>>12622this was really interesting nona, though I don’t understand half of it unfortunately
> What’s your relationship to sex? I have a pretty good sex life overall, and sex is important to me in dating, but I also have intimacy issues that make sex challenging for me. I started having sex at 16, and my sex life has immensely improved since then, thanks in no small part to better self-image. I prefer to date someone for a while before having sex, while the people I date tend to want it after a few dates max. I’m monogamous and expect monogamy from my sexual partners too. sex can be very stressful for me, so sometimes I secretly drink before sexual encounters. I know this is an issue. probably because of my intimacy issues, I can’t orgasm with another person. I’m also bisexual, and I think sex can be fairly different depending on if I’m with a man or a woman. I find sex less stressful with men, even though I prefer women
> Do you care about ‘body count’ / is it a dumb concept/ how to stop caring about it ?I don’t care about it too much, but I like to know my partners’ sexual history, so maybe it matters a bit? my body count is neither high nor low (6/7ish), and I’ve been with people who had higher body counts and lower body counts than me. it didn’t make a difference in the quality of sex, but I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin probably