/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>21538
what podcasts do you guys listen to

>>21489
mom, dad, my 4 brothers. Dad has been playing since '77 so we all grew up playing. Every other Sunday we go back to see mom and dad, Dad makes pancakes, bacon, and more, we have brunch, then play for hours, then mom serves dinner (something from crockpot and delicious) and we play late, then head home.
A slice of childhood twice a month. We all just enjoy the day and each other.

>>21549
Richard Lewis if you are into eSports and can handle banter

>>21549
I like
>Last Podcast on the Left
>You Must Remember This
>Hardcore History
>My Brother, My Brother, and Me
>Freakonomics
>Stuff You Should Know
>Radiolab
>This Podcast Will Kill You
>all the stuff from the Belfry Network
I used to like listening to Hidden Brain and This American Life but they got really political after the 2016 election so I dropped them

>>21539
I have me a couple of new ones but posting more than 1 would probably get me b&

>>21566
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>>21570
FPBP

What's the story, OP? Also, FPBP

he's always on your mind because you keep talking to him. quit it.

>>21566
it's literally this simple

>>21166
i don´t know, but they look so hot with his pants

>>21166
Life shouldn't be about locking yourself away and not enjoying yourself. Whether or not your brother enjoys boxing or just wants to impress others, you should encourage him, after all we only live for such a short time. Let him have experiences and make the most of everything he does, its better to try something and experience it than to regret never giving it a go for the next 10 years ❤

>>21172
>he should not be in the ring
Boxing is a sport and a fitness activity. Many men find fulfillment through moderately violent sport + activities (recreational wrestling with friends is extremely common among men, especially outside the west where it's likely only declined due to close male relationships being characterized as homosexual by society.) There's nothing wrong with a boy / man boxing regardless of his motivations. Most physical (and hence mental) damage from boxing is cumulative, with few exceptions, so unless you build a career out of it chances are you'll be fine.

>>21174
>fasting is a test of will
Fasting CAN be used as a test of will, but it can also function as a perfectly legitimate method of controlling your diet, providing the fast is controlled and done sensibly.

You really throw a lot of advice out considering you don't know much about the topics you choose to weigh in on.

>>21557
Fasting is mainly meant as a test of will. It is not supposed to substitute for a proper diet. You're supposed to build discipline with fasting not lose weight.

>my brother just tell me that women likes fighters and he wants to improves himself.

this is gay and pussy as all fuck.

the only reason i would respect is
"i like beating people up and i like to get beat up"

also as a woman who likes pro wrestling, i actually hate shoot fighting. i'm not impressed by people getting hurt for real

You don't necessarily have to say anything to him. Come half way with this, wave to him, sit next to him, don't use your phone, and try to look as welcoming as possible. Make it so obvious for him that he has no fears of getting rudely rejected or embarrassed.

Alternatively you could just say hi to him and let the nature take care of rest.

>>20254

>cute introverted guy in my class
>become friends
>actually begin out to hang out privately
>Tfw he's an extrovert normie with literally millions of friends in private and only an introvert in school

Whyyyyy

>>21446
Being introverted is cool, now. Please wait at least one(1) year for poseurs to leave. I'm sorry for you anon. Don't give up your search.

>tfw you will never get a shy introvert bf because you're too shy and introvert to approach him and so is he
it hurts

>>21558
Approach! Do it anon!

Agree with above anon. Maybe find a subject to study or a skill to learn to steal away the time spent obsessing? Works for meeee

Cold Turkey for 4chan, and I agree on finding a new hobby or picking up an old one. Coding could be a neat thing to do as it keeps your mind busy. A musical instrument or knitting / crochet could be options too if you wanted to keep your hands busy.

>>20984
Don't forget, you're here forever. As long as an anonymous forum exists, there is a unique draw to posting unhindered of previous forum reputation or IRL reputation/history. As anon, you disappear into the wind with every thread, so you can say what you truly feel, talk about whatever you want to talk about, with no baggage carrying over to other conversations ever. I barely speak aloud anymore, but I can have dialogues about weird shit here or elsewhere with other people I can only meet through this magic portal we call the internet.

Take up a time consuming hobby, I took up art and anytime I have free time I use it to work on my craft. I use to waste entire days on internet forums but now I'm way more productive, whenever I'm not studying for classes I'm either working on my app or drawing.
Just try to stay busy so you don't feel the need to do those bad habits.

I used a web browser extension to block 4chan except for 20 minutes every 12 hours. Really 20 minute is all you need to pull up a couple threads worth any of your time. It's pointless to hope to ever be completely free, but I don't want to anyway.
Now I waste my time reading fanfiction instead. I'd block Ao3 too, but my phone (main method of browsing it) sucks and this ship has me by my throat. What can you do.
But there's only so much fanfiction, so it's also allowed more time for reading books again, which is nice.
Thanks for reading my blog. Try it out OP.

>>21586
aerobic exercises are the galaxy-brain tier of caffeine

>>21588
*drinking lots of water and eating plenty of meat and greens

I got turned down for 3 jobs in the space of 1 week. All mainly down to location. I can’t deal with this anymore, I can’t move, all I can do is basic functions like eating and bathing and even that is a mammoth task. All I do is lie in bed and listen to audiobooks and stare into space, I can’t deal with this anymore. I have no future and I don’t see the point in trying or living anymore when I already know my outcome is always going to be failure. (Pic unrelated).

I've ruined my life and there's no way do to anything at this stage.

I feel so pathetic about crying over a job because they want to revisit the next steps after I graduate. Ik I posted on lolcow but god I feel so fucking pathetic crying about something that wasn't even guaranteed. It might not even a soft rejection and I'm just overreacting because they didn't give me an offer.
Shit hurts but I'll be better tomorrow. I just can't focus on my studying fuck

This thread doesn't belong here, unless we're supposed to talk about our feelings too.

Moved to >>>/media/4496.

>>21101
Kek, thats just mean anon! True, but mean.

I'm sad that this thread has ended like this. At least you got a nice friend group out of it.

Ask his gf if she posts in crystal.cafe

>>21051
This is so painful. Reminds me of all the times I was rejected by boys in high school. At least I wasn't frens with them, they just ignored me
But it still hurts. I'm sorry anon. M-men suck anyway

>>21122
I guess sometimes things can't turn out like movies and shows.

>>21149
Sorry to hear that. W-We don't need them..

>>21123
she normie

>>13822
Well not to be judgy but on average they're not the most socially capable people; plenty of doctors, lawyers, accountants etc too who make money, right?
but I guess it comes down to what you're looking for and if it's bfs in stem then that's that
my question was answered by >>13795 anyway

>>13671
Women don't hire them, typically.
https://www.eastbayexpress.com/oakland/the-gigolo-myth/Content?oid=3213768

>>21447
Exactly. So if you hire a gigolo, he's most likely had lots of gay sex. Do you really want to be near that?

>>21453
Doesn't that mean you could easily hire two gigolos and have them yaoi each other?

>>21482
>have them yaoi each other
I can't stop laughing at this, 10/10 expression anon

Hedgehegs pour toi!

>>1167
That one person who is up for any adventure.

This pic is my life in a nutshell. T.T

>>2074 omg my heart

>>1870 I love birds so much