this is why I don't expect friends with randos from imageboards. at most expecting a one time chat is reasonable I think.

as for being interesting, you're supposed to learn that from experience anyways.

don't expect to become friends right off the bat*

>>126888
its just exhausting introducing myself over and over and i barely get any reciprocation. maybe they are dull and boring like me.

>>126896
you're not supposed to be doing that tbh unless they're interested, you're supposed to make them feel emotional things first and foremost. which is hard to explain cause you need to experience it to get it

This image makes me so sad ik it's probably AI but it makes me so unreasonably sad

>>125947
why are you so angry
>>125948
he brought it upon himself sadly

>>125948
Why
because he's sticky?

idc what music he's listening to, I care if he actually tries to change his behavior. for all I know he's histrionic or something

but seeing congruent behavior is generally not bad

>>126890
hes avoidant and hides his true feelings. i think his relationship to wanting attention is complicated, i think it’s more about seeking validation than attention.

i expected love songs about his new gf and the most romantic thing was “where ever we are now” which is less passion and soulmates than accepting you’re lost in life but you’ve found a stranger to cling to to be lost together with. i expected songs about crazy exes. i expected songs about how he’s a badass or a cowboy or a sailor. there ARE a lot of astronaut songs.

i didn’t expect song after song of “i was out of my mind for hurting you” “took him too long to realize he was wrong” “take me back before the night i touched you with tears in your eyes so i can undo it” “a guilty soul and worried mind can’t survive without someone else even though he doesn’t deserve it” “i’m literally evil and will be your downfall” “song about going through a trip and experiencing ego death and being sorry for any damage he’s done before being sent back into the cycle” “song about accepting he deserves where he is because of what he has done”

just the absolute complete opposite of what he expressed to me years ago about not being sorry me twisting the truth to make him sound worse than he was and me being a terrible woman for confronting him about what he did. the only song about a terrible woman with mean words is fucking cherry wine by hozier of all songs which was kind of a stab to the gut. like oh. you don’t think i’m crazy. you think you deserved it and the blood i made you bleed is fine like cherry wine. got it.

i don’t want to just start posting lyrics or details but this is the exact opposite to what i expected his mental state to be to the point i feel like someone dumped a bucket of cold water on his head. he was the most energetic person i’ve ever met and there’s a lot about substance abuse and not being able to get out of bed and already being gone.

he used to brag about not caring what he did.

>>126892
yeah it probably does reflect on his inner state, although regretting what he did doesn't necessarily mean he's still good for you. he may be! but you ultimately need someone who is able to treat you well, not just feel remorse towards you.

Fer me it's shoes, you can tell a lot about people by the type of shoes they are wearing.

>>126884
i don't have the cold heart needed to disable recently viewed photos in settings and just hope he doesn't notice

>>126870
Where do I look for posts made by disabled moids?

>>126871
4chan

>>126871
idk incel forums or something but what’s so good about this man he sounds like he’s just dumping emotional baggage and drama onto you

>>126880
Mostly his looks. Not many straight men in their 20s who look like twinks

>>126880
a bit of an insane take
no matter the gender anyone as a cripple would still have normal social needs. existing without a working hand != trauma dumping

my entire body feels different.

i wonder how many times we’ve both listened to the night we met and wished we’d never met each other.

it’s all just very different than how i thought you felt.

i think we should talk.

>>126838
Uh is this man posting here, on this website?

>>125610
Where is it?

Your post reminded me of myself (in a good way!). If you want a drinking friend or to chat with another person who has experience in this field, feel free to add me on discord: archer054

I relate to this post. High and and ugly shut in femcel

>>125613
in /b/

do heroin

>>126821
this feels like a moid social experiment post

isn’t it just one of the first signs of being socially well-adjusted to at least attempt a compliment when seeing someone even if you don’t mean it? men aren’t expected to do it because they’re viewed as blunt and blind to social cues (and they generally are). women can read the room and can actually pick up on when someone needs validation or comforting. don’t fight it nano, the discomfort in being forced to compliment is just a reminder that you can emotionally understand someone.