>>64362
A pseudointellectual South American mutt tripfag who doesn't know how to use prepositions in English properly and always types in all caps?

>>64362
Why does /lit/ have so many tripfags, and why are they all significantly more annoying than the tripfags on other boards?

>>64429
They think they’re smart and interesting for using big words and reading books.

As long as your are alive you can change for the better

this guy huffs his own farts

Abusive men often seek out women who were previously abused because it's easy to push them back into abusable patterns of behavior. Your BF knows exactly what he's doing. Dump him.

Not much I can say about your dad. Try to always be financially and emotionally independent, you don't need a dad. That's easier said than done but always remember that you are a complete person who deserves a good life. Sometimes it takes a lot of struggle to get it, but you deserve it, and therefore the struggle is worth it.

>>64298
Because I'm sure you're being perfectly objective and accurately portraying what happened.

You will never be successful in relationships if you perpetually make yourself the victim.

I can relate, my dad has always been an emotionally absent and neglectful. No overt abuse, but he definitely does the bare bare minimum as far as interacting with me. As I’ve gotten older I’ve kind of assumed that he had abuse in his childhood and like, literally can’t connect emotionally to people, especially his kids. Not to make excuses, but it’s helped me deal and make peace with his behavior.

>>64327
Oh and your bf is an asshole lmao

Get off the internet and go to therapy anon.

>>47485
Basically what >>47486 said, anon. How's your family life? Could they be of any help?

>>47485
>if youre advice is "kill yourself"
Anon, this isn't 4chan.

Sage because no real contribution but I hope you'll sort your shit out. I second >>47486

>>47485
Internet addiction. Go get help and watch serial experiments Lain.

>>64173
you should hate blm for focusing so much on trans issues and the organisers being millionaires. obv the part about black people matter is fine

>>64152
>>64153
VPN will give some protection, but it isn't a failsafe. For one, VPN hosting companies have access to all of your information, especially if they keep logs. If your VPN provider is hosted in a 5eyes country or in another country that provides a similar type of intelligence alliances, VPN providers will be required to hand in information to the feds if need be.

Split tunneling is also dangerous due to vulnerabilities in security.

>>64173
Why are you ashamed? Are you one of those white girl "allies" who think that posting Black Lives Matter or some other virtual signaling crap in their twitter/instagram bio is actually helping people?

>>64238
I honestly don't get why some people are so paranoid about it. They won't arrest people that aren't doing anything too crazy. Also, people change their minds all the time. What I have fun doing on chans is that I can be whatever I want to be without having to create a fake or anything.

>>64239
They're paranoid because it's part of their beliefs. They believe that the feds have no rights snooping into their stuff, even if it's not bad. Privacy is important, even if you are doing no harm.

>What I have fun doing on chans is that I can be whatever I want to be without having to create a fake or anything.

That's why imageboards are so wonderful. No need for accounts or namefagging just anonymity.

>>64239
>They won't arrest people that aren't doing anything too crazy.
>If you're innocent you have nothing to hide.
Fuck you and fuck people like you.

>>57303
I don't get what you are trying to say here.
Being a moid doesn't mean browsing r9k. The amount of moids who browse r9k are a very small fraction of the general male populace.

>>52430
No i like cc better

A late reply to your thread, but as someone who is the 'loser younger sibling' please don't act in a patronizing way towards him or being an overly protective guardian angel. Try and speak in a respectful tone and on his level, it's embarrassing to be told what to do.

>>55157
Good insightful post.

Take him to an independant fundamental baptist church. /r9k/ used to be funny greentext stories back in 2012 but now it's just gay recruitment. In fact, I'd describe all of 4chan like this. Don't let your brother end up as a tranny. You gotta put your foot down and tell him to stop browsing it and give him that reason specifically. Homophobia is a good way to appeal to a man's senses. If he has any shred of being straight left he will feel ashamed commiserating with transvestites and cease his behavior.

I'm 28 and I've never been in love. I made up crushes in school, too. Nowadays, I enjoy relationships*. I enjoy sex. I've just never been "in love". I don't think it's abnormal at all.

>I probably hate women more than men because I don't have anything in common with them.

You sound like you have autism OP

>>63261
>Usually I get a bit into the person, then as I end up knowing them it gets cold really quick.

Relatable. I liked flirting with guys but when they confessed to me it was like getting a trophy and I wasn't interested in them anymore. I thought I'd try dating one once because I thought I'd love him more over time, but it always felt like a fun game or playing around or something.

Then I met a guy and actually fell in love for the first time. With my current boyfriend I actually think of getting married and staying forever. With other guys I always thought "we'll have fun together until we start arguing too much or fall out eventually." Because I believed finding someone to love like in fiction was impossible, there would always be some part of me that didn't match the other person and we'd argue over it and such, and I did not feel the need to have a family so I would never settle with a relationship like that.

So I met my boyfriend who is extremely respectful, modest, kind yet firm, understanding and balanced, and I ended up loving him before I even knew it. It felt totally different from anything, and it wasn't dramatic like in movies either, I can describe it if anyone wants to know.
I used to think "falling in love" was like talking to a cute, fun guy and getting super excited over him.

>>63256

OP, since you have fantasies and want romantic relationships, but you can't fall in love with real people, you probably just have high standards, and that's ok. It's just going to take effort, time, luck, or all three to find someone to match you. I came across my boyfriend by total chance, and before him I was 99% sure I'd be alone forever because of my specific standards, I was totally fine with it. I also don't feel "physical attraction" like "I wish he'd date/fuck me" unless it's a polished celebrity or something, most of the time I just go "wow, pretty person" in the aesthetic sense.

>>63261
>Usually I get a bit into the person, then as I end up knowing them it gets cold really quick
Yes, this happens to me too. There is a strong initial interest from me and in a few days I'm just not interested anymore. All the friends I have were the ones putting effort in the relationship and including me until I got used to them, it took me like 1 year to get used to my university circle. I have one Internet friend who I have known for 8 years already, probably the only person I could ever be 100% honest with cuz I met her in 4chan and I need to constantly remind myself to put effort into our relationship, if I'm not in the social mood it feels like a hassle.

>As I got older I started to think that love is a thing that is built instead of something that it is there
I hear this all the time but I'm not even sure if I could differentiate friendship from love in a long term relationship. Whenever I tell someone a bf/gf is a friend who you like to fuck they go "lol no" but I really don't understand the difference.

>>63309
I'm glad you did find someone, gives me hope, yet it terrifies me that maybe the person I fall for won't ever reciprocate and it will be a once in a lifetime thing. Fuck.

>>63260
aromantic?

>>26858
Where did you get them tested? Do you go to your family doctor?

>>26878
Yes, I told my own doctor. I told her about other symptoms I was having that could possibly be thyroid related and she advised blood work, and I asked if I could have my other hormones tested as well.

>>26880
:(

I'm going in next week to see if I can have a full hormone panel done. I've also had irregular periods for the first time in my life the last couple months. But I think thats because I have a very poor diet due to some disordered eating habits I'm now improving.

Wondering if I should ask to do a full blood test to look for deficiencies too.

i am in the same boat. i tried masturbating as a child because thats what i saw people do in porn ( i had an addiction until i turned 15 and got radicalized against it ) and didnt feel anything but extreme disgust before during and after and even when i am "in the mood" but really this only happens when i am ovulating and it happens randomly like nothing really triggers it or arouses me i feel nothing at all just pure disgust for myself and my "perversion"
safe to say i have never orgasmed in my life
for most of my life i have claimed to be a lesbian due to my fear of men and my general preference for the female figure but now im not even sure if i can call myself that because i dont ever want to have sex ( its not like i will be getting anyway, im an incel )

>>64047
ur prob lez with low libido luv

>>63918
By living for your kids (your future)

is it possible you’re depressed anon? maybe revisit your relationship with your father in childhood.

>Ever stopped to think that your desire to live for yourself is just a way to seem more interesting and authentic to males?
Yes. does this rabbit hole ever end
>>63964
please explain this image to me I'm retarded

personally I recommend deleting your social media

>>63960
>reconnecting with how you were as a kid - what did you do for fun, just for yourself
YES this actually seemed to work best for me. i filled a flashcart with DS games I used to play as a kid and spent hours playing them by myself, for myself, just channeling that 7-yr-old energy and not caring about anything else for the first time in a long time. Definitely a good start

>>63918
I feel this way all the fucking time. and its not like i even like the attention. usually men being pests toward me feels violating, and yet i feel brainwashed to want it. i grew up in a very misogynistic household tho.

No, I can't be cheated on, if I am a femcel. But the thought of a boyfriend cheating on me makes me physically sick.

>>64030
This.

My ex did this too. He admitted to me on cheating on a girl in his university by kissing her. He later tried to tell me it was just a hug to gain my trust back. My reaction was probably very cold. It's like I instantly lost my interest for him the moment he admitted to kissing another woman. I just told him to live his life and stopped talking to him. Then we both disapeared from each other's lives and never talked again.

>>64022
my ex cheated on me and told me by sending me pics of him fucking another girl. I honestly didn't even care, because it made me instantly lose interest in him

>>64022
First boyfriend. Gave me esteem issues I struggle with today, 14 years removed from the event.

>>62656
Honestly, living like this for so long I have just had to find comfort in having pets I spoil and talk to. My cats are always meowing and wanting to play with me, and it fills the void pretty well most days. I plan on eventually being able to have some bigger pets like horses that I can spend time training and working with to get that pseudo-social interaction. I talk out loud to my animals and have who conversations with em while they look on. Plus I read a lot of books and play RPGs with companion characters so I can pretend I have friends who would do anything for me. RPGs definitely fill the void in a real way- doing loyalty quests and giving gifts to characters who you can befriend. I guess it's pitiful but it's not like I have any friends to judge me lmao! I'm pretty sure Dragon Age literally saved me from killing myself a few years back when I was at my loneliest.

Have you think if the problem is that everybody ignores you or pheraps you choose to socialize with assholes who dont value you? If your family dont show much interest in you and you are used to it since childhood it makes sense that you replicate that coldness with other relationships.
When is matter or friends and socialization there is always a patron, subconsciously humans are attracted to people who feels familiar for them or adjusted to their own personality. Take your time to think what personality traits or background do your "friends" have in common, and ask yourself why you feel attracted to them even if they hurt you, you will start to realise things.
In my opinion you should start to feel more confident with yourself and enjoy your time alone doing what you enjoy, this will make you more confident and naturally more atractive for people who are worth.

>>63046
You meet one or two assholes in your life, but is everyone an asshole?
I also disagree with the "worth" argument, OP seems to be the one without worth, I doubt that people with friends who have the luxury to ignore a friendless nobody have no worth. They have a lot of worth in society.

>>63048
There's being brutally honest and then there's just being insensitive. OP is sad and scared about being a "friendless nobody" and you just had to rub it in.

>>62700
Literally me but with Mass Effect.