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Anonymous 132401[Reply]

I need to know if loosing your virginity to a moid is really worth it. I'm afraid to be thrown and dispossed like an used tissue after gifting my virginity to someone…should I consider having my first time with another girl?, ¿Do you regret losing your virginity?
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Anonymous 132608

>>132401
Pretty much just regretted it, mostly because the relationship didn't work out and the guy I lost it to wasn't a virgin either. It leaves me bitter knowing I've shared something private with someone who I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with. They'll likely forget about and associate this as one of his many attempts at finding love. I regret being a sensitive trusting faggot and letting my guard down. They weren't that bad of a person. I miss feeling more naive and optimistic about life. I hate the feeling of deja vu of attempting the same thing with someone else, it feels dirty. If none of this bothers you, go ahead.

Anonymous 132616

>>132608
> It leaves me bitter knowing I've shared something private with someone who I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with

You figured it out, no amount of shallow platitudes about ah it's just sex, have fun,
will ever tell what you know now.
I hope you can find your love soon thou, good luck nona.

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my first time was with a girl and i don't regret it, it was her first time too. its better to have a partner who is a bit more experienced than you because they can guide you in a way, but it has to be someone who truly cares about you and isnt using you as a cheap fuck. imo sex with men is very physical while with women its more sensual and beautiful. p.s. cum smells awful and tastes worse

Anonymous 133346

I'm still a virgin but I wanna try sex with a man and a woman just to know for sure if I'm straight bi or gay. I can get horny thinking about certain individuals but how the actual sex is could impact that. Like I used to be more into women when I was younger and got crushes on other girls but then as a teenager I got into gay guy porn and now I prefer men

Anonymous 133362

wtf some of you are insane? You have a precious and vulnerable part of you that should be protected from people that just want to use you like evil men and lesbians who want to be men, even in this thread. it makes me sick. don't listen to this bullshit! girls in this thread are actually saying to throw away your virginity and get your feelings stomped on and get used and accept you are worthless it's just !!!


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what is wrong with me am i normal Anonymous 132022[Reply]

ive been with this guy for 6 months now and i’ve never felt so fucking horrible in my entire life because of him. we were dating but then he ghosted me for 5 days because i hung up a call to talk to my friend real quick. i was literally gonna call him back and that call only last 10 minutes. after that everything went to shit. he was saying he didn’t love me anymore out of no where. i felt like i got stabbed in my heart 5000 times. i begged him not to leave, bawling my fucking eyes out on call. and he did. so now we’ve been talking and flirting but to him we’re not official, to him we’re “just friends” despite how fucking much he flirts with me. the love he gives me doesn’t even feel real now. also i don’t know how to time all of this, its a lot, i’m sorry. but also i think i may have bpd or something i don’t know. it’s like all the littlest things he does makes me feel like shit and then i bawl my eyes out and start cutting myself. whenever he doesn’t wanna call i do that. or when he slightly sounds like he thinks another girl is attractive or something even though he’s not directly saying that. but also he views women in a very object way. because of that i cant really see men the same either. he’s told me whenever he saw a girl that he thought that was hot, talked about the porn he watched. i felt horrible. i loved him so much i didnt even think of any other guys i just thought, “wow this guy is so fucking ugly and boring my boyfriend is so much better” whenever i saw other guys. and he doesn’t even feel that way back. and when i told him about how i felt about it he just brushed it off saying it wasnt a big deal saying all men do that. but anyway, me and him just got into an argument because he promised me to call but he said he didn’t want to and i started crying and cutting myself. he didn’t even comfort me. he never comforts me. i feel like if he did i wouldnt even care that he didn’t wanna call. but its the fact that it’s like wow he just doesn’t give a shit about me. i just blocked him. please tell me am i fucking crazy? am i overreacting? i’m also partially asking this because he thinks i’m crazy.
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Anonymous 132360

>>132323
If she is in love with the facade of a narcisist and is ready to pay the price, let her be in love with what that man pretend to be. The choice belong to her.
I somehow find it beautiful.

Anonymous 132431

you deserve better and you will definitely find better. leave this relationship before it messes you up long term. being alone is hard at first but it's a kind thing to do to yourself over facing abusive bs like this

Anonymous 133233

>>132022
can you give me a tldr version?

Anonymous 133236

>ghosts you for 5 days for talking to a friend
And you think you have BPD? No. You aren't crazy or overreacting. He's manipulated you and doesn't love you. He just wants a woman to walk all over. Never give him another chance.

Anonymous 133361

when you hung up on him to answer your friend he probably saw it as rude but sounds like he internalized it in some way as categorical of your entire personality so he's decided apropos of nothing that you are evil and deserve to be treated horribly as a punishment or form of correction. he probably has a delusional sense of being an instrument of righteousness in an entirely un-self-examined way that leads him to justify treating you badly whenever he decides that your behaviour doesn't match his entirely uncommunicated and likely ill-conceived standards. this cycle of behaviour probably comes as a form of defense mechanism to protect him from his insecurities as the minor discomfort he likely felt at the moment of your slightly rude one-time action was intolerable to him - I presume because he has a massively inflated sense of self worth which causes him to be enraged at the thought of someone 'lesser' than him having the power to cause him pain in any form, no matter how minor. so now he oscillates between his everyday persona and his 'punishment' persona - i.e. between the mask and his truly evil intentions towards you. he means to cause you harm and wants you to suffer so he gaslights you saying his behaviour is the normal way a man should treat a woman (it isn't), and he is intentionally trying to lower your sense of self worth by comparing you openly to other women. I expect he also does this in a thousand myriad other ways which are designed to hurt you and keep you at the low level of self worth so that he can continue to keep you addicted to him. your attention and obsession with him has likely become a source of pleasure to him, fuelling a cycle of misery which will benefit him entirely and destroy you entirely. I am really happy to see you blocked him. don't go back.


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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 133313

>>133312
Any movement is good

Anonymous 133314

>>133296
Dean Withers is so fugly

Anonymous 133335

I really ought to start getting some sort of income or a job
I’m paranoid if I lose my husband aka only breadwinner I’ll get fucked

Anonymous 133359

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gonna try and escape neetdom. hopefully it works this time. wish me luck.

Anonymous 133360

>>133359
good luck have fun


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/lg/ - lesbian general Anonymous 108545[Reply]

felt like this should be a thread tbh
what's everyone up to? i'm thinking of downloading tinder again
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Anonymous 133053

>>133052
subtle brag lol

Anonymous 133081

obligatory viewing

Anonymous 133274

do you ever wish you were straight?

just been having some depressing thoughts lately.

Anonymous 133342

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i've recently matched with this cute green haired alt girl on tinder. i thought she'd be a great fit since she wrote she likes submissives and i've been lookin to not be the top for once. turns out she is actually bi and into timid twinks and feels bad about domming women since "they're precious and don't deserve that". I don't think she got over her exbf yet tho, despite being broken up for a year now, she keeps mentioning him and all the shitty ways he treated her. I wish she was more affectionate and called me pretty and asked more about me, i want to connect with her but she also is slightly autistic and sometimes comes off as cold. On our second date we went to an ice cream shop, we get in line and i whisper to her that i'll pay for today, and she says she was gonna, i say "lets rock paper scissor for it" she agrees. we both throw scissors, and says "i shouldve known…". she did paper second round and i went scissors again lmao. Shes so cute , and fashionable, and soft and kisses nicely, but i hate that this probably won't be anything more than FWB type situation.

Anonymous 133343

dated a guy for a while and hated kissing him, got back with a girl and i didn't realize how much i missed not getting scratched while making out


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Anonymous 133323[Reply]

What are unique struggles of being a lesbian? As a straight woman who passionately hates men, I always wondered.

Anonymous 133325

This photo makes me want to goon

Anonymous 133329

should be obvious. it's very, very lonely even by everyone else's standards. majority of women are straight, even if you hate men you're still attracted to them and at some point you'll still yap about them in some form.

you deal with all this suffering and for what? to have a smaller dating pool that has the same problems that the hets and bisexuals have because too many women are picking up the same bad habits and traits that moids have.

Anonymous 133332

>>133323
i'm vry feminine and so is my girlfriend– it's lovely and amazing (we're the type that have cute picnics and braid each other's hair)

also, her and i both hate men, but i don't think anyone should date women just bc they hate men… you should LOVE women too

i was vry vry lonely and had never dated until meeting her so i guess that is a big issue…

Anonymous 133336

>>133332
it seems like it's not necessarily about gender but about compatibility, connection, respect and liking each other


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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 132334

>>128474
updates?

Anonymous 133159

hoping op is well

Anonymous 133214

tell us how it's going op

Anonymous 133333

op will stay with this man until he kills her. the end.

Anonymous 133334

Op got tired of making shit up for (you)s


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why am i still sad when my life is so much better than it was a few years ago? Anonymous 133321[Reply]

i feel super cringe writing this cause my life isn't even that bad anymore, but i'm still super sad for seemingly no reason
i feel really stupid whenever i miss classes or break down about going outside or don't clean my room or do work until it's too much to do…
i've been getting therapy and trying essentially every medication for anxiety and depression since freshman year. which on its own shows my life is pretty good since my dad got me medical help…
but i really can't figure out why i'm still so sad? my life is okay. i still live with my dad (i'm in uni) and he doesn't expect me to get a job yet or anything. he just wants me to get good grades, keep my room clean, take my meds, and feed the cats. but even that's so hard for me. it makes me feel like i'll never be a functional adult cause i can't even do simple tasks. i don't have any hobbies either. i used to draw and play instruments and sing but i never liked doing that. i don't even play video games or watch anime anymore, so all of the games and anime i like were made before 2022.
i wonder if i'm a spoiled brat or something. i guess i had a difficult childhood, but my dad got custody of me when i was in seventh grade, so it makes no sense why im not fine now ???
sorry for stupid rambling, i kinda just wanted somewhere to let this stuff out.
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Anonymous 133324

>>133321
sounds similar to me. having a "good life" didn't help.

have you tried psychedelics like mushrooms? they really helped me break through some heavy depression. dont buy the fake gas station gummy kind either, grow the real thing (assuming it is legal in your state)

Anonymous 133326

>>133321
I think your life is missing spirituality. I used to avoid even discussing spiritual matters but I've since realized some people are simply not mentally strong enough to exist without a spiritual reason for being. They could have everything in the world but without a reason to live and go on they break down and end up doing something violent to themselves or others. I would really suggest getting more in touch with your spiritual side and that can mean many things as spirituality looks very different depending on who you ask but I'd just suggest exploring around and seeing if you find something you connect with.

Anonymous 133327

>>133324
i haven’t tried any kind of substances since my dad is super anti-drug and still checks all my packages to make sure it’s not anything i can hurt myself with. maybe if i eventually move out ill try something like that

Anonymous 133328

You're definitely depressed op. Have you gotten a therapist?

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>>133321
i too would half agree with the spirituality thing the nona on top said, but i would also suggest you to start an hobbie!
Absolutely anything that can keep your mind off your daily life, maybe better something you can see grow each day that you can see in hobbies like sewing, gardening, drawing, making something in general.

I'll always suggest sewing because it's so versatile and it saved my life, but it can be anything.
I wish you the best of luck nona, even better times will come!


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Anonymous 133302[Reply]

It scares me that I see moids talking about taking womens rights away, I genuinely do everyday. They always have some spiritual esoteric reasoning for it, I don’t give a shit that Aristotle or some literal who said women are defect and below men. They want any reason to make women subhuman.

Cause all they want women to be is dumb, weak, breeding slaves for them. Moids are visual creatures who only love women for their body and see them as less than them in every aspect.. A woman reaching her fullest potential as a human is awful to them, she must believe that being anything greater is masculine and not her role. Being breeding cattle too uneducated and weak for anything is the ideal woman to the moid.

Anonymous 133303

>>133302
I'm sure it'll blow back into their faces, aside from peoples random ass bodies its pure egoism to imply any version of yourself can be enslaved. maybe its a projection from being already enslaved by other noids

Anonymous 133305

don't be scared of them. arm yourself and never again be afraid of a scrote.

Anonymous 133308

Larp

Anonymous 133309

Larp

Anonymous 133310

Larp larp saaaahur


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I want to be with a girl Anonymous 129722[Reply]

I'm bisexual but I always had experience with men, I want to feel loved and desired by a woman romantically, preferably someone with a more dominant personality since I'm kinda shy

Anonymous 129734

>>129722
Me too, I've only been with a woman once online and I'm terrified of men at this point. I find it hard to click which women are bi / gay that I'm embarrassed to ask and pursue irl. If anyone who's dated girls has tips please send them

Anonymous 133299

i relate. straight men are like sand on a beach but getting a gf is so much harder if you don`t like dating apps. maybe try to add something to your appearance that shows you`re into girls? like a pin or keychain from popular yuri or straight up a flag. are there any queer spaces you can go to like lesbian bars? otherwise its rough out there as a shy woman, at least irl. good luck to you!


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bullied kids will never be taken seriously Anonymous 132440[Reply]

ok so basically what eats me alive lately is thinking about how the things i have been ridiculed for liking and straight up bullied is now liked by the people that hated me for liking said thing.
am i stupid for letting such thought bother me?, well, i know it’s stupid but part of me feels a bit sad, knowing i spent half my childhood up to adolescence being made fun of and hated for such little things, in which also made me extremely depressed and self isolated. seeing what made me happy and people hated me for liking being now their “interest” is so soul crushing to me.
it makes me think that all the pain i’ve felt while being bullied was just nothing, my sister used to be so mean and angry towards me for liking certain music and now she booked 2k in tickets for the concert of the bands I LIKED.
and now simply when i bring up about it it’s like “well that’s not true” “i dont remember it”.
am i in the wrong for feeling sad over things like this? it hurts me sometimes.
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Anonymous 132542

The black pill is realizing that none of your revenge fantasies will ever come true.
Especially this one that people keep promising you:
>The best revenge is a life lived well and happily.
That's the one least likely to come true of all.

Anonymous 132543

>>132542
You have become one of them!

Anonymous 132547

They don't like what you always liked, they actually do something much more worse and sinister: they normiefy and enshittificate the things you liked, and even the band you used to like has mostly lost its soul and style

Being mad as this is like being mad at mold that ate your bread, yeah, it is upsetting but it's also pointless to be mad at something that doesn't possess a brain or consciousness

Anonymous 132558

>>132542
spoken like a true bully right? it's not even true because my best friend was bullied by her own brother and sister and yet her life now is great and the siblings life is shit so

Anonymous 133298

>>132547
this 100%


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