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Anonymous 106960[Reply]

I don't want to be a lesbian

Growing up I used to watch lot of half naked women, especially watch those American music songs despite not knowing any English. I watched over and over the parts which especiallu focused on women's butts and boobs. At 11 years old I discovered porn and soon it was lesbian porn only. At that time I didn't know what homosexuality is and didn't take it in that way.

Later in life I started to dream about family and having kids, but I never wanted guy to be in the picture or I imagined myself as the father. I have dated twice and the both have been internet relationships with a guy. I did love them as a person but that's it. I don't find men attractive at all, there are some good-looking men but they are good-looking only with clothing on. As soon thats away, I find the slighly repulsive.

I have tried to watch some neutral videos related to homosexuality, but I can't just accept it. Even semi normal ones from 70s and 80s where homosexuals tell their experiences around that time but I can't accept it. I feel sick, I feel like I am mentally ill and damaged for liking women this way.

I have tried to cure myself, change myself but I always come back to this. Women are too beautiful, attractive and sexy. I cannot stop lusting after women, if a woman outside walks past me and she is wearing reveling clothing I cannot look away. All my dreams include some kind of contanct with women. I even dreamed about going abroad to a lesbian bar.

But I don't want to be this way, I feel wrong, bad, damaged, not good. I feel terrible human for having these feelings. I feel like a bad person for wanting family without father figure, watching pornography for the whole purpose of seeing naked women. I feel like a coomer is watching girls. I don't want to live this way. I tried to seek God and looked into Christianity but my impure thoughts didn't go anywhere.

When I looked into Christianity, I found out about adelphoiesis and started to dream about that. I would really want to be in that kind of relationship with a beautiful woman. I feel sick of thinking like that. I wish I was normal, like everyone else.Everyone knew I was lesbian before I knew. They would insult that or other LGBT people would be with me and try to get to know because they thought I was one of them.

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Anonymous 109244

On the topic of sexual fluidity and the normality of lesbian orientation. There is evidence that most trans women experience changes in sexual orientation. Mostly, "lesbians" became bisexual, and bisexuals were less attracted to women on HRT. FTMs showed a smaller change. Moreover, a significant part of ftm is gay, despite testosterone.There is evidence that the brain is feminized on HRT. There is also evidence that transgender people have disorders in the prenatal period in sexual differentiation. I don't consider trans women to be women, but maybe a broken hypothalamus is enough to cause sexual fluidity?

Anonymous 109297

Ayrt and half of the links are about murder too. It was in response to posts like >>109057 .

Anonymous 109308

>The idea that you can't choose who you love is one of THE MOST retarded things I've ever heard
Can you fall in love with a given person on command? Is that what you're saying? I'd be interested to hear YOUR definition of love.
>no one with a proper mother and father figure becomes gay
I would describe my father and mother as proper father and mother figures and I'm still bisexual. Pretty much everyone has some kind of trauma.
There's nothing wrong with any of what you want. the only thing about you that you should focus on changing is your self loathing. Yeah, kids probably do benefit from having a father and a mother but almost no one grows up in a picture perfect family anyways and most of us turn out pretty okay. I don't see a family with same sex parents as being better or worse than a family with a single parent raising them alone, or a family where grandparents or aunts and uncles have to take on the roles or parents. Lots of hetero parents end up seriously damaging their children so I don't see any reason that two well intentioned women shouldn't be given a chance to raise a child. They can't do worse than some straights have done.

Anonymous 109332

There are many women with absolutely terrible childhoods and they remain straight. If this is the result of Stockholm syndrome, then with treatment, sexuality should become healthier and a person should be liberated. Still, it's not just life experience that affects.

Anonymous 110126

"I will also show that excitability has a greater daily effect on men's sexual desire than on men's sexual desire, for reasons related to women's hormonal cycles. related to female hormonal cycles. If we consider these factors together, the factors indicate that women's daily sexual desires should be more flexible and changeable than men's. The second phenomenon associated with female sexual variability is the "disorientation" of romantic love. Although we usually assume. that sexual orientation directs people's romantic feelings along the same path as their sexual desires. sexual desires, this is not the case. On the contrary, what we know about the evolutionary origin and neurobiological mechanisms of romantic love suggests that it (1) functions independently of sexual desire, having other biological bases; (2) can develop even in the absence of sexual desire; and (3) does not have an "orientation" in the same the same as sexuality. As a result Thanks to these features, we can fall in love with someone without feeling affection for them, even if this person does not match our sexual orientation. sexual orientation. The third phenomenon associated with female sexual variability is the connection between romantic love and sexual desire. the connection between romantic love and sexual desire. This connection allows you to start with strong platonic (i.e. non-sexual) feelings of love, non-sexual) feelings of love for another person, and sometimes new and unexpected sexual desires.
The third phenomenon associated with female sexual variability is the connection between romantic love and sexual desire. This connection allows you to start with strong platonic (that is, non-sexual) feelings of love for another person, and as a result experience new and unexpected sexual desires for him, non-sexual) feelings of love for another person, and as a result, sometimes new and unexpected sexual desires for this person arise. This is because love and desire, despite being separate processes, nevertheless have strong cultural, psychological and neurobiological links between them. One experience can contribute to another. We all know that sexual desire can turn into romantic love, but the opposite can also happen: romantic love can lead to sexual desire. Given this two-way connection between love and desire, we can to develop sexual desire for a person of the "wrong sex", just like we do we can fall in love with a person of the wrong sex. Such atypical desires may be lPost too long. Click here to view the full text.


People with motivation are blessed and privileged. No matter what background. Anonymous 109641[Reply]

People who find this planet motivating nowadays are just stuck in a fantasy illusion someone built up around them all their lives. I'm seriously tired of hearing that theres something wrong with me because i never had that delusion from the beginning.

90% of the time work is some form of wageslavery that fucks you or amounts to 60 years of theft you never get back. Most people cannot even afford homes or childcare nowadays.

Only men truly benefit from work and have a fulfilling experience from it because they're bolstered and motivated by delusional male power fantasies and fantasies of patriarchal rape /burn it all capitalism. A fantasy thst disproportionately rewards them and celebrates them.

Women always end up getting nothing but hate and shit on when they attain real things in life that arent pregnancy. Or they stagnate in wage slavery. All because anythimg else would taking away from the male power fantasy. They're dragged down in a spotlight and destroyed by drama way more often. So we should have motivation to do what exactly ??????????????

When scrotes open their mouths about the "reward" of work this is the deepest vilest most dishonest lie they use.

Women who gain nothing from shitstain male delusion in real life do not share any of the same benefits nor motivation because they know they will be left behind or conned somewhere; dragged down or doxxed somewhere. they know theyll actually gain nothing from the hard work that only benefits if you if you're blessed with the horse shit male power fantasies to get you there and accepted. The males that don't have fantasy delusion also lose a staggering amount from work, the same way.

Why do we never call out this insane lie??

The worst possible thing about it to me is hearing that you can climb out of systematic psychological ruin/ depression/ passivity/ feminization/ through wage slavery. That anything related to work will get you out of a rut.
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Anonymous 110196

I only like that work gives me money so I can buy delicious baked goods and cool drinks in the sun with my friends in the summer. I also have motivation for my hobbies on my time off.
Call it cope but I know I can't change the system, so I enjoy the small things I can. It's either that or rot or kms. This is objectively the best choice.
Perhaps I do have the privilege to not be fully depressed. My life has been a bit shittier than average in the Western world and my family was working poor growing up, but I still enjoy things on the planet.


Anonymous 110016[Reply]

Is it okay to hate your so's stupid whore exes? I think it should be
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Anonymous 110130

You shouldn't be with a moid with stupid whore exes to begin with.

Anonymous 110141

"if you ever ever had a single girlfriend or two before you're an used object and should be thrown into the trash" posts like >>110019 sound 100% like a parody of maleposting you should take your meds "nonas"

Anonymous 110143

If it's just one or two, it's pretty okay. When the body count approaches 10 though… it means the person can't keep their shit attention span focused on one "love" interest for longer than two minutes and will forget about you the moment you part ways. They will use you to kill time or lower the horniness particle levels in their body. No attachment, no significance given to your interactions. You will be as cherished and appreciated as a cheap fleshlight.

Anonymous 110165

If I'm a virgin, he better be. Simple as.

Anonymous 110166

>"if you ever ever had a single girlfriend or two before you're an used object and should be thrown into the trash"
This but unironically.


Anonymous 109747[Reply]

I want friends lol
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Anonymous 109990

Does wanting to unalive yourself count?

Anonymous 109991

this isn't tiktok

Anonymous 109993

I want to unalienable myself too but no it doesn't

Anonymous 109994

Fucking autocorrection, now everyone knows I'm a phone poster

Anonymous 110122

Why isn't the video in OP playing?


stupid moid bf won’t stop looking at girls online Anonymous 109246[Reply]

I found out my bf had been searching up girls on IG and saving photos of egirls on twitter after I’ve told him a million times that it makes me feel like shit. I’ve also found memes that he saved basically fetishizing girls like me and making fun of one of my past suicide attempts.
I feel so stupid for staying but I legitimately feel like nobody else would want me. I have no other friends and no money and I’d be completely alone if I didn’t have him even though I can’t fucking stand him. Im mentally ill as fuck and super mid and nobody really shows any interest in me.
It disgusts me that he’s saving pictures of what he wishes I looked like and doesn’t understand why it makes me upset. I fucking hate moids so much but I don't want to be completely alone.
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Anonymous 109957

damn truth

Anonymous 110015

How the fuck you guys settle for the lowest of the low?
I might be autistic too (extremely insecure even tho people called me cute all my life, lost my virginity at the age of 20 after dating this guy for 6 months to make sure I loved him.) But holy shit I would never settle for these subhuman males that can't even have the minimal respect when in a relationship.
And yes, my bf is a college dropout bum as well who at best gets a part time job once in a while, but at least he gives me quality time, cuddles, snuggles, pillowtalk and doesn't look at other girls/cheat on me with porn, and I have enough money to sustain both us so NEET'ing aint a problem.

Anonymous 110022

So look at hot bish moids online and read tons of yaoi.

Anonymous 110027

Not to be rude but this is literally the "first world problems" equivalent to relationships.
Even in the best relationships you will be facing much much worse challenges together, if this is enough to derail thing now, you aren't ready for a serious relationship.

I remember how when my mom and dad were unwinding in the evening in their room, my mom reading and my dad watching a film, they would casually comment on the women when there were naked/sexy scenes. The boobs on this one, are the real/not etc. My mom did it in the most casual way possible, couldn't care less if my dad was enjoying a nice pair or a steamy sex scene.

Anonymous 110044

Nah its weird to be constantly looking at pics of girls online when you have a gf, you literally have a real life girl you could look at and do stuff with and are ogling photoshopped onlyfans chicks online instead, wack


I feel like socially inept women just suffer more than socially inept men. Anonymous 109789[Reply]

Men are far more satisfied with self-focused and solitary lives. Being unable to socialize hits a woman much harder because we're more socially driven. Yet men get a loneliness epidemic and we don't. Why? Do we not vocalize how we feel enough? What's the board's thoughts?
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Anonymous 109955

This is absolutely not true. They think their solution is penis in vagina because they're retarded, your first mistake was listening to what men say on its face.
Men absolutely cannot make friends with each other easily, they're so emotionally disconnected from each other than just to compliment one another makes them worry about seeming gay, and they're so afraid of seeming weak or dependent that they'd rather play some game all night than actually talk to each other. This is why they're miserable.

Anonymous 109956

Damn that's a really good point about the media stuff, never considered that.

Anonymous 109960

Not my circus not my monkies Not my problem.

Anonymous 109962

Take care of yourself before you oppress and destroy a woman for your comfortand sex needs and loneliness. I fucking hate these manipulative pieces of shit. I don't give a fuck how lonely they are. I'm alone. I'm not posting pornographic ai and looking at cp because I'm miserable. Fuck them with rusty poles.

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scared of online interaction Anonymous 109886[Reply]

How to get over that fear? After years of dwelling on imageboards and only interacting as an anonymous user I feel constant fear when talking to other people online. Owning an account makes me panic. Etc. Stuff like that. I am paranoid and I imagine catastrophe scenarios happening to me. I hate it. I wish I wasn't so weak. I'm the type of person to panic over a small hate comment, I know it's pathetic. It's funny because I've spent so many years on 4chan and the like and I feel that instead of building character it just traumatized me into fearing everyone. Please tell me there's a way out of this paranoid thinking loop. I want to be peaceful.

Anonymous 109892

Don't reveal personal info. It should be fine.

Anonymous 110002

Get off 4chan, touch grass, don't talk to incels. Realize that arguing on the internet is pathetic, touch grass again

Anonymous 110005

If you mind your business and don't engage with hate you shouldn't stir up anything too huge. And don't discuss sex with minors, which is very doable if you just avoid them.
If someone argues with you unprompted literally just ignore them.


A Random Letter To The FBI Agent Watching Me/US Government Anonymous 109928[Reply]

I stumbled across some old posts of my journal and found a funny entry (looking back on it) dedicated to the "FBI agent" that was watching me. Obviously it was mostly tongue-in-cheek but it was kind of interesting to read back on.

Here is a thread dedicated to random letters you want to say to your government. For venting purposes!

(Sorry if this isn't the right board for this sort of thing :P)

Anonymous 109975

Dear Government,

The state-mandated bf you assigned me is malfunctioning. He mistook his primary task of licking me like a kitten for playing shitty mobile games instead. Please fix this bug.

Also, can I get some of that oil money that you've been pocketing? Norway gives theirs to the citizens, could you please maybe also do that?

Thanks love

Anonymous 109985


Lay off the drugs <:)

Anonymous 109986

Dear Glowies,

I know I've said some very embarrassing things in the years I've been on the internet but you didn't see anything <3


Vent Thread Anonymous 107281[Reply]

Old thread hit the limit, again.
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Anonymous 109984

>the graffiti states that the idea you lost something by having sex for the first time is made up
>is made up
>made up
>made up
Or in other words, it's nothing, nothing real. But sex is not nothing, despite what slutty moids want you to think.
>But the OP also touched on the "discard/loss" of their V-card
She's just using a cliché. If you had sex with a disgusting moid, you would regret it too, no doubt.

Anonymous 109987

I've already said why sex is not nothing. Allowing somebody inside you, trusting somebody, is not "nothing".

Anonymous 109988

The idea you lost anything as for example value or a "card" by having sex for the first time is what I said is nothing and made up. Sex is real.

Anonymous 109989


All I ever wanted in life was a friend and people to stick around with. I'm so tired of being s complete hermit and getting no one to even share some words with.

Anonymous 109992


You wouldn't end the relationship of a lifetime and slide into something with someone you suffered over for 4+ years, would you? Wouldn't that be stupid?
Expecting something different, or maybe longing for the comfort of the lower expectations. I feel like I can be a truer self. And the dopamine and oxytocin from finally getting to do these things with him is intoxicating.
I've definitely made countless posts about him. He'd haunt me eternally if I didn't do this.
But my future is ruined. At least a future in which I pretend to be the person I wish I could be, and grow old with someone "just like me." I don't think I ever wanted that in the first place. I was raised for social independence and selfishness. It's my fault for trying to force myself into a pattern of behaviour.

I, too, just want to spend unlabelled time with someone I like to have around. I'm not made for pressure and expectations, I get enough of that from work. Maybe I'm done wishing I was that person and I can accept what I am.


Kill me kill me Anonymous 109845[Reply]

I acted histrionic and ended my relationship with a man who has kids and a gf he lives with but he wants some sex cult thing but it’s all over now after like 5 years and i don’t know if I’m in the right or made the wrong decision. He ended things officially. I fucked up. Kill me.
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Anonymous 109879

this post is so retarded i lost braincells reading it

Anonymous 109887

>i don’t know if I’m in the right
>relationship with a man who has kids and a gf he lives with but he wants some sex cult
You can never be wrong in this scenario. Never.

Anonymous 109890

I didn’t know for a long time in. Couple years at least. He just accepts me I think but I don’t know because I think I’m too crazy even for him. But I think the way he acts makes ME act crazy, but deep down I really don’t think the things that scare me and bother me are crazy. I think I start to act crazy when he ignores me or leaves mid conversation over text, but I always try hard to address a conversation rationally and he just tells me he’s sick of my complaining and he’s not discussing the issue anymore. So I snapped and I left and I ruined everything.

Anonymous 109900

You removed yourself from an unhealthy situation, good job. Stop thinking you've done anything wrong.

Anonymous 109954

You made the right call ending it, there's no reason to stay with someone who abuses you like that. There's plenty of people who would have someone like you and accept you with all your craziness without being abusive sex cult leaders. Hard to find, but they're out there.

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