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lonely post graduation Anonymous 128773[Reply]

18 yrs and graduated last year, all my friends got bfs and now dont talk to me anymore. And the one male friend I have who played video games with me sold his body to the army so now im all alone and posting on reddit to find friends. I genuinely do nothing all day besides play video games that I dont even enjoy to pass the time. I wish i could go back to highschool so bad even tho i was bullied lol just so i could have some human interaction outside of my cat and my mom
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Anonymous 128803

>>128782
Many countries mandatory conscription for all moids. They'll die either way if war breaks out

Anonymous 129154

thats so me

Anonymous 129162

Sound advice: invest in yourself
Watch the whole video
As for friends, you can try bars and even contacting some of your old friends who now have boyfriends; who knows, maybe they have a friend group which you can join
Even things like spin class, yoga class, courses

Anonymous 129163

>>128799
Worst case scenario there was an anon who said she was in severe debt after graduating from college then entered a sugar relationship where in the end all of the debt was paid in full but she had to do nasty things in bed and you don't want to have an average of 29,000 $ of debt when you're a student in the USA

Anonymous 129165

I relate to this a lot. Where do I even go from here? I don't have the motivation to go out and get a job but I also don't know what else to do other than rot in bed and play games 24/7. Being a NEET is honestly pretty hard


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Anonymous 129164[Reply]

>tfw school is such a shithole that you romanticize your exhaustion and loneliness by imagining you're a sad anime girl

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all the men i talked to just made me insecure about my appearance. Anonymous 129153[Reply]

all the men i talked to just made me insecure about my appearance and made me compare myself to other girls.

and i hate it, cause i constantly compared myself to the girls they mentioned and created an internal female rivalry with them. like, i didn't hate the girls, i js wanted to be like them and thats impossible. i only hate myself because genetically it would be possible to change my appearance, maybe in another life. and what irritates me the most is that I forgave it, even though sometimes i commented that i didnt like it and they obviously dont care. so because this, in my head, its impossible for someone to genuinely like me because of my appearance and my body, even if i consider myself a nice girl.

i hate moids who dream of an ideal type of woman they never have and say that to the girls they talk to. or guys whose minds are corroded by pornography

Anonymous 129156

they are negging you on purpose to lower your self worth and then erode your boundaries. you must be young and not have lived to see them all start balding at 23.

Anonymous 129161

The same thing happened to me, nona. The difference that they cited aspects of my appearance, mostly related to my genetic traits, which they considered flaws and asked me to change. Im already quite insecure, but they made me even more so. That's why I stopping trusting most moids.


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new relationship not actually being toxic for once Anonymous 128947[Reply]

im 18yo lesbo9000 and ive had terrible relationship issues my entire life, usually being a mixture of both me & the other person being the problem

ive got insane mental issues but i recently got a girlfriend (although we were basically dating for a long time now). shes really nice to me: she doesnt randomly ignore me, and doesnt suck at communication. shes really happy to see me and doesnt mind me texting her a lot (She even likes it WTF?). she also has issues but works hard to be the best she can be

but its crazy feeling so fucking normal for once. no more three-times-a-day mental breakdowns and cutting myself over stupid bullshit. being in a healthy relationship feels so fucking weird in a Nice way. im really not used to it and i feel like a stray cat being randomly picked up on the street and given a domestic home. but its something i want to get used to. is this what relationship issues/attachment recovery feels like? Cool…

Anonymous 129152

prepare for the beatings when she tries to assert her dominance over you


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous 128920

I love you, I don't want to tell you yet but I knew from the moment I met you, I love you

Anonymous 128956

So you sit there silently and what are you waiting for? Did valentines day trigger your loneliness wound?
Are you hoping I still love you? Are you hoping I will be the first to apologize?
Or do you just want the access to me, just in case?

Anonymous 128957

You do not have access to me anymore. Any time I feel like I miss you I remember all the times you hurt me and lied to me and how many days i went not eating and sleeping because of you, cutting myself because of you. All the promises you made that you'll always be here and always love me only to leave me

I'm tired of wasting my time on you. Go fuck yourself. You should die alone

Anonymous Moderator 128961

Some posters have been using this thread to vaguely communicate with others and to spam dozens of one-liners one after the other. Don't use this thread as a chat thread. Your posts will be removed.

Anonymous 129151

>>128961
thank you.


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Anonymous 128788[Reply]

i feel like ill never find true love as a woman partially because men are shit and partially because im also an emotionally unavailable woman who wants very specific things out of a man. im just mad every man ill ever be around is a shithead and men make me feel so mad and evil

Anonymous 128789

What are your standards for a man?

Anonymous 128835

alive and maybe has a job

Anonymous 128863

I used to be a big believer in "true love." But I've come to the belief now that most people are constitutionally incapable of it. I know I am. And I know all the men I'd love or who would love me are too. I don't really care to search for it anymore. I am also emotionally unavailable, and I seem to attract emotionally unhealthy men. It is what it is, you know? But its easier to accept that after experiencing it fail first, which I have. I recommend having one or two disastrous relationships and then maybe you too can accept the futility of love.

Anonymous 128962

I gave up on love a time ago.


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My boyfriend has ignored me all valentines day Anonymous 128893[Reply]

I even texted him happy valentines day and he didn't even say it back. He only said he couldn't do anything for me and he felt bad.
He just went out with his friends to drink and I feel lonely and sad.
He told me we couldn't meet today because he had to study, I don't know how to tell him how bad I feel so instead I'm drinking cheap whiskey and watching Gilmore Girls
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Anonymous 128896

>>128895
No I get it. I don’t mean to insult, you’re allowed to vent, vent all the way. I just wished young women would just stop with these moids as soon as possible. You sound hurt, and tired, and I don’t think love or relationships should be like that. Love is supposed to bring you life, even its difficulties should, I just don’t want anyone to torture themselves for a moid. You shouldn’t be drinking Whiskey and watching Gilmore Girls, it’s more him im annoyed at, not you, but I wrote it to sound like you.

Anonymous 128897

FUCKING
DUMP
HIM
NOW

Anonymous 128928

>>128893
Are you guys LDR or do you guys live close to one another? If it's an LDR relationship it may be understandable why he could have been busy that day, but if you guys live close he has no excuse.

Anonymous 128936

free yourself of that moid retard he clearly doesnt love you im so sorry nona but dont keep hurting urself by being with him

Anonymous 128942

>>128896
I know, but he's a really good boyfriend in other ways, I don't know what happened. Tbf I tried to make it seem like I don't think valentines day is a big deal when I do, plus we live 3 hours away from each other. I wish I could be more upfront
>>128928
I guess? Or medium distance more like


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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 128933

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How do you even get a bf? I am 26 and I've never had any sort of relationship although I've been on a few first dates before. I don't want to use a dating app because they seem scary, I don't have nice photos of myself (I'm scared of being photographed) and I don't want to suffer the jaded moids that would be using them.
What do I do? I've got a fairly normal life otherwise, I appear functional in terms of employment and stuff. Boys don't approach me unless they are really really old.

Anonymous 128934

>>128933
from what i can tell, you don't.
dating apps are capitalist scams, ignore them

Anonymous 128938

>>128932
lol
>>128933
>I appear functional in terms of employment
That isn't helpful, you got to trigger a man's instinct to protect and provide.

Anonymous 128940

I left a stressful job back in February 2025 & have been unemployed since. Tbh, I barely applied to jobs until right after new years. The thought of going back to a stressful job filled me wit so much dread. I am 29 years old, I drained all my savings, this is not where I thought I would be in life. I do not want to back to the corporate rat race, but I also cannot just lay on my couch, consoom media and eat snacks forever. I have so much regret. Climbing the corporate ladder was not worth it, I am burnt out. This felt cathartic to type out. Anybody else in the same boat?

Anonymous 128941

>>128940

Is it possible with your credentials to get a high paying part time job? That way, you can figure out what to do with your life and pay bills at the same time?


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Hypersexual Issues Anonymous 128879[Reply]

I'm unmedicated bipolar and when I'm manic I get really hypersexual, I don't do hookups atm I just make out with people here and there

Men want me for my body and don't emotionally connect with me the way women do

I can't find a partner to have sex with at the moment and I don't want to get into a bad relationship by being desperate

I get clammy around people that I find attractive, I alternate between staring at them and looking away, I get beyond flustered with cute people

I've been downright creepy towards people I've crushed on, both men and women

Do you ever see someone attractive and get carried away?

I feel so guilty about this all

Whenever my mania goes away so does my sex drive, I'm worried that it makes dating me difficult
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Anonymous 128881

>>128879
I should add that I'm 22 and don't have any stds

I've only slept with women, I'm afraid to go the full way with a guy

I identity as bisexual but I'm sexually confused, I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian

I live in a town of sorts so there's not really a local lesbian scene for me to explore

I feel creepy for being attracted to women, the majority of women I've crushed on weren't interested in me at all and I easily obsess

How do I tell which women are lesbians without asking?

Anonymous 128902

sure ya are not of the troon tribe

Anonymous 128903

>>128902
wow women aren't allowed to be horny?

Anonymous 128904

>>128902
People irl think I'm a ftm pretty often

I like dressing in suits and stuff

I have very mixed feelings on trans people, I've had some really bad experiences with trans people

most of them unattractive to me

Anonymous 128922

take your pills yuck


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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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Anonymous 127717

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>>127480
>marxist
>philosophy student (me too)

Anonymous 128466

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Pros
> very sweet and kind, he plans cutes dates for us and is always nice…
> very cute, extremely out of my league
> smartie pants
> puzzle master
> lets me drag him along because he always gets lost otherwise
> has sex witb me on my period
> good taste in films/kino
> very good kisser
> sensible political views for the most part
> not a big whore
> always nice to talk to, very compatible in that way
> really really funny
> gets really sweaty but in a cyte way during sex

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Anonymous 128470

>>128469
>ctrl + f hot
>photo
>hotdog
>photography
>shots
>hot tempered
….

Anonymous 128898

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pros:

>helps me with everything I need, I never have to lift a finger if I need information or if I need something done
>he calls me sweet things like sweetheart, baby, etc
>he's beautiful, he has crystal blue eyes and the most beautiful eye shape
>he's okay with me liking childish things like sanrio, LPS, stuff like that
>he has the softest lips, his hugs are so warm and nice and he smells so good
>his kisses are amazing
>he holds hands with me when we're out together
>he lets me talk about my special interests freely
>we could talk for hours everyday and never get bored
>he's super smart and funny and nice
>very nerdy but in a cute sexy way
>looks at my pictures when he's doing stuff to himself
>is okay with my fetishes
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Anonymous 128901

>>128898
Keep him.


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