/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>119288
Go on Tinder or Hinge or Bumble

>>119288
I feel you, nona. I want physical intimacy really bad and to share a meaningful connection with someone but it will take a lifetime before anyone chooses to pursue anything serious with me.

>>119289
fuck no

>>119285
might sound simple but hav you thought of talking to therapist it could help usually mine helps me out with work problems etc

what type of job is it also?

What's your job and how old are you? What do you do for fun?

I think its honestly due to technology or smartphones. Nobody seems to ever want to communicate anymore other than with just their inner circle of friends. I am not an awkward person, but even the friendships I do make don't last long not because I am not trying, they just stop making the effort to communicate or even link up.

>>119277
Do you mean real life friends or just discord friends?

>>119279

i think this is probably the case too… it seems like no one really cares to get to know anyone anymore it feels like whenever i meet new people i cant even expect to talk to them anymore past that even if were considered “friends” everything just feels so fake

>>119280
either or i just wanna be able to talk to people about anything really :(

How do you prevent yourself from ever ending up with someone like this?

>>119122
don't date men lol

>>119122
im so charming and degenerate morally im sure i wont have to deal with someone not revealing this to me

>>118589
Im sorry but how does a 17 year old look like mid 20’s lol. Um, as for advice… I’m not sure why he’s so interested in you but you should do what you want

>>119243
I feel you, I hate having curly hair. It's not even the cute kind of curls UGH.

>>119244

You know what— I don’t say this as a platitude but I really do think all curly/kinky hair is cute.

But I know what you mean because it’s not the kind that other see as “cute”.

It just sucks that you could find so much beauty in something unconventional yet those who around you will beat that opinion out of you.

Besides, why the helll was straightening my hair the only option she could think of?

Black women hate black (or biracial black in my case) hate each other so much but are flustered and mad when you say as much.

>>119245

Apologies for the typos. I’m high as a kite right now.

>>118930

i've been considering going to figure drawing sessions in my area just to get out and meet new people. of course it won't be just women there but it'll put me out there with new people, and it's not a super intense social situation (i'm also an autistic loner).

do you have any hobbies that might offer classes in your area? sports, cooking, art? or anything you would be willing to try?

best of luck nona it's hard to make friends around our age <3

>>119215
>I wholeheartedly believe in homosexuality— but I doubt bisexuality
not to derail your thread but I entertained the idea that the opposite is true

>>119216

Nah, it’s okay.

Do you mean bisexuality exist, but homosexuality doesn’t?

I’m interested to hear why that is, actually. I don’t think that ideas ever crossed my head.

My doubt is usually on bisexuality but there were times when I’ve thought maybe it’s all fake. But never that bisexuality was more plausible than homosexuality.

>>119217
>I’m interested to hear why that is
Because I'm bisexual (I was like that before the mental illness) and since it's something I experience I know for sure it's a thing. The other thing that made me question if homosexuality really exists specifically in females is mostly because like 2/3 lesbians I encountered online ended up coming out as bi later on. I really don't want to upset anyone, it's just an observation but this is one of those topics that are super sensitive to some.

>>119236
NTA, but I think female homosexuality exists. I mean, 1/3 of online lesbians that remained lesbians probably experience only same-sex attraction. Lesbians are just super rare. And I think most "lesbians" online come out as bi, because they have either really specific type of men they're attracted to or they have misandry (common case) and respress feelings of men. And this, it takes some time for them to realize that they are actually bi

>>119237
*feelings for men

Call him cringe and a boomer. I bet he does a bunch of disgraceful stuff too and he's a hypocrite for judging others.

>>119162
Thank you nona,and yeah he was rlly bad just words do get to me easily lol

>>119161
What even is really considered ugly kek

>>119164
If no one looks at you with sexual desire? When children cringe when they see you? When the only person to ever compliment you is your mum.

>you disgrace your family
Oh that’s fucking rich. Could you imagine if that scrote’s parents had to look at his search history? I’m sure they’d be so proud of their baby boy.

>>119131
>He had to take them to cope with his traumatic childhood
Makes sense. How did it work out for him?

>>119144
Such a good person that preferred drugs over important people in his life (you, I assume).
Remember that.

It’s insane how more and more each day this sites posters resemble le classic incels in how terrible they are. Posting about how someone you loved died from a mistake and not a single shred of attempted empathy, just hatred towards a stranger out of a jaded view of love and the opposite sex. You all need help

>>119212
Whoa, you're telling me that a website based around capturing a gendered portion of the audience of an imageboard that's full of incels is also full of incels from that specific gender? Damn, what a shocking turn of events

>>118962
i lol'd at the description of him tping to turret. thanks for sharing

i also grew up gaming, and he didn't have a PC or console until a few years ago. so there's a huge skill gap for us too. i wish i liked some casual games, any recommendations?

honestly i think your advice is pretty good. it makes me disappointed that i can't enjoy those games with him, but yeah, a relationship without resentment is way more important

>>118965
My bf was trying to get good at league and knew more knowledge stuff than me, he’d read the league wiki and watch videos so he was trying but the reflexes and hands weren’t there. So I requested we play something where reading the wiki and knowing the game inside out would be beneficial for us. We started playing baldurs Gate together and since it’s turn based and strategy (a game he excels at) we’ve been having tons of fun.

And I went back to my old casual gaming ways and have started rekindling my love for the sims 2 again. I know it doesn’t seem like a multiplayer game but you can make it by having each other playing and raising different families and then plotting to marry them off. We live together so we share one PC for this but if you are e dating you can send him your neighborhood files and when he’s done a round he can send you the updated files

We also play Cereza and the Lost Demon. It’s single player but he plays cereza who literally just exists to hold enemies down and I play the demon where the fun combat goes in. Mario games are good too, Mario Kart he sometimes gets in first but then he goes into last place because there’s chaos. Smash Bro’s is a game he doesn’t like because he’s still not used to controllers and I just end up killing him in under a minute, not very fun for either of us

There’s so many games out there, you can even have him watch you play single player mode too. My bf likes seeing the cut scenes and since he’s into strategy he offers suggestions on what moves, he’s kinda like Futaba from P5 that way (Personas another good single game, highly recommend)

>>118960
My best friend's bf was like that and it was miserable to play with them / hear her be sad always because he got mad over a video game. Jesus it's not that serious noona, have fun and stop being a prick, you bf just wanna chill with you, not be part of esports team. Be tryhard but with random people lobby, not your friends and family.

>>118960
Maybe there's another geimu to be mutually tryhard together in if he sucks at class shooters as a genre, alternatively you could send him down paths to draw fire or blow up mines for you while you uh support him

There are types of games i specifically avoid playing with my bf cause while he's not amazing i really suck at them and he doesn't like it because he doesn't want to be upset at me.
Just find another kind of thing you can play together you aren't so try hard at.