/feels/ - Advice & Venting

What does it feel like to be in a happy fulfilling relationship with someone you’re attracted both physically and emotionally?

i have no friends at all except for my husband, and it gets so so lonely and im so sad i wish i had girl friends that i could talk makeup and hair and cute stuff with but nobody wants to talk to me ever and nobody wants to be my friend how do i make friend
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Nice girls really do finish last. I've been single for a few years and have not talked to any man until recently. I finally approached a guy I thought was cute. We hit it off but I did not know he was crippled. He explained he attempted suicide and shot himself but miraculously survived and now one side of his body is crippled. He ruined his potential over his ex who treated him like shit. And now I'm just here to pick up the pieces I guess since this is all I can get. Damaged, used goods. Fml

It's hard out here for feminine woman who likes feminine women. Can I just be totally honest here though, despite the fact that I'm tolerant and have many trans friends, I gotta say I am genuinely starting to have trans fatigue. It's permeated into all walks of life to the point where we can't even have dating apps to ourselves.
It's enough that I have to sort through the usual Justin Beiber clones (as butch women are not my type), all the couples wanting to spring their boyfriend or husband onto you right out the gate, and now we gotta deal with the overwhelming amount of trans "lesbians" who most of which are still just clearly men, big ass men with stubble and balls and it's damn near impossible for lipstick lesbians to even get a fighting chance because these troops will fight tooth and nail to get into every single female only space they can. I'm not interested in dick, you can say it's fucked up that I'm concerned with what's in their pants, but that's a manipulative and almost predatory remark to make when they're fighting for their place to try and get into yours. It also makes it harder to find women when most of them are so far brainwashed you can't discuss this with them either, without them tweaking out and saying but trans women are women, like fuck off. They can exist but can they just accept being the 3d thing and leave women the fuck alone? I'm absolutely allowed care that they have a dick and not want them in my dating pool, they aren't lesbians.

drunk as fuck alone in my room. how can i ever find friends or love if im just a stupid gay loser shut in femcel freak

every time i reach out and try to make online friends one on one they end up ghosting me because they have lives or end up talking to other more interesting people online. why even try anymore.

>lurk 4chan
>full of toxicity
>lurk cc
>full of toxicity
it's all so tiresome, nonas…

i went through my boyfriends phone and not only was it clean but i discovered something new in that iphone logs when you click on a photo in the gallery
i feel bad for not trusting him now…..

i hate the expectation that women are supposed to constantly compliment other women. especially on their looks. i’m a straight woman… i don’t view women through physical attraction at all. so complimenting their body or features feels unnatural to me. but if a woman doesn’t do it, people immediately assume she’s envious, insecure and sometimes even anti woman. men never face this. straight men aren’t expected to compliment other men, and when they don’t, no one questions their character or motives. women, meanwhile, are pressured to provide nonstop emotional validation. not complimenting a woman’s appearance doesn’t mean i dislike them. it just means i don’t feel obligated to perform a role society unfairly forces onto women. i don’t find women physically attractive. sorry not sorry.