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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 126835

"Meet Me In The Woods"

I took a little journey to the unknown,
And I come back changed. I can feel it in my bones.
I fucked with forces that our eyes can't see.
Now the darkness got a hold on me.
Oh, the darkness got a hold on me.

How long, baby, have I been away?
Oh, it feels like ages though you say it's only days.
There ain't language for the things I've seen.
And the truth is stranger than my own worst dreams.
The truth is stranger than in all my dreams.
Oh, the darkness got a hold on me.

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Anonymous 126836

whatever man. what do you expect.

Anonymous 126838

you listened to these songs and felt these things and still said nothing to me? i don’t understand. i really really don’t understand. if you feel bad why didn’t you say that to me.

Anonymous 126840

all these songs about your darkness and wanting forgiveness and being beyond redemption and suicidal.

Anonymous 126861

why didn’t you just say. you have no idea how much this has already changed for me.



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Anonymous 126830[Reply]

Nice girls really do finish last. I've been single for a few years and have not talked to any man until recently. I finally approached a guy I thought was cute. We hit it off but I did not know he was crippled. He explained he attempted suicide and shot himself but miraculously survived and now one side of his body is crippled. He ruined his potential over his ex who treated him like shit. And now I'm just here to pick up the pieces I guess since this is all I can get. Damaged, used goods. Fml
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Anonymous 126848

Damn nona, you fucking suck. I hope he dumps your ass.

Anonymous 126857

>>126837
That would require amputation

Anonymous 126858

>>126848
I don't care, a part of me hopes he does too. He isn't my responsibility. Plus even though he's a cripple he's still the same as every other man and lies. Bet he watches porn too

Anonymous 126859

don’t be with mentally ill men that includes in the past. ive dealt with them before and they are not with your time girl. he will probably threaten suicide or something and be manipulative. they literally just use you for attention/validation and feed off of your feminine energy.

Anonymous 126860

>>126859
worth**



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 126852

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Boyfriend of 2 years just broke up with me because of my autism and "lack of communication" and I feel nothing kek. He was like "I love you but I can't go on like this anymore because it hurts me and I have to leave" and I said "ok" and that was it. Why do I feel nothing around real people, maybe except for the sense of threat or irritation sometimes, but can cry for hours over an anime character? Bro real life is over for me kek

Anonymous 126853

>>126852
some sort of dissociative mechanism as defense, but also some people just have easy time breaking bonds or attachments

that's just my guess, I'm similar although I never cried over an anime character

Anonymous 126854

>>126852
Call him up later or tomorrow acting like nothing happened. Normal routine as per usual.

Anonymous 126855

>>126854
Kek what

Anonymous 126856

>>126855
Just ignore the breakup. Make pretend it never happened and carry on as usual. Completely avoid and skirt past any attempt of his to think it's over. Give him the "shhshh you're just upset. Ya hungry?" talk.



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Anonymous 126713[Reply]

i fucking hate performative males. i hate them i hate males who pretend to like music and fashion and sanrio and plushies and whatever else they think girls would find them interesting for i literally cannot fucking stand it. none of them have real personalities or interests and they know they will never be fucking interesting so they do this shitty job of copying women. all they're interested in is pretending to be book reading feminists to fuck girls and then immediately going back to being as shitty as they always were.
males are so fucking stupid because none of them can even think for themselves. the only people who are impressed by their perfomative lana del rey listening are their faggot friends lmao
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Anonymous 126778

>>126777
thank you cos how are men gonna blame all their problems on the gender they are mistreating and then ask us to view them as the victim fix everything for them and for some reason we are expected to be attracted to people like that. and then be submissive and be like yas you’re the boss? nah. they can suffer until they find enlightenment and use it to strengthen their character. or they can perish.

Anonymous 126784

yesterday i matched with a guy on hinge who introduced himself as a misandrist but he unmatched with me after i told him i wasn't gonna split a check with him kek.

performative male final boss.

Anonymous 126785

>>126784
that’s crazy but bullet dodged.

Anonymous 126850

>>126784
i actually laughed at this holy shit theyre so retarded kek. very misandrist of him

Anonymous 126851

>>126784
>yesterday i matched with a guy on hinge who introduced himself as a misandrist
That's like an immediate personality disorder red flag, clinical levels or not. Weird ahh manipulation strat.



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Anonymous 126240[Reply]

So if this is a female version of 4chan, why don't you guys ever discuss race, politics, etc? Do you guys ever have race wars like 4chan? Are kikesses and pajeetas bullied here ?
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Anonymous 126827

>>126240
It's always fascinating to me that 4chan is about a million different things, while crystal cafe is almost exclusively about men and dating them. Definitely tells you something about the sexes

Anonymous 126829

>> 126827
4chan is about four things: incels commiserating and affirming each others delusions, incel hobbies, incels desperately attempting to alter their appearance to try to gain female attention, and the rest of it is pictures of naked women and attempts to meet them or get them to contact incels. incel delusions are about lack of female contact. you have exactly three interests: gaming, cosplay and anime. those are all covered here as well as every other female interest. thanks for your time!

Anonymous 126839

>>126243
Ironic how supposedly feminist website says that women have no place in discussing politics.

Anonymous 126845

>>126839
Silly thought but- Maybe the answer is lolcow?

Anonymous 126849

>>126845
I don't get it. You aren't allowed to discuss those subjects on lolcow either.



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no friends Anonymous 126841[Reply]

i have no friends at all except for my husband, and it gets so so lonely and im so sad i wish i had girl friends that i could talk makeup and hair and cute stuff with but nobody wants to talk to me ever and nobody wants to be my friend how do i make friend
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Anonymous 126844

I'll be your friend! How ya doing today?

Anonymous 126847

>>126844
omg im doing fine what about you ??



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Anonymous 126353[Reply]

I'm so tired of those girls on Tiktok who are self labelled 'femcels' . They all are conventionally attractive with boyfriends and most of them self diagnose mental disorders they don't have. It drives me insane
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Anonymous 126657

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>tiktok
eww

Anonymous 126667

There's subreddit on reddit called femcelgrippysockjail and average woman in there dates men.

Anonymous 126694

>>126667

/r/femcelgrippysockjail is mostly troons.

Anonymous 126812

>>126353
i havent used instagram in 5 years and there's r9k and looksmaxxing stuff all over my feed wtf

Anonymous 126846

>>126694
It's true. I got kicked out of one of their side groups on fb cause a troon shared a meme about trans girls and guns and I called it a Tim meme. It's what pushed me towards radfem politics ngl. Not sure if I'm completely a terf tho



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why does society think women owe each other compliments? Anonymous 126800[Reply]

i hate the expectation that women are supposed to constantly compliment other women. especially on their looks. i’m a straight woman… i don’t view women through physical attraction at all. so complimenting their body or features feels unnatural to me. but if a woman doesn’t do it, people immediately assume she’s envious, insecure and sometimes even anti woman. men never face this. straight men aren’t expected to compliment other men, and when they don’t, no one questions their character or motives. women, meanwhile, are pressured to provide nonstop emotional validation. not complimenting a woman’s appearance doesn’t mean i dislike them. it just means i don’t feel obligated to perform a role society unfairly forces onto women. i don’t find women physically attractive. sorry not sorry.

Anonymous 126828

isn’t it just one of the first signs of being socially well-adjusted to at least attempt a compliment when seeing someone even if you don’t mean it? men aren’t expected to do it because they’re viewed as blunt and blind to social cues (and they generally are). women can read the room and can actually pick up on when someone needs validation or comforting. don’t fight it nano, the discomfort in being forced to compliment is just a reminder that you can emotionally understand someone.



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Ugh short guys... Anonymous 126821[Reply]

There's a gorgeous guy at my local library who genuinely looks like a fucking josei character irl. But he's unbelievably short. Like, literally around 5'4 compared to my 5'7. Such a shame…to have such a pretty and well defined face on the body of a little boy. This world is cruel.


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