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Anonymous 125860[Reply]

Why is everyone telling me to stop making excuses when I'm just trying to explain how hard it is to get up in the morning, how hard it is to talk to people, and how hard it is to remember whether I brushed my teeth?
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Anonymous 125871

>>125870
I'd say it's pretty normal to not want to get up in the morning if it means having to deal with some assholes who berate you all the time and don't even want to listen to you. Some people are just incapable of dealing with a human they have power over. And some of them are parents. Best of luck nona.

Anonymous 125882

>>125860
I've been there. I promise, it can get better, even if it's a slow process…
But yeah, you're not "making excuses", you're struggling and those people could help you instead of pointlessly complaining about what you're actively suffering from.
But some people simply don't get it. It can be so frustrating, I've had breakdowns over this before with different people. It's a special kind of hell when people don't understand you and you try to express it in different ways and rather than just taking you by your word, they pretend like they can relate somehow and totally get it but by what they're saying, you can tell that they really don't…
I hope you have a therapist you can talk to at least… And that you're getting support, even from the people who don't fully understand. I'd hope they're trying to help at least, even if they're apparently quite bad at it.

Anonymous 125884

>>125860
They don't understand because they never had something like that happen to them. Unfortunately depression is something very few people can actually understand or even sympathize with, people always think there are worse things in life etc etc Trying to explain to them is useless because they will always try to rationalize it when it's not something to rationalize.
Give yourself time, try read things online, self help and care can help a lot

Anonymous 125932

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Radahn, stop being a baby and brush your teeth, they smell like your sister´s rot

Anonymous 126988

>>125932
Wish I could say this to my best friends boyfriend. Imagine getting a new relationship when you’re so depressed and have no hobbies and friends and your new gf has to fix his self esteem cuz his “CRAZY EX” made him sad. And your entire first year of dating is you and him against the world baby. Meanwhile his ex is a normal woman who got cheated on and wouldn’t take him back. Who he still pines over publicly. While my best friend picks up after him and he pretends this is his first real relationship and he was the victim in all his other ones or “it just didn’t feel right like it does with you”. And what feels right is living like a depressed loser but she pays for half of it and does all the chores.


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

Previous Thread >>2119
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Anonymous 127074

>>127073
Always works on people like this

Anonymous 127082

someone is leaving messages pretending to be you and it’s actually ridiculous.

Anonymous 127083

i saw someone like idk exactly who it is or maybe it is you trying to get me to contact you reacting a certain way i’m not sure. but you really went too far with that last one.

Anonymous 127084

you can still apologize but trying to mess with my relationship is going too far. i wish we never dated. it’s the night we met vibes not what if vibes. you should know this.

Anonymous 127085

and if you think those songs are love songs.. oh my god? you’re not one of THOSE people who don’t understand what they mean and like propose during them right???


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Ugh short guys... Anonymous 126821[Reply]

There's a gorgeous guy at my local library who genuinely looks like a fucking josei character irl. But he's unbelievably short. Like, literally around 5'4 compared to my 5'7. Such a shame…to have such a pretty and well defined face on the body of a little boy. This world is cruel.
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Anonymous 126906

>>126867
It literally is, he really expected women to be like "ohh that's so true sis slay" so he could take a screencap n bitch and moan in /r9k/ lmfao fucking loser

Anonymous 126908

>>126906
there’s like five women here and a bunch of men spamming. why do they care about this place? because it’s not morally evil inherently like lolcow is so they want to punish the women here more for just being nice and chill?

Anonymous 126910

>>126821
i miss u

Anonymous 126944

I'm 5'0" I'll take him

Anonymous 126981

>>126821
Truly embarrassing. You want to be three inches taller than your partner? You want to look down on his balding head and have everyone around you constantly notice you have wider shoulders and other embarrassing things that automatically make them and their relationship superior to you and yours? Being larger than your boyfriend is like having more money or a better job than your boyfriend. It’s like having a bigger body count than your boyfriend.


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dating ppl you’re not physically attracted to Anonymous 126942[Reply]

dating ppl you don’t find attractive is actually one of the most selfish and cruelest things some ppl do to each other. i can’t stand how some ppl actually think this is a virtuous act and think this makes the love you have for someone more valid. stop doing this. you’re way better off alone than doing this to another person.

Anonymous 126943

>>126942
This happens like extremely rarely anyway

Anonymous 126948

>>126942
You're right, and you also helped double convince me against even thinking about messing with this guy tonight. I was caught between "is he cute or the only guy dressed well tonight" and that's probably enough of a reason to just not.
I've been on the back end of that scenario, it's not fun. he was a porn sick guy who really didn't care about the woman's looks so long as they had a large cup size. I am small chested and eventually he sprung the "gift" of implants on me. And yeah it would be using the guy in a gross way, even if he technically is interested (but with a presumably excited and willing partner which I guess I'm not). My thoughts for getting with him absolutely are not virtuous though, I am lonely and post bad breakup with the aforementioned asshole lmao. I think some girls with uggos are like me, and some probably have low self esteem too like one of my friends who absolutely could do better than her ogrish Redditor bf

Anonymous 126959

icl my boyfriend is hella ugly

Anonymous 126973

>>126959
mine too lol but im so into it he's just so unique i need him. only problem is i cant stop thirsting over randoms bc theyre attractive. its too bad attractive men dont have personalities


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Anonymous 106726[Reply]

post yr ideal partner
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Anonymous 119837

>>119831

ideally i'd be the first of seven and he'd forget about doing the other six

Anonymous 119838

>>119835
what?

Anonymous 119854

It's unironically a young benedictine monk I met when I was in France, I have no idea if I'll meet him again or not but he was an amazingly sweet snd kind person (like most real christians). I'm not a christian so I have no idea what this is about.

Anonymous 119857

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>>113949
>>114178
Submissive men that aren't very fetishistic about it are naturally hard to find due to being, obviously, submissive. They're shy, probably don't go out unless it's with friends, probably don't use dating apps.
Really, the only time to get a submissive man is when you're in school.

Anonymous 126972

>>119668
I know a guy almost exactly like this, minus the TERF part.


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Anonymous 126292[Reply]

What does it feel like to be in a happy fulfilling relationship with someone you’re attracted both physically and emotionally?
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Anonymous 126324

It's pretty nice I enjoy it

Anonymous 126349

reading this post just made me want to smash my head against a wall. it's so bad that even the slightest mention of a "happy couple" sends me into a downwards spiral. i hate being lonely.

Anonymous 126350

>>126349
Don't chase the bonding chemical highs lol

Anonymous 126377

>>126350
people really get drunk on brain chemicals and then think when they’re depleted or you’ve developed a tolerance it means the spark faded. there was never a spark. he was just love bombing.

Anonymous 126960

No one has these anymore. Everyone just marries who they’re with when they turn 30 now.


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no friends Anonymous 126841[Reply]

i have no friends at all except for my husband, and it gets so so lonely and im so sad i wish i had girl friends that i could talk makeup and hair and cute stuff with but nobody wants to talk to me ever and nobody wants to be my friend how do i make friend
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Anonymous 126844

I'll be your friend! How ya doing today?

Anonymous 126847

>>126844
omg im doing fine what about you ??

Anonymous 126945

>>126847
3 days late… I'm so sorry.

Not bad tbh. Just got out of work and I'm about to get ready for bed. I got another shift tomorrow, then three more shifts next week.

Whatcha going to do for Thanksgiving?


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Any sex repulsed blackpillers here? Anonymous 126937[Reply]

>be me
>be blackpilled cuz of female role in sex being blackpilling
>Try to meet more like-minded women
>Meet none
>Feel misunderstood and lonely

Anonymous 126939

>>126937
Yes but not as blackpilled/nihilistic as you probably
voluntarily abstinent/virgin and celibate never had a bf few can relate but it brings me mystical insight


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Sapphic girlies and lesbians Anonymous 125973[Reply]

It's hard out here for feminine woman who likes feminine women. Can I just be totally honest here though, despite the fact that I'm tolerant and have many trans friends, I gotta say I am genuinely starting to have trans fatigue. It's permeated into all walks of life to the point where we can't even have dating apps to ourselves.
It's enough that I have to sort through the usual Justin Beiber clones (as butch women are not my type), all the couples wanting to spring their boyfriend or husband onto you right out the gate, and now we gotta deal with the overwhelming amount of trans "lesbians" who most of which are still just clearly men, big ass men with stubble and balls and it's damn near impossible for lipstick lesbians to even get a fighting chance because these troops will fight tooth and nail to get into every single female only space they can. I'm not interested in dick, you can say it's fucked up that I'm concerned with what's in their pants, but that's a manipulative and almost predatory remark to make when they're fighting for their place to try and get into yours. It also makes it harder to find women when most of them are so far brainwashed you can't discuss this with them either, without them tweaking out and saying but trans women are women, like fuck off. They can exist but can they just accept being the 3d thing and leave women the fuck alone? I'm absolutely allowed care that they have a dick and not want them in my dating pool, they aren't lesbians.
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Anonymous 126051

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>>125973
It’s not just you. As a fellow fem4fem it’s just made it harder to wade through the muck, and it feels weird to have to relinquish what would be a completely feminine space to the invading sausage party for the social brownie points. A lot of the lesbian scene has been choked up polys trying to pawn their ugly boyfriend on me, or trans with hairy chests. I honestly have more luck in bars than on dating apps now, cause the bullshit you have to sift through just to find regular fem women is getting to be annoying asf.

Anonymous 126249

>sapphic

Anonymous 126813

>>125973
>spring their boyfriend or husband onto you right out the gate how normal is this with millennials and gen z

Anonymous 126820

agree with everything you’re saying here and nona you can date me if you want.i think you could call me futch i like wearing feminine clothes and makeup im just lazy asf but if I was dating a girl I would put more effort into my appearance again

Anonymous 126925

>sapphic
you fucking cocksucker


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Anonymous 125585[Reply]

drunk as fuck alone in my room. how can i ever find friends or love if im just a stupid gay loser shut in femcel freak
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Anonymous 125614

Your post reminded me of myself (in a good way!). If you want a drinking friend or to chat with another person who has experience in this field, feel free to add me on discord: archer054

Anonymous 125615

I relate to this post. High and and ugly shut in femcel

Anonymous 125621

>>125613
in /b/

Anonymous 126869

do heroin

Anonymous 126924

I hate you larping faggots. Go back to tiktok


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