/hb/ - Health & Beauty

They left out his TMH era. He was so hot. Anyway I don't mind buzz cuts or short hair, but I really adore long hair.

>>20623
Love it but I also have mixed feelings cause I can't have my own hair be as pretty ffs

This new kind of mullet.

>>20677
thanks so much for reading and the constructive reply. i will look back on this post as reference when i start going to the gym again.

i always have heard people, mainly moids say that "if you're not going to the gym at least 3x a week you won't get any improvement" or something. but i've never really listened to any actual personalized trainers or people with similar experience. you made me realize improvement is definitely more nuanced and dependent on the individual. generalized overrepeated tiktok brainrot advice will probably have major flaws.

being patient is probably my #1 important thing to work on, also thanks for covering diet and outlining the goals, actually helpful.

good luck with your training nona ᕦ(ò_ó)ᕤ

>>20678
Is pic male or female?

>>20679
female, rin hoshizora

>>20682
I'm disappointed.

>first and foremost, i find it extremely discouraging because of how much more easily men build muscle.

i see you have chosen to compare yourself to others. this is absolute poison and it will ruin any attempt at improving your situation. don't dwell on what you believe is other people having it easy, this will only cripple you. if you have to, try to satisfy your negative habit of comparison with how many reps or minutes YOU did last time.

>i wasn't noticing any benefits to strength training;

i think strength training is stupid in general. if you lift heavy stuff often or pull a plow on the field by hand, you get stronger naturally. strength tries to keep up with how much you demand of yourself in your life.

>everyday objects weren't noticeably easier to move/carry and i was unhappier with myself than before. at that point i felt like the psychic damage and time investment of 3-4 days/week wasn't worth it.

3-4 days/week? that's quite a lot for someone who has not built the habit. way too much. try once a week and ease into it over the time.

>some days i could run farther without stopping but that's about it. it gave me the impression that as a small woman, i'm simply not made to get stronger or build muscle. which makes me feel pretty sad and inferior.

don't feel inferior, this is psychology from the conveyorbelt designed to turn you into a mindless peon, don't agree with it by practicing destructive modes of relation like competition. you are you whether you like it or not so make the best of it. you can absolutely get stronger and more physically able and it is worth it.
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>>20829
Cool

I like cateye frame glasses

What shape would you recommend for a roundish/squareish face?

>>20837
Thank you.

>posts AI slop
you deserve heavy hair

Moisturize, moisturize, moisturize. The longer the curls are the harder the it is for the tips to stay healthy. This is why traditionally most cultures with curly hair have protective braiding styles, but we live in the age of fancy shampoo and abundance so we can take advantage of that!
I've noticed most shampoos are too stripping for me so my current shampoo is actually a cleansing conditioner by Aunt Jackie's. To me that made the biggest difference and a massive one at that. Now I don't really notice much of a difference between using a regular conditioner or a heavy duty one so I think the worst thing I was doing to my curls was stripping the hair of too many oils with my shampoo so the conditioner had to work double time against the damage and barely contained it. Once a week I'll use a conditioning mask in the shower but mostly just use normal conditioner that I leave in while I wash my body. When I get out of the shower I gently towel dry and use some sort of sealing cream. I don't like the idea of product buildup (especially now that I'm using a cleansing conditioner instead of regular shampoo) so the stuff I'm currently using is basically just emulsified oils as I'm trying to avoid silicone or anything else that would build up over time. Then I let air dry and my curls are actually really happy and bouncy!
If I skip or forget to put in a sealing cream while my hair is wet my hair will be a bit frizzy but not bad so I really must stress finding a non stripping shampoo or cheating by using a cleansing conditioner personally. I originally bought after shower hair creams first and found myself using a lot but when I swapped shampoos I barely needed any and found my hair looked better too. On top of that, get a good wide tooth comb and comb daily to move the oils from the top of your scalp down to the tips. I used to avoid brushing but that was when I had a shit brush, now I notice my hair and scalp are so much healthier now that I'm combing through it. Good luck with the hair journey! My go to brand is Aunt Jackie's cause it's cheaper than the other stuff I've tried and it works miles better than this 70$ Kevin Murphy cleansing shampoo/conditioner combo I wasted money on one year. I don't have Afro hair, but the products still work amazing. I just don't go for the sealing cream for the super tight curly hair and it doesn't overdo it so long as I don't use too much

Hysterectomy also increases dementia risk.

>>20710
What doesn't?

They say keeping mentally active helps prevents dementia. I don't know how the disease works but I feel like it usually comes to people who've already mentally clocked out.

I was trying to make an appointment to get my tubes tied but then Trump won and now I can get a hold of my gyno.

>>20710
Dementia increase sterilization risk.

>>20712
Well shit I’m neet and let my brain rot on vidya all day
Time to learn piano songs and teach myself a new language methinks

i have some advice. worry about more important things then how you look and when the sun is out, do something so that your skin can soak the sun up, it is very healthy. you have to know the sun where you live. where i live, i just avoid the sun when it is hottest from 10am to 2pm during the hot part of the year and otherwise i don't need any sun protection and can stay in the sun as much as i like.

I’ve been pale maxxing, I went all in on skincare and decided to give up most makeup. I like the minimal holo look so I pick glossy products without or almost no color, I use highlighter that has subtle shimmer. People have complained I need to choose saturated colors and actual eyeliner/mascara to correct my appearance but I prefer looking like an aylmao.

>>20714
wear dark clothes for contrast in fall and winter and bright colorful clothes in sprint and summer
eat more vitamin a from cod liver or any type of liver, eggyolks, etc
this will give you good glow

>>20811
Bring goth and emo back.

Most women are naturally beautiful in their own way. It’s not a competition.

>>20806
>>20806
>>20806
that's some crazy cope

>>20810
Is it cope? I don't think I have ever seen an ugly woman unless she is obese/a drug addict/alcoholic but those are by choice

Men however are almost always ugly balding fucks after they turn 30

>>20813
>Is it cope? I don't think I have ever seen an ugly woman unless she is obese/a drug addict/alcoholic but those are by choice

good on you for understanding this, most people are still in the dark about how deeply their choices and habits effect them. they spend their whole life smoking, drinking alcohol, eating sickening food and not exercising, meanwhile they go around telling everybody what an unlucky hand they were dealt in life with all their ugliness and frequent health complications, never once questioning themselves. addiction to irresponsibility.

>Men however are almost always ugly balding fucks after they turn 30
same problem, foolish and unnecessary choices. you have to see a few good specimen making good choices to understand how much the years of making bad, shortsighted choices ruin a person.

even more befuddling to the average fool is the guilt of being a problem in this world instead of a solution and how that affects the body and the mind of a person. given enough life experience you will find that there are jobs where all the people who do that job become sick and ugly and die early while suffering depression and all the other easily preventable idiocy.

>>20817
>If depression was easily preventable, this site wouldn't exist

i understand many people are depressed, however this is horseshit. depression is not the only reason to like imageboards and i would very much hope they would still exist.

>broadly speaking. Depression isn't easy to get out from once one is in it.

to a difficult irresponsible person, everything is complicated and nothing is easy. you can find people to whom cracking an egg is hard, however once you know how to open the egg, they will agree that it is easy and always has been easy and that they were merely inexperienced.

>Not everyone can afford fixing their life
there is a lot people can't afford if throwing money at problems (or more broadly speaking: conventional, unreachable solutions) is the only solution that is being considered. i am still waiting on a single example of any of you believers of the unaffordability that i can not easily poke a hole in. this is nothing but pessimism and nihilism in denial.

>if for no other reason than lack of cognizance and perspective that would allow them to do so.
and who chooses your perspective?

>>19482
mine are exactly like that like even down to the weird shape so it only ever looks okayish when its cold. having badly shaped tits are way worse than having super small ones that have a good shape. i think a boob job is my only option :(

>>3427

>How has having small breasts affected your body image and confidence?
>If you have been berated for having small breasts, how have you coped?
I hung around a lot of online spaces when I was 12-14 YO (male dominated spaces since the internet in general is male dominated). Can't believe my self-esteem got so low that I used to joke with them about being "flat". When I was 17 an ex-bf told me I was unattractive because I didn't fit into Eurocentric beauty standards which I suspect is partially due to my small breasts (I'm Asian). I coped by developing a hatred of men kekw.

I miss having small breasts so much. Back when I was in high school I was 5'9 and weighed 129 pounds and was a B cup at most. Now it's 10 years later I'm 226 and my breasts are fucKing huge. I can't find bras that fit me at Walmart or any of the normal stores and even when special stores have them they are expensive and few and far between. I hate that can't do jumping jacks, I hate that I can't really wear sports bras (I'm autistic and it gives me sensory issues). I remember an ex of mine brought up how small they were in a text telling me off after I broke up with him. It really didn't affect my that much because I liked the way they looked. I guess the only thing that ever really hurt my self-confidence is when people would mistake me for a guy, but at the time I associated that with me just being an ugly girl. In hindsight, it probably had something to do with it. It doesn't matter to me now, I would do anything to go back to my old body. [spoiler]I just wish I could stop overeating. I have like no self-control.Or stop eating for a while in general[spoiler] I guess I like that guys like my breasts and they can be kinda cute in some outfits. I would kill to have small breasts again though.

>>20688
I miss having small breasts so much. Back when I was in high school I was 5'9 and weighed 129 pounds and was a B cup at most. Now it's 10 years later I'm 226 and my breasts are fucKing huge. I can't find bras that fit me at Walmart or any of the normal stores and even when special stores have them they are expensive and few and far between. I hate that can't do jumping jacks, I hate that I can't really wear sports bras (I'm autistic and it gives me sensory issues). I remember an ex of mine brought up how small they were in a text telling me off after I broke up with him. It really didn't affect my that much because I liked the way they looked. I guess the only thing that ever really hurt my self-confidence is when people would mistake me for a guy, but at the time I associated that with me just being an ugly girl. In hindsight, it probably had something to do with it. It doesn't matter to me now, I would do anything to go back to my old body. I just wish I could stop overeating. I have like no self-control.Or stop eating for a while in general I guess I like that guys like my breasts and they can be kinda cute in some outfits. I would kill to have small breasts again though. Please delete the above post the spoiler text didn't work right

>>20689

>I would do anything to go back to my old body

first thing to lose weight is to continue to hold the thought that it is possible.

i mean that literally.

you hold the thought in your head. you give the thought the stage, your attention. you say to yourself that it is possible, read it to yourself in your head, your attention is currency. there are other things claiming to be the currency, having people all over the world call it the currency and these things come up when you search for currency but they are not the currency. whole world is wrong. your attention is.

so you bathe the thought of the possibility with currency. let your attention rain on the thought, hold it in your brain. i have done this to cultivate other habits.

i held the thought of the thing i wanted to change in my head the first day and once i got antsy and wanted to grab my phone and doomscroll some mindless feed, i said "no, just a few more seconds" and i did not grab the phone and kept thinking about the thing.

first day i thought about it maybe 30 seconds. then over night it grew. second day i thought about it a few times, a minute each. third day i thought about it even more and by the fourth day my attention had generated so much energy that i could no longer sit still and be in denial about it. I CAN EASILY DO THIS LITTLE THING THAT BRINGS ME CLOSER… and the gears started to turn, like holding magnifying glass under sunlight just the right way, my focus on the thing made my energy start to burn.
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>>20702
based makeup wearing women are uncle toms and perpetuate misogyny

>>20716
See, this take I get. But I don't get the other poster's puritanical moid rage rant.

>>20799
>See, this take I get. But I don't get the other poster's puritanical moid rage rant.

it is too deep for you.

imagine you went the other way in life and instead of chasing wealth and approval you would have chased the thing that wealth and approval demand you to sacrifice. what if you did not abort your soul and your integrity and instead nourished it and see it grow, wouldn't you have liked to know what kind of person you would have become if you stopped playing dumb and dared to step off the conveyor belt? this is the thought i imagine inauthentic people are tortured by. what if you would have decided to be stronger then the popular demand and became what you were meant to be, following your interests and intuition instead of your disgraceful leaders.

>>20804
But I'm a poor. I'm not chasing wealth at all.

>>20808
But I'm a poor. I'm not chasing wealth at all.

then you sacrificed your soul for nothing