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My best guess is that by having no sexual experience in your (presumably) 20s, you're not easy enough for them. In your stead they can be dating 10 other women who will put out by the 2nd or 3rd date. On the flip side there's men who fetishize virginity too.

Regardless, dating as a woman when you're actively looking for a serious relationship isn't easy.. Low quality men are abundant and standards for taking you on a date are low. Women who have plenty of experience get ghosted too, that's just the reality of dating in our time, especially if you're on apps (which I don't know if you are). Just keep dating, you'll find a guy who you like and who likes you and has patience for you.

>its supposed to be easy
Getting sex is, if you have no standards.

>>13281
Then thats the flip side of things though. Like I know I can’t be too picky but am I wrong for wanting a dude who hasn’t slept with a shit ton of people as well? Im just rambling, but I feel like in this scenario if he had then we wouldn’t have the same values. Like a few is fine I understand im in my 20’s and people fuck, but I would prefer less than more.

And I absolutely am irritated at being dropped over not putting out soon enough, although I know theres not much to be done about it. I don’t know anymore.

I guess all I can do is keep trying and dating like you said.

Same thing happened to me and I'm still so confused by it.
This guy I was talking to: awesome, kind, affectionate etc. We would cuddle together, he would give me forehead kisses, and hug me so hard that my feet weren't touching the ground. Then he realizes I'm a virgin. He continues to act normally, but apparently is not okay with me being a virgin. Though we are not officially dating, our dynamic is almost that of a couple.
He sleeps with another girl- I don't find out because he told me, but because his neck is covered in bruises.
He then goes two days without saying a word to me and avoiding me at all costs. The third day comes around, and he's at my door ready to talk. "I still see you as a great friend and care about you so much, I just can't commit to this and am not ready for a relationship", is what he roughly tells me.
From other people, I find out that amidst us spending every day together, he said there was no way things were going to work out between us because I don't have "experience".

I am still so lost about it? I feel like I always hear about how men want "pure" and "modest" women. That they like virgins because they've been untouched or whatever. And yet I was entired rejected because of just that. I could see how it may be overwhelming for someone with a lot of experience to be another's first, but the whole thing just stings so bad.
I'm sorry you had to go through a similar thing.
Can't stand moids. Thank God for bisexuality

>>13283
THIS omg. Everything you just described encapsulates how I feel exactly. This guys would hug me and cuddle me too!! And its just all so confusing and at the time it made me feel very empty and sad, although at the moment im feeling better. I just think about it often since it happened somewhat recently.

I'm going to guess the turn off isn't that you have no experience, but that you won't put out easily. Sounds like you've dodged a bullet

For what purpose…?

>>13229
Glide like a sugar glider

>>13230
To glide around like a sugar glider

>>13233
>>13234
There sure are interesting people here.

I believe I can glide

>no woman on woman action for 2 years now
Sad

>>13166
That's not the mind of meat we mean, Nona

>>13178
When you make fun of someone's typo only to make a typo yourself.

>>13179
>>13178
>>13166
More than eats the mind

>>13166
what?

>>13166
Sex in what???

Yes. I've heard some women say they prefer piv but that's not the majority.

Kind of.

I mostly jill with clit play a majority of the time because it's very rewarding and not a crazy amount of work. Penetrative sex is a much deeper orgasm while clit play is more of a shallower one. I don't get a long feeling of afterglow from clitplay like I get from penetration. However, penetration is a lot of work and I'm not always in the mood for it, especially if I'm solo. A majority of the time when I solo, clit play is just less trouble and nicer.

It really depends on your libido and what you are in the mood for. My best clitplay sessions are not better than the best sex I've had, but I have had a lot more good clitplay sessions than I have had good penetrative masturbations/sex.

Both at once feels best

>>13195
Pretty much this. I can only come once before I lose all interest in sex, so I have to gamble on only being able to get a really deep orgasm from penetration 50% of the time, but risk losing my sex-drive from frustration, or take the less pleasurable clit orgasm 100% of the time. I just have to try to guess if I'm horny enough to try for penetration, drag my nigel to bed, then try for as long as I can before I either know I can come or give up and have him give me head if I don't feel right and hope it's not too late to get an orgasm out of it. Being a little drunk makes orgasm from penetration more likely, but clit sucking less pleasurable.

>>13207
Gross. Are you tranny/moid by any chance?

Before we dated my boyfriend used to talk about his dating life with our friend group. I don't know why but there's something that really excites me thinking the sex he had with his ex and his dating experiences in general.

I've taken screenshots of every message he sent talking about girls before we dated and put them all into one list. There's a cropped picture of him with his ex on there too. When I look over it makes me feel so fuzzy. I've gotten some details from him about his ex like what she looks like, her first name, where she lives and where she might work. I've been thinking about going to the fast food place he told me she might work and ordering something. He told me she has no social media outside of accounts she has under an alias and I haven't been able to find it.

I've hung out with a girl he went on a few dates on as well, she doesn't know I'm dating him which might be weird but I don't care at all. I liked when she talked about him.

At first I told my boyfriend that he didn't have to be scared to tell me about his experiences, later I outright admitted it turned me on. He doesn't understand it at all.

women can't be cucks

>>13152
>He doesn't understand it at all.
me neither

>>13155
Not cucks. Just shareholders.

>>13152
>I've hung out with a girl he went on a few dates on as well
I found out my boyfriend's exes are friends now and hang out in some groupchats. I inserted myself under an alias and prompt them to talk about their previous relationships, which inevitably come back to him. I love hearing them compare sex and relationships. My more guilty habit is torturing a very sweet girl who's desperately in love with him by sharing details of our relationship and pictures of him, knowing she masturbates to the thought of him. The worst I've done is jokingly suggest I'd let him have her, which is now something she 'jokes' about often.

>>11613
>force boyfriend into humiliating and degrading pegging sessions
>break up with him after because you no longer see him as a man
How do I achieve this level of sadism?

>>12228
thats not what she said at all

>>12031
Pfft you don't sound like a good person, you sound like an seething pissant tradthot.

>>13126
ew

>>7472
Well most straight women think like this
>>11613
so the fact that you are the polar opposite makes you basically god to thousands and thousands of moids. There are gorillions of submissive males that will (literally) kiss your feet for the chance to be pegged and dominated by you.

>>13090
i think agp is different from what you’re describing, you don’t get turned on by just being a woman and living in a female body. just knowing people find you attractive

Of course you get turned on by that. It's the most natural thing in the world and the whole of human sexuality would probably collapse if it stopped being that way. Imagine what would happen if people only started sleeping with others they found objectively attractive, the human population would nose dive faster than the dinosaurs' did after the asteroid hit.

I get turned on by women finding me attractive but extremely turned off by real life men finding me attractive. I'm definitely not a lesbian though because I do like looking at and fantasizing about attractive men, I'm only OK with them reciprocating only in the context of my own fantasy and no, I can't see myself dating or fucking a man in real life either.

>>13120
>the human population would nose dive faster than the dinosaurs' did after the asteroid hit
if that means less ugly rapist moids crawling around it would be unironically a good thing. quality > quantity

>>13090
I don't think you have a moid-like sexuality just because you don't relate to how radfems talk about sex, most of them aren't exactly sexually normal themselves. you and OP might be closer to the median woman than they are.
if I'm being honest I think what's weird about your sexuality is just that it's dialed up to a very high level, not that the principles it works on are necessarily different from anyone else. like the thing about OP is that a lot of women feel and act like that during sex, they just aren't walking around like that all the time because they aren't hypersexual and shameless like that.

all moids should be lined up and circumcised.

>>2112
>Circumcised cocks are cleaner
can't americans just wash their dicks?

men from countries where it's routine to chop off their dicks are almost always off putting. coincidence?

>>12881
i think not В-)

>fucked by a piece of dry wood.
When I was younger and had self esteem issues I tried to be open minded but now I would just kick a moid who can't get me gushing wet out of the bed anyway

>>12812
Wtf is a fap roulette? Do moids make bets and whoever wins gets to coom?
No I'm not willing to Google it

>>12828
They're games played with dice or post numbers, with each number that comes our something happens
>if dubs, necessaryspeed4 gets resurrected on lolcow

men are babies who want wawa weewee milkie mommy booby wipe my poopy cucú

>>12833
>dubs
she's literally still there btw

this reminds me of my theory as to why men are obsessed with filming sex and the constant need to capture (film/photograph) or recreate key sexual memories