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How can I 'fix' my life? Anonymous 118867[Reply]

I don't want to work and times I feel like being productive, I still end up doing the same thing every day; being online either browsing the web or playing games.
I stay up late and have tried changing my sleep schedule, and it stills ends up being the same. I heard those already with mental illness are more prone to being online a lot, like an addiction. I don't have the money for therapy, so I just have to find the will to do basic tasks and take care of myself, but don't know how.
I know the typical answer is to just "remove yourself from your devices and put yourself in a better environment" but I don't quite understand why I can't do something as simple as that. If you've ever been stuck in this kind of lifestyle and mindset, as severe as mine is or just for a short while, please help. I need your honest advice but also serious answers.
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Anonymous 119607

>>118871
Please update I’m thirsty

Anonymous 119765

>>118871
Not ayrt but your message is inspiring thanks.’i also hate working and today I’m still notnin my routine but I don’t know what to change!! I will try doing what you suggest but then I have relapse a week later. How do I avoid relapse?)

Anonymous 119785

I did some work not enough and now I’m tired again. Why do I never get tired from being on the inter web

Anonymous 119787

>>119785
what work did you do? :)

Anonymous 119788

>>119787
Writing my thesis



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Anonymous 119772

Oke I was gonna write my heart out but I should just put it in the drafts and start on a novel or on a comic instead. Sooo sorry nona’s no fun story to laugh at my life. I’m gonna write something everytime I feel sad. I know this dumb girl that wrote a bestseller this way.

Anonymous 119773

>>119772
Is it a good idea to write my novel in the form of a fml crying terminally online shitpost? Idk. Is it?

Anonymous 119774

>>119768
I have yet to watch the handmaidens tale is it really depressing? I can’t watch depressing shit rn my life is already shitto

Anonymous 119775

>>119768
What job do you recommend for me I mean her… I’m an almost neet so can relate a bit and if begging that hard is more accessible kek then maybe she can’t work a normie job. So influencer? Artist? What job.

Anonymous 119786

>>119775
she's not a neet, she works at a call center though so you can try that. but she has called in for a month straight and somehow managed to not get fired bc of her "Disability", POTS (symptoms: Dizziness, Fainting, Fast or slow heart rate, Anxiety, Excessive sweating, Fatigue, Headaches, Chest pain, Shakiness, and Brain fog.). so she requested to work from home bc she ultimately refused to go in bc she just hated working (don't blame her but its an easy ass job) and it was approved but even her first week of working from home she's called in.
anyway tldr, call center.



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Anonymous 119780[Reply]

i literally cant maintain sexual attraction to men i am into romantically. its like a madonna whore complex for girls i h8 it so bad man. i can only love a man when i have a desire to protect him but i only feel arousal for a man when i want to ruin him :<< i only rly had sexual attraction to my most recent ex when we argued or when i was just mad at him

Anonymous 119784

>>119780
So what? Sorry to be a pickme but being repulsed by a guy is literally how women put up with scrotes. Sexually not attracted but maybe emotionally or intellectually.



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 119430

i miss the hold i had over you , the way you would listen to my every word , like a dog waiting to do tricks for a treat . i miss the tears you would shed for me , the way how i wld get under your skin so easily. i loved the turbulence and that was my problem . we couldnt have ever been in a happy stable relationship with the way my brain is wired, the wires in question being frayed and burnt.. lol. i dont regret anything. you disgust me , the both of you guys. so similar it makes my stomach turn . i can lie and say i wish the best and happiness for you both , but i dont. im pathetic in a way, i know. i never said i wasnt. i know what kind of girl i am in a oddly self aware way. i needed the two of yours love and validation. both of the relationships and love i thought was true were pure codependency . i needed so bad, for yall to need me, to never be able to live without me. i loveed the way yall hung on to my every word and pined for my attention.

to m&n, the thorns in my sides

Anonymous 119465

i didn’t die i just gained a new dark secret tonight. cool.

Anonymous 119769

your obsession with me makes me uncomfortable. i don’t want to talk to you i want to be left alone.

Anonymous 119781

All you ever did was try to cut me down to your level. You say I was your best friend but you were only nice to me when we were both miserable. I hope you are still watching, because I am going to become better than you in every way. Your jealousy will rot you from the inside out.

Anonymous 119783

>>119781
Sounds like my ex friend but I had two best friends at one point. Sooo I don’t think you are her.



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What now? Anonymous 119395[Reply]

A few months ago I was diagnosed with BPD. And more recently PTSD.

It's nice to have answers. For over a decade I thought the brain fog I felt was due to malnutrition or something, but apparently it's because of depersonalization. That's just one example of many things.

I don't know very much about BPD. Every time it comes up in conversation it's either in reference to someone's abusive ex or as an insult.

Of course I crave love and intimacy. I've never been in a relationship before. I've never even had anyone ask me out. I have a lot of very complicated, very mood-swing-ey feelings about that. I feel like I'm almost trying to find shitty things about the human race to make me hate being around people, so that it hurts less to be alone. I think it's working. Right now I'm in a state of mind where I feel fine being alone. I'd rather be alone than risk hurting the people I love.

Anonymous 119733

You can't make everyone happy

Anonymous 119782

I would say the next step would to probably go to a therapist to work on managing overwhelming emotions and thoughts. As well as addressing any issues stemming from your trauma. Just try to be open and honest with yourself and be receptive to change.

Good luck, try not to forget about the good people <3 (but still be mindful of the bad ones)



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Anonymous 118725[Reply]

No idea what to study or do with my life, I’m just working half time at fast food

I have a good head but got burned out and after going to a psych ward after graduation my mental health only declined

Would like to know what kind of job or study y’all have

What even is a good career this days??
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Anonymous 118777

>>118748
Just find a devoted moid paypig
Worked for me, no risk of cheating, he is smitten by me

Anonymous 118785

>>118777
>>118725
I really want to write smut but I don't thik I am going to be good enough. I really don't like some of the books that are out there and think I could do better but I am so embaressed about getting published and people seeing what I write in my spare time.

I wanted to go to school for biochem but i was a bad student kusogaki brat and got to stressed out.
>>118777
Checked, you hit the jackpot sis you scissoring with lady luck. Keep the moid on a short leash for me.

Anonymous 119767

>>118785
Please do write smut follow your dreams nonnita

Anonymous 119771

I work as an admin assistant. Pretty easy work with lots of downtime. I work remotely so I just read & scroll on my phone for the majority of the work day. I also like categorizing my inbox so that is also a perk.

Anonymous 119779

>>119771
Sounds like a dream, I really want a wfh job but no luck so far. I’m considering working in office or even at a supah.



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Are lesbian relationships more empathetic and loving than het ones? Anonymous 119649[Reply]

Bisexual nona here, since being pinkpilled and observing male behavior ive wondered if lesbian relationships are more kind and understanding than heterosexual ones. It seems like women(myself included) to prioritize bonding and emotional intimacy and a deep bond.
(talked to moids before never gotten to even dating just some interest ig and self inserted into f4f fanfic and have sexual/romantic feelings for other women.so i have no experience just wanted to put that out there.)

Anonymous 119776

no

Anonymous 119777

Yes

Anonymous 119778

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>>119649
lol no



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Anonymous 118981[Reply]

Why do many people who offer social skills advice act as if simply listening and asking questions is the right way to go?

A good connection happens very naturally between people making a genuine effort to understand eachother. You can't just ask questions like a job interview, otherwise it's totally one-sided and there is not really a connection. If they only talk about themselves and don't care about you, then you should just walk away.

Anonymous 119760

Agreed but idk who you’re referring to

Anonymous 119761

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I do this to try and get to know people and their social lives a little better. Mostly coworkers by asking them what they like to do on their days off.

Anonymous 119770

I kinda have an issue with that, I fail to 'connect' with someone, but my questions are so good they usually start opening up about very personal stuff with me. I've found stuff about people that they haven't said to their family or long-time friends after just talking to them for a bit.

It's a bit frustrating. At some point I get bored but I just keep asking well-placed questions and they're loving it, completely letting it all out. Like g'damn, shut up lol.



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Anonymous 118687[Reply]

besides suicide what are my options if I hate myself so much that I am unable to function. What will help. Meds have not helped.

Anonymous 118697

I’d recommend trying to better yourself to spite the others that you hate.

Anonymous 118812

>>118687
I take advice from one of my favorite feminist characters and I say "If you are going to kill yourself, at least die doing something cool."

I welcome death when it happens, just not today.

Anonymous 118813

lift weights

it'd helped me lately

Anonymous 118818

>>118813
YES I was worried deadlifts would make me mannish but I have a bubble butt and thick thighs instead. I feel powerful.

Anonymous 119766

>>118812
Which chara said that and what is a cool thing… snowboarding?



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