/feels/ - Advice & Venting

feels like I'm excluded from womanhood because I have a hormonal condition (pcos) and I'm a tomboy
>Be me
>25 year old female ,who powerlifts
>Have a decent amount of muscle and deep voice due to pcos as well as body hair from the age of 12
>Join a women's only art discord server
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend,I say no
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped and instantly banned
>Had enough because this happens to me everyday,even in the women's bathrooms. Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod ,and get promptly banned again as expected (that's fair enough)

Damn

I’m disgusted with a family friend’s son. I can’t stop thinking about how a woman spent years of her life raising this moid and digging herself into poverty only for him to turn into a smoking gamer porn addict who berates women online, calling feminists Nazis and contributing absolutely nothing of value to the world because he’s a “doomer”. He’s in his 30s and this is what his max potential is and for most moids. And it sickens me she parades him on social media calling her son a great man and beautiful boy. Why women bother having kids is beyond me, especially a son. Women really are this stupid it seems so it’s hard to even blame moids when women continuously volunteer to do this shit for free.

>wake up
>get dressed
>go to work
>deal with male co workers harassing me for 7 hours
>go home
>shower
>wash clothes
>brush teeth
>sleep
again and again and again and again and again and again

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.

>girlboss it in the trades nona! rosie the riveter, nona!
>lots of money there nona!
>learn skills nona!
>it's not like the old days anymore nona!
>you definitely won't end up face-down ass-up on a disgusting man's disgusting truck floor like the world's least expensive prostitute nona!
If there are any other nonas in trades here - how do you put up with this world???
i could rant for HOURS but basically while i actually enjoy fixing things and being active and i don't mind getting a bit greasy, i just cannot deal with the people in this business. 95% of guys in trades are literal stone age far-left-of-the-IQ-bell-curve cavemen who salivate at any useless shiny bauble that says "Milwaukee" or "Snap-On" on it and THROW their money at the salesman offering 50% interest financing plans, condemning themselves and the GFs and wives they often somehow have to a life of debt slavery
My sister is like "oh at least there are hot guys" lmao these guys inhale hot dogs and soda and "self-medicate" totally avoidable bad knees with weed and vape. The soundtrack to every day is my colleague's douchecore spotify algo playlist (literally Nickelback, late Eminem i.e. "Ass Like That" and Thong Song and Kid Rock). Not attractive
The couple (literally 2) cute and possibly interesting boys I've met in this business have been taken and too painfully shy/awkward to get to know well respectively
Everything is filthy and disorganized and if you try to be a bit more orderly and organized yourself, apparently that makes you a princess
the vehicles are all disgusting because apparently guys who drive them all have no self-respect
I feel like my friends are slipping away because we can't relate to one another's daily lives and when I get home I just feel exhausted and like time is passing with no way to differentiate one day, week, month from another
Anyway that's all, just getting older with a wrench in my hand and my ass in the air and my face in the dirt

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You see this thing? This is literally you. All of you. In fact I even saw one of you cosplay it in person. Looked just like her. Insane behavior really.

hi girlies i feel like me and he are drifting apart he made me really upset the day before yesterday so i ghosted him for like a day and even when we were talking i was giving him the cold shoulder i didn't know he was in manic episode he acted on impulse and made some mistakes i feel so guilty for ruining his life he doesn't blame but he said that i deserve better than him and that it's over for him now :(

How do I build confidence and make friends? I get anxious and easily exhausted talking to people, but I feel lonely.
I'm an adult, and it feels like it's too late to find friends or people like me. I want to post about the topics I find interesting on social media and see if I attract like-minded people, but then I feel cringy (I don't think people who do it are cringe, it just feels stupid when I do it). If I start putting significant effort into posting my views, I start getting paranoid thoughts about never actually making friends, just having my posts incorporated into a LLM, eventually seeing some soulless influencer regurgitate my statements word-for-word because AI gave it to them and seeing other people comment "Wow, that's a great point! Followed!".

I am a schizoid woman. I spend most of my time thinking about nebulous stuff in my head and doing solitary activities such as diy stuff, tinkering with computers, trying to make various stuff and all. I do not enjoy talking to other people unless they’re invested in my interests. Usually if I speak with someone I just wait for the conversation to end and for them to go away. I have little clue as to why other people are entertained by what they are. I prefer interactions where I don’t need to adapt to the other persons sense of normal. That’s why I dislike groups and often end up antagonistic towards them unless I have a big presence. I don’t have strong attachments.

That is just who I am.