Anonymous 12540[Reply]
Shitty sex life vent thread
>What's wrong with your sex life? /What would you change?
>Is it you or your partner?
etc etc
64 posts and 10 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.Anonymous 14404
I've been with my boyfriend for the last 8 years and our sex life has never been good, but now it's non-existent. Despite living together, he spends half of his time away, and when he's here I'm usually so angry with him, because he's become an asshole, that I'm never in the mood. Meanwhile, he constantly asks for sex, which is the next problem because he's just plain bad at it and uninterested in improving. He cums in minutes, refuses to build a rhythm, thrusts too hard and fast because he says he can't feel it otherwise (which is another matter, because he's been trying for years to convince me to take the pill so he doesn't need to use condoms), his foreplay is maybe 45 seconds long and he thinks it's all ok because he then ineffectually fingers me for another 10 minutes until I essentially grind out a very weak and sometimes painful orgasm. This wasn't an issue when we were younger, because he's so desperately hot that looking at him thrust into me, feeling him against me, could bring me to orgasm and a glance at him naked would instantly put me in the mood. Now our relationship is so bad that I just don't find him very attractive anymore, and I'd even go so far as to say my type has changed. I think he's ruined thin, wirey, long-haired arthoe men for me. I think we need to break up, but I've built a life around him and I'm scared to end it.
Anonymous 14425
>>14404you should probably end it. sunk cost fallacy. unless you somehow think you can fix it and/or want to ACTIVELY try to fix it
it is your life that you are wasting in an unhappy relationship with unhappy sex.
i'm currently having sex with someone who is into me very much but they are sort of fat and i'm not so into it. the sex feels good-enough but a little disjointed. i can tell he goes somewhere else when we're in the middle of it.
Anonymous 14427
>>14425I did just that. I realised all our issues stemmed from a fundamental incompatibility that had just never come up until recently.
Anonymous 14453
I think my sex life is amazing most of the time, I love my boyfriend and he loves me. We have some kind of sexual activity pretty much every single day. Honestly I couldn't be happier… except for one little thingy that happened not too long ago.
I'm specifically telling you this because anonymity allows me to vent over something very embarrassing.
>Start getting more and more into buttstuff (always kind of been but I was also afraid of putting anything other than my finger there)>At first it was just fine, fun enough but nothing too crazy>Explicitly tell my bf I don't want him to do porn shit>He complies and starts very slowly, first using just his mouth, then fingers and after days of that he finally puts his dick in there>Painful, but feels good>Wait, this feels TOO good>Discover he can hit my g-spot from there somehow>Over time I ask him to be rougher, do it harder, essentially backtracking on my first request>One day after being separated for like two weeks we had amazing sex>Ask him to destroy me for round 2>He totally does>We finish and cuddle for a bit>Something's wrong with me… with my gutPost too long. Click here to view the full text.Anonymous 14457
>>14453>Also my bf is very hesitant about receiving rimjobs or giving me a golden showerBecause these are things dealing with dirt that has to be cleaned up thorougly
Tell him to dump a bottle of water on your head instead