My ex's best friend tried to hit on me, a classic female move

Every time I've had other women as friends they've been back stabbing me, probably because I'm a woman with aspergers (I got diagnosed when that was still a thing)… Anyways, I'd rather be lonely even if it sucks than have friends who talk shit about me behind my back and make me feel alone anyways

It takes one psychopath in a friend group to turn all the normies against you.

>>128841
fascinating, but how about trolls?

>>128842
Immoral and emotional

Don't waste your time on someone that don't meet you with reciprocity.

Don't explain yourself, just walk.

>>128843
I don't want to, but it feels like he doesn't even like me back, he's told me before that I like him more
Writing this all down makes me realize I've been acting kinda desperate and pathetic

>>128844
It's ok to want love.

He is not very interested or he is an avoidant, either way it's better to just walk and find someone who meets you.

And I will tell you a little secret about attraction: Whatever quality you like in him is actually a projection of yourself; qualities you have that you project onto this external person.

Look for that in yourself and you will find it easier to walk.

don't demoralize yourself at all, you can lose weight, get a bf pretty quickly (if you want, you should first love yourself, then get a bf, trust me if you take care of yourself and be happy love will come soon enough) and at 18 you are very young still. It doesn't take that long to revitalize yourself, sometimes even less than a month.

>>128757
i second this. i'm 18 too, you're probably either freshly out of hs or about to graduate. get a part-time job that pays well. go to the gym (or do home workouts if you're self-conscious, calisthenics are great) eat in a deficit, and eat well. you spend money on food only for it to be eaten in ten minutes and later digested into shit, so might as well make that food work for you as much as possible. fiber helps. remember that people who make fun of you (either irl or behind a screen) are the same as you and me, they shit, they fart, and if they're hating on you they probably hate themselves too.

find whatever it takes to get you through the day, even if it's retarded, if it keeps you alive and happy that's all that matters.

fasting is good idea but then also eating zero calorie stuff and not stretching your stomach is

I'm with you, I just graduated high school at 18 and I feel so lost and existentially empty. I dealt with some bullying for my weight and thinking I was ugly no matter what, I still get scared if my shirts are too low cut because I'm that self conscious

To be attractive you must first love yourself, then comes looks.

Don't change to please others, change to please yourself.

Build healthy habits that make yourself feel good and lose weight slowly as a bonus, shortcuts like adderall will hurt you long term.

You are 18, Adult life have not even started yet, you have so much time so don't stress about everything.

Focus on the healthy small things that make you feel good and build those habits slowly.
Write down goals that are reasonable and strive to reach them.

Start easy like a little bit of exercise every day to get your body moving, it can literally be just stretching in the beginning to build the routine, a walk outdoors every day and minimum of 3 eggs for breakfast for nutrition and vitamins.

As you read this, improve your body position by just 5%, stretch something that is stiff, just a little. See, feels better.
Continue like that every now and then. Small habits grow with time.

>How do you guys deal with people like this?
make them lend me couple bucks and promise ill pay them back though i never will and keep asking them for more and more favors aswell. basically make these fuck niggas my bitches

>I might just be an asshole but
You 100% are. What have you done that's so rebellious and interesting that makes you have a spine compared to these people? You're posting on a loser femcel site. This post is just you sucking your own dick.

>>128811
Oh I'm also not very smart or accomplished, I'm just angry with this one particular idiot.

>>128812
Not really. This post isn't about a particular situation at all, just how you're better than this person we know nothing about. Not sure what you're expecting people to say about a situation you haven't shared. It just comes off narcissistic.

>>128825
There's no need to be patronising. And I know, as an American, you're fundamentally incapable of true empathy, but not every small town on Earth is like your picturesque little idyl. I also don't even know where I'd find eggs that expensive over here.

I wasn't having a go at you for liking towns with no career or education options, I was just saying something I prefer about being somewhere people know how contactless payments work. Liking what I like doesn't mean I hate what you like - most people over the age of 18 understand that.

>>128816
I don't live in the midwest, that is why why i said this part of the usa, my own experiences, stop being so hypersensitive, im not going to pillage your small town and send my moids to fuck ur women.

>>128817
Guess where I live, New York? Did I say something which speaks to all ppl? Or was I discussing my own experiences living in one of the most expensive places in America, soemtimes the suburbs are more isolating here, but we also have more isolated parts. I can't afford to live upstate, so i live in a bumfuck suburb, the city is my only get away from some of the most vapid ppl I know. I'm not talking about everyone, I'm taking about myself and my experiences, not everything in the world is to be applied upon everyone. Next time learn subejct pronouns or fuck yourself on an ice pick.

>>128817 Upstate NY is more expensive if anything, lving amongst nature is for the rich here, and the city is also for the rich, but at least I can walk and see shit other than a strip mall for once in my life.

>>128818
Thank you for stating the obvious do they give nobel award's for that out for that, I literally said cities arent perfect, but what there is, I can wager is fine for me. It's fun. I like it. I like the wilderness as well, and visit upstate when I want to experience it. I'm not one note fuckhead like some of you ppl here, I can like both things and see the issues with both things. Nothing is black and white, the city is fun, lively, and enjoyable, it's the thing bolstering ur goddamn economy, so maybe thank it once in a while next time you say shit. thx.

What are your standards for a man?

alive and maybe has a job

Don’t capitulate

i really do love you. i don't understand how you went from loving me to being disinterested at best within a day. my selfish hope is to prove myself to you. i want to marry you one day. you're the only person who has ever even claimed to love me.

remember when i made that chainsawman drawing for you on the wall at the bonfire? remember kissing me for the first time in the cold? it feels like you already forgot but i think of it every day

and i hope that one day my limbs stretch to their limits, my body cracking open with rage, he sees me and is afraid.

This dumb bitch is too much of a wilting violet crybaby to call the bank. Just do it you fucking weakling you'll only be talking to a chatbot anyway. This is why I can't take your suicide threats seriously, your risk-aversion is so pathological you can't even bring yourself to make a phone call. I don't think you'd even kill yourself if you had a button right in front of you that would give you a painless instant death if you pressed it.

look, no one is saying you arent allowed to schizo post in the unsent letters thread, but PLEASE can you keep it all in one post? im so fucking tired of the 45 posts all clearly written by the same person during a manic episode.