/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>123667
update ive unpeeled the gray shit from the floor. it came off in one huge piece and had a reallly weird waxy consitnecy. ive thought abt taking a picture of it and posting it here but this website is like dead and rotting + no one gives a fuck i fear. shoudl i use this thread as a diary? im rlly bored and lonely

>>123716
this is the first step nona! whatever that was probably wasn't too good for you lol
but,,,,,,, i would like to see The Rot

>>123718
Sorry Ive arleady threw away the big one that was under my table. Theres a simmilar kind of rot in the corner of my room tho. Picrel. I think its a mix of accumulated dirt and mold

I'm totally worthless. Morbidly obese, unemployed, no college degree…nothing. I'm living off the good graces of others but I know this will end soon. I don't have any family that supports me. Once I can't live where I currently am, I'll kill myself. There is no future for me.

I was reading reddit and saw a picture of a gutted bathroom with people saying this is how you fix a black mould problem. Is this really the only way to deal with bad black mould. Christ. I don't want to know.

Skill issue

>>124291
its a misogynistic meme nona, you are just learning who he actually is. If he was worth your time this wouldn't be happening. Either leave now or stay and cheat on him. Dont forget he is literally a man though so maybe you should stop considering his feelings this much. Just do what makes you happy nona, stop living for a moid.

I had 1 relationship and the other person was insufferable so yeah but the arousal was never there in the first place

>>124286
dump him dump all moids all they do is lie regardless

never date gay moids nona

honestly nona it really depends on if the ex trooned out before, during, or after the relationship. if it's after, then it's funny, if it's during, I'd ask serious questions about wtf happened, and if it was before, major red flag and dump him.

That would be a massive red flag in my book, but you do you.

>>124286
depends on the context of the relationship

then stop trying, don't waste energy on people who can't be bothered

>>124256
i always wondered what the perfect amount of effort is most attractive overall. too much and youre a try hard. too little and you seem like you dont care. its so confusing..

>>124292
>>124256
I don't try, I simply do. The "perfect amount of trying" is who you are. Sometimes who you are is a mentally retarded, disgusting slob who doesn't care, and that's ok. "Hurr durr everything is trying" - in which case, "try" however much you feel like, or maybe don't try at all.

>>124294
>who doesn't care
sounds like you're just like OP except you decided to devalue the other person in question kek

>>124294
I agree. If one has to try, its no longer genuine.

>>124020
18 is way too young to give up. You could be hot by 20. Getting fun workout clothes and and personalized water bottle can make exercise easier (mentally). Meeting friends who are fitter than you can be a cheat code too since you get to parasite off of their experience as you give them an ego boost.
Your cravings might be crossfiring in your brain. When you feel a craving, try chugging some water first and see if it goes away. If you still want the thing, less of it will probably satisfy after the water.

You'll be ok, focus on weight loss until you hit your goal

>>123807
>>124020
Where do you live? I live in Europe, and there are private doctors here who describe not-Ozempic here if you have a somewhat medically justifiable
reason.
Losing weight is important, if you live your life overweight, then by your mid 30s your body will be a wreck.

No offense, buy you're super obese. You need to lose weight NOW. You're way past the 'I don't wanna, I'm not comfortable with asking my doctor'. Besides your doctor is there to help you. Results matter more than niceness at this point

>>124020
probably not the healthiest advice, but pic rel is your friend. Over the counter in american pharmacy's and the watered down ephedrine kills your appetite, also helps with focus. You do have to scan your id at the pharmacy's counter to get it, it's so they make sure you're not stockpiling enoungh to cook meth, 1 box every 6 days is the limit in america. This helped me move on from a 30 year old 5'6" 300lb+ hamplanet to a now sub 200lb chubby woman that still has crippling issues with her body image thanks to a lifetime of being fat. Also please try to eat real food , you need more than processed meats and cheese.

>>123748
Abandon worldly life, get a cat, join a monastery maybe.

>>124196
Listen I was banged in the butt when I was 6 years old by my cousin. I didn't even clock that what he did was wrong until I was well into my late teens and had a memory flashback. It's not something I tell the world about. My spouse knows. My mother knows and when I told her about it she freaked the fuck out and told me to shut my mouth and stop lying even though it was pretty crystal what happened. Do I count it as "part of me"? No. It was something that was done to me by an evil little retard. He knows I remember because at a family gathering he made the mistake of approaching me whilst I was propping up the bar alone and asked me if I wanted another drink. I said "Yeah no. I remember what you did." He knew exactly what I was talking about. The guilt and fear was scrawled over his little rat face. I said "You might have been a kid too but you were way older than me… Tell me why I shouldn't go and pick up that karaoke mike and tell everyone. Seeing you get your skull caved in might liven things up."

He stuttered and spluttered out "I'm sorry. We were kids. I didn't know." The creepy little bastard was twice my age when he did that. I told him "You were old enough to know better. I want you to know that every time I see your dad I think about telling him. You know what he'd do if he knew. You'd be eating through a straw for the rest of your life."

Again, the spineless bastard just stood there not knowing what to say. The fear was making his pupils shake. I watched him and waited for his response. Really I was looking for an excuse to get up and really fuck up that 80th birthday party, but sadly I couldn't bring myself to do it. Grandpa only turns 80 once and the shock might've killed him. I settled for "I'm going to finish my drink about then sing a song. Lets see if you're man enough to stick around until the end."

I haven't seen him in 20 years. Weirdest part is that he's gay. I guess he didn't know it back then which is why he went for the butt hole instead.

So that's my story kiddo. Don't let it have power over you. You can't change the past but you can weaponize it and it does provide some solace.

I have the opposite problem! I never wanted a husband or kids, but back at college all the men REALLY wanted me as their girlfriend!!!! They all LOVED my pikachu hoodie.

>>124079
damn, maybe one of them could have saved you out of your predicament, so to speak?

>>123715
I like your mindset. Would you expand on your personal story with your moid?

People are dying nonas. Getting married and giving a moid babies does nothing but benefit him. You all need to get this through your heads.

>>124168
I've tried typing this out a few times now and it's far too long. Is there anything in particular that you're interested in?

>>123681
Making laptops thin and lightweight brought us here. An extreme example is the 2015 macbook that one that introduced rose color scheme and in a later iteration the butterfly switch keyboard that was btfo by mere dust. Corporations hid their ill intentions you mentioned under the guise of thinness and people fell for it. Think about the thin smartphones that were bent because people had them in their pockets and sat on them

>>123684
>under the guise of thinness and people fell for it

yeah. the manufacturers act like they are innocent and were merely trying to reduce the size and weight of the load the poor students had to carry in their backpack. that's not all they were doing.

i love how my old laptop battery type does not use pouch cells and instead has the round 18650 typical battery shape. i have seen so many pictures of pouch cells being swollen.

>>123363
You asked lmao
Why are you so angry?
>>123684
>>123717
Are you guys unaware that you don't represent the majority of consumers? Normies want "big screen" and "thin computer" and nothing else. They will just buy whatever gives them the most social points.

Framework is neat, but at the end of the day, it's just more gimmicky consumer-junk designed to be a fashion statement. They're just appealing to "tinkerers", because they realized that people LARPing as computer nerds are an unexploited market. For example, their desktop line is an absolute joke.

There's more to "repairability" than just being able to take it apart and buy parts (albeit that is a big hurdle for some products). Framework laptops are "repairable" but at the cost of a greatly overpriced ecosystem (For the cost of one of their laptops you could've bought multiple old thinkpads, for example) and there's more to repair-ability than just being able to take it apart and having the company sell you spare display hinges. The build quality is supposedly pretty mediocre, especially for the price. You're also fucked for spare parts when the company inevitably keels over because their volume is shit compared to something like IBM or Lenovo which shit out millions of thinkpads for enterprise use which can all be cannibalized for parts and the Chinese factories keep making off-brand spare parts because they have a ton of tooling and leftover stock with loads of demand for parts from nerds with thinkpads. That said, for what it's worth, framework is certainly doing better than something like ARA/Phonebloks.

I realize that a lot of the "right to repair" shit has people dogpiling against modern consumer electronics which are difficult or impossible to open up with firmware that refuses to accept new parts, but the solution to that isn't a violent reaction in the other direction, but to reform product demand. People love to shit on manufacturers because they think "the consumer" is people like them (individuals, home users, etc.) but the real force behind the "thinner and lightweight" trend is enterprise users. It is the "big companies" at fault, but it's not the manufacturer; it's the procurement bPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>124016
I’m not reading this all

>>122991
nona why are you being so hostile to everyone ITT

I'm not a tech wizz by any means but it kinda sounds like it could be faulty components and you should try testing to see if your pc will work without a video card or with a different psu etc

^
Try taking out your OS and running through the components one at a time until you get to BIOS. Start with the RAM. That sounds like it would be the culprit. Take one out and try booting, if the problem persists try the other one. If that doesn't fix the problem start replacing components one at a time until you get some signs of life. I doubt it has anything to do with the CPU, those things are super durable. Just my process, you're on linux so you almost definitely know more about these things than I do.
Good luck and please give updates!

>>124183
I tried to boot into the bios in all sorts of ways but it didn't do anything. I tried swapping out the drives too, same thing.

Additionally I scanned the whole system for malware but didn't find any. I ended up wiping the Linux drive just in case.

I fixed it! I ended up reseating the ram and fixing the Linux system and it works like new now!