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Anonymous 122076[Reply]

Anybody else here that really don't care about romance? I like sex but romance is not my thing. As long as I can have sex with the guy I don't care about who he loves etc. I don't wake up or go to bed wishing someone else was here I just go to bed or wake up. I don't hate romance I simply don't long for it. I'm only 19 so it might change.

Anonymous 122078

I feel ya, I kinda miss my college days, fuk'd alotta guys but now that working in an office sleeping with anyone will have dire consequences

Anonymous 122082

>>122078
You get it…



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Anonymous 121977[Reply]

good morning I hate men
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Anonymous 122022

Sometimes I wish there was a planet that only allowed females in and we could all live in harmony

Anonymous 122046

i don’t know how anyone can even tolerate men. they are so disgusting.

Anonymous 122047

>>122021
We need to start with female and I mean female ( so no male children ) only living areas.

Anonymous 122048

>>122047
Time to Gerudomaxx.

Anonymous 122077

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TOTAL MOID DEATH!!!!
TMD TMD TMD



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Anonymous 122053[Reply]

Anyone else sexualize themselves to moids to feel good about themselves? I've been doing it for two years now I hate it but I cant help it being told that I'm loved and I made people feel good makes me not want to stop yet I feel so disappointed in the whore I am

Anonymous 122054

>>122053
>Anyone else like being a whore?
You're the only one, sorry.

Anonymous 122055

Find a real hobby and get validation from your own progress in it.

Anonymous 122065

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>>122053
yeah, go ahead and keep sexualizing yourself, throw away any sense of individuality, just make yourself easier to digest
yes this feeling is felt by all nonas across boards
yes we all do this
yes this is what women have been fighting for

Anonymous 122067

I'd say the issue is mostly in that you're doing it for the sake of men in order to get their validation. If you just like looking good for you, that's mostly alright if not taken to the point of obsessive vanity, but desperately seeking out validation from other people belies a self esteem issue, which you no doubt are cognizant of. Basing yourself worth on beauty, something you just sort of have and don't really develop, as well as something that also has a time limit is not conducive to long term mental health and stability. While it's not as simple as >>122055 might make it sound, finding something to do with your life that isn't based on how others view you will probably make you feel better long term. You don't have to be good at it either you can just do it for your own sake.

Anonymous 122074

Unless and until he is the ultimate and ultimate man idk why you would do all that …and for free?! Putting yourself in danger …are you dumb Nona? Check for mold in your apt



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Anonymous 121599[Reply]

Cried about dad cheating on mom. I haven't told anyone yet. Just spiralling and asking chat gpt how this can affect me and what preventative measures I can take. When should I tell my mom. Should I ever tell her. Ugh. Now all day will be spent drinking coffee because I did not sleep and I have to study for an exam. I want a fat greasy pizza. This is my sign to work even harder in uni. Girls is such a fun show. I need a tarot card reading. Chewing five pieces of gum will really hurt your jaw.
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Anonymous 122038

>>122037
And I will turn 20 this year …which means he is a disgusting piece of shit

Anonymous 122041

>>122038
Aww , i feel so hard for you.. I found my dad's cheating evidence at 10/11, and I never saw him the same/ as a good guy after that. My mother later went on to detail how he was doing it the whole time. Even when my mom just had us…
The audacity of shitty ass "dads"!!

Anonymous 122044

>>122041
I'm going to destroy his entire being he is going to pay for this

Anonymous 122057

>>122037
Cheating is so stupid.. for one, you're(addressing your dad here) going to be found out, also, why make your own life more complicated? But most important - you could have spent your resources on the family you chose to create you stupid moid.

Anonymous 122060

>>122044
Based. Sometimes scorched earth is the proper response. Start gathering as much dirt as you can.



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Anonymous 121997[Reply]

>You need to modernize
>If you dont get tiktok/twitter/facebook then how will you socialize with others huh silly?

Anonymous 122007

pity reply for another frog thread

Anonymous 122059

>>121997
>tiktok, facebook
Nobody uses those
>twitter
It's called x granny

Anonymous 122063

>>121997
all the people that matter dont use cringe social media anyway



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Anonymous 121961[Reply]

My dad broke my phone because I said I hated living with my fam. Then he accused me of trying to kill him and my mom for some reason while threatning to light the house on fire if I did not open my room's door. My mother came home and refused to talk to me. I love my life. I will now work more hard for moving out.
Also when the fight "ended" he said why did I not stop him from breaking the phone and that he was sorry for saying anything mean. Um mean does not cover the things you said to me. I'm the same nona that talks about my cheating piece of shit dad. I hope he knows karma is coming for him. People that hurt me know that things never end well for them. I will now go workout.

Anonymous 121962

perhaps you could report him for this? threatening you, damaging your belongings

Anonymous 121964

>>121962
He will just act more aggressive and try to harm my sister and me. He knows people that own guns etc etc.

Anonymous 122056

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>>121964
That sounds like a horrible living situation nona… If his biggest power is being a man, and knowing people with guns, thats not a lot of power. One up him. Buy a gun. Look at trailer parks near you. The worst that it can get is going to court, and he doesn't want that, but just in case, start keeping evidence. Best of luck nona.



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Tempted to contact ex who harassed me Anonymous 122025[Reply]

It’s wrong and I know we’re over but I want to talk to him again I miss his giggles. His softness. His jokes. What can I do to stop this feeling….

Anonymous 122027

get another better guy

Anonymous 122042

>>122025
Nona no



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Anonymous 121744[Reply]

The whole phenomenon of this dude is proof that standards/body-shaming/fatphobia don’t exist for males. If the original post had been of a woman it would be like any other post and be lost to time. But because someone had the audacity to try to socially enforce any rock bottom, bare minimum physical standard for the sacred male, everyone threw a fit and he got a whole media festival of events, money and opportunities thrown at him for weeks on end. In real life a female is torn to shreds for not spending most of her mental energy on appearances, but something as febrile as “hey maybe a male shouldn’t be so fat he can barely walk” is completely socially unacceptable and would get you fired while every handmaiden within ten miles performatively throws themselves on his gangrenous fat-entombed micropenis.
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Anonymous 121914

>>121751
Dating is for retardpilled worthless eaters and it’s completely irrelevant to my post
Sorry I forgot 99.9% of people are illiterate mongoloids and tried to have a discussion about something

Anonymous 121915

>>121914
lol okay but i will continue to oppress fat ugly men like picrel by rejecting and ignoring them for the rest of my life and so will most women. i love fatshaming men

Anonymous 121923

>>121915
Your individual actions aren’t relevant to the discussion of collective societal actions you self obsessed fool

Anonymous 121924

>>121923
I mean use your brain for 1 second. If society doesn't agree on an ideal body type for men, why are male models required to be skinny or fit? Why are characters meant to portray attractive men in shows and movies often slim, fit and tall? If you look at any female centric media youll see that the moids there are conventionally attractive, not fat pigs. You can look up various studies that shows women's prefefence for lean muscular men but perhaps you'd nitpick those studies as well.

Anonymous 122039

>>121744
I see more fat women with regular size men than vice versa. I almost always see fat guys with fat women.



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dreams? Anonymous 122029[Reply]

i had the strangest dream, ive never experienced a dream so long
apparently i was in a thruple with my bf (recurring theme) but i always get confused by the concept as being weird, like i counted and felt something was off but wasn't sure what
we were in his room, he was with this pumpkin headed fella, kinda looked like me but not really
anyways after awhile of this fella cuddling with my bf and having his attention, i began to be unsure of whether he was real
after doing a test by (non violently) pushing him against my bf or more like pushing my bf on top of him on the bed (smushing him) he faded from reality and i came to the conclusion that he was not real, and maybe needed my brain to be checked.
he wasn't really a representation of me i don't think, more like "a stranger."
i woke up naturally but very tired, like the dream itself was exhausting
a REM cycle lasting longer than usual?


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Anonymous 121986

I am appalled you started to use drugs, but actually I am not too surprised. I could easily imagine you doing that. I am not even surprised you got diagnosed with a personality disorder, because deep down I knew you had that and were very disturbed. I keep wondering and worrying how your parents are doing and how are they feeling about this. Are they having troubles because of you? It is just still somehow sad to hear you doing drugs, wasting all of your money and comparing that to the version I knew of you, who was yes, reckless and selfish, sometimes a weird combination of detachment, hollowness, depression and extreme emotionality and violent outbursts but at least you were doing somewhat okay and I had a belief you at least had some amount of kindness in you. I am too naive and kind for my own good, I should not try to help you anymore. You are the one who abused me and pushed me and I am sure it would have escalated in the worst way possible if I didn't leave. I don't think you can love anyone because you hate yourself.

Anonymous 121987

you've been a good friend to me, i really can't complain about that, but it's hard to talk to you when you choose to answer everything either vaguely or sarcastically + you don't even seem to be remotely interested in my life and my opinions.
i never lied, i do think it's cute when you larp as some kind of jack sparrow, but sometimes you need to break character, i understand this might be a byproduct of autism, but it makes it difficult to feel close to you, and sometimes it comes off as an ego facade

i'm sorry for being upset about this aspect of your personality, it's simply how i feel at the moment

Anonymous 121988

>>121983
this most definitely does not make you a bad person. nothing a man experienced in his childhood ever excuses that level of brutality against a woman. especially a woman he’s supposed to protect and love. i’m very sorry for her and for you. it’s so painful to be a woman and realize that the men who warn us about violence are just as capable of committing it.

Anonymous 121995

>>121983
my father abused my mother for years too, ive cut out all contact with him and made that decision at 10. its unforgiveable and youre justified in feeling the way you do. ill never talk to him until the day i die

Anonymous 122024

i have now experienced a pain worse than you raping me and the years that followed. it was my new biggest nightmare after you made mine come true. i think i’ve truly lost everything in the sense that i could not want possibly want anything now like i used to want things. i don’t want anything now.



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