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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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Anonymous 131062

Vidya
Scrolling
Art
More vidya
That is all

Anonymous 131182

>>131062
what vidya?

Anonymous 131211

yoga, read, cook, clean, workout, overwatch.

Anonymous 131268

a large chunk of my day is just wasting away, suffering from painkiller resistant chronic pain and fatigue and they still call me lazy

Anonymous 131277

>>131268
Have you tried not being in pain? /s


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i hate work i hate i hate work i hate work i hate work i Anonymous 130572[Reply]

>girlboss it in the trades nona! rosie the riveter, nona!
>lots of money there nona!
>learn skills nona!
>it's not like the old days anymore nona!
>you definitely won't end up face-down ass-up on a disgusting man's disgusting truck floor like the world's least expensive prostitute nona!
If there are any other nonas in trades here - how do you put up with this world???
i could rant for HOURS but basically while i actually enjoy fixing things and being active and i don't mind getting a bit greasy, i just cannot deal with the people in this business. 95% of guys in trades are literal stone age far-left-of-the-IQ-bell-curve cavemen who salivate at any useless shiny bauble that says "Milwaukee" or "Snap-On" on it and THROW their money at the salesman offering 50% interest financing plans, condemning themselves and the GFs and wives they often somehow have to a life of debt slavery
My sister is like "oh at least there are hot guys" lmao these guys inhale hot dogs and soda and "self-medicate" totally avoidable bad knees with weed and vape. The soundtrack to every day is my colleague's douchecore spotify algo playlist (literally Nickelback, late Eminem i.e. "Ass Like That" and Thong Song and Kid Rock). Not attractive
The couple (literally 2) cute and possibly interesting boys I've met in this business have been taken and too painfully shy/awkward to get to know well respectively
Everything is filthy and disorganized and if you try to be a bit more orderly and organized yourself, apparently that makes you a princess
the vehicles are all disgusting because apparently guys who drive them all have no self-respect
I feel like my friends are slipping away because we can't relate to one another's daily lives and when I get home I just feel exhausted and like time is passing with no way to differentiate one day, week, month from another
Anyway that's all, just getting older with a wrench in my hand and my ass in the air and my face in the dirt

Anonymous 130604

I did a bit of tradie type work for a little while and it inspired me to go back to college. The work itself wasn't bad but I can't stand the type of people who do manual labor. They are all egotists and/or have huge chips on their shoulders. Tons of low iq out of shape people who are always trying to posit themselves as better then someone else and put each other down. That, or they're drug addicts, or maybe both. I knew that if I had to spend 40+ hours a week around these people for the rest of my life I would eventually snap and shoot up my workplace. I feel genuine sympathy for any intelligent decent person who just likes carpentry or whatever and has to deal with this all the time.

Anonymous 130861

>>130604
I live in a nice area and a manual labor guy helped me jumpstart my car I wish I bought him a coffee or something

Anonymous 130862

>>130861
Im gonna think about my mishap here the rest of my life

Anonymous 130955

>>130572
no advice but I just want to say I read your post and I want to say I feel for you. I wish I could give you a hug. <3 maybe you could try talking to that shy guy again? in my experience, they say they really like being talked to but can't express it in the moment.

Anonymous 131267

>>130572
Are you a car mechanic?
Why don't you get a job in aviation maintenance?
They're much organized because of tool control requirements for aircraft.
You're still going to see people throw their money away on tools, but they make more money so maybe they're more financially responsible considering their income.


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous 129929

>>129925
if this is who I think it is. can you give me some kind of hint so I can know its you?

Anonymous 129933

>>129929
🐝 safe over summer break!

Anonymous 131175

I miss you, J. Guys my age fucking suck.

I miss how gentle and kind you were with me. I miss going through your record collection together. You never lied to me or insulted me, you were always loving.

I miss the love we shared. Since we last talked, I got my heart broken again. I think punishment for running away from you.

I keep listening to Tomorrow Is a Long Time by Bob Dylan. It’s comforting me, which makes me feel a bit better because I know it’s a song that comforts you too.

Love you always,

Your Birdy

Anonymous 131218

>Nona,
>I am sending this letter to you from 25 years in the future.
>3 months and 9 days from now, terrorists (or """someone else""") will fly planes into the World Trade Center buildings in NYC and the Pentagon in Washington DC, committing the worst act of terrorism in history and killing thousands of people. I know you are only 11 years old but YOU MUST STOP THEM. put an end to this cursed timeline!

>Also in the future there are 29387 different genders, AI is taking our jobs, white people are going extinct, and a chinese virus nearly wiped out humanity like 5 years ago. Also Donald Trump is president

Anonymous 131265

>>128239
the hurt gets better the farther you are away from me. i still think about you and my stomach curls. even so i want you always in my own very secret and private way. but it does get better with you out of my sight. when i'm in my apartment you're everywhere. today i was riding on the subway and i caught the summertime sweat of someone and it smelled like you and it was foul and sad and familiar. i hear you're very happy having ruined my entire life and career. good for you i guess.


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This little green bitch Anonymous 130997[Reply]

You see this thing? This is literally you. All of you. In fact I even saw one of you cosplay it in person. Looked just like her. Insane behavior really.
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Anonymous 131221

>>130997
Is this that fairy from that pedophile loli rape game? I dont know how you can use that against women at all

Anonymous 131222

>>131221
A short and skinny white woman chose to attend one of the most crowded cons in America dressed like that. If you feel disgusted then consider how I felt that day.

Anonymous 131223

>>131003
No we werent

Anonymous 131224

>>131222
would you prefer for her to have been black instead

Anonymous 131227

>>131224
Society has deemed that as more acceptable. Think of that what you will.
https://sites.psu.edu/aspsy/2022/03/16/the-effects-of-pornographic-media-on-black-intimacy-and-perceptions-of-black-women/


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boy problems Anonymous 130934[Reply]

hi girlies i feel like me and he are drifting apart he made me really upset the day before yesterday so i ghosted him for like a day and even when we were talking i was giving him the cold shoulder i didn't know he was in manic episode he acted on impulse and made some mistakes i feel so guilty for ruining his life he doesn't blame but he said that i deserve better than him and that it's over for him now :(
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Anonymous 131007

they always come back

Anonymous 131041

>>131007
i meannn that's a good thing right?

Anonymous 131042

>>131007
no they do not lol

Anonymous 131209

its so over

Anonymous 131215

>>131209
we made up it's okay


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Anonymous 131040[Reply]

How do I build confidence and make friends? I get anxious and easily exhausted talking to people, but I feel lonely.
I'm an adult, and it feels like it's too late to find friends or people like me. I want to post about the topics I find interesting on social media and see if I attract like-minded people, but then I feel cringy (I don't think people who do it are cringe, it just feels stupid when I do it). If I start putting significant effort into posting my views, I start getting paranoid thoughts about never actually making friends, just having my posts incorporated into a LLM, eventually seeing some soulless influencer regurgitate my statements word-for-word because AI gave it to them and seeing other people comment "Wow, that's a great point! Followed!".

Anonymous 131044

Stop worrying about being cringe. Who gives a fuck? Are you going to deny yourself a potentially better life because some retard felt uncomfortable for half a second? Fuck em and just be your weird self

Anonymous 131207

just talk to random people or co-workers to get good at small talk, be friendly and remember things about people (in a non weird way), people will want to be friends with you.


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Anonymous 130074[Reply]

I am a schizoid woman. I spend most of my time thinking about nebulous stuff in my head and doing solitary activities such as diy stuff, tinkering with computers, trying to make various stuff and all. I do not enjoy talking to other people unless they’re invested in my interests. Usually if I speak with someone I just wait for the conversation to end and for them to go away. I have little clue as to why other people are entertained by what they are. I prefer interactions where I don’t need to adapt to the other persons sense of normal. That’s why I dislike groups and often end up antagonistic towards them unless I have a big presence. I don’t have strong attachments.

That is just who I am.
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Anonymous 131051

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Found something interesting and highly relevant to me while researching. It is the Ego Dissolution Scale
>Ego dissolution scale (EDS) The 10-item EDS is a self-report questionnaire quantifying trait-like propensities towards self-loss experiences (Sleight et al., 2023).
The items include some things like odd body experiences, sense of unity with the universe, etc. I honestly can't find a specific list at this point but it seems to be strongly associated with depersonalization/dissociation.

You see, my villain backstory (one which was deleted here) is that at 8 yrs old I survived a delirium during childhood, one where my body temperature reached 40C (104F) degrees Fahrenheit. I didn't think of it much at the time. But looking back, my mom lamented a lot how she felt like I was stolen and replaced. Even my sister confirmed it, 15 years later. It feels like everyone hid the truth all this time and acted like nothing changed. But I think it may actually finally explain why I was so odd.

There's some research, though scarce, on pediatric delirium/febrile encephalopathy and its effects. I think I only saw this one yet about another 8 yrs old patient: https://www.psychiatrist.com/pcc/assessment-and-management-of-delirium-in-pediatric-patients/

>Two days later, he was extubated. However, his parents noted that he was now anxious and was not acting like he usually did. When he awakened, he needed to be reminded that he was in the hospital.
But I'll need to see more.

Anonymous 131132

Ohhhh my god I saw a drawing that I made 7 years ago
I remember hating it so much
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Anonymous 131139

That's actually fucked up

Also I hated that drawing so much I would not visit CC for the next like 4-6 years

Anonymous 131147

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Also this
>As long as you don't break any of the rules, you're good to go.
Turned out to be a lie, kek

At least these days

Anonymous 131159

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Think making one of those animation channels about my lyfe would be pretty epic like Jaiden


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¿What can I do if I'm in love with my proffesor? Anonymous 130854[Reply]

First I need to clarify that I'm already eighteen, and that I'm not stupid enough to try anything (I don't want advice to flirt with a middle aged man who is starting to bald a little)
I don't want anything to happen. Even though I feel attracted towards him in a way that I have never felt towards any other man, I know that: A)I don't want to get raped. B)he won't notice me (if he's not a fucking pervert).
But I just NEED to hear it from someone who has been through the same situation. He's kind, walks around with his dog, is confident and well-spoken. GOD I have written a shit ton of poems for this guy.

He doesn't seem to be married or in a relationship, but in some ways, I feel like it's weird how his entire body language shifts when he's talking to a girl (am I going crazy?)
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Anonymous 130899

>>130897
That's what you get for picking moids with shitty genes. Do you go for moids with autism, too? Would probably more matched for a shotafucker because spergs have the mentality of a child.

Anonymous 130912

I'm a little tired of repeating myself, but I really want to clarify (once more) that I don't want anything to happen between me and him.
CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW DO I MAKE THESE FEELINGS GO AWAY INSTEAD OF FIGHTING EACHOTHER?!

Anonymous 131020

>>130912

Make a FODA listing all the reasons of why it would not work.

Emotionality is a reaction. React to the reasons it would not work.
Eventually you will start to feel the other way, disgust perhaps even.

Do not force feelings of disgust.

If possible, try to make the disgust for the idea of dating that man natural.

Men know when women like them and treat them better, if not, they use it to treat them badly to feel better.

Do not feel bad for men, if you do, you just will make yourself miserable. Adam was in charge, not eve. Men are not worth your energy.

Most men.

Anonymous 131027

>>131020
>>131020
You're right, noona. I have been thinking of this for the past three months and you have put into words a feeling I was never able to express. Thank you.

Anonymous 131162

>>131027

I am glad you can finally put your thoughts based on your sentimentalism, it is very hard to do so sometimes.

If you can, see about father-daughter relationships.

Older men, if they can see you as a "girl" or "daughter", if they are mature enough they will treat you more as a father figure and authority rather than "flirty" as most old men treat women.

Good men will treat you like a daughter if you treat them like you would treat your father if he was in their place.

That at least, has always worked for me. Old men always compare me to their own offspring, in some sort of way, if I treat them like that. Not in a flirty way.

I hope you can sort this out, have faith in your capacities nona xoxo


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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 130699

- What are you doing?
- Just watching the world.

this is definitely one of my all time favorites

Anonymous 130948

Kiss me 殴るように唇に血が滲む程
Hold me あばらが音を立てて折れる程
好き好き大好き 好き好き大好き
好き好き大好き
愛してるって言わなきゃ殺す

Kiss me like a punch until the blood oozes from my lips
Hold me until my ribs make a sound as they break
I like you, I like you, I love you!
I like you, I like you, I love you!
I like you, I like you, I love you!
Say you love me too, or I’ll kill you!

Anonymous 130965

Well it rains and it pours when you're out on your own
If I crash on the couch, can I sleep in my clothes
'Cause I spent the night dancing, I'm drunk I suppose
If it looks like I'm laughing
I'm really just asking to leave this alone
You're in time for the show
You're the one that I need
I'm the one that you loathe
You can watch me corrode
Like a beast in repose
'Cause I love all the poison away with the boys in the band

Anonymous 131038

Sympawny no.4 - in memory of sweet Chubby Cat
Chubby Cat was sweet and playful and the perfect cuddle buddy. With a sprinkle of playful piccolo, a touch of warm strings, and a sweet harmony progression - hopefully, the music sounds just a little bit like him. Rest in peace sweet Chubby Cat

Anonymous 131043

you can go on home, you got what you need
take my heart and put it up on your sleeve
tear it up so they can all sing along
live out your life
i’ll never tell you you're wrong
baby, don't forget, don't forget it's our song
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone


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Anonymous 129602[Reply]

i hate seeing girls like the same things i like i feel like im always out for male validation even though im not interested in men… i feel like my life as a woman has no worth because im fat and ugly. im relapsing into bulimia and my mouth is rotting away. im out of school, i cant get a job and my friends always exclude me in selfies when we hang out because im so ugly. everyone i talk to is a transgirl i have no cisgirl friends and im scared of them all. when im done reading, playing games or watching anime for the day i realize how sad my life is and i want to kill myself.honestly im afraid of anyone that isnt a tranny. i hate seeing pretty girls i hate seeing cosplayers. i really want them to all die someday. i always forget im autistic until i speak to real people and then i realize theres just no hope for me.

Anonymous 129603

haah even posting this i feel like im close to a panic attack . im so scared of everything

Anonymous 129606

maybe be happy on ur own before you can be happy with someone else. and then you can find the right person for you to enjoy life with

Anonymous 129607

um for what it's worth i like the picture you posted do you have more cute images like that

Anonymous 129615

sammmee im ruining my already ugly appearance with bulimia wooo! I relate to everything ye said so at least ur not alone. Is there a place in this world fr people like us I wonder

Anonymous 131024

>>129602

List your best memories.
List your worst memories.

Bulimia will make you more ugly.

Men who like kids do not like kids. They just like the idea of abusing someone, being stronger, smarter or older enough to manipulate them.

Being autistic just makes you be avoided because you are not happy, you are not healthy, and autism is socially acceptable only when you meet those two criteria (happy, healthy) because most people (who are not autistic) often are not honest enough because of social reasoning. And end up in consequence, being unhappy and miserable.

Live your best life, nona, there is still hope


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