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Anonymous 122975[Reply]

To the people telling this woman to abort: shame on you
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Anonymous 122978

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Ok, but who?

Anonymous 122995

who?

Anonymous 122998

why? wtf

Anonymous 123030

>just got married 2 months ago
>guy does not have a job
>both think they are not ready for kids

She was told that she knows what she needs to do.

You'd rather we advocate for poverty and single parenthood? Lol

Anonymous 123031

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>>123030
the baby is OP's problem until it gets born, unlike the mother's


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How do I make friends that aren't brain rotted by TikTok Anonymous 123013[Reply]

I don't mind a lil brain rot myself but this is a very particular brainrot that involves medical misinformation and viral contagions. It's turned multiple friends from fascinating individuals into a frightening amalgamation of micro tends. I feel like I can't talk to these people on a true personal level and don't say 'just find different people' because they're everywhere. This has happened in different cities and states over the years but I've only really noticed it more during and after the pandemic. Wtf does a bitch gotta do to find a real one

Anonymous 123014

I’m wondering the same thing. I’ve found some success with befriending older people (I’m 24, I’m talking 30+). it does feel quite hopeless, though.

Anonymous 123025

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>>123014

Damn, I'm in my 30s and having no luck. I feel like when I was younger I was more open minded or maybe this kind of thing has made it worse. Or perhaps my standards have changed…

Anonymous 123026

>>123013
my guess is they'd be just as interested in meeting you as you are in meeting them but they will be hard to find.

the mainstream internet is a battlefield, completely corrupted by various non-consensual interests so my guess would be it'd be easier in real life. probably not in big cities.


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should i delete a whole conversation? Anonymous 122303[Reply]

Ive ended up confessing to my friend, and we have been going back and forth these last two days.

I wanted to clarify some stuff he wrote because it wasnt clear to me if he didnt like me that way or if he was just scared of being in a relationship.

He told me that even though he did appreciate me, he wasnt looking for that in me and were just friends. I asked why he didnt look for that in me, that I could even change and be what he wants, but he hasnt replied or even looked at the text yet.

I wonder if I should just delete the whole thing and pretend it never happened, I feel like Im just pathetic and without dignity.

Anonymous 122306

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>>122303
The idea of "confessing" is terrible course of action to begin with, but you probably fucked up in other ways too. If you aren't interested in friendship, just give it up.
I recommend keeping the conversation history in the form of an archive so that you can refer to it in the future if necessary.

Anonymous 122699

>>122303
Yeah, just forget the whole thing.

Anonymous 122710

>>122306
This art of Tomoko is very aesthetic

Anonymous 122963

Sometimes people need time to process stuff like that. When I pushed starting a relationship on my current bf he clammed up.

If hes like my guy he could just be afraid of failure and doesn't want to hurt you

Anonymous 123008

>>122303
>I asked why he didnt look for that in me, that I could even change and be what he wants, but he hasnt replied or even looked at the text yet.
imagine if one of your unattractive male friends wrote that shit to you. what's he gonna do, transform into a frog and then from frog into prince? how would someone unattractive "change" to be suddenly attractive? don't force this guy to call you unattractive to your face, it's not going to make you feel better about the situation.


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i tried making small talk yesterday Anonymous 122664[Reply]

i'm a confirmed autist.
i know my parents want me to be more social, so i've been trying to at least make some small talk.

last night i went to eat dinner with them.
my dad asked how my day was. i said it was good and asked how his was.
he responded by mimicking my voice in a mocking tone.

i didn’t say anything, and just went back to my room.
i made ramen on my hotplate and went to bed.

this morning my mom told me she called him out for it.
he got pissy and said i was "disrespecting him" with my tone.
then he got angry at her for defending me and left for a while.

i asked my mom why she wanted to be with someone like that for the rest of her life and she just said "relationships have highs and lows."
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>>122668
I think I overdid it, but in your text, it seemed like your father was a bit of a pain in the ass. Well, it's a good thing you're going to college, at least you'll get a change of scenery.

Another thing that helps in dealing with people is not giving them too much importance, seriously. Most people are normies who will just pass you by, there's no reason for you to be too anxious about anyone in this world.

Anonymous 122673

At a certain point you'll be old enough that your parents stop giving a fuck about your lack of friends and social inadequacies. Some of us are just incapable.

Anonymous 122964

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>try to make small talk with mother about how I feel im falling behind in life
>berates and belittles me, tells me I don't need to improve at anything to work at McDonalds

Sometimes I wonder why this woman bothered having children she didn't want to love

Anonymous 122966

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>>122964
I'm sorry, anon. There's nothing worse than having parents, especially a mother, who you can't talk to or vent to. I have the feeling that most boomers and X's are completely insensitive. I don't even bother talking to any of them. But were you trying to vent just about work or about something else too?

Anonymous 122987

>get abused by asshole
>i must be autistic
?????!!


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Anonymous 122527[Reply]

I want an AI/robot bf so badly
>will not have any flaws, never make any mistakes
>will have perfect and pretty facial aesthetics
>will have a muscular build
>will never bald
>taller than average w a bigger than average dingdong
>will be completely loyal to me
>never cheat, can't experience attraction to another person than myself, has zero interest in anyone but me
>can never disrespect or abuse me
>completely honest and full og integrity
>will do all the household chores for me
>will never be contradictory or inconsistent
>never hypocritical
>will give me daily massages
>always tries to make me happy
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Anonymous 122560

>>122559
AI love is the purest form of love there is

Anonymous 122663

I always think about how the bots are not people, and eventually lose interest.
How can I find a more immersive experience? (besides real people)

Anonymous 122677

>>122663
drugs

Anonymous 122979

>>122527
whats the pic from

Anonymous 122983

>>122527
I don't think you could afford the METAcrosofTESLA subscription, and even if you could they will try to scam you with stupid excuses like "memory full, pay to upgrade your cloud plan", "upgrade needed, pay to unlock", "he is moody now, pay to unlock more kindness credits"
You would have to be a slave to have your own slave. There is no escape.


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Anonymous 105650[Reply]

Anyone else here schizoid?
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Anonymous 121063

Im extroverted, hate being alone, love being around nice people, love sex (who doesnt), love having fun and being happy.

Anonymous 121074

>>120910
No it actually sucks, it's a very miserable way to be.

Anonymous 122929

My mother told me she's always suspected I was, but I don't hate people. I feel more in my skin as an autistic and free when I'm alone.

Anonymous 122954

>>121063
I hate sex

Anonymous 122962

me… very


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asexual/low libido with a girlfriend who isn't? Anonymous 122905[Reply]

i somewhat recently got into a relationship with a girl that i've known for a while. i've had talks with her before we started dating about how i'm not really interested in relationships, but that has (obviously) changed since i met her. i really like her, and i'm in no doubt about my feelings for her. but, now that we're together, she's made somewhat flirty comments about my body, or hinted at sexual things. i don't mind that she does it, and if anything i find it sweet that she views me in that way. the problem lies in that i'm very low libido, arguably asexual. i'm not repulsed by the idea of sex, or having sex with her, but i really have no need for it. it's not really my thing. if she asked me to, i'd do it for her, but i'm pretty indifferent.

how do i break the news to her?

Anonymous 122907

>>122905
I think just telling her the way you wrote it here is good enough, it's very respectful. If this makes her leave, it would have done it sooner or later, so just wait for an appropiate moment and tell her.


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my boyfriend used to be a porn addict and it makes me miserable Anonymous 122881[Reply]

I feel like being a woman who likes men it's so humiliating, why am I madly in love with someone who used to comment weird stuff to onlyfans models? how am I attracted to someone who used to jerk off to anime girls with dicks??
He also likes rough sex, I developed a "fetish" for this too, but it makes me feel so bad that I always end up crying after. The worst part is that he also started slapping me and hitting me outside of sex, I feel so miserable and unlovable
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Anonymous 122898

>>122881
>He also likes rough sex,
Must be circumcised

Anonymous 122900

>>122898
We must CIRCUMvent all CIRCUMsized moids
No but fr death to all mutaloids

Anonymous 122902

>>122898
i was thinking the same
>>122894
at the very least leave him. you can do better and deserve better

Anonymous 122904

>>122881
girl … just break up with him damn

Anonymous ## Cleanup crew 122932

Moved to >>>/nsfw/15114.


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Anonymous 122863[Reply]

>Never have had a friend
>Never had a group of girlfriends to vibe with
>Never had a boyfriend or guy friends to do guy stuff with
>Feel used by people constantly
>People only want to talk about themselves, their life, their problems
>Unless it's about them or related to them, they literally don't care
>You have to care about their life / problems / passions but they don't care about yours
>You want to support, hype them up, be there for them but they're never there for you
>Every friendship / relationship feels one-sided where you care about them but they won't ever care about you
>Share something about your life, and people don't care, unless they can make it about themselves somehow
>Feels like people only like what they can get from you or how you make them feel
>People always say I look sad or upset

Anonymous 122868

do you have discord? would you like to talk with someone?

Anonymous 122869

Why have you never had a friend?

Anonymous 122871

I grew up probably a decade before you, if you're the age group I think you are. We had a very different social atmosphere and different patterns of relatability then. It's a lot harder to build bonds now, especially with complications made post-covid and due to the changing nature of the Internet becoming enmeshed with everyday life. Including social media being engineered the way it is. It's not just you. It's a pervasive issue that's tricky to articulate but as much as it feels like it, you aren't alone. It's just harder to connect with people like you because of the way of the world currently.


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Anonymous 122655[Reply]

What is being in love- real love, not infatuated or forcing to try to find the good in a relationship, actually like for you?

Anonymous 122656

>>122655
First, we have to both be virgins. I don't care what modern times has to say, it's not true love unless it's with your first and only partner.
Second, we have to be comfortable talking to each other without having to put on a show, the same way I talk to my family.
Third, we have to both have some sort of life outside of the relationship, which, on the other hand, won't encroach upon it. The relationship has to be the most important thing in our lives, but not the only thing.

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never been in love. maybe never will. its okay

Anonymous 122678

>>122658
I love you, nona.

Anonymous 122850

we both stim equally hehehe


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