Those people dont enjoy their lives trust me. My mom when she got divorced has always been like this and she has always hated herself.
Dated ugly moids just for material well being, she always admitted to me she never liked them. My dad was good looking but sadly not good enough of a provider, his personality didnt satisfy the tastes of my mom either, he was lazy in her eyes she just had kids with him because she liked the genes I guess. I always thought he was ok, he was a nice person but whatever I ain't my mother. Thankfully one learns from all of this from the mistakes of one's parents, thats why I have good reliable frienships instead.
My mom will 100% die unhappy, I'm quite sure she knows this. The trophy woman lifestyle isn't fun, it's a mask, a societal role one plays to survive with more ease. Thats all but it doesnt bring personal fulfillment, its all a means to keep going without losing your societal class (middle class, high class, etc your material conditions).