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Anonymous 127891[Reply]

My brother is always baking and shit and making a mess, yet the hag that pushed me out of her vagina always hovers around and babies him and tries to help. Whenever I go in the kitchen, she glares at me like I'm encroaching upon her territory or something. She nags the fuck out of me and talks out loud to 'herself' but I can hear her from another room. She calls me vile things all because I'm making some fucking pancakes and not even making a mess because I'm not a retarded moid like my worthless fag brother. Boymoms are utter filth. FUCK YOU YOU FUCKING WHORE WHY DON'T YOU GO SUCK THE FAGGOTS COCK AT THIS POINT YOURE CLEARLY IN LOVE WITH HIM YOU BITCHASS MOTHERFDUCKING WHOOOOOORE. I WANT TO KILL HER WITH MY BARE HANDS STUPID FUCKING EVIL VILE CUNT BITCHJ

Anonymous 127906

>>127891
Kinda hot tbh

Anonymous 127917

my mother/family was like this then i was roommates with an older woman who was a boy mom and acted like this towards me

Anonymous 127924

>>127906
She's not hot, she's a fucking sow

Anonymous 127925

>>127917
Damn anon, you had it worse than I do then. Hope you're far away from them now. Those types of women are worthless cunts that need to be wiped off the face of the earth



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 127915

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My sibling is a 25-year-old former NEET who keeps wasting my parents’ money by repeatedly enrolling in community college courses and dropping out after the first one or two weeks. The courses themselves are uninspiring, things like medical lab technology, compared to other trades the school offers. At one point, my parents paid several hundred dollars for an English composition course that can be tested out of for about $70 and had roughly an 80 percent pass rate the last time I checked. I told both him and my parents this multiple times, and they did not care. They were fine paying $500 anyway. He is perfectly capable of writing and is actually good at it.

For years while unemployed, he has also insisted that he is going to start a business, ranging from an MMA club to an expensive manufacturing business. At one point, my mother suggested buying him vending machines, and he said he would not help because he did not feel like restocking them or collecting the money.

Over the past year, my mother arranged for him to be hired at her workplace to work on a piece of equipment that is clearly on its way out. My family insists this is a high-paying trade, yet whenever I look for jobs involving that equipment, the pay is typically under $20 an hour and there are very few listings. I have shown them this repeatedly and still cannot get a clear explanation for why they believe it is such a lucrative and in-demand skill. As far as I can tell, it is only in demand at my mother’s workplace because they never upgraded and are still using obsolete machinery. Everywhere else has already moved on. I have tried to understand this in good faith, assuming there might be something I was missing, but the only explanation I ever get is, “We pay someone $70k to do it,” referring to a worker who has been there for over a decade and is skilled at everything in the warehouse.

Over the years I have tried many times to reason with him and my family about all of this, but they seem committed to being wrong. To make it worse, my parents treated me very differently growing up. Recently, I’ve gone fully no-contact with them because of their abuse. They verbally abused me every single day, seriously neglected (criminal-level including pulling me out of school and not teaching me anything), a few times even physically battering for not being perfect, while they coddled him. They even said this girl who works 3 jobs (accounting assistant, sports coach, and owns aPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

Anonymous 127920

>>127915
I'm so sorry, even with all girls siblings my parents are still misogynistic brainlets who do similar things to this, especially the abuse stuff.
I'm proud that you have gone no contact, I want to do that too. We will be okay sister.

Anonymous 127921

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I want to run away from home with my bf but I am too unorganised and don't know what I need. I miss my dead relative and my family are so abusive that I have no time to heal. I am running out of time. I am a good person, no matter what happened I always wanted good things, I wasn't weak. I am so weak after this death now. I am so so weak. I can't stay though, I will just wilt.

Anonymous 127922

thank you for making my christmas even lonelier and more miserable than it already was.

Anonymous 127923

I'm trying to internalize that you can't argue with someone who's willfully delusional online. The only outcome is that if you're very obviously right and the other person's wrong, other people will pile on and also call them delusional and retarded, and while that may feel just at the time, all you've done is derail the thread and make it a slog for the uninvolved to sift through. The person you're arguing with probably enjoys all the attention too.



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Opinions and advice about Poly relationships Anonymous 127903[Reply]

Any thoughts and opinions about Poly relationships?

I'm in one myself and it's mostly just connections if that makes sense. I have no interest in being sexual with any of my partners and so far they all respect that. Haven't met anyone opposed to how things are, but I also haven't been looking too hard either. Anyways I'm open to discussing this with the rest of you <3
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Anonymous 127912

>>127904

Theres tons we could've discussed if you were more receptive to the idea. My standards were low but your response seems to lack imagination and a willingness to express yourself beyond indifference. It is what it is.


>>127910

Yanno, I thought so too but like….. friends dont hold hands or kiss or go on dates. Its…. something else. Like a limbo of intimacy without the need to go beyond the bedpost. Following this train of thought, there are some degenerates who believe you can still fuck and still be friends; while i dont believe that train of thought i also never thought id be open to trying polyamory. Its been interesting so far.

Anonymous 127913

Schizo thread.

Anonymous 127914

you just need genuine friendships.
Don't fall for degenerate dynamics

Anonymous 127918

>>127912
Wow, how strange of you to assume all this! Sorry, I'm not gonna give you your validation. Nobody cares whether youre straight in a monogamous or queer in a polyamorous relationship. Get a life.

Furthermore, you provided 0 information about this relationship besides it being polyamorous, so it's not like theres much to ask about anyway.

Anonymous 127919

>>127903
I mean if they have money maybe it's okay..
Really what you should have is a roster and not need to commit to them or just get friends. Your body is valuable, don't give it away for free.



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Anonymous 127870[Reply]

What does a healthy and good relationship with genuine love look like to you?
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Anonymous 127876

the woman has to be protective of herself and looking out for her own best interests. all men want is sex. if they expect a child, they prove they are a provider or it’s the next in line. it is that simply. if you can’t court me and show you can care for me without ulterior motives and resentment at the beginning of the relationship, you are not someone who can be trusted when finances are combined and my child and i will die when i am too pregnant and too injured afterwards to care for myself alone. it’s literal survival. if he doesn’t court you, just keep telling the next ones what he was like and that’s not how it works for you. they’ll eventually start stepping up. if they think you will tolerate being treated as low quality that’s how they will view you.

Anonymous 127877

>>127876
>and i will die when i am too pregnant
Everyone knows to get pregnant only a little bit, some take it too far, but it's something we as society must learn to deal with, if we are to keep this traditional pastime.

Anonymous 127896

>>127870
Lately I'm convinced a relationship with a moid is nearly impossible. I say nearly because I don't want to go too extreme but honestly I think pretty much impossible.
So a healthy and good relationship with genuine love firstly starts between two women. Furthermore I can't say anything universal, as it always depends between people, but good communication is a MUST and I think similar views too. And obviously respect for eachother.

Anonymous 127901

>>127870
romantic love isn’t real in general. especially not between a man and a woman. no man is capable of loving anyone but himself

Anonymous 127905

>>127898
First of all, I'm only speaking about women since this is forum is meant for girls/women. And I can't really say much for moids but I'd assume a good relationship for them would start with moid+moid as well.
Again: I said 'starts'. If you weren't such a retard without reading comprehension skills you might've understood that. I'm not saying its an end all be all.



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Anonymous 127849[Reply]

I feel like every feels thread is about boyfriend issues… You all need to grow a backbone and just leave them I don’t understand why that’s so hard. Moids will never be worth all the headache you put yourselves through!

Anonymous 127851

I post a lot in the vent thread and not a single post was about moids I think. at least not about bf issues tbh

Anonymous 127852

well i asked sanic if i should break it off and he said yes so i’m going to

Anonymous 127857

>>127851
Not specifically the vent thread just threads on the feels board in general

Anonymous 127897

PREACH because why are these women letting themselves be dragged down by moids of all creatures



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if you wrote this yesterday Anonymous 127860[Reply]

call me and tell that. send flowers to my moms, my cars in the shop but i’ll be there for christmas eve and christmas. knock on the stupid door. please stop leaving messages that hurt my heart because i can’t confirm they are really you. we are real people in the real world. this is driving me into psychosis. it is making me schizophrenic and crazy. enough with the random websites and throwaway accounts. apologize to me so we can have a good year. i don’t know how or what you have planned to make it right but please just do it because this is like being taunted.

Anonymous 127886

can you make it right now

Anonymous 127895

>>127860
Nona, with love I tell you you sound mentally deranged and delusional. I recognize because i've been there too. Stop wasting your time on a moid who cannot commit to you. You look crazy posting on this femcel website about some note from unsentproject you can't even confirm is sent from this person but you cling on to this hope because it makes you feel worthy. Stop obsessively checking websites and accounts hoping he sent something. Genuinely what do you think this will accomplish. Either reach out to him directly and end the vagueness or move on. Give yourself closure. And sometimes hearing nothing is closure enough. Obviously he's had his chances before and now times up. Stop giving yourself so easy jeez



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Anonymous 127882[Reply]

Anyone else not enjoy "normal things" and try to look for more meaningful and heavy hitting things?

>No alcohol or drinking

>No drugs, no smoking, no vapes
>No masturbating or vibrators
>No night clubs
>No shopping addiction
>No social media and sharing stories that nobody cares about anyway
>No desire for a boyfriend that won't support or be there for you when you need it anyway
>No desire for friends that only want to complain to you

Having independence and peace is good, too.
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Anonymous 127888

what have you won by rejecting these things? what new paths opened for you?

Anonymous 127889

>>127888
inner peace it sounds like

Anonymous 127890

>>127889
well sure mate but how is yous all spending your time

Anonymous 127892

>>127882
There is a term for that: anhedonia
It is often present in patents with depression and schizophrenia, but can also manifest by itself.

Anonymous 127894

>>127882
Lately i've been on a similar journey with a friend of mine. I'm not sure if it's the same, because i do experience a certain contentness with ie smoking a cigarette, but I'm not sure if it categorizes as pleasure. But for me it's because I overanalyze things and recognize how they don't truly give me pleasure/happiness, which is why i've stopped finding reasons to bring up any energy for them.

The only friend I do enjoy is the one that has similar views as me and we talk to each other and it always feels very enlightning. Furthermore I only engage in behaviors that actually stimulate the soul, reading meaningful books for example.

My ultimate goal is also independence and peace. I ideally would like to ghost everyone I know.



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he texted me and i feel bad about it lol Anonymous 127817[Reply]

a couple months ago i posted about the guy i like getting engaged to her long term gf and that i felt bad about it because in my perception he is(was?) a good guy.

but a couple days ago he texted me, we didn’t spoke to each other since he got with his gf btw, we kind of updated each other about our lives until the topic about partners showed up because he asked. i didn’t want to go there but he did.

i told him i’m single and that past certain age is difficult to meet people in an organic way, then he told me he didn’t find difficult to me to find someone because he used to like me lol

he then went about a lot of details about situations that we lived when we were younger, about how he always found me pretty and with a nice personality but he didn’t thought he was my type at all.

he remarked that all those feelings were in the past, but that he felt better letting me know because he had seen me improve in general and was proud about it.

idk why i feel bad about the whole situation, like i had taken part in a conversation that shouldn’t have happened because if i was his gf i would feel horrible if i find out the guy i’m engaged to reached out to his past crush of years ago just to tell her that. idk i just needed to put this somewhere
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Anonymous 127855

he was making his night before the wedding calls. he got cold feet and wants to monkey branch to you.

Anonymous 127856

>>127846
exactly this i don’t know how anyone could think this was innocent or platonic. you should send his gf the screenshots and say you think he’s doing that cold feet right before you walk the aisle thing and for her to run. any man that does this is just going to end up cheating and leaving anyways. save her before she’s legally trapped or pregnant.

Anonymous 127868

>>127825
first post best fpbp

Anonymous 127879

okay so after days of processing the conversation i do see how he’s trying to keep me around in case it doesn’t work with his gf, which sucks, either way, im absolutely not telling his gf about it, im not getting shit in my hands, and ik that’s not very women supporting women on my behalf, but i don’t have the guts. i’m just gonna unfollow him and remove him from my followers

Anonymous 127887

>>127879
Yea if he wants to close the door, close it!



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Anonymous 127778[Reply]

Why am I feeling like I am never good enough?

I feel like I have to be more fun, more entertaining, more spontaneous, more unexpected and having new material or else he might stop talking to me and find someone else.
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Anonymous 127861

>>127854
Not her but I think we are starting to see an inversion of gender roles. I expect to see feelings like hers to become more commonplace.

Anonymous 127862

>>127861
never been exactly gendered or rare to begin with

Anonymous 127863

>>127778
Oh hey, are you me from 2 years ago? Going to therapy really helped me to make a big mindset shift in that regard

Anonymous 127873

>>127861
This is a very real part of the female experience and has been forever. I think it’s really strange you’re pretending it isn’t

Anonymous 127878

>>127873
I was referring more to the part where she is wasting her time trying to entertain for uninterested moid's attention.



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