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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131971

I saw that. Thank you.

Anonymous 131972

>>131969
i did, i find them worth replying to. i sometimes report & sometimes don't. if you want them deleted, i did report these ones since they come across as unpolished & ugly. i am curious about all the anime girls in the picrel of >>131959 though. do you know their names?

Anonymous 131973

>>131971
sorry, i replied to the wrong post so redid it

Anonymous 131974

>>131972
Top left - Bernkastel, Umineko
Top middle - Sumika, Muv Luv
Top right - Hikaru, Muramasa
Middle left - Alice, Black Souls
Middle - Junko, Danganronpa
Middle right - Mephistopheles, Crystar (highly recommend it is very feminist)
Bottom left - Saya, Saya no Uta
Bottom middle - Yuuka, Touhou
Bottom right - Yuka, Gore Screaming Show

Anonymous 131976

>>131974
thank-you


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Prayer Thread Anonymous 122943[Reply]

For yourself, for others, for the world, any way you want to pray.
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Anonymous 123374

Praying that children around the world can be safe and keep their innocence, and for those being abused to find a way out and to overcome the trauma.

Anonymous 123775

orthopower.mp4

Praying that everyone takes up the cross, praying that everyone sees the power humility, praying that pennance is done for degenerate lives we tolerate.

Anonymous 131889

can i get a prayer. can i get a prayer, anyone

Anonymous 131964

>>131889
A prayer for anything specifically?

Regardless may god bless and keep you always friend. God stays with anyone who wants to be kind and better themselves in this world.

Anonymous 131975

>>131964
nothing in particular, all i wanted was to see who'd reply. thank-you


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i think my ex is gonna take his life Anonymous 130574[Reply]

i am 20 he is 24 he wanted to break up with me yesterday and i agreed, he then switched up and wanted to get back together and has apologised. i have ignored because he has done this before and i am really worried because he tried to force himself into my house whilst i was sleeping but my mum came to the house and she told him politely to go away so he gave her gifts for me. i did not want to break up with him but he never listens to my boundaries and has done loads of things to break my trust like reaching out to his ex and although ive moved on from certain situations because i am forgiving i have overtime built up resentment against him which is why i agreed to him breaking up. he is extremely emotional and is manipulative/gaslights when he wants to get his own way but i checked his twitter today and he has posted self harm on my tattoo i made of him and all over his arm and he has told me if i broke up with him he woudl take his life and so i am really worried because i still love him but he is destroying me mentally and draining me, the reasonwhy i didnt want to see him is because last time he flipped out he came tomy house and took this £600 mirror we both paid for but it was partially a gift to me and i took it badly as i wanted that mirror for over a year i am so worried for his wellbeing because recently he has completely changed his mentality and i am scared i told him i am worried to see him because i am scared he is going to harm me because he told memany times he could kill me and i believe him because he shares the same mentality of someone that would kill a girl because the girl has broken up with him and i love him a lot so sorry if i am not typing normally i am just really worried for him and for me too and im scared hes going to take his life wether intentional or not because he has done heroinin the past to try and kill himself im so fucking worried man
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Anonymous 131596

>>130696

Not really, depressive men who kill themselves do it.

Men who tell women about it want something in exchange.

It's about time that if she does what he wants, unless she actually acts like a sane person and contacts a ward or his parents (if possible) to care for the problem. If she acts like if he deserves her time after being, what she described, then she would end up being manipulated if she does as you say. Obviously.

A handmaiden would take the matters as her responsability to care for the emotional needs of man who hurt her, as to feel a person.

A woman as a proper adult, will just contact the proper adults for this situation as a mentally ill man is not acting properly.

Anonymous 131742

>>130574
hey op i hope you are safe.

Anonymous 131852

Woooo!!!! Let him die! Let him die! Let him die!
Come back to us with an update in a few months. Of course, guys like this are histrionic attention whores, so I won't be expecting much of anything interesting to happen.

Anonymous 131966

>>130574
Its very rare for someone who threatens suicide to actually do it. Its a manipulation tactic like other nonas said already.

You could just push for him to get help and figure out his mental health. Preferably through social media and not DMs or private channels. Let everyone see you're done but still want whats best for him. Something like "Get help. I want you to fix your mental health but Im not dealing with it anymore. All the things that happened between us pushed me away." Then add examples of what hes done and local or national mental health services. IMO an aggressively neutral stance is best in these situations.

Anonymous 131978

>>130712
>>131596

I believe what's in >>130696 is called sarcasm


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i have a phobia of female role in sex which makes me dysphoric as fuck and sex repulsed Anonymous 126444[Reply]

anyone else??? i just find the role submissive and humuliating, i dont wanna post it on nsfw board bc i dont wanna see anons talk about wanting to do humiliating sex acts i have a phobia of
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Anonymous 131948

>>131940
Because he's still a moid. Having sex with any male is humiliating to me.
The random moid posting under this thread proves my point too, why would I wanna engage with creatures that hate me?

Anonymous 131949

>>131948
Are you straight? Sorry for the nosiness

Anonymous 131950

Octopi have interesting mating rituals, there's barely any contact involved

Maybe stop viewing humiliation porn

Anonymous 131952

>>131951
Excuse me. It appears you have used the word “female” as a noun to describe human women. The proper way to refer to human women is the word “women”. Thank you for your time.

Anonymous 131953

>>131951
fat fag


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I haven't had friends for ten years Anonymous 131946[Reply]

I'm a NEET. I live with my mother and she's the only one I talk with. Give me life advice.

Anonymous 131947

Do you want online friends or irl ones?
Do you have any qualifications/education? Are you a neet due to failure or health issues?
Do you actually care about being a friendless neet? Are you worried about what you'll do when your mom is gone?


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every person I meet turns out to be cold while I want closeness Anonymous 126668[Reply]

So my first friend ghosted me without a word saying that she's not made for close bonds with anyone. My other friend said she doesn't feel the need to become close with someone. My yet another friend says the same. And my new friend said she doesn't get attached to friends and never feels deeply for them. Why am I so unlucky? And my closest current friend already had a best friend with whom she probably is close so with me she won't become close. I just want a deep connection and mutual attachment and obsession.
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Anonymous 126684

>>126668
Are these IRL friends or online “friends”?

Anonymous 126725

>>126668
These people are low functioning psychopaths. It might be more that you're subconsciously pulled to psychopaths

Ever asked yourself why? Ever noticed ?

Anonymous 126726

>>126676
This is true too though you might be needy

Anonymous 126742

people are either selfish/individualistic and believe in things like emotional labor. or they are hurt and reluctant to trust new people. or a combo of both.

someone without a history of friendships and relationships is a red flag. sometimes it has nothing to do with you and it’s just where other people are. sometimes you trigger something in someone else’s pattern recognition and it doesn’t even have to be a real thing about you. you just reminded them of someone else.

when you take it personally every time or view normal distance from strangers as an attack, it can change your vibe and people can pick up on that. when you’re going into something expecting pain and disappointment and rejection and maybe feel nervous or defensive, people feel that emotion and wonder what’s going on in the interaction to make you feel that way. sometimes it makes them angry sometimes it makes them nervous. sometimes people even take advantage.

all of this can literally be bypassed by confidence and level eye contact. not i’m above you but everyone is my equal. you don’t have to care what anyone thinks of you. they’re not the judge. and you can also probably name some stuff you don’t like about people if you really think about it. no one is above you. there’s no one to impress. if you can internalize that people will like start begging to be around you.

hopefully this posts i just put it in the wrong thread

Anonymous 131922

I want to be your virtual friend I promise I won't ghost you


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Child free/moid free Anonymous 131052[Reply]

I’m disgusted with a family friend’s son. I can’t stop thinking about how a woman spent years of her life raising this moid and digging herself into poverty only for him to turn into a smoking gamer porn addict who berates women online, calling feminists Nazis and contributing absolutely nothing of value to the world because he’s a “doomer”. He’s in his 30s and this is what his max potential is and for most moids. And it sickens me she parades him on social media calling her son a great man and beautiful boy. Why women bother having kids is beyond me, especially a son. Women really are this stupid it seems so it’s hard to even blame moids when women continuously volunteer to do this shit for free.

Anonymous 131278

>>131052
This was a very nostalgic and common post


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous 131718

>>131717
Wym to gain status. You are assuming that. Status is definitely one of those things I don’t care for. I don’t like people glorifying and justifying the behaviors that had been harmful towards me.

Anonymous 131719

>>131718
1) tf is a vector?

2) what happened?

Anonymous 131720

>>131719
In computer security, an attack vector is a specific path, method, or scenario that can be exploited to break into an IT system, thus compromising its security.
In health and disease transmission, a vector is a living organism that carries and transmits an infectious pathogen to another living organism

Anonymous 131722

>>131720

So nona either broke security protocol or transmitted a disease by bullying someone?

Sounds retarded af

Anonymous 131887

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Why do you have to keep showing up in my dreams? Not only that, my subconscious humanizes in a way that isn't true to you, setting me up for disappointment again and again.
It's like I miss something that has never existed.


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Mean Girl Predators Anonymous 131854[Reply]

I went to the hair salon and got my hair done. Afterward, the hairstylist started taking pictures of me to advertise her work on Instagram without asking for my permission. It made me feel really insecure, and then she did the typical, “Oh no, sweetheart, you’re so gorgeous.”

I really hate that kind of “baby girl” manipulation some women use with other women, acting overly nice and showering you with compliments while taking advantage of you or dismissing how you actually feel.

I call it the “baby girl” act because it reminds me of a certain YouTuber who has that exact performative personality (rhymes with Yasmin Fan)

Anonymous 131856

>>131854
Is that supposed to be you in the picture? If it is I think you look nice but I could certainly understand the frustration with this. Given they're effectively using you as advertising without paying, you could likely sue them if you're in the US. I'd ask them to take it down if they posted it already

Anonymous 131879

compliments are levied to shut down insecure people when a person can't be bothered to deal with them, but still wants to seem like they're giving a thoughtful reply. or wants to just get on with something, like this lady needing your photos for her social media. if you kept rejecting her then she'd be inconvenienced; so of course she defaults to petty babyish soothing. it's so utterly self centred and irritating. people will always opt to save face at the cost of outright neglecting people's dignity. sure, it's uncomfortable to acknowledge self image issues, but why rely on a cheap dismissal like "you're so gorgeous" as if that fixes anything

Anonymous 131881

>>131879
Okay but you're literally gorgeous

Anonymous 131885

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>>131881
take me seriously!

Anonymous 131886

>>131885
Sorry sorry I'm a prankster at heart you see. It's in my nature to tease a bit. I do think your complaints are reasonable which is why it's important to stand up for yourself in the moment.


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i hate being short Anonymous 129782[Reply]

i hate being short no one takes you seriously and peopl talk about how "cute" you are as if thats somethinf good and not extremely infantilizing. my self confidemce would be significantly improved if i was at least 5`6. short bodies look like shit in general, if youre skinny you just end up making yourself look even smaller and more fragile if youre fat your body starts to look all lumpy and your proportions seem off, if youre muscular you just look retarded any type of volume on short bodies ends up looking retarded. you cant win
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Anonymous 131642

True

Anonymous 131876

>>131595
life is not an anime being treated like a child barely has any benefits

Anonymous 131877

>>131643
i would never willingly reproduce but i agree

Anonymous 131878

>>131643
nope

Anonymous 131880

>>131643
men won't look so tall anymore if every woman is a skyscraper. we need the mix for novelty! use! your! head! / preserve! height! rarity!


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