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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
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Anonymous 129941

>>129931
The consciousness is located in the soul. There's actually many proven after death experiences, because it's very easy to prove when someone's brain is dead and yet they claim to have been floating around with 360 degree perfect vision. But this isn't important because you can prove that all day long, you can have video of someone raising from the dead and it won't change people's beliefs, you can see a ghost, see a miracle. It won't change anything, because everything can be explained away based on what people want to believe.
You can watch annoying college-brained kids talk about it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnTVPCwPjhI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mG2W5ziwo7c

But, if you're interested in eternal life. There's one claim of eternal life that is above all others, you'll hear about it all your life, Jesus. He not only says he was going to raise from the dead, and his disciples say he rose from the dead and many throughout history say they've experience the risen Jesus, physically by the power of the holy Spirit entering them and visions and whatever else.
But also Jesus largely talked about eternal life. Jesus is the number one person in the whole world. The Bible is the number one packet of information in the world. This is #1, the first thing to look into, and investigate Jesus' words for yourself by reading the Gospels. Four Gospels, you can listen to audiobooks on youtube in modern english.
I would CERTAINLY, not be spending time on female 4chan to find out about the answer to the universe, I'd start with bigger smarter longer lasting things. I mean, you're going to get advice from some random girl who's lived a few decades maybe on this planet? That's where you wanna get anything from? Don't listen to me or anyone, I'd look into the Bible and Jesus if you haven't. And from there things get quite interesting.

Anonymous 129942

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It’s so easy for me to spiral into negative thoughts about my past, and just feel anxious and scared for hours from a single trigger. I hate when I come across someone I once knew from years ago, and I’m sent back into the state of mind I was back then and spiral from there. When it happens at work like it did today, I just pretend I don’t recognize them. Which it isn’t unusual for me to forget people since my memory is very poor and spacey, so I don’t feel too guilty about it. I wish I could really start over again if I could afford it, without having to return to this filthy pothole. I don't want to see any of them ever again. I just want to live in a lonely shack in the swamp.

Anonymous 129943

>>129941
I know about NDEs, they help me cope a little but I have such doubts. I know people have the same experiences on certain drugs. Many NDEs also point to the idea of reincarnation which is scary to me but so is the idea of heaven forever
>I would CERTAINLY, not be spending time on female 4chan to find out about the answer to the universe
After you preach about Jesus, christcucks are so unserious

Anonymous 129972

>>129943
Genuinely not sure what you mean. But like I said, go to Jesus for answers, not idiots on the internet. You're not going to get any answers here. But if you don't want to explore the ONE path to eternal life being put forward, then don't. No time now to think of religion, but eventually you'll find time to die.

"Well waht about… uhhh Hinduism or like stuff." Yeah you can waste your time with polytheism culture religion. Ultimately it's Jesus who has overcome death and is offering others eternal life, and with that we have evidence physical and by experience you will see it's true.

Anonymous 129984

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I don't know why they feel the need to check on me after 13 years. Multiple times this week they checked my tiktok.
It wouldn't be a problem if I just let go and get over them, but something in my brain keeps the dopamine channel alive. I know I'm going to meltdown if I reach out, and I'm sure they know I will too.
I miss talking to them, I miss sharing things with them, I miss fucking them. I'm 28 God damn years old and I still can't get over them. Maybe if I got over my executive dysfunction I could work it out, but I feel like I've been in a trench for so long my brain has rotted from the inside out. Decaying in my bed doesn't help the impulse to stalk their socials, reading will always lead me back, gaming is unsatisfying anymore.



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How can I help my baby sister get away from my abusive mother? Anonymous 129974[Reply]

Kind of a vent, but I need help.

My mother is a tyrant who exists to make other people’s lives miserable because of internalized hatred and many regrets in her life. Regret of getting married to the wrong man and having children and not pursuing a career. Which I fail to see as mine or my siblings’s fault at all. She’s just an overly narcissistic bipolar person blablabla many unsolved problems because of culture stigma and older generation anti mental health bullshit.

Now I need some advice here. We are three sisters with me being the eldest, middle sister is a teenager and the youngest is about a year old. There have been so many instances of neglect on her part. It’s not the typical severe parental abuse that I could go to the authorities with outwards like not changing diapers or not feeding her. It’s more so frequent outbursts of rage through vocal violence and not physical as well as emotional neglect that I know will have a profound impact on her later in life. I can see her getting startled and crying even louder from the sudden noise and anger. My mother is irritated by almost every sound my baby sister makes and has no self control as an above 50 year old woman to just keep her mouth shut and attend to her child. I’m always the one who has to pick her up and take her away from dangerous, loud and overwhelming situation and sit and play quietly until she calms down. My parents have no understanding of the words “mentally damaging” or “overstimulation” and whenever I bring these things up they brush it off with “It’s fine” or “If you care so much, you do something about it”. Which is completely and utterly retarded because that is YOUR child and not mine. It’s your responsibility. She is so fucking retarded and braindead. I’m convinced her brain is rotten from staring at her phone all day and scrolling on reels while my baby sister is crying because simple things aren’t being done like passing an apple or giving her a toy.

She also said some typical stupid-old-woman-who-regrets-her-life-bullshit like “I gave birth to you so I have the automatic right to sit on my phone all day while you take care of her” etc.

What can I do in this situation? I have exams to take soon and it’s stressing me the fuck out trying to balance taking care of a human life and my own studying struggles. My plan initially was to collect recordings of my mom being an asshat and then either take it to child protective services or tell her famiPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

Anonymous 129975

OP here again, I should also mention that whenever I try and explain to her that screaming and startling at a crying infant does nothing but aggravate them more, she brushes it off and says “it’s fine she doesn’t care.” Fucking retarded man.

Anonymous 129977

kill her

Anonymous 129978

>>129976
Where did you get that implication from me saying that I’m unemployed and broke??? That’s just how student life is, not some universal ‘female’ thing where we all want to wear big-boy pants and work until we die. I don’t understand what you’re talking about. And also, moids are simply unreliable as husbands.

99% of this was just venting, that 1% is me asking if the right call is to start taking recordings or have another approach

Anonymous 129979

>>129978
>>129976
this is the avatarfag moid dont engage pls

Anonymous 129983

>>129974
>career
that's a cope she just hates your father and never love him in the first place.



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Unpopular Opinions Anonymous 129936[Reply]

Share any unpopular opinions you hold here.
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Anonymous 129938

>>129936
Adult women should have sex with adult men. That's it really. Just have sex and do it often.

Anonymous 129939

>>129938
this but sleeping around is bad.

Anonymous 129944

Nihilism is objectively true

Anonymous 129950

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Everything is gonna be alright

Anonymous 129982

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>how i sleep knowing 550k moids do it yearly



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Anonymous 129918[Reply]

>They like it when you're available for them or talk about things that personally interest them
>They like it when you make an effort
>They like it when you try to make it special for them
>They like it when you bring energy, passion, enthusiasm, effort, etc

But…

>They aren't interested in you

>They don't even like being with you
>They get bored and find other people who they like more than you
> They don't bring any energy, passion, enthusiasm, effort, they just don't care unless it's about them

Why does dating often feel like being an entertainer for other people?

Anonymous 129919

Have you considered not wasting your life doing "dating" which is a modern concept for idiots. And instead you just give yourself over to a man and live with him and be happy/

Anonymous 129952

>>129919
you do it and report back to us how it goes.

Anonymous 129953

>>129919
you do it and report back to us how it goes.

Anonymous 129970

Have you thought about being more interesting?

Anonymous 129973

>>129952
How many times must I tell you all. Go online, "I live in this city, and I'm female will someone take me in." Then you go live with one of the 20 men who has a home and is willing to take you in.
"Uhh but I don't know if I'll have a cutesy romantic realt–"
Get over it. Marriage is not a system to make ya feel good. But they never listen, they will never ever listen and instead they'll just keep "dating" and wasting their time.



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my bfs porn addiction makes me want to cheat Anonymous 129689[Reply]

my boyfriend’s porn addiction is making me lose my mind. I first found out about it in early August but I keep finding out things he’s lying about. At first he framed it as just watching a random video then closing. Then, I found out he used to pay for OF while we were together. after this, I found out that he was doing this shit the entire time before I found out and he had a twitter account for OF egirls + bought an anime porn game. He first blamed his problem on our relationship issues before I found out he was doing it the whole time.
He said that what I sent him wasn’t “enough to look at” compared to porn despite him literally being overweight with a receding hairline (quickly apologized but still).

After I found out about the OF stuff, I started cheating on him online. I was a very popular cosplayer and used to make lots of money off of my looks, so it feels weird and makes me feel resentful because I feel like he doesn’t admire my looks like this. Flirting with girls/guys online feels like an escape from feeling like I’m ugly + feels like a gotcha. It makes me want to show off my body and for a while I even thought of doing gravure work when I move back to Japan. I feel horrible for doing this. I used to hate male attention, but I feel relief when a cute moid hits on me. it’s like a “atleast someone appreciates my looks”.

He’s been a great partner and has been treating me amazingly since but I still feel this way sometimes and I feel like a horrible person. What should I do? Am I a bad person?
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Anonymous 129749

>>129689
they’re all booing but im clapping. you don’t ever gotta feel bad about cheating on cheaters.

Anonymous 129770

Do both of yourselves a favor and leave him. If hes lying about porn usage what else is he lying about? cheating is not good either and if youre vernting your frustration that way, why not just cut off the source of it rather than "dealing" with it?

Anonymous 129814

If you're as skinny and pretty as you say you are, then what are you doing dating a balding fat porn addicted, erectile dysfunction having moid? I don't even feel sorry for you at this point because from what you say you apparently have the access to get a much more decent moid who's actually handsome and doesn't jerk off to porn all day. Skinny women should never settle for fat men, they're disgusting, smell bad and have ED. Plus you're in the cosplay community, there are tons of model looking men who are in the cosplay scene. The world is your oyster when you're a skinny woman and you can have access to 90% better looking moids. You're only shooting yourself in the foot.

Anonymous 129914

strawman^strawman type thread

Anonymous 129971

>>129689
men will never give up porn. no matter which moid u get they will always want porn so if youre not ok with it you will never have a moid.



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Anonymous 129954[Reply]

Do you guys think it's weird and gross that for a woman, sex is about the guy dumping a load into your body?
I don't understand why more women don't think it's weird and gross. Like it's fully accepted that it's normal. Imagine spitting in somebody's mouth or peeing into their mouth. GROSS!!
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Anonymous 129962

Lil white nigga on the prowl

Anonymous 129963

>>129957
Other ways to have sex?
>penis in mouth
>penis in the pooper
Sounds equally disgusting.

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Anonymous 129965

>>129963
Lesbians



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Anonymous 129924[Reply]

any other s struggling with bedrotting? i lay in bed all day due to executive dysfunction and i just don't have any energy to get up and do something, but i really want to be active… it's so bad that playing a video game or watching a movie i consider productive, but i can't even do that
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Anonymous 129934

>>129932
Just stop using your phone for a week. Not less or not only at night. Just full on stop using it for a week. You'll be very bored at first but you'll find other things to do. Get some sun early in the morning even if it's just sitting in the sun for a bit. Eat breakfast if you can.

Anonymous 129935

>>129924
Some call such mind state "anhedonia".

Anonymous 129949

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I get up and do things for my plushies. I "feed" one who reminds me to go eat, and when i get up, i try to male my bed and tuck the others in since they deserve to have a nice comfy bed. Its silly but it has been helping me for years

Anonymous 129951

>>129949
and what do you do afterwards, so you dont end up laying down again?

Anonymous 129956

>>129949
that's downright adorable i wish i had more childlike-awe in my life



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Anonymous 129611[Reply]

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't make me happy anymore. He does but he also doesn't. It feels like he's never doing what he says he will, or he's letting me down somehow. I love him. But I'm slowly starting to not enjoy being around him anymore. I think I can fix this but I'm too tired to bring it up. I don't want to hurt him.

Anonymous 129612

Fixed it with one conversation because I forgot my boyfriend is an autist that needs me to be direct with my wants and needs 👍

Anonymous 129618

>>129612
Any reason to not be direct? Maybe the autist is you.

Anonymous 129621

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We did it s, we saved her relationship!

Anonymous 129654

dopamine spikes when you first meet, then you get comfortable with each other and see the flaws. the question is will you stay, or leave to find someone new and chase that high

Anonymous 129948

>>129618
hes diagnosed lol



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pet grief Anonymous 107146[Reply]

my cat just died, my first ever pet. I thought I'd have longer with him since cats can live into their twenties, but he was only 14.
I feel really lost without him, the house is too quiet.
It was a very sudden death as well. He had been himself, acting completely normal, then just died. The vet suspects cardiac arrest from a blood clot.
I just want him back nonas.
Have any of you coped with pet grief before? How long does it take to start feeling better?
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Anonymous 129720

One of my cats died recently in about October or November. We're not sure how, he was found dead under my sister's bed. No blood or throw up or anything. I miss him badly, my remaining cat seems so lonely and confused without him. I hope there's an afterlife for pets and that we can be with them again one day, I miss him badly. My aunt's dog died over the summer too and my childhood dogs have been gone for a while

Anonymous 129759

Its going to be 4 years since i lost 2 of my childhood cats. There are times where i feel pangs of sadness but i need to lock in for my other cat. Shes 10 years old and i just want to appreciate whatever time i have left with her. It sucks cause i gotta work a full time job now but i reframe it as making sure she has a confortable life. But after her im not having another pet until i get 6 figs annually. Being poor and having a pet fucking sucks. Sorry for going on a tangent.

To answer your question…. Let yourself feel the grief. Repression doesn't do anyone any good. Find people who you can talk about your passed on pets to, or write about them. Whatever you do, keep their memorie alive because they're only in your life for a short while, but you're their whole world for their lifetime.

Anonymous 129940

An Old Cat's Dying Soliloquy by Anna Seward:
>Years saw me still Acasto’s mansion grace,
>The gentlest, fondest of the tabby race;
>Before him frisking through the garden glade,
>Or at his feet in quiet slumber laid;
>Praised for my glossy back of zebra streak,
>And wreaths of jet encircling round my neck;
>Soft paws that ne’er extend the clawing nail,
>The snowy whisker and the sinuous tail;
>Now feeble age each glazing eyeball dims,
>And pain has stiffened these once supple limbs;
>Fate of eight lives the forfeit gasp obtains,
>And e’en the ninth creeps languid through my veins.
>Much sure of good the future has in store,
>When on my master’s hearth I bask no more,
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Anonymous 129945

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Random dumb question but do you guys believe in animal communication and animal psychics? I want to believe in it because I wanna believe in souls and afterlife and I want to be with my loved ones when we die but idk, there's lots of scammers and I'm not sure if I can really trust a lot of the stories I've heard

Anonymous 129947

>>129945
Your soul is speaking out to you, listen to it, yes i believe it.
Consider reading some of Jacob Bohme's works.
Also winx is great.



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