/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>125973
It’s not just you. As a fellow fem4fem it’s just made it harder to wade through the muck, and it feels weird to have to relinquish what would be a completely feminine space to the invading sausage party for the social brownie points. A lot of the lesbian scene has been choked up polys trying to pawn their ugly boyfriend on me, or trans with hairy chests. I honestly have more luck in bars than on dating apps now, cause the bullshit you have to sift through just to find regular fem women is getting to be annoying asf.

agree with everything you’re saying here and nona you can date me if you want.i think you could call me futch i like wearing feminine clothes and makeup im just lazy asf but if I was dating a girl I would put more effort into my appearance again

>sapphic
you fucking cocksucker

Your post reminded me of myself (in a good way!). If you want a drinking friend or to chat with another person who has experience in this field, feel free to add me on discord: archer054

I relate to this post. High and and ugly shut in femcel

>>125613
in /b/

do heroin

I hate you larping faggots. Go back to tiktok

>>126912
Also to add, I don't know if he truly means this but he says he would kill himself if I died and I freak out because wtf? He also just talks so poorly on himself that it's getting to me and I don't know what to do because I do believe in male mental health but he doesn't even know how to look after himself let alone be in a relationship with someone

>>126914
DO NOT MEET WITH HIM!!

>>126912
a man in his mid twenties love bombing a teenager he met online and now using suicide baiting guilt tactics on you?

i don’t know how to say this lightly but nona. he’s going to force himself on you. whether it’s sexual or forcing a relationship.

this is a jobless adult man who is resorting to dating teenagers because other people his age have apartments and engagements and degrees and careers. he has to date your age because it’s less weird to you at your age for someone to not have these things. but he isn’t a teenager like you. he is stunted and probably dangerous.

if i were you i’d pull a:
“hee hee i don’t remember you asking to be my bf!!!”
“ohhh well it’s a bit fast and i want to be able to meet someone before i decide”
“ohh im not feeling well and since i won’t be able to get what i needed to done, i’m going to have to push when we meet back!”
and then talk about all of your responsibilities and working towards having a life of your own and see how he either thinks he is more important and be repulsed or he’ll have to back off. and then i would slowly stop responding or respond less and less. he will probably freak out at you a little. don’t reply right away then pretend you’re super sorry and worried reply for a bit then have “something come up and you’ll be right back” you have to back out of these things slowly and carefully. idk how obsessed he is or how much do your info he has. he’s already threatening suicide with you cooperating. he WILL threaten you or harm you at least emotionally if not worse in the future if you don’t comply. think about how weird he is being when you’re being agreeable. THIS is his honeymoon phase?

nona you better run or we will all be disappointed in you. you know deep down already this man is a creep. you’re just a baby still. don’t worry. rejecting this man will open doors for new men to come and you’ll have a higher sense of self worth each time you reject a man. the higher your standards are the better. rejecting men like this is how you build your standards. you’ve already taken the first step in identifying this is a certifiable freak. that’s major. you know what you need to do deep down.

this is why I don't expect friends with randos from imageboards. at most expecting a one time chat is reasonable I think.

as for being interesting, you're supposed to learn that from experience anyways.

don't expect to become friends right off the bat*

>>126888
its just exhausting introducing myself over and over and i barely get any reciprocation. maybe they are dull and boring like me.

>>126896
you're not supposed to be doing that tbh unless they're interested, you're supposed to make them feel emotional things first and foremost. which is hard to explain cause you need to experience it to get it

This image makes me so sad ik it's probably AI but it makes me so unreasonably sad

>>125947
why are you so angry
>>125948
he brought it upon himself sadly

>>125948
Why
because he's sticky?

>>126884
i don't have the cold heart needed to disable recently viewed photos in settings and just hope he doesn't notice

isn’t it just one of the first signs of being socially well-adjusted to at least attempt a compliment when seeing someone even if you don’t mean it? men aren’t expected to do it because they’re viewed as blunt and blind to social cues (and they generally are). women can read the room and can actually pick up on when someone needs validation or comforting. don’t fight it nano, the discomfort in being forced to compliment is just a reminder that you can emotionally understand someone.

>>126777
thank you cos how are men gonna blame all their problems on the gender they are mistreating and then ask us to view them as the victim fix everything for them and for some reason we are expected to be attracted to people like that. and then be submissive and be like yas you’re the boss? nah. they can suffer until they find enlightenment and use it to strengthen their character. or they can perish.

yesterday i matched with a guy on hinge who introduced himself as a misandrist but he unmatched with me after i told him i wasn't gonna split a check with him kek.

performative male final boss.

>>126784
that’s crazy but bullet dodged.

>>126784
i actually laughed at this holy shit theyre so retarded kek. very misandrist of him

>>126784
>yesterday i matched with a guy on hinge who introduced himself as a misandrist
That's like an immediate personality disorder red flag, clinical levels or not. Weird ahh manipulation strat.

>>126240
It's always fascinating to me that 4chan is about a million different things, while crystal cafe is almost exclusively about men and dating them. Definitely tells you something about the sexes

>> 126827
4chan is about four things: incels commiserating and affirming each others delusions, incel hobbies, incels desperately attempting to alter their appearance to try to gain female attention, and the rest of it is pictures of naked women and attempts to meet them or get them to contact incels. incel delusions are about lack of female contact. you have exactly three interests: gaming, cosplay and anime. those are all covered here as well as every other female interest. thanks for your time!

>>126243
Ironic how supposedly feminist website says that women have no place in discussing politics.

>>126839
Silly thought but- Maybe the answer is lolcow?

>>126845
I don't get it. You aren't allowed to discuss those subjects on lolcow either.