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anyone else avoiding going to a psychiatrist or a psychologist? Anonymous 133187[Reply]

i want to or more so i feel like i need to go, but i hate the idea of having to pay for someone to listen to me and understand me. nobody in my life wants to hear out my problems and it sickens me because thats the first thing i would do for them. i know therapy is more than that, but ultimately i would only go just to be heard for a little and be understood without anyone judging me. but it feels so not worth it. i dont even have a job why should i spend so much money just to talk to someone for an hour. isnt that what friends are for…
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Anonymous 133193

I'm going there as a part of "working on myself" to work on my avoidant attachment but I'm not sure I expect progress. anyone have a good experience with it?

Anonymous 133215

therapy is only helpful if you need coaching on how to make healthier decisions, but ultimately you need to get to a place where you can do things independently and don't have to pay for a support system.

i feel like people who are in therapy for 30+ years a re being scammed, unless they're like severely ill and have no one.

i only work with psychiatrists that are very, very conservative in their prescribing and take what i need help with into consideration, and do not have some sort of weird narrative about me.

it takes time to find the right provider unfortunately, but i am grateful for my current shrink because he actually listens to me about my PMDD and mental afflictions.

he doesn't view me as broken, just someone who could benefit from some medical interventions so i'm not suffering all the time.

i hate ssris tho. those are kinda scammy if you take them longterm. good habits and sobriety will get u there imo after ur baseline is sorted with learning how to be disciplined. discipline is a skill rooted in compassion and takes time like any other. you can't really force the process.

lamictal has helped me a lot, as well as gabapentin and a minipill for my pmdd. i feel lowkey halfway cured and i just started everything like 2 weeks ago. i just need to build better habits.

i'm 1.5 abstinent from drugs too and it helped to not complicate my brain as much.
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Anonymous 133266

Licensed therapists are a lot cheaper than psychologists and psychiatrists. Started seeing one after my mental break in January. Doing a lot better now but had two instances of near relapse so I'm continuing with it for now. The one I have is actually conscientious about cost and whether or not I actually need to keep going at the same rate. She was the one who suggested I might be good to drop from weekly to biweekly and we've discussed going to monthly but I don't feel ready for that yet.

Anonymous 133293

I'm too scared to go to one honestly

Anonymous 133295

if you`re scared of judgement you might end up like me. almost 2 years in therapy now and i hide most my problems to appear as competent and functional as possible and even lie sometimes out of shame like a retard. luckily i have public health insurance so its just a waste of time and not money.



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Anonymous 133133[Reply]

I had my first week of college and there are already at least a few girls who hate me for some reason, and I've never even spoken to them.

I've been hated by other girls since elementary school and I have no idea why this happens.

Anonymous 133134

>>133133
Maybe you smell strange

Anonymous 133138

>>133133
Own it. Bitches hate you cause they know you're the prettiest and they're scared.

Anonymous 133248

Either you're making them jealous, or you have a weird funk.

Anonymous 133294

they might smell your autism



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Anonymous 133280[Reply]

Not sure if this is the right board for this but have you ever been to the psych ward? What are your stories/experiences?
I went three times. In 2015 there was this one girl who constantly broke down over any little thing, one girl who cut herself with pencils and was very homicidal. Some gay dude with a bad temper. One time the girl with the anger issues and another girl were beefing so one girl was moved to the boys side and the other girl literally leaned over the desk to get to her. Apparently there was a lot of sexual shit going on between patients, even two dudes.

I don't remember much about my second time.

Third time in 2021 there was this old creepy guy who'd harass women and none of the staff would do anything, I think he was schizo too, at one point another guy got sick of it and fought him. There was one guy who was very nice but I found out he had charges for beating his wife.

Anonymous 133282

Twice so far. First time a few weeks, second time a few months, both times for psychosis and against my will. First time I was way more chill and cooperative, food was good, interesting new people to meet, made a few new friends and felt like a summer school camp only in winter. Second time they had to wrestle me into the isolation ward as I just wanted the fuck out of there. Then they injected some strong shit in my butt and I can't remember the next two whole weeks, then I came to my senses again after being catatonic and it was just boring wating to be released. It's a necessary evil in my book, at least in the case of psychosis.



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Only Child Anonymous 133251[Reply]

This thread is intended to be a safe and relatable place for only children to share their unique experiences and perspectives.

Anonymous 133252

im a non native english speaker i was so confused i thought it was a thread only for children to post on lmao

Anonymous 133256

googoogaga

Anonymous 133276

i love that there is a thread on this. when i am off work i will contribute



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/lg/ - lesbian general Anonymous 108545[Reply]

felt like this should be a thread tbh
what's everyone up to? i'm thinking of downloading tinder again
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Anonymous 133047

>>133046
Lol homocucked

Anonymous 133052

>>133047
yes it's shitty behavior. lot of these bitches act like moids and if I hadn't been between their legs I'd have thought they were or a tranny

Anonymous 133053

>>133052
subtle brag lol

Anonymous 133081

obligatory viewing

Anonymous 133274

do you ever wish you were straight?

just been having some depressing thoughts lately.



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Ugly Women & Boyfriends Anonymous 132744[Reply]

With boyfriends

If you have a boyfriend, where did you meet him? Do you think he’s attracted to you? Or do you think he’s using you? If you’re insecure, what made you feel like he actually liked you? Like what did he do?

Without boyfriends

If you never had a boyfriend, do you think anyone has ever had a crush on you?
Did you have an opportunity to be in a relationship? Why or why not did you take it?
Do you feel like life is heavily geared to couples and isolated?
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>>132828
>t.

Anonymous 132875

I was working as a TA while doing my Masters and he was studying for his second undergrad in one of my labs. I don't think there was ever one thing he did to convince me he wasn't using me, but I think I realised it after he camped out for a week while I was managing a work placement out in the middle of no where, just so we could be together during my breaks and time off. He knew he'd only get to see me for a few hours a day and he wasn't getting any sex, but it was more important to him to just be with me. I never thought he was actually attracted me for the first 6 months or so of our relationship, because I'm pretty hideous, but I think it was just the comments he made about things I did and how they made him feel toward me. I'd had drunk guys try to fuck me, thinking I'd be grateful, but no one had ever actually been able to bring themselves to desire me, instead of a piece of my body.

Anonymous 132876

>>132875
What a charming story. See? Not every guy is bad

Anonymous 133258

He is attracted to me and I’m attracted to him. Neither one of us is beautiful, but we’re young and in decent shape. Most importantly, we have a mutual emotional attachment. Beauty captivates people, but so does humanity. It’s possible to be loved for other qualities. There will always be a more beautiful woman, but they won’t have your personality. As you get older, and as you love longer, you have more to lose in the other person because they become a part of you.

Anonymous 133262

>>133258
A very charming post!



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Sanity Anonymous 133222[Reply]

Please be more cognizant of your own sanity. Please do more to protect it. It's not a joke. Block whoever you need to block, don't interact with anything that gives you excessive, undue feelings. Maintain a balance.
I'm thinking about the fact that there's nothing really stopping me from committing an act of horror besides my own sanity, and I am shocked at how poorly I've treated it over the years. The things I've seen, the information I had no business learning, who and what I've heard out, the time spent on frankly thankless tasks. What was it all for? To get a rise out of myself? Did I think I was making myself stronger? Was it a test? One thing more important than knowledge is knowing what you actually plan to do with it!
I'm a little scared of what might be to come, but it'll probably be okay in the end.

Anonymous 133225

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Insightful.

Anonymous 133229

I'm the joker baby

Anonymous 133240

>>133222
>don't interact with anything that gives you excessive, undue feelings.
You mind explaining exactly what you mean by this?

Anonymous 133241

>>133240
not OP but I know this feel. I ruminate way to much on awkward or uncomfortable interactions with people. by doing so I relive these negative moments constantly and keep experiencing anxiety, fear, guilt, shame, anger that makes my daily life more difficult. in the meantime the other person probably doesn't even remember it happening.

Anonymous 133243

Yeah no I’m not protecting my sanity everyone can touch it if they want. I’m pimping my sanity out. Anyone can tell me horrific things and tell me the earth is ran by lizard moids and I’ll believe them



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous 131720

>>131719
In computer security, an attack vector is a specific path, method, or scenario that can be exploited to break into an IT system, thus compromising its security.
In health and disease transmission, a vector is a living organism that carries and transmits an infectious pathogen to another living organism

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Why do you have to keep showing up in my dreams? Not only that, my subconscious humanizes in a way that isn't true to you, setting me up for disappointment again and again.
It's like I miss something that has never existed.

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I wish we could keep talking, but i understand why you hate me, nothing really changed but i get that you don't want to keep being second in my heart. if only the distance was not an entire ocean, i'd help you grow and show you real love. i wish we could still talk, I miss you, M

Anonymous 133080

I miss you.

I wish other people hadn't broken and ruined me. You had more patience for me than anyone else despite all the years of trauma have have piled up on me mentally.

No one else will ever love me the way you did and I wish I was in better condition to receive that love instead of running away. I'm sorry.

Even if I come out of therapy renewed and whole again I'll still feel like killing myself up because I fucked up so badly.

Anonymous 133219

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R,

I like to think that my life's improved since then. I still get depressed sometimes but I'm doing way better now. I've been diagnosed with autism and I've been going to therapy. I'm doing fine career-wise. I feel like I luckily won't ever reach that low, ever again.
Although everything's changed, I do sometimes still think about you. I wonder what you've been up to. Sometimes I'd just like to have a chat with you, as friends. I hope you're ok.

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what is wrong with me am i normal Anonymous 132022[Reply]

ive been with this guy for 6 months now and i’ve never felt so fucking horrible in my entire life because of him. we were dating but then he ghosted me for 5 days because i hung up a call to talk to my friend real quick. i was literally gonna call him back and that call only last 10 minutes. after that everything went to shit. he was saying he didn’t love me anymore out of no where. i felt like i got stabbed in my heart 5000 times. i begged him not to leave, bawling my fucking eyes out on call. and he did. so now we’ve been talking and flirting but to him we’re not official, to him we’re “just friends” despite how fucking much he flirts with me. the love he gives me doesn’t even feel real now. also i don’t know how to time all of this, its a lot, i’m sorry. but also i think i may have bpd or something i don’t know. it’s like all the littlest things he does makes me feel like shit and then i bawl my eyes out and start cutting myself. whenever he doesn’t wanna call i do that. or when he slightly sounds like he thinks another girl is attractive or something even though he’s not directly saying that. but also he views women in a very object way. because of that i cant really see men the same either. he’s told me whenever he saw a girl that he thought that was hot, talked about the porn he watched. i felt horrible. i loved him so much i didnt even think of any other guys i just thought, “wow this guy is so fucking ugly and boring my boyfriend is so much better” whenever i saw other guys. and he doesn’t even feel that way back. and when i told him about how i felt about it he just brushed it off saying it wasnt a big deal saying all men do that. but anyway, me and him just got into an argument because he promised me to call but he said he didn’t want to and i started crying and cutting myself. he didn’t even comfort me. he never comforts me. i feel like if he did i wouldnt even care that he didn’t wanna call. but its the fact that it’s like wow he just doesn’t give a shit about me. i just blocked him. please tell me am i fucking crazy? am i overreacting? i’m also partially asking this because he thinks i’m crazy.
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Anonymous 132323

>>132028
This is a common tactic used by narcissists. The "old him" didn't exist, it's a facade.

Anonymous 132360

>>132323
If she is in love with the facade of a narcisist and is ready to pay the price, let her be in love with what that man pretend to be. The choice belong to her.
I somehow find it beautiful.

Anonymous 132431

you deserve better and you will definitely find better. leave this relationship before it messes you up long term. being alone is hard at first but it's a kind thing to do to yourself over facing abusive bs like this

Anonymous 133233

>>132022
can you give me a tldr version?

Anonymous 133236

>ghosts you for 5 days for talking to a friend
And you think you have BPD? No. You aren't crazy or overreacting. He's manipulated you and doesn't love you. He just wants a woman to walk all over. Never give him another chance.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 133227

>>133221
browsing crystal cafe while also acknowledging killing children is not something deserving of sympathy is the difference.
Women can be allowed to also feel horny for serial killers, I don't give a shit.It's still gross.

Anonymous 133232

>>133221
Psychosis is just the new BPD. You have it and you can do no wrong and if you disagree you're an ableist

Anonymous 133234

Cab you guys take this to another thread? People come here to vent about their feelings not debate politics and morality

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>oh I’m going to go out 30 minutes in advance for a route that also takes 30 minutes
>I’ll catch the bus for sure
>40 minutes later
>still no bus

Anonymous 133242

>>133235
oh no that sounds terrible. Im sorry you went through that.



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