One time I had 3 attempts with a guy. I'll try to make it short instead of defending myself so try not to judge me too hard
>What was the cause of the breakup?
First: I stopped going out with him because I wasn't feeling it. Dates went well, he was courteous every step of the day, shared hobbies, but I just didn't feel it, idk. That was the first time I went on a real "date". We had 3 dates in total, didn't kiss. He reached out to try and make another date happen and I told him I didn't really want another. That was that.
Second: This is the actual breakup. Met again on a dating app 4 years later, spontaneously went out, started dating, he has weird stipulations but I try my best, he picks me apart, I feel suspicious of him but am trying not to be too guarded, he dumps me>How did you feel right after the breakup? Angry, miserable, numb, or something else? Did you want to move on forever or were you still hanging onto the relationship?
I was kind of shocked, I'd never been dumped before and it was completely out of the blue. He made me drive an hour to his place just to stay the night and then break up with me before I left for work. What the fuck. >How long were you apart for before getting back together? What was this time period like?
He called me exactly 2 weeks later.>How was the idea to get back together brought up? Why did you choose to get back together?
He immediately told me he had intentionally kept me at an arm's length and used a bullshit reason to break up with me because he didn't want to commit. Told me he loved me for the first time and asked if I'd get back together. I told him I'd think about it and eventually agreed to go on a date again.>Do you feel like enough things changed or that enough steps were taken to address the reason for the original breakup?
No, everything was the same as before.>Are you still together today or did you break up again? Why do you think that result happened?
He was the same person all three times, I just didn't trust my gut. I don't even remember why we finally broke up, just that he suggested couples' therapy and I was like bro we haven't even been dating for 3 months, if we already need relationship counseling we're just not a good match, but I still had a hard time brePost too long. Click here to view the full text.