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Anonymous 121599[Reply]

Cried about dad cheating on mom. I haven't told anyone yet. Just spiralling and asking chat gpt how this can affect me and what preventative measures I can take. When should I tell my mom. Should I ever tell her. Ugh. Now all day will be spent drinking coffee because I did not sleep and I have to study for an exam. I want a fat greasy pizza. This is my sign to work even harder in uni. Girls is such a fun show. I need a tarot card reading. Chewing five pieces of gum will really hurt your jaw.
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Anonymous 122041

>>122038
Aww , i feel so hard for you.. I found my dad's cheating evidence at 10/11, and I never saw him the same/ as a good guy after that. My mother later went on to detail how he was doing it the whole time. Even when my mom just had us…
The audacity of shitty ass "dads"!!

Anonymous 122044

>>122041
I'm going to destroy his entire being he is going to pay for this

Anonymous 122057

>>122037
Cheating is so stupid.. for one, you're(addressing your dad here) going to be found out, also, why make your own life more complicated? But most important - you could have spent your resources on the family you chose to create you stupid moid.

Anonymous 122060

>>122044
Based. Sometimes scorched earth is the proper response. Start gathering as much dirt as you can.

Anonymous 122326

>>121599
tell your dad you know what you did and threaten him to delete contact (if its ongoing) or you will go to your mum and tell her. If not, if he does it again you will find out and tell mum



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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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Anonymous 122289

>>122285
Nona likes fat guys

Anonymous 122290

>>122289
that's extremely cringe

Anonymous 122291

>>122284
>some of his friends are retarded
>easy pray for influences
dangerous combo

Anonymous 122305

pros
> childhood friend, i’ve known him since middle school, we were very close
> very physically and verbally affectionate
> great relationship with his mom, has a healthy family
> the most physically attractive guy i’ve seen
> everything in common with interests and sense of humor
> made it clear from the beginning of our relationship he wanted something serious with me
> my best friend, but idk if that’s reciprocated, maybe i just don’t have any friends.
cons
> former porn addict. knows a lot about porn from the memes to the actress names and etc.
> bisexual and has a weird friendship with a moid mutual who we also suspect is bi lol. i used to not think much of it but after coming back from a trip with them, their dynamic makes me uncomfortable
> kinda critical of me sometimes
> his explore page on ig is kinda gross with women sometimes
> ignores me when he’s with that moid bi friend
> gets angry and annoyed with me when he’s drunk
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should i delete a whole conversation? Anonymous 122303[Reply]

Ive ended up confessing to my friend, and we have been going back and forth these last two days.

I wanted to clarify some stuff he wrote because it wasnt clear to me if he didnt like me that way or if he was just scared of being in a relationship.

He told me that even though he did appreciate me, he wasnt looking for that in me and were just friends. I asked why he didnt look for that in me, that I could even change and be what he wants, but he hasnt replied or even looked at the text yet.

I wonder if I should just delete the whole thing and pretend it never happened, I feel like Im just pathetic and without dignity.

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>>122303
The idea of "confessing" is terrible course of action to begin with, but you probably fucked up in other ways too. If you aren't interested in friendship, just give it up.
I recommend keeping the conversation history in the form of an archive so that you can refer to it in the future if necessary.



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a period can kill a woman Anonymous 122260[Reply]

ohhhh my god i think my body is trying to faucking kill me My Hips Hurt So Much my uterus is Attempting Murder

anyway, does anyone else get cramps mostly in their lower back & hip bones? cuz isnt it, people mostly feel cramps in their lower stomach?
i saw someone else claiming that the cramp location could be due to the uterus' position in the body- like if it's retroverted/retroflexed or something. (i think mine might be… idk)

lets take ibuprofen together and get violent over our cramps I am holding out my hand to yoy

ibuprofen ACTIVATE

Anonymous 122261

aw I'm so sorry. I've heard that pain/soreness in your lower back and hips could be because of an anterior pelvic tilt so maybe just the posture of your lower back is poor. worth checking out.

Anonymous 122267

You are not alone, I get very heavy periods with horrible pain in my lower back and just everywhere below the waist really. I have to mostly spend the first couple days in bed. It's getting close to that time for me again too and am dreading it. otc pain meds don't do a thing for me, I'm given prescription pain medication for it which mostly helps. Feel better nona.

Anonymous 122302

sounds like something that can be improved easily by not eating or drinking stupid shit.

if your diet consists of coffee, energydrinks, soda, light chocolate, ramen, cookies, pasta, pizza and cheese then this might be how it manifests.

you could also try an enema a week, there is a good chance you are somewhat constipated. if you have excess weight plus constipation, this might mess with your temperatures.

if you are not getting enough exercise and don't sweat enough you might be creating a bottleneck, preventing proper removal of metabolic waste.



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getting over male validation..? Anonymous 122274[Reply]

as much as i dislike men, i'm always desperate for at least an ounce of male validation, and i have no idea how to get over it. literally have been dealing with it since i first formed a crush. it has definitely gotten worse as i got older. i literally envy my own friends when they're receiving male attention that i could have gotten. i literally want the guy they're receiving attention from, even if i don't even know the dude. i swear would never actually do that though. it's really hard to explain myself. it's not like i even want that guy. i guess i only want someone that will give me that same love and attention. it's actually so sick and desperate of me, but it hurts so much. literally ANY guy i meet, i expect affection and attention from them. otherwise, it DEADASS sends me into a state of expression. i understand and have learnt that self love is the key, but actually loving myself is the hardest part. i have tried focusing on my girl friends countless of times to make myself feel better, but as soon as a male steps in the picture.. it's so over for me.

Anonymous 122276

how's your relationship with your dad?

Anonymous 122301

>>122276
fucking terrible. i don’t live with his abusive ass anymore



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Anonymous 122103[Reply]

There's this guy I'm basically dating, I haven’t made it official because e-dating feels kind of cringe to me, but he tells me he loves me, that I’m perfect, and exactly his type: smaller, thinner girls. But then I came across his Reddit and found two NSFW boards… one of which featured a thicker woman.
Why do men do this? Why make you feel like you’re the most amazing woman in the world, only to turn around and ogle someone else? Why lie?
What makes it worse is that I’m not even allowed to look at other men or wear certain clothes because he’s possessive.
At this point, should I just block him and move on? Honestly, it feels like so many guys are disgusting these days. I’m starting to feel like I don’t want anything to do with them anymore.
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Anonymous 122107

Yeah, don’t even bother, nona. All men do is lie and ogle other women while claiming loyalty. That’s quite literally all they do. You can try to stay, but it’s just going to make you an anxious mess. Every guy I’ve ever dated has done this, and if they say they don’t, they’re just lying about it. They’re such dishonest people. You’re better off focusing on other things.

Anonymous 122111

mature decision: block and move on
immature decision: tell him he's perfect and then make it known you're secretly lusting after a guy who looks the complete opposite of him (revenge route)

Anonymous 122112

>>122106
>>122107
>>122111
Thanks everyone. Yeah I'll keep my distance. Honestly I'm just using him to play games with since I have no one else online to play with. He's just someone to pass the time with. I've basically lost all feelings for him after seeing his Reddit. Scrotes are so pathetic it's sad.

Anonymous 122113

>>122112
what games do u guys play together? you could find a nona ur age to do the same with in the friend finder thread if talking to him brings sour feelings

Anonymous 122114

>>122113
Thank you I'll try that and lately we've just been playing Halo.



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retroactive jealousy Anonymous 108036[Reply]

what's your experience? how to cope with it?
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Anonymous 118323

>>108036
Get over it and grow up.

I've known all my life girls like you were fucking liars. Making my life harde than it needed to be. You were conartists and full of shit. Jealous about everything and making nice girls lives hell. I became a complete bitch because of girls like you. But all i wanted to do was enjoy my life away from moids and have nothing whatsoever to do with them. Its a curse though, men gravitate towards me because im easygoing and dgaf..and somehow becoming a bitch and having an attitude just made it worse. But all i want is for them to bother you and not me. Maybe if you calmed the f down and learned to chill you could take the burden away.

Please learn how lmao

Anonymous 118332

>>118323

u what?

Anonymous 122293

>>118191
Had the most perfect virgin boyfriend. He cheated on me. No moids are pure even if you call them your good boy and take care of them like a mommy.

Anonymous 122294

>>118323
lmfao joker ass monologue

Anonymous 122296

>>122293
he would have cheated on you even if he weren't a virgin



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Anonymous 122222[Reply]

a guy just rated my sex and said im not even on 3rd place WHAT THE FUCK.
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Anonymous 122252

>>122233
Why did he have mild ED if you don’t mind me asking?

Anonymous 122256

>>122222
This is funny but also sad.
How do you even end up with guys like that?

Anonymous 122264

>>122237
Yes, but nothing serious this time. This was my third long term relationship, this guy really cared for me but I couldn't give him the same love. Something is broken inside me.

>>122252
I don't know… I never asked details about his therapy sessions, I think they are deeply personal. I presume it was psychological ED related to anxiety.

Anonymous 122283

>>122222
dont worry too much nona it was probably just bad communication about what you both wanted from sex. like how much were you on top? how much was he? what did ya'll want out of oral that kind of thing. i like to watch porn (like the demented autistic girlie i am) to watch what people are doing then combine that with what actually feels good during sex. also like emotional connection can make a big difference, the guy i am currently dating is not the best skill wise but the communication and connection is the best i've had so the sex is better

Anonymous 122292

>>122222
men's opinions don't matter at all



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Anonymous 115552[Reply]

am i the only one here who has literally never been approached/hit on by a male? i’m 19 and i’m not overweight or anything, i guess i’m not particularly pretty but i wouldn’t say im hideous either. i see all these moids online talking about how women live on easy mode because they get compliments from random men every day and men are willing to do any favor for them to have a chance at getting pussy etc. but for me this has never happened in my entire life.
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Anonymous 122206

Once by an Indian guy who kept trying to kiss my cheek and once by an older guy in a movie theatre who asked if I was a prostitute. I spent 45 minutes talking to a guy in a bar, incredibly interested in him the entire time and exchanging socials, only for him to accidentally make a slightly risque pun and then immediately apologise because he didn't want me to get the idea he was hitting on me and offend me. I eventually dated a friend from school and he was extremely eager, obviously very happy I'd asked him out. I asked why, when we'd been going out on what I thought were dates every weekend for literal months, he'd never even hinted at a relationship. He just said "Oh, well, just in case I was misreading the signs, I didn't want to get into trouble over a misunderstanding".

Men now think compliments shared in private, interpersonal conversation are tantamount to harassment. The profound retardation of male EQ should be considered a disability.

Anonymous 122211

most people are normal and nothing changed from 30 years ago youre all just retarded

Anonymous 122258

>>122257
go away moid

Anonymous 122265

Getting hit on is overrated. Boyfriends and flings I’ve had were ones I approached first. Guys who don’t approach first are actually better because they don’t immediately feel like they’re entitled to you. When I get hit on, they end up being boring time wasters. Dating apps suck everybody knows that, but if you’re at a high density area with plenty of attractive guys, it doesn’t suck that bad and you actually get to curate who you see.

Anonymous 122266

>>122184
“Women hitting the wall at 25” is a pedo narrative. As if men age any better when they don’t have money for plastic surgery and hair transplants.



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Positivity. Anonymous 116556[Reply]

Share any positive feelings or positive things.

Garden your soul garden.
Every focus is infinite multiverses.
Keep watering the ideas/plants that make you feel the loveliest love


Here’s a thing that has made me feel so good and is important to me:
Thousands of Polska girls and Belarus girls are covering my NorthAmerican city with graffiti. They’ve somehow clearly gotten the idea to all become collectively like a splatoon. It has changed the energy immensely and really improved the omnipresent feminism quality~level vibe. These girls have religions about ancient euro queens and it really shows, lots of ethereal stuff.. I see so many soulful girls are more comfortable loitering around and making anywhere a party! That’s SO important! Sovl
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Anonymous 121359

>>118890
congrats!!!

Anonymous 121360

>>118890
congrats!!! wish u the best

Anonymous 121920

I'm wearing a new dress for the first time and I feel so pretty!

Anonymous 122255

I bought an ice cream bar with sprinkles and chocolaten It was delicious!

Anonymous 122262

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I have been abroad in a spanish speaking country taking classes. I definitely didn’t apply myself as much as I could have but I also applied myself more than I could have! I really feel like i’ve improved and i’m very happy. The other day I was scrolling wikipedia and I was able to read an article in spanish! It wasn’t easy, but I could do it! And last night I could understand my spanish book that I gave up on two months ago. I’m trying to practice being proud of myself. It’s nice to have something so concrete I can measure progress by.



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