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Anonymous 109677[Reply]

>tried to kms with 10mg of Xanax
>tried to kms with 800mg of Benadryl
>tried to kms with an entire bottle of codeine syrup
>tried to kms with 5000mg of Robaxin

Am I immortal or just bad at dying. I’m not very tall or heavy, these all should be lethal doses and I didn’t get treatment for any of these. I just woke up the next day a bit drowsy, but fine. Not even any long lasting side effects cause my blood test and labs come back clean
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Anonymous 110414

>i am a 20 and have completely failed at life
In what way? 20 is still pretty young

Anonymous 110417

I've been wondering if some part of the neck muscles are still too thick for a kitchen knife to go through. It's been too long I've handled meat but I remember muscles can be so weird like they would just wiggle instead of being perforated.

Anonymous 110502

Do you have any friend you can stay with anon? Please you're only 20 wait until you're at least 25 to dictate your idea of failure

Anonymous 110533

its a misconception that you can overdose on otc benadryl like its heroin or something. It will cause liver damage and eventually liver failure, and that will take weeks of agonizing pain to kill you.

also you're gonna think about this in like 10 years and be very happy that it didn't work, all you have to do to get there is literally just wait.

Anonymous 110536

10mg xanax is a normal dose and it's very hard to OD on

once i drank a whole bottle of morphine and nothing


Anonymous 110460[Reply]

i cant control myself im so pathetic. i got mad over argument on internet and destroyed my apartment by hitting things and whatnot. this happens so fucking often nowdays. i cant control myself either i hit stuff or i cut myself. why i am like this…
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Anonymous 110512

Well that's progress. Can we talk about why you get so mad that you want to destroy things?

Anonymous 110519

well i dont know, it can be very small things that cause that reaction. it doesnt have to be something big, just even a slight anger and i cant control myself.

Anonymous 110520


Try xanax or weed

Anonymous 110526

I wish I could be as unhinged as you nona, I have so many mental blocks I can barely launch a thing on the bed those rare times I get upset enough to, it's not full strenght and I regret it because my arm hurts and feel a weird stretch anyway

Anonymous 110531

>even a slight anger and i cant control myself
You recognize the problem which is good. You just need to take the step of not acting on your impulses. Try thinking of something that would make you mad but not act out in response as an exercise.


Anonymous 110296[Reply]

I feel so mad for the mankind for not caring about the environment. Especially in developed and developing countries, people live off too well and they are too comfortable. People excuse their behavior that "its goverment's job not indivudual's" while its true goverment should do it, you cannot act like individual's impact doesn't matter. It does, you can't outsource your actions "but its not my job."

There is no good excuse for this much consumerism and bad choices. I understand that not everyone can go car-free, eat local vegan food or shop everything second-hand or be minimalistic and mindful BUT you can make better choices still even if you dont have the privilage or energy to go all in.

People are not even trying. A person who has lot allergies may need to consume for example chicken to get enough nutrition or person who lives far away might need to use car but you can still choose better. And I am annoyed that people don't. It makes extremely mad, it is unbearable.
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Anonymous 110440

>corporations are not backed by "individuals"
This is a meme. Corporations make money by telling you you're individuals, then telling you what type of individual you are, then emotionally manipulating you to give them money (we call this "marketing")

Anonymous 110449

No they don't. They get government subsidies and backing from banks and investors.
Environmentalism like all other political issues is 99.999% about affecting institutional change and .001% about you making lifestyle choices.

Anonymous 110451

Still a meme. Individual actions matter a great deal, in fact individual actions are mostly to blame for all of this.
The individual let themselves become isolated from community. The individual let TV dictate electoral outcomes, they let TV distract them from the changes taking place right under their nose. The individual let their existence become a miniscule blip against monolithic corporations.
If it weren't for the individual, none of this would have come to pass because communities would've fought against it (and won or died trying). The individual is the most powerful invention the elites could have made. Any attempt to break free from individualism is immediately shut down: "Even 10 million individuals going green barely compare to a corporation doing the same". Apathy kills movement. How are we to affect institutional change without first making a change in lifestyle choices?

Anonymous 110482

You’ll never take my standard of living, treehugger.

Anonymous 110485

I'm kind of interested in how much I'd actually have to "give up" if somebody could snap their fingers and instantly make the world "sustainable" and its population closer to "equal".


Anonymous 110004[Reply]

My bf rejected a girl's requests to "study together" during after-school hours out of respect for my feelings and she got mad at him and called him/me fragile, implying her intentions weren't "romantic". I don't understand tho, he only refused politely and there was no reason to get mad over it then why did she get offended to the point of switching from polite to mean? I've been told the same before a bunch of time but I don't take it to heart and instead just respect the choice of the person
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Anonymous 110446

The mental gymnastics incels have to make to justify how women more bad for the same thing!1! You're just as evil as misandrist SJWs. Kill yourself

Anonymous 110452



Anonymous 110453

what? there was nothing about porn

Anonymous 110454

The tiddy pic

Anonymous 110455

wgat where i wanna see


The guilt is unbearable Anonymous 110052[Reply]

Anons I posted about a mutual friend to another female imageboard (you know the one) and I recently found out that they frequent that site. I feel bad because if they find the post they'll know it's me. I sent an email to the mod team asking to take my post down but no reply. I'm scared anons. What should I do?
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Anonymous 110162

What happened?

Anonymous 110163

Oh, nothing. I was shitting on the OP.

Anonymous 110164


learn from your mistakes, be a better person going forward. Apologize sincerely, but only one time, and most importantly GET BETTER FRIENDS THAT YOU ACTUALLY RESPECT.

Anonymous 110241

OP here. I do respect my friends but my friends do have some weird and questionable friends themselves. I'm not extremely close with her, and my opinion of her soured immediately when one of my actual friends began ranting to me about how much this mutual friend takes advantage of her kindness with little to nothing in return. Like, it's a really bad situation. That's the entire reason I even posted about her in the first place. I was extremely frustrated with my good friend's situation and how most people are cool with the mutual friend. They wouldn't be cool with her if they knew she's ebegging online pretending to be disabled kek.

Anonymous 110340

How do you access lulcor? I don't see any results for it when I search it up on Google.


Anonymous 110010[Reply]

He would rather play fetch with my dog for 3 hours than watch a movie with me.
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Anonymous 110184

Let him run around until he tires himself out, then give him a bone and put on a movie.
I miss my dog.

Anonymous 110185

if he doesn't take him out for the walk regularly without complaing, dump him

Anonymous 110238

If he likes dogs that much, he's a green flag for sure

Anonymous 110252

>>Let him run around until he tires himself out, then give him a bone and put on a movie.
The moid or the dog?

Anonymous 110282

What's da difference? OH!
-Andrea Dice Clay


us vs them (IMPOSTER amogus) Anonymous 110257[Reply]

here's a random thought -
sometimes there are people in your "in-group" who use their in-group identity to get away with acting abusively. the problem may not be with the group identity itself, but the fact that the group enables abusive behavior solely because the person acting abusively is part of their group, or so they believe.
the problem with this is that by enabling an individual in their abusive behavior, the group is enabling the abusive behavior itself. so the person continues to act in that manner, and drags down the rest of the group in further conflict or regression, possibly even dividing their group by creating new conflict. the behavior doesn't get corrected, and any values derived from that behavior will result in cognitive dissonance/a decay in one's humanity.
i dunno why i felt compelled to say this but, it often seems like i am more angry at a behavior these days as opposed to an actual politically defined "group." there are people who think that, just because they share an identity with you, you'll enable their bad behavior and let them get away with things. ultimately i enjoy teamwork and HEALTHY competitivity over being pitted against people for no reason all the time.

Anonymous 110259


One rotten apple is enough to spoil the whole box. The decomposition of the rotten apple starts from the inside, and lets out ammonia and other decaying compounds anaerobically, even if the whole box is sealed and air-tight, and the microorganisms start to develop and eat other fruits in the lot.

It's the same with furniture. Suppose you accidentally bring in a furniture that has a termite hive, the termites will start to spread and infect every other furniture near it.

Same with psychopaths. They act like your friend, they get in the bunch and preach the same values and ideals, and instead of being an instrument of these ideals that they preach, they only preach them because they get attention and they feel special. Soon, they start to take over the ideology itself, just because they get to feel special.

Anonymous 110265

so who do you think should correct them and why is it not you?

Anonymous 110266

i believe "enabling" behavior is the root issue as opposed to some tangible entity. ultimately, i think lots of things can enable those that are dragging down their in-group, and there are lots of weird parallels with amogus, hence the meme. for instance, supporting others instead of giving attention to ill-intentioned people. offering solutions along with criticism instead of "circle jerking" over problems and any bad emotions that may arise. there are lots of ways in which enabling behavior can manifest, but the main point is not rewarding those who only seek to drive conflict as to feel empowered to behave abusively.

Anonymous 110267

and again, the problem is not some inherent issue of competitivity, but an unhealthy form in which individuals who are not great themselves use their in-group identity to become powerful. an environment which allows an invasive plant to strangle other vegetation - the problem is not the plant but the environment.

Anonymous 110268

also - one last point, activities which challenge people's teamwork and ability to compete in a healthy manner may prevent people like this from becoming powerful in the first place.


PCOS has ruined my life Anonymous 110226[Reply]

Been diagnosed since i was 16, and all it did was give me the worst fucking acne of my life, i grow hair on my face like a man and i never have motivation to do anything. everyone is talking about how lifestyle is the biggest factor or go on this or that medicine but im from a third world country with the most controlling mother who cannot wait to marry me off. how do i even cope with this?? will i ever look like those normal woman with nice legs skinny bodies and smooth skin or am i destined to grow thick beard hairs for life

Anonymous 110239

i can assure you, that there is a man who will find you attrative. men do not care about appearance nearly as much as you think they do. just shave your face, its not like he is going to know.
>t. cystic acne haver who has a bf

Anonymous 110245

I'm also a pcos haver, I've gotten sir'd at stores on days where I had an unshaved face and my hair up in a pony. To be honest, lifestyle factors can only take you so far. I've lost so much weight and my period has become regular (until now, more on that) and painless, however, I'm still growing facial hair.
I'm mildly gender nonconforming and have a bit of a female-machismo complex, so it doesn't bother me too much in relation to my identity and individuality.
However, I do get insecure when it comes to dating. I question if men will accept my chin scragglies. I shave before dates, so they won't know, but I wish this wasn't a thing I didn't have to account for. Yes I don't have to, but I don't want to limit my dating pool. Simply, not all men are attracted with hairier girls.
I recently got on spironolactone to address the hair and acne and I'm 3 months in and my period stopped. My acne hasn't. My hair growth is slowing down at least.
I think the only thing that I can ultimately do is acceptance. I'm considering electrolysis but I'm conflicted.
I have no real advice to offer, I'm sorry, but I hope one day you can feel more comfortable.
Sometimes I feel like my body force transitions me

Anonymous 110246

>third worlder with helicopter mom who wants to arrangedmarriagemaxx
It's over unless you're Sara Ali Khan.

Anonymous 110247

There is some over the counter medicine that helps with acne if you can't see a doctor, you can take it and hide it somewhere.


Anonymous 109487[Reply]

I've never been catcalled. I'm pretty. Why?
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Anonymous 110003

I think it's a compliment. Means I am not ugly as fuck.
(Never been catcalled)

Anonymous 110107


On the internet it's a different story but I've noticed men IRL are intimidated by me. I'm not especially imposing, and though pretty mediocre looking, I've seen uglier girls harassed. it's my vibe. I have an aura that's scary to men. This is one of the few things I actually like about myself, and when men do harass me I have nary a problem telling them to fuck off.

Anonymous 110123

Your morphology is just excessive technology. You have been stripped of sociological stress. Your unconscious mind is likely OOP. You're just autistic as your biological fields. Do you even have a soul, universal cadaver? I hail you to service.

Anonymous 110136

My main downside is that the type of moids who do see me as harassable are the worst of the worst. It's a double edged sword. The fifth dimension spergery does not stop them all

Anonymous 110236

Me, too.
Though I have a weird power where even the freaks don't harass me, they pursue me earnestly in romance. This is awful in a different way.
Last one was a man who I didn't know was banned from half of the campus for sexually harassing women. He treated me so innocently it was fucking bizarro. (Never liked him and ran the fuck away after finding out)


Social Anxiety Disorder/Agoraphobia thread Anonymous 101071[Reply]

Imageboards attract us like flies so i made this thread so we can feel less lonely, here's some questions to get it going
>How is your life right now
>Do you go outside?
>Any friends or company?
>What do you do to cope with it
>Share a highlight from your life
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Anonymous 110179

congrats on your job interviews.
question,, do you fear others looking at you while on your walks or at the gym? how do you manage your social anxiety going to packed places like uni and the gym? i feel like there's so much going on all around at both

Anonymous 110186

Sometimes I think I'm getting better or it's just cute behaviours, then I can see girls having troubles socialising and start wondering if I also look that pathetic it's disgusting

Anonymous 110199

Thank you. When I'm on my walks, there's nobody ever around, usually. It really can get overwhelming at the gym, but most of the times, it's like I'm living half-reality, half-fantasy world in my head. I always have a fantasy going on in my mind, and it usually keeps me distracted from what's going on around me. But sometimes, I laugh randomly as a result of what occurs in my fantasy world, and I sometimes wonder if I look crazy to others.

Anonymous 110213

ohh okay that’s actually really beautiful! i wish i was more of a creative person, i fear my anxiety and dreadful thoughts have dimmed my light lol. keep being u nona :,3

Anonymous 110227

I go into work everyday and suffer from social anxiety and agoraphobia. Physically being there in the presence of others wears me down daily. How to overcome the fear of doing the small talk routine and saying hi to people? Why can’t I just sit alone in my cubicle and stare at a screen all day, I’d rather communicate via email instead of face to face…

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