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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
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Anonymous 133496

I often think about all the girls I’ve ever interacted with on here and how we’d probably be good friends if only we knew each other. When I feel lonely and I think about how I have no fellow female friendships, I get even more sad because I start to think of all the other girls like me… It sounds so silly but I really love all my fellow lonely girls that I’ll never ever meet or even know… It’s a bittersweet comfort. Of course that’s not to say all cc users are lonely neets or anything kek, but the ones I’ve had the small pleasure of interacting with, have felt so similar to me

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Thinken about buying an apartment share in my country.

Okay, so here's the deal. Here an apartment can have multiple owners with each one having their own share. They can also SELL those shares to other people. Of course nobody wants to live with strangers, so these usually go at a steep discount of 40% and more. This usually happens when the family is full of retards that can't get along kek so some are willing to do this anyways. There are seemingly very decent prices for very decent options.

Maybe I should just go full psycho and get one of those. I am completely and utterly unbothered when it comes to other people's presence in the same room. Only concern is them fucking with my personal items.

It's an actual business scheme for some people too where they buy a share and just become insufferable to live with so the other owners sell their share for nothing too.

Anonymous 133546

There's a very weird subtype of moid I see occasionally and it's the kind that suicidally tolerant and "understanding" of all kinds of shitty behavior. What the fuck causes this? That's like one one of the few reasons I genuinely might need to cut off a person completely.

>oh this person who told me to fuck off and that i'm a cringe retard? haha yeah well who knows they may turn around :)

Anonymous 133548

>>133546
Reminds me of my ex. People would do all sorts of shitty things towards them and he would just make up excuses for it.

As nice as it is having someone who is very understanding of you it sucks when they don't stand up for you or even themselves because they're so laidback and willing to excuse poor behavior. Have a spine, please.

Anonymous 133549

I wanted to start well the last 3 months but I just feel drained these days.
I know my job won't be pretty for some part of October, but maybe is that I feel I have nothing else and I ran out of excuses to convince myself otherwise


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Only Child Anonymous 133251[Reply]

This thread is intended to be a safe and relatable place for only children to share their unique experiences and perspectives.
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Anonymous 133494

>>133276
19 day shift, rip

Anonymous 133501

Seeing people accuse only children of selfishness is certainly something. I feel I'm only so chill about sharing my belongings and accommodating others precisely because I've never had it expected of me or forced onto me inside my own home

Anonymous 133526

>>133501
Give me $400

Anonymous 133527

>>133526
Okay, details?

Anonymous 133528

I'll send you a couple pennies, if you insist. Since you need it. My only child generosity knows no bounds


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im a pathological liar Anonymous 133502[Reply]

title. basically all of my life ive been making shit up about myself and there hasnt been a single person in my life to whom i havent lied to excessively. i do this because i really hate myself and my life so i dissociate by inventing new lives and personas for myself. nobody knows the real me because ive lied so much. there are countless chunks of my identity that are entirely made up and it doesnt help that i tell everyone a different story. im too deep into these personas to stop or fess up. i compulsively lie about even the smallest things like what i had for dinner for example. its a lifelong pattern and i abandon everyone before they can figure out that i am full of shit

Anonymous 133503

Yeah yeah so the typical lolcow/tumblr poster. What else is new?

Anonymous 133505

>>133502
What are some of the bigger things you have lied about nona? You might as well say it here. I’m curious

Anonymous 133511

Nature or nurture? Why're you like this


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trichotillomania Anonymous 113089[Reply]

not sure if I should post this here or in hb, but does anyone else suffer from trichotillomania? if so,
>when did you start?
>why did you start?
>have you ever been able to find coping skills to not do it anymore?
>have there been any moments that people looked at you funny because of it?
>have you ever had bald spots?
>what's the longest you've gone without pulling?

Anonymous 113090

>when did you start?
the summer after first grade which has been 18 years that I've been doing this

>why did you start?
I had lice that summer so I started doing it because I thought I would be able to see if I had lice but it became a nervous habit

>have you ever been able to find coping skills to not do it anymore?
not really honestly

>have there been any moments that people looked at you funny because of it?
yes, my 4th grade teacher made me wear ponytails every day and now I have headaches if I have my hair up for too long, in 5th grade my teacher made me flip my card for touching my head, at one point in middle school, I pulled so much that a pile of hair was on the floor

>have you ever had bald spots?
yes, in middle school it got so bad that my grandma made me wear hats when she took pictures of me

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Anonymous 113093

>>113089
>when did you start?
When I was around 8/9
>why did you start?
Anxiety
>have you ever been able to find coping skills to not do it anymore?
I took escitalopram for years to help stop with it, and I was able to ween myself off it and not re-start the habit.
>have there been any moments that people looked at you funny because of it?
I had bald spots until I was about 20 so yes.
>have you ever had bald spots?
See above
>what's the longest you've gone without pulling?
I'm about 10 years clean now

Anonymous 113119

> when did you start?
i think in 2017 or 2018?

> why did you start?
an eyebrow accidentally got tightly stuck in my nail and when i pulled it it was painful but kinda good. i pick my skin so picking my eyebrows was a similar fidgeting relief

>have you ever been able to find coping skills to not do it anymore?
honestly not really. but a few times when i had gotten my nails done i noticed i barely did it bc i was physically unable to

>have there been any moments that people looked at you funny because of it?
i wouldnt say my friends made fun of me but they pointed it out when they noticed. then i told them to keep poiting it out so i could stop bc i do it unconsciously

>have you ever had bald spots?
yeah lol but then i bought a black eye pencil and realized i could just cover the bald spot with it

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Anonymous 116084

>>113089
>when did you start?
when I was 13-14
>why did you start?
combo of OCD and real bad rough patches when I was a kid
>have you ever been able to find coping skills to not do it anymore?
Yes. Almost a year ago my issues culminated into panic attacks, I thought I was having a heart attack on a daily basis. I took zoloft for a few months and picked up a book called Feeling Good (self help CBT) the apathy combined with the new coping mechanism pretty much stopped my pulling within the 2nd month.
>have there been any moments that people looked at you funny because of it?
Too many to count
>have you ever had bald spots?
My hairline resembled Mao Zedong's for years on end
>what's the longest you've gone without pulling?
eight months and counting.

Anonymous 133470

when did you start?
Around 11 or 12.

why did you start?
No clear reason. I think it started as a fidget thing and turned into a compulsion. Stress makes it worse but it's not like I only do it when stressed.

have you ever been able to find coping skills to not do it anymore?
Not fully. Keeping my hands busy helps somewhat (fidget toys, knitting), and wearing a hat or keeping my hair up makes it harder to do mindlessly. But nothing has made it stop completely.

have there been any moments that people looked at you funny because of it?
Yeah. Mostly when people notice me pulling and I didn't realize I was doing it. Also comments about my eyebrows or hair looking thin.

have you ever had bald spots?
Yes. Eyebrows and a patch near my part.

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Any German Women here? Anonymous 133119[Reply]

I'm German and would like to connect with other German PinkPill Women on here. Have you found community? Only see English speaking threads everywhere

Anonymous 133120

>>133119
There are people from other countries here but generally everyone just speaks in english here because it's easiest. I don't think I've heard of any germans on here though

Anonymous 133390

>>133119
I'm German and I've met multiple German women who use this site. But I haven't found any group settings to meet others like us, it's always been 1:1 so far.

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>>133119
You can always just use translate to translate the page automatically, thats what i do with a lot of sites now

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how to date when you're a chud? Anonymous 133372[Reply]

genuinely i feel like i got nothing to offer. i have a job but it's minimum wage and i'm struggling to find work elsewhere. i can't drive even though i'm in grad school. and i'm chopped af (even though whenever i say this people are like "nooo you're so pretty ahaha to make me feel better. like bruh if wasn't ugly i wouldn't be here).
i usually end up third wheeling while my pretty friends get hit on or listening to their woes of people thinking they're hot and it just makes me feel weirdly uncomfortable because thats rarely happened to me. and obviously i don't think they should get attention they don't want! but i guess i feel a terrible sense of jealously over being desired even if i know it's wrong. it's weird and makes me feel guilty.
it's gotten to the point where my online friend made a weirdly nsfw comment to me but i wasn't even bothered by it because it made me feel wanted for once? i know it was bad and i should call him out, but it's been the only think to make my heart skip a beat in so long.
idk mostly a vent but if anyone has any advice on how to not be a total loser i would like to hear it ^^ hoping whoever is reading this is doing better than i am

Anonymous 133432

>>133372
For one, you should draw a line with people making comments like that towards you. That’s a pretty big red flag that they’re only really interested in you because you’re a woman and they want to get their willy wet.

I get wishing people would flirt with you, I really do, I was and still am in a similar boat with you in regards to feeling unwanted, but when I actually reciprocated the few flirts I did get, bad stuff happened that lead to my heart getting broke. As for what you can do, I would say just make the most of what you have, something that’s numbed those feelings a lot for me is trying as much new shit as possible helped a bunch, and constantly leaving my comfort zone to explore has made me feel a lot more grounded.

When it comes to actually finding what you seek, I’m sorry Nona but you’ll have to be patient. Finding someone you can trust and reciprocate the want you show them cannot be done in a day. If you branch out from your comfort zone, you’ll hopefully find what you seek, but you’ll have to show initiative.

Anonymous 133448

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Like the other nona said, get out of your comfort zone, you'll meet many more people and learn about yourself. If something isn't your thing then at least you have the experience and an interesting story. You'll become more interesting and that will attract people to you. More opportunities to meet people and some of them will become friends and potentianly maybe even lovers. The right person is out there, you just have to go meet them


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I cannot be normal around my mother Anonymous 133385[Reply]

Looking for advice and the possible reason for this. A couple years ago, I lost a couple family members including my father through an accident which led me to isolate, losing the ability to socialize properly, but after some therapy I was able to make a lot of new friends, now I can easily make friends and go out. My problem is, I act completely different infront of my friends/relationships compared to my mother. I go into a small shell, she has never been abusive but incredibly supportive of my journey but this really gets to me because she probably things I am genuinely retarded when I am actually a big socialite and I can look into other peoples faces and hold good conversation, good posture, hygiene, etc. It's like I see her as a caregiver.. I don't know why I do this because it really makes me look really weak in front of my family. What can I do to become more normal and functioning around my mother that I can do with my friends?

Anonymous 133386

>>133385
An average day for a friend is:
I am in makeup, nice clothes, smiling, socialising, making the effort, planning, eye contact, good posture, smell good, eat well with friends

an average day with my mom:
hair tangled, hair greasy,eating junk, i dont say hi or talk to mum, my brain goes foggy, i am unable to talk long conversations without messing up words, i wear same top a week straight, i dont leave my room

why does this happen when i love my mom the most?

Anonymous 133389

Autism

Anonymous 133396

>>133385
Why do you think you do that

Anonymous 133397

>>133386
Just try behaving differently at home, whats stopping you

Anonymous 133440

Because you take your mother for granted and so you don't have to try.
You put in the effort for others because you have to earn it, while your mom you already have her unconditional support so you have no reason to improve.


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Cats Anonymous 133411[Reply]

i wish i had a cat so bad theyre literally so cute and adorable. cats reduce stress too!!! im one of those people who believes the cat chooses you, not the other way around lol. i hate when ppl say “you’re gonna be a lonely cat lady with cats and wine” like thats supposed to scare me babe thats literally my dream life. i love cats so much

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>>133411
Listen, sis. You can't spend your whole life chasing a 1% cat chad. Even if you got one, he'd just use you (and every one of your neighbors) for food. You gotta learn to love a 8/10 cat. And don't wait for one to come to you. find one you like and take him for yourself. Trust me, the cat will be happy you're paying attention to it.

Anonymous 133413

>>133412
scrote all cats are 10/10 cats

Anonymous 133423

I have a cat that is a wonderful companion and I love him very much.

Only annoying he ever does is run and jump on/off my bed when I am trying sleep which wakes me up. I have enough trouble sleep as it is so I had to start kicking him out of the room at night. He cries at my door and makes me sad but I need sleep

Anonymous 133438

>>133411
my mom dont like cats she’s actually scared of cats. how tf do i convince her to let me adopt one??


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 133080

I miss you.

I wish other people hadn't broken and ruined me. You had more patience for me than anyone else despite all the years of trauma have have piled up on me mentally.

No one else will ever love me the way you did and I wish I was in better condition to receive that love instead of running away. I'm sorry.

Even if I come out of therapy renewed and whole again I'll still feel like killing myself up because I fucked up so badly.

Anonymous 133219

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R,

I like to think that my life's improved since then. I still get depressed sometimes but I'm doing way better now. I've been diagnosed with autism and I've been going to therapy. I'm doing fine career-wise. I feel like I luckily won't ever reach that low, ever again.
Although everything's changed, I do sometimes still think about you. I wonder what you've been up to. Sometimes I'd just like to have a chat with you, as friends. I hope you're ok.

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Anonymous 133407

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I’m gonna miss you, my handsome bf. Well, I guess you’re not my handsome bf anymore. I’m still in denial about it, I don’t want to delete the folder I have full of photos of you and our messages, nor do I want to scribble off the date on my calendar when you were meant to come down and see me. I understand this is my fault, I was too harsh with you and I hurt you. I hope one day we can be together, even if it’s another lifetime. Thank you for everything Jay, I will love you forever with all my heart, my little plane autist.

Anonymous 133408

>>131887
>>132979
>>133080
>>133219
>>133407
You're all so depressing. It's just a moid. There's so many of them out there and I can promise you that your moid will talk to you again if you message.

Anonymous 133410

I miss you more than I probably should, and I wish we could’ve done all the things we talked about. I regret fucking it up when we were so close to actually having it all. I guess what hurts most is realizing that maybe you never felt as deeply about me as I did about you. I hope someone loves me one day as much as I loved you, and when they do, I hope I never hurt them the way you hurt me. I just wish things had turned out differently.


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Be yourself Anonymous 133356[Reply]

just yesterday i discovered im a femcel. Maybe other femcel that sees me thinks im not one of them. Im a socially accepted femcel just because im pretty but honestly ive never had a partner my experience with guys has been so weird that ive never had a boyfriend and ive never even kissed anyone.
i love men and id really like to have my first boyfriend but i dont think we should put men on a pedestal or blame beauty standards for our misery I think we should empower ourselves by using beauty standards to our advantage If you cant beat the enemy you should join it.
Don’t be a ‘Stacy’ or a ‘True Eve’. Be a ‘True Lilith’

Anonymous 133357

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>>133356
Men should be the ones performing beauty for us. Where do they get the gaul to expect us to jump through hoops for them, when they are the ones begging for sex like they're gonna die from loneliness ? How is it we are completely outnumbered by men on dating apps? And they wanna be a 4 or 5 and only accept an 8 or 9 woman? Hahah no they need to make it worth our time

I mean i think everyone has wierd experiences with men… Its just way easier to avoid a ton of the shit that comes with dating. Its too much headache and too easy to be single.

Anonymous 133358

>>133356
Some men are SOOOO stupid I never seen a really handsome man be picky with his taste in women. The only ones who are demanding are old men who like younger girls or stupid guys saying some shit like "goth mommy" and they look like shit

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men do not appreciate all the work that goes into looking beautiful, they just see "pretty girl". look good for yourself, and bring happiness to those who love and care about you. never chase love, but nurture the one that shows genuine care and affection, not just tepid attraction. Good Luck Nona!


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