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Imo it's more about how it's done rather than the what is done. As long as your partner genuinely respects you and you respect them, it doesn't really matter what you're doing as long as you enjoy it.

>>12987
I got nothing for you except the most generic advice, which is to meditate, because it's the most reliable way to have more mental and emotional resources if you can't handle something that should be simple to think about: https://vipassanadhura.com/howto.htm
also the other anon is right and you should accept being a sub but just learn to be less pathetic about it. but you could gain insights into what exactly it is you like about those scenarios and see how other things could press those buttons just as much if a partner understood your psychology.

>>12865
do it. he should be corrupted and then shamed publicly

>>12728
Tell us more

>>12899
I fantasize about this kinda shit sometimes. Baby-trapping is hot but gotta do it with the right person (like you, as an example, doing it with a rich person lmao)

when i was in my edgy tcc phase as a teen i remember reading how Gacy killed one of his victims. he shoved a pair of bikini bottoms down his throat and he asphyxiated, this really did something to my brain. then i found out about Anatoly Slivko and how he hung schoolboys. im basically attracted to moids dying by asphyxiation i guess, as well as rigor mortis and the way their faces they have when theyre dead (eyes rolled back, open mouth, tears, drool, hypoxia, etc).

and of course, raping moids

Anything that makes my moid feel uncomfortable. He wasn't exactly sheltered when we met, but he refused to leave his comfort zone for anything except me. I never had a voyeur fetish before I realised he was nervous about kissing in public, and it only grew with his resistance. I think it's the power making everything sexier. I love to know that with some gentle rubbing, a few kisses and a "do it for me" I can get him to do anything. It sends shivers up my spine when I see he thinks he's reached the top of the mountain, once I've gotten him to finger me in an alley or swim naked, and then mist parts to reveal he's still on the slope and now I want him come to a nude beach or pretend we're ambiguously incestuous siblings around new people. He always says no, puts his foot down, resists, buckles, then gives in to give me what I want. I guess the kinks I develop to make him uncomfortable are just window dressing.

Mine smells like tobacco, not the smoke but the dried leaves, I think it's alright, although I don't smoke

>>12449
no but my urine does, all the fucking time actually.

Like pepsi cola and butthole like cherry pies, I've been told

mine smells like a weird mix of bath and body works strawberry pound cake and playstation heat. i have no idea why it smells like that because i don’t put that lotion anywhere near my puss

semi related but my gf’s vagina once smelled and tasted like a vanilla iced coffee because she had drank one earlier that day. it was awesome.

>When should he put it on
After foreplay, before insertion. It takes ten seconds, five if you've already got one out, so it's not the mood killer you think it is. If he cares about you he won't be offended. If you're worried, you can always put it on for him - they like that sort of thing.
>Should we worry about STIs if neither of us has had any sexual partners
If neither of you has an STI (and you trust that he doesn't have one, right?), then you don't have a lot to worry about besides pregnancy. UTIs and stuff can also be transferred and lead to problems, but that's pretty low on the risk scale.
>What about pre-cum
Rarely contains actual sperm unless he already came earlier. I think most studies say the risk of pregnancy from pre-cum alone is very very small. Just follow the advice above - put it on before anything goes inside.
>First time advice
If you've inserted anything before (fingers, dildo, etc.) you already know kind of what to expect. If not, it varies from person to person, most people experience some discomfort or mild pain their first time, some don't. I had a slight pinching/burning feeling for a few minutes that faded after I started to relax. I think the stressing and anxiety about whether it would hurt was way worse than any actual pain. Just make sure to do a lot of foreplay beforehand and ask him to take it slowly.
>I feel like we're both a little to prude to talk about sex until we've at least had it once.
There is nothing to be ashamed of.

don't let him go in until you're 100% comfortable with it. Not just mentally but physically as well.
Foreplay, fingers, etc.
As for when it's time to put the condom on: any time between him getting hard and him going in you. The best way to keep "the mood" going while rubbering up, is probably for you to do it for him. Some girls who try to be extra sexy with it do this with their mouths but that sounds like a bad idea, I'd just stick to using your hands.

>>11951
gigolos won't but like >>11949 said gay rentboys will, and you'd be surprised at how many gay men also fuck women.

>>11950
>yeah that was me lmao. i think i might have found another moid but he has a gun and is involved with drugs
Please be careful … I'm a social fuckup myself but that sounds terrifying.

>>11959
You mean bi men. Gay men by definition dont want to fuck women

>>11921
All male escorts are gay dudes pretending to be bi and they all have super aids. You probably won't be able to find one who exclusively fucks women because it's so easy for women to get it for free

>>12405
They don't WANT to, but they will for money

>>12277
My parents seemed to give my brother a little bit of a harder time over it but he probably did it a lot more

>>12282
NTA but there are people who don't feel the need to make sounds, even involuntay ones.
I'm silent even during sex, which freaks my boyfriend out keek

20 minutes ago in my brother's car. I figured since he has window tinting and the car was in a completely full, dead lot, I'd be fine. I didn't hear or see anything, since I was laid back with my feet on the dash, but when I got back up, someone had stuck a pamphlet under the wiper and might have looked straight in.

In my car parked somewhere VERY isolated, for example, a dark corner on a back street. My windows are tinted so I dont have to worry about being seen, but I've had people walk very close to my car and that spooked me. I usually wear a large hoodie and sweats, and just pull my arms inside and reach into my pants. If anyone COULD see through my windows, they still wouldnt see that I'm touching myself. Had some of my strongest nuts in my car. I always think about how if I were a guy, this would be seen as super creepy of me to do. (-:

>>1934
Actually did it a couple of times.
No sexual pleasure derived from it on my part. The only satisfaction I got was knowing I stood up for myself.

based

Hopefully my moid will succumb to me one day and let me cut and abuse him. He let's me do everything else otherwise though.

This is like one of my biggest turn ons but I can only enjoy it if the man truly deserves it. I love vividly fantasizing about brutalizing arrogant, self centered/proud men until they’re whimpering, bloody crying messes. Even better if they become Stockholm syndrome’d afterwards because I also have the strange desire to cuddle and nurse them back to health afterwards. It sucks there’s so little content of this out there.

I do, but only with 2D men. In a sexual way I mean- I think about killing real men a lot but I want them to suffer.
I want to break my favorite anime men and pierce them back together

>>11521
Then just don't have sex with men, problem solved

>>12668
The point was that female pleasure is sex is servile and not acknowledging the biological reality and reality of sex makes it harder for women like me to resolve their internal conflict. There's just so much false ideas being spread about sex and most women even even defensive of sex as if thats what they learned, be defensive no matter what and don't have your own brain cause thats the moral standards and that's what cool. "Sex is cool", well not as a woman, women are like for example a female animal getting in heat and being in pain however having sex will always being her pain yet the heat makes them lack self control and obviously makes them defend sex and the stupid moral and normie standards also make them defend sex and five stupid ass advices instead if acknowledging the biological reality for what it is. I mentally am not a bottom and can't align with my biological position in hetero sex so I just recognized that female pleasure is real but comes mostly from serving lol which depressed me and made me give up in life as a woman especially acts like handjobs or sucking dick made womanhood unsalvageable to me and gave me jealousy of moids recently after years of exploring my sexuality till I got tired especially of piv that feels promising but ends up just being you scratching an itching wound over and over again till it's numb and you relax then seeking to scratch it again. While men have a dick aka a bigger surface to stimulate and literally a giant clitoris. I will never have this satisfaction as a woman and possibly doing acts like the two I named earlier makes me wanna k word. Sorry for the sperg. I just hate when people say inaccurate things about sex as someone who has this internal conflict. I hate society and sex positivity and feel groomed by it and called a loser for not wanting relationships or sex as a woman

Why not just have a man worship you? Women can dominate males

>>12677
No they literally can't? Its women who jerk and suck dick aka do acts that bring them not physical pleasure plus piv directly leads ro a male orgasm but not female. Women are the empathy in het sex who worship men and get off in male pleasure. It's not possible for a man to worship a woman in sex besides just desiring and consuming her and giving her his desire lol what do people not understand. Being a female is so depressing after like 5 years of sexual copes and even more years of exploring my sexuality I just snapped and developed a dick envy. Sex is useless and overrated as a woman, I feel like I got brainwashed to think it's not. Its not worth dating and fucking men and doing all these mental gymnastics. So much work for nothing yet unlike what people claim I'm still not asexual despite feeling like this. Sex with men as a woman is about being an empathetic giving servant. And the orgasm or physical pleasure count will never be equal between sexes

>>12684
I searched online how to dominate a moid in sex and kept reading it for like 30 min and had to scroll through a bunch of gross dick sucking stories and overall it was all still about male pleasure and the hetero dynamic still stays the same. Maybe if women like me didn't get galsighted and punished by the society so much I would have resolved my confusion earlier. People saying that a woman can dominate a moid in sex makes me feel like I have 200 iq LOL.
That's all I just give up even the orgasm I made myself have through penetrative stimulation earlier made me feel depressed because having a female body sucks. And heterosexual relationships are full if extreme degradation seriously I hate life its horrible and people are stupid as hell, I give up on engaging in sexuality, I just wanted to find out why

>>11524
I've heard of adjusting your feng shui, but this is ridiculous!

>>11605
Hard to find them in silicone sadly without resorting to ordering from another country with fees, delivery times and stuff. Even furry shit is easier to buy, it's ridiculous
>>11606
Never tried a dildo, why won't they be as enjoyable as softer ones? Though I think it'll be better for me to start with a softer one since they'd compress inside unlike hard ones.
>>11593
Glass ones are pretty but seem scary to use (probably leftover trauma from 1 guy 1 jar)
>>11608
>>11609
I am an /x/ poster but idk why it'd be bad for the aura (either way I'm not looking to change my vibrations or stuff)

>>11615
Crystal breaks and a shard goes up, no good

don’t use anything made of any kind of crystal for putting inside your vagina.
because of their structure, even though they’re polished, there are always going to be corners and edges all over the surface that can cause micro-cuts and even flake off while inside.
it’s not particularly dangerous, but it’s not good for you.
use cast borosilicate instead.
glass is amorphous and doesn’t have this issue

You will get diseases in your pussy by doing this. Crystals are porous and cannot be sterilized. Use a rubber dildo for gods sake- they make ones that don’t look like penises if that’s the issue.

>>528
Yay! I started trying this for a while and nothing was happening but the days before my period my breasts got puffy like they usually do before I get it and I got a drop of milk. I have consistently been able to have a drop or two whenever I do the marmet technique or with a pump but I haven't done it very consistently. I hope I can produce moar soon, I kinda want to surprise my ldr bf.

>>10871
Im told consistency is the key to producing milk.

Pros
>hey, I'm totally into this kink!
Cons
>I'm lactose intolerant
:(

my bf does this thing where he plays with my nipple in one hand and lightly bites on my boob at the same time. its some of the best stimulation i've ever had - probably more intense than most clitoral stimulation for me. i wanna convince him to go harder with the biting and go longer because i feel like i could orgasm from it if done right

One of my biggest fantasies is a hot girl kidnapping me and turning me into a cow for her, strapping my nipples to a milking machine making me produce milk for her. She should fuck me with a strap on that cums hormones that make me milky.