to do with thinking of murder just the stupid twats who come on here with disastrously mismanaged self esteem

This whole sub feels is P-A-T-H-E-T-I-C

>>125753
shut the fuck up

abusive stepdad.
he died naturally and I eventually forgave him. wasn't fun to carry around that much hate and animosity.

>>120653
I've always seen myself as a pacifist, because I can see the humanity in abusive people, I know that they're operating under the same human nature as I, I understand that hurt people hurt people and I've had a hard time reconciling these views with my abusive dad's misogyny and so on, whatever, but I was determined that I'd never want to stoop down to someone's level, to become vindictively murderous when there is a better way…
But then someone raped my mum. She didn't report it. I've never seen a report of sexual abuse work out in the first place. I only found out about it because this man's wife called my mum about why she cheated with her husband. He didn't call it rape, he called it cheating, as if breaking into her home at night and threatening her was merely "cheating on his wife". And I felt such rage. I kept asking myself "Is there really no other way? Is that it? He can just do that and the only repercussion is his wife being upset about him 'cheating'?" and… I've never wanted to kill anyone as much as that man, that shitty cultist and "friendly neighbour" rapist who hurt my mum so much, she was afraid to sleep at night and couldn't even tell me about it because I was also just a minor and just… I found out years after the fact, I don't know where he lives, but when I remember this, I still just want him dead. But truly, I wish the law and police could've been reliable and trustworthy at the time and landed this rapist in prison. But none of the rapists I know ever went to prison. And I don't know what to do about it…
I used to think myself above being swayed by my emotions to commit a murder of vengeance, to even entertain that I could ever be in favour of such a crime. But I had to accept that I'm not above that kind of feeling at all…
I don't think it's likely that I'll ever find myself in a situation where I'd really kill someone… I still would prefer a solution and outcome where no one has to die… Where the law does a great job and no people would be tempted by vigilantism, where these cases are taken seriously and rapists face some repercussions… But in my experience, they just don't. And I do worry that I could feel tempted to really hurt someone under certain circumstances. I'd rather not be in that kind of situation, but… Yeah…
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