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Anonymous 129167[Reply]

Anyone here autistic with ADHD?

Anonymous 129179

Yeah everyone. Why do you think we're on the internet handwriting AI slop comments instead of do something productive

Anonymous 129182

Probably ADHD, but not autistic
What's with the perched position? I understand that squatting is important for your legs and knees, but why do it on a chair?

Anonymous 129194

>>129182
Something called proprioception actually, needing extra information about where our body is in with respect to space to feel comfortable about, or something like that.


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Anonymous 129166[Reply]

I am so fucking angry that I have to work for the rest of my life. The concept of working is fucking cruel if you think about it long enough. We are slaving our lives away and for what? To not be homeless? The homeless have more freedom than us. I am neet currently but I will be forced into slavery soon since my money is running out. The last job I had, I only lasted a week at. It was genuinely traumatic. Working was 10x more traumatic than when I was molested and soon I'm going to have to fucking do it again for the next 50 years. My life is a nightmare I wish I was aborted. I just want to play vidya all day that's it. That's my only goal
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Anonymous 129176

>>129175
TBH it's kind of BECAUSE we want things like internet and other luxuries that we work so long.
There is no great movement to join the Amish or Nunneries or Communes. All those things still exist and people don't go to them. Their lifestyles are even better than peasants too.

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>>129176
Sweet summer child, you are underestimating the wast difference between productivity levels then and now. Thing is, when productivity rises so do taxes, so that plebs can never rise up, no matter how advanced technology gets. On the contrary, technology enables a tighter grip on the masses.

Anonymous 129178

It's not taxes, you fool, taxes are a percent. It's rent. The rent always goes up until people can't afford it and the landlord laugh all the way to the bank. Luigi had the right idea.

Anonymous 129191

Your pedophile overlords need your tax money

Anonymous 129193

Luigi your landlord today.


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Commie moids Anonymous 128878[Reply]

Is it a good idea to date a hardcore commie moid? [Sorry for bad English it's my second language]
>met him at a book fair with other friends
>he was in a booth encouraging people to read commie books and even gave digital copies to some
>I'm 23 he is 21
>he is studying medicine and im studying engineering
>we kinda flirted and I have a date with him on Sunday
Is it a red flag for a moid to be a commie? [Pun intended]
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Anonymous 128939

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>So im back from the date
had a great time and learned a lot about him
FYI I like asking about his prior gfs just to weed out red flags
>Pros
>He is kind
>He is attentive
>He is really smart
>he isn't condescending (most smart moids are unbearable)
>I really enjoyed our conversation
>Surprisingly he has a part-time job
>he paid for the date
>told me about his exes when I asked he has had 3 (the first he ended on bad terms, the other two ended on good terms but he maintains zero contact) I like that
CONS
>he confessed to me his prior relationships failed because he is always busy and had very few dates with his past gfs
>didn't talk about his family
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Anonymous 128948

>>128939
It's ok to talk his ex. A bit weird though but tolerable, I guess. Just don't expect him to accept it if he discovers that. Would you be ok if he were stalking all of your profiles on Insta/FB/Whatsapp and talking to your exes, too?

Anonymous 129150

>>128878
They're notorious for betraying their friends and family to conform to the new rhetoric, I personally experienced that.

Anonymous 129157

>>129150
Can confirm, my sister has no loyalty towards her family that keeps supporting her throughout her life, just blindly defends people she has never met (at expense of those who are closer to her). As if to mechanically compensate for lacking natural human virtue, she clings to crude ideas of morality.

Anonymous 129190

>>129157
Update
>talked to his ex
>she was nice to me (gave me a cupcake)
>Didn't tell her I knew him just poked around her life she surprisingly didn't mind and they basically broke up cause he is always doing something, if he is not studying for college or at college he is either at his job or doing charity work (he also helps out at a church, I found that kinda cute) she told me he was great as a partner when he was with her the main issue being most of the time he wasn't with her. She also told me he wasn't very close to anybody she told me he is surrounded by friends and people who like him but he doesn't have best friends or even close to his family. I mean she told me they are on good terms but not close, she found that odd and I do too
>>129150
>>129157
I kinda see what you mean nonas, I don't think he betrays people, he just stays outside of everyone's life's and offers them help when they need it, I guess that's honorable/selfless¿?

We went on a another date today, he is sweet but I noticed what his ex meant, he listened to me and we had a great chat but after being 5 hours together, he never talked about himself, the only thing I learned about him was his favorite ice cream,I need to ask who he is to get to know him
Bottom line is
>I don't like that at all it makes me feel as if he doesn't trust me, plus I do know myself well enough to accept I like attention from my partner, I would be miserable if I felt as if I was just a way to fill his freetime a hobby not a partner… so yeah I'm ghosting him but props to him, at least he is the most selfless person I've ever met… I guess…


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Anonymous 129170[Reply]

Everytime I read something about a moid, I get more disgusted by them.

Anonymous 129171

>>129170
>why have 1 when you could have 10
imagine if a woman said this

Anonymous 129183

>>129170
>leeds
>rooster
>we make 100k+ as 30yr olds in europe btw

you're reading fanfiction

Anonymous 129185

Fake and gay.

Anonymous 129187

>>129171
Not really comparable since women have no biological incentive to want multiple mates the way men are.

A more fair comparison would be a woman saying something like "Why ever setle for the second best man in the world when you could have the first?".


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Anonymous 128950[Reply]

I've gotten to the point where I've become such a touch-starved femcel, I've started to envy and hate pretty girls who have been SA'd or stalked by men before. Instead of feeling sympathy for for them, I get to the point where I am annoyed and disgusted hearing their stories where they had that one ex boyfriend that just "couldn't let them go" or having had a man in their life obsess over them. That has been the stark opposite of my life. As a femcel I have been ignored by men my whole entire life, and the exes I have managed to have had all wanted to ghost or abandon me, none of my exes were ever obsessed with me. None of them blew up my phone constantly or begged for me. At this point, I see women talking about obsessive exes as nothing more than humble bragging, especially Stacies, complaining about how "oh so hard" it is that they've had an ex obsess over and stalk them. They don't understand that the life of a femcel is much worse. I would take their life over mine in a heartbeat. Being a Stacy where I have men obsessing over me, stalking me, and wanting to grope me versus being the touch starved ignored femcel I am. It's easy to see their life is easy mode of people doting on them all the time (their life) versus a life that is absolute hell (my life).
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Anonymous 129172

>>129159
moids never like women. all moids unconditionally hate women, they are incapable of love.

Anonymous 129180

>>129169
They are. Andrew Tate's an incel.

Anonymous 129181

>>129172
Totally agree

Anonymous 129184

>>129180
He's a scammer pimp. Is being incel that much worse?

Anonymous 129186

>>129180
You're just proving you don't know or care what words mean which makes your claims of being a femcel all the less credible.


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lonely post graduation Anonymous 128773[Reply]

18 yrs and graduated last year, all my friends got bfs and now dont talk to me anymore. And the one male friend I have who played video games with me sold his body to the army so now im all alone and posting on reddit to find friends. I genuinely do nothing all day besides play video games that I dont even enjoy to pass the time. I wish i could go back to highschool so bad even tho i was bullied lol just so i could have some human interaction outside of my cat and my mom
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Anonymous 128803

>>128782
Many countries mandatory conscription for all moids. They'll die either way if war breaks out

Anonymous 129154

thats so me

Anonymous 129162

Sound advice: invest in yourself
Watch the whole video
As for friends, you can try bars and even contacting some of your old friends who now have boyfriends; who knows, maybe they have a friend group which you can join
Even things like spin class, yoga class, courses

Anonymous 129163

>>128799
Worst case scenario there was an anon who said she was in severe debt after graduating from college then entered a sugar relationship where in the end all of the debt was paid in full but she had to do nasty things in bed and you don't want to have an average of 29,000 $ of debt when you're a student in the USA

Anonymous 129165

I relate to this a lot. Where do I even go from here? I don't have the motivation to go out and get a job but I also don't know what else to do other than rot in bed and play games 24/7. Being a NEET is honestly pretty hard


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Anonymous 129164[Reply]

>tfw school is such a shithole that you romanticize your exhaustion and loneliness by imagining you're a sad anime girl

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all the men i talked to just made me insecure about my appearance. Anonymous 129153[Reply]

all the men i talked to just made me insecure about my appearance and made me compare myself to other girls.

and i hate it, cause i constantly compared myself to the girls they mentioned and created an internal female rivalry with them. like, i didn't hate the girls, i js wanted to be like them and thats impossible. i only hate myself because genetically it would be possible to change my appearance, maybe in another life. and what irritates me the most is that I forgave it, even though sometimes i commented that i didnt like it and they obviously dont care. so because this, in my head, its impossible for someone to genuinely like me because of my appearance and my body, even if i consider myself a nice girl.

i hate moids who dream of an ideal type of woman they never have and say that to the girls they talk to. or guys whose minds are corroded by pornography

Anonymous 129156

they are negging you on purpose to lower your self worth and then erode your boundaries. you must be young and not have lived to see them all start balding at 23.

Anonymous 129161

The same thing happened to me, nona. The difference that they cited aspects of my appearance, mostly related to my genetic traits, which they considered flaws and asked me to change. Im already quite insecure, but they made me even more so. That's why I stopping trusting most moids.


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new relationship not actually being toxic for once Anonymous 128947[Reply]

im 18yo lesbo9000 and ive had terrible relationship issues my entire life, usually being a mixture of both me & the other person being the problem

ive got insane mental issues but i recently got a girlfriend (although we were basically dating for a long time now). shes really nice to me: she doesnt randomly ignore me, and doesnt suck at communication. shes really happy to see me and doesnt mind me texting her a lot (She even likes it WTF?). she also has issues but works hard to be the best she can be

but its crazy feeling so fucking normal for once. no more three-times-a-day mental breakdowns and cutting myself over stupid bullshit. being in a healthy relationship feels so fucking weird in a Nice way. im really not used to it and i feel like a stray cat being randomly picked up on the street and given a domestic home. but its something i want to get used to. is this what relationship issues/attachment recovery feels like? Cool…

Anonymous 129152

prepare for the beatings when she tries to assert her dominance over you


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128920

I love you, I don't want to tell you yet but I knew from the moment I met you, I love you

Anonymous 128956

So you sit there silently and what are you waiting for? Did valentines day trigger your loneliness wound?
Are you hoping I still love you? Are you hoping I will be the first to apologize?
Or do you just want the access to me, just in case?

Anonymous 128957

You do not have access to me anymore. Any time I feel like I miss you I remember all the times you hurt me and lied to me and how many days i went not eating and sleeping because of you, cutting myself because of you. All the promises you made that you'll always be here and always love me only to leave me

I'm tired of wasting my time on you. Go fuck yourself. You should die alone

Anonymous Moderator 128961

Some posters have been using this thread to vaguely communicate with others and to spam dozens of one-liners one after the other. Don't use this thread as a chat thread. Your posts will be removed.

Anonymous 129151

>>128961
thank you.


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