>>70161
Wish there was just a standalone relationship board too. There are too many kinds of relationships and relationship issues to stick in thread. I think it would be nice if people just made individual posts of their own so they could get proper attention and feedback for their question or problem. Threads just instantly bury whatever important thing a person has to say.

>>70006
This. Keep them at a minimum and only introduce them when something very specific gets posted very often.

>>71239
honestly I'd rather not. those threads are always very boring and we all know an entire relationship board would draw in moids by the 1000s.

>>88248
Same. Telling a complete stranger a bunch of personal info is difficult. I dont even tell my friends shit lol. especially when you know at the end of the day, even if they're a nice person, they wouldn't be listening to you if they weren't getting a paycheck. its hard to feel like they actually care

>>88251
Therapy isn’t about your therapist caring. They’re there to listen and give feedback and help you deconstruct everything on your mind step by step. Like if your mind is clouded with a million things, therapy is helpful since they act like a third party to your thoughts. Now the problem with most therapists is that they dont even do that. For example, mine would just wanna hurry up the time just to give me some generic advice because she doesn’t understand, Thats where the issue is. At least for me personally

you don't need a purpose anon

just do things you enjoy

don't overthink it

>>88258
yeah youre not wrong
theres a lot of stuff I love to do. im glad Im around to do it.

My program forced me to meet with a therapist for a few weeks and not only was it a waste of time, but I had to see her pretty face next to mine on Zoom and be reminded why everyone has always hated me. Also she was trying to dig up traumatic experiences and it made me remember the things I took years to forget about and it sent me on a downward spiral for months afterward.

>>88350
Jesus christ anon just ask to be God at that point fuck

>>88353
But that did happen to us two…

The cute otter(?) you posted makes me feel pretty good

>>88255
Uhh.

>>88317
her teacher is a girl, this obvious sign of grooming should be ignored for some reason.

Tonight I was taking a walk: there was a nice light drizzle, pleasant street lights, golden fallen leaves, little to no people around, I was dressed perfectly comfortable for the weather, I was listening to music and drinking strawberry milk, so that’s a nice evening

>>88345
So you fell in love with a man that has all the worst possible traits of a woman who was coddled by her parents? Wtf is going on today?

>>88345
How do I get a bf like this?

>>88351
I used to feel like this too, I wanted a clingy boyfriend but actually dating one is annoying. I'm literally hiding in the bathroom so I can post to CC without him looking over my shoulder. I'm scared of being alone myself but this is too much. Anytime I wanna draw, listen to music, go on sites like this, watch TV, wear what I want I can't.

>>88351
Date a tranny, is my joke answer.
My real answer is emotionally sensitive men, sometimes with cold mothers othertimes less clingy than the post describes but more healthy.
Find them in your bargain section at your local gamestop kek.

>>88354
Yeah thats when it becomes controlling and not cute anon, a cute clingy boy would let you have your space and whimper like a puppy until you came back.

>>88339
It isn't, the snake is regurgitating itself, not eating itself btw.
I wish I was a sociopath, life would be so much easier kek

>>88339
No that is exactly what it's like. Growing up that's all I ever saw too. Aside from my best friends who didn't suck? Most people are completely shitty. You're not wrong.

I hate earbuds that go inside your ears. I can hear my breathing noises. But they're the only ones that have noise cancellation so I need them. I wish they could put noise cancelling on the flat airpod style of earbud.

I have extreme mommy issues. I'll never find a man who cares about me the way my mother does. Woman can sense my moods, will literally hound me if she so much as suspects I'm becoming depressed. Will always think of me before thinking of herself.
This is not normal. This is not healthy. I am not healthy. I need to be far away. I love her to death. I know I'll pay it all back in time (when the hereditary dementia eventually claims her and I'll have to look after her). But this is not healthy. I need to go away some place far away. I love her but I need to cut the cord. Things can't go on like this. our very persons are blending into each other at this point. I will never have a human connection like the way i have with her. I will never depend on another human as easily as I depend on her. But this needs to stop. I need to be an adult.
It's a good thing that I know I'm a sexual person, because I'm definetly aromantic.

>>88346
How the fuck does a cis woman develop a sissy fetish?

>>88326
Been in love with a dude 5 years ago. He was abusive though. Idk about you anon. I understand the missing part though cuz I do miss the "idealised" version of him. But this version is fake so in the end I'm glad it's all over.

Got sad last night because the guy I think is cute is just. He doesn’t ignore me and he isn’t out right mean. But he’s aloof. It’s making me feel terrible about myself. So last night I decided to ask my previous crush how he was anddd tell him I missed him. Ha ha anyways he said he missed me too. I know he was just being nice but it was still nice to hear.

It seems like every man i’m interested wants to trigger my abandonment issues hard

>>84469
s I'm so tired of my boyfriend not helping out around the house. He's claimed it's because our standards of cleanliness are different and his ADHD makes it hard for him to remember things but I'm really starting to think it's just weaponized incompetence. I'm so tired of having to clean the stovetop weekly, when I cook I never get anything anywhere and if I do I clean it up right after. He's never vacuumed once while living together. I have to ask him to put the dishes away or he'll watch them pile up. He's constantly splashing coffee or crumbs everywhere and it's starting to become too much. I pay less rent because I clean more as per our agreement but it's so tiring picking up after him all the time. He won't even put his laundry (that I do) away so I just have to watch it pile up in a hamper because I draw the line at folding it all for him

>>88313
>I'm really starting to think it's just weaponized incompetence
it is, sorry but ADHD doesn't make it so you cant clean up after yourself. thats not an excuse
sorry youre dealing with that. he probably holds the rent thing over your head, like men tend to do. I feel like a lot of men dont understand that its not just "helping you" around the house. its actually stuff that needs to be done and you are doing valuable labor by doing it.

>>88313
You shouldn't pay less, that's literally an excuse for him not to do it. Don't do his laundry either.

I already posted this in that /media/ thread but I'll say it again:

Idk I don’t know who I am

>>88262
LITERALLY ME

>>88252
jeongmin from dreaming freedom!

identity issues?
constant mask you eventually give up on?
secret degen?
repressed homosexual?
you might be mari yoshizaki!