/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>18055
Agree with this, I hopped on the misandry train for a while but the amount of men who ID with incelism/manosphere shit isn't as big as it seems. Most normfags I talk to don't even know what the fuck I'm going on about when I've mentioned them.
Their numbers are only inflated online because they're online so much. Most men stick to social media like insta and twitter and normfag yt channels, plus many aren't super involved in social politics.
From there you could add
>but what about casually misogynistic men?!
And I'd agree, but even then I wouldn't say that's all men or an overwhelming majority. Maybe about 1/2 of men are still decent (depending on where you live, I'm a canuck so most are left-leaning and drink their respecting women juice), which isn't too bad but if you're also into women I recommend going that route instead since the chances are even better.

Overall, your best bet is just to take a lot of safety precautions and not ignore red flags.

>>18063
>does the fact I consider myself handsome outweigh all of these cons?
It does not I'm afraid.

>>18065

I laughed out loud at this post lol

>>18058
Tough guy rolling through.

>>18062
>Overall, your best bet is just to take a lot of safety precautions and not ignore red flags.
And yall wonder why you're in a tfw no bf thread

>>17997
Yeah, I am/was friends with him. I haven't seen him in over a year. Feels bad. One time he hinted that he might have wanted to have sex with me, but I'm (meme) autistic and didn't realize until later. I wouldn't have had sex with him even if he were more direct because it's just not something I would do, but I still feel like an idiot thinking about it.

>>18000
How do other women react to him? Did any Stacy ever hit on him/try to steal him?

>>18033
>How do other women react to him?
He's not like model hot or anything, but yeah sometimes I catch other girls looking at him.
>Did any Stacy ever hit on him/try to steal him?
Not really. Occasionally other girls are attracted to him, but he's kinda oblivious about these things so they don't get very far. Maybe there's stuff that happens when I'm not there, but I don't know.

>>18037
Did you deflower him?
If not, he might already be addicted to Stacy.

Never happened to any of the guys I liked, but one of my best friends is very much oblivious when it comes to the subject of girls finding him attractive. So much so that his gf (also my best friend too) has to let him know when a girl finds him attractive.

He's talked about it with me and it's pretty much because of his ex-friends driving any prospective girls away from him by telling any girls who went to them for help at approaching him that he's gay (which he isn't). His ex-friends browsed 4chan a whole lot so they were jelly that their friend has girls who liked him and decided to bring him down with them. He also had his own personal problems too, combining both kind of messed him up when it comes to knowing when a girl likes him.

What are you reading?

>happiest i've been in a long time
>get awfully sick, high fever, coughing blood etc

WHY DOES LIFE HATE ME.

>Have shit uterus that causes horrible periods
>Start taking birth control in order to combat this
>Have to stop taking birth control after a month because it made me vomit

Will be visiting my doctor about this in five days. Why the fuck is my body so awful?

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>>18028
I'm the opposite. Though it can be awkward at first, I generally do better in one on one settings. In a group settings I always feel lost and like I'm slower than everyone else, even if I can find a rhythm for a bit I always loose it and fall behind.

I have no friends and moved to a small town so now there's even less of a chance of making friends I will get along with who aren't complete normies.

The only thing I have to look forward to is that a friend from my hometown promised to pick me up for a roadtrip back home to spend Christmas and New Year's together, but I'm really afraid he won't come through and I'll end up alone in my tiny shoebox apartment on Christmas crying my eyes out like almost every year. Please don't let me down, friend.

>>17978
>you basically beat self respect into me. I will never, ever, put up with treatment like that again.

Can relate. It's a mixed kind of feel.

>>18021
Yeah, definitely.
Useful lesson to learn, I just wish I could've learnt it more quickly. And maybe with less heartbreak.

you're a jealous piece of shit and i'm glad you fucked yourself over

>>18045
Sorry I'm trying to change my ways.

Should have complained really

Today I bought a nice hot Schnitzel sandwich from a grocery store

Sooooo worth it

>>17008
> (I'm from poland)
>Fuck; _; an extreme poor person here
You can fix my toilet tomorrow if you want anon.

>>17047
Don't make fun of 3rd world countries you privileged westener

>>17031
can you recommend some polish movies from that time?

>>17018
>kurwa street
>katyn street
lol I cant stop fucking laughing at this

I used to be horribly afraid of aging. Lifestyle and diet can only do so much, and I started getting grey hairs when I was about 23. My mom started getting them at that age, too, apparently it's genetic.
Oddly enough, nowadays I'm looking forward to getting older. I don't mind the wrinkles. In fact, when I see someone who has laugh lines, I kind of envy them because that's the hallmark of a life well lived–you've spent so much of it smiling that it's made a permanent indentation on your face. & I get excited when I think about the day that I'll be some weird old kook with seven cats, living by myself and terrifying the neighborhood's children every Halloween. I've met enough cool older people that I know that you don't lose your moxie as you get older.
at the moment, i'm probably cute enough that i could score a husband but i'm not really interested in any of the guys that i know. if it comes along, now or in a few decades, it'll be a pleasant surprise, but why search for a soulmate if you feel complete as a single person/hermit?

>>2406
Ot asf but this post and the Victorian thing one would make great banners. Fuck it gets me every time I scroll down /feels/, especially because of this gif being bumped every now and then

I'm OP and still struggling with this a year later. Time is ticking away and I'm constantly comparing myself to older and younger women. Can I still get away with my style? Can I act the way I do? If I was 10 years younger, I'd be really awesome right now. But at my current age, it's just pathetic. I'm obsessed with cute women my age because they give me hope that I don't have to be a spinster just yet, but time keeps passing and I just get older and there's nothing I can do.

>>18040
Anon, you're in your late 20's. How is that old? Wake up!!

>>18044
It's old if you've been treated like a MPDG all your life and you're aging out of the stereotype that used to be force-fed to you as your only source of validation. Being a quirky, nerdy, awkward girl stops being cute when you're 30.

When I was 8 or so my dad picked me up from school with his motorcycle. I remember feeling really cool and liked the feeling of the wind as we rode back. My dad is normally a distant person so I liked being able to hug his back on the motorcycle too.

one weekend my dad put simon and garfunkel on in the living room, and me and my sister started dancing wildly - you know, like a child dances - while dad sat on the couch and smiled

>>18025
I feel sick looking through that blog. Do these people realize this is not normal? Don't they see they're only making it worse by spreading those photos?

>>18029
I’d be really outcast in my community if I were to do that. I’d probably be basically disowned so I’d have to move with him in Hungary where I know nothing and nobody and he doesn’t have very much money.

>>18035
The thinspo I post is more on the healthy side, it’s not like bonespo or anything. I don’t see this as hurting anyone because you can’t really find my blog unless you actively search for thinspo, and I’m not posting anything you wouldn’t see on Instagram or a magazine…

>>18036
What's your community?

>>18038
I cannot tell you. Anyways it simply wouldn’t be a wise idea. Because we have different faiths, our lifestyles would be in conflict all the time, and that would make for unhappy home life. It’s simply unwise

>>18019
Oh, I thought you lived in Europe lol.
Anyways, if you know you can't have anything irl with him, why not try improve yourself in the mean time? Not only physically, I mean emotionally and mentally too. And then (after a while) start dating again? Because rn you're too much of a mess and definitely not someone who should have kids atm. If you got therapy and just solely worked on yourself I bet you'll attract someone.
On another note, that model is Jazzma Kendrick. I used to follow her for a while and she works out like crazy. Restricting <1000 will not help at all. It just isn't enough to maintain the muscle mass gained from the workouts.
https://www.instagram.com/p/BkD4S2LBJO7/
As you can see she didn't lose weight, she gained.