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Anonymous 130433[Reply]

I broke up with my boyfriend today. It feels like the right decision, he works too much so he isn't available a lot, but i feel upset that all my plans are gone. i wanted to move in with him and get married. get a cat and live comfortably with the love of my life, it all feels quite bittersweet. and now i have to spend a considerable amount of time scrubbing him from my life. deleting all the photos of him, taking off my necklaces with his initial, removing our playlist we made together and all the lovey dovey nicknames i gave to him on various apps, it's a lot of work. and the worst part is it is exam season which is why i was hesitant with breaking up with him, i know it will distract me majorly from it all.

Anonymous 130435

>>130433
its okay nona, it feels bittersweet because it freshly happened. try to focus on your education for now, it will be important for your future.

Anonymous 131977

I guess you can break up with someone for any reason, but breaking up with him for simply being busy is retarded. Focusing on exams and studies sounds right though



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131971

I saw that. Thank you.

Anonymous 131972

>>131969
i did, i find them worth replying to. i sometimes report & sometimes don't. if you want them deleted, i did report these ones since they come across as unpolished & ugly. i am curious about all the anime girls in the picrel of >>131959 though. do you know their names?

Anonymous 131973

>>131971
sorry, i replied to the wrong post so redid it

Anonymous 131974

>>131972
Top left - Bernkastel, Umineko
Top middle - Sumika, Muv Luv
Top right - Hikaru, Muramasa
Middle left - Alice, Black Souls
Middle - Junko, Danganronpa
Middle right - Mephistopheles, Crystar (highly recommend it is very feminist)
Bottom left - Saya, Saya no Uta
Bottom middle - Yuuka, Touhou
Bottom right - Yuka, Gore Screaming Show

Anonymous 131976

>>131974
thank-you



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Prayer Thread Anonymous 122943[Reply]

For yourself, for others, for the world, any way you want to pray.
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Anonymous 123374

Praying that children around the world can be safe and keep their innocence, and for those being abused to find a way out and to overcome the trauma.

Anonymous 123775

orthopower.mp4

Praying that everyone takes up the cross, praying that everyone sees the power humility, praying that pennance is done for degenerate lives we tolerate.

Anonymous 131889

can i get a prayer. can i get a prayer, anyone

Anonymous 131964

>>131889
A prayer for anything specifically?

Regardless may god bless and keep you always friend. God stays with anyone who wants to be kind and better themselves in this world.

Anonymous 131975

>>131964
nothing in particular, all i wanted was to see who'd reply. thank-you



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i think my ex is gonna take his life Anonymous 130574[Reply]

i am 20 he is 24 he wanted to break up with me yesterday and i agreed, he then switched up and wanted to get back together and has apologised. i have ignored because he has done this before and i am really worried because he tried to force himself into my house whilst i was sleeping but my mum came to the house and she told him politely to go away so he gave her gifts for me. i did not want to break up with him but he never listens to my boundaries and has done loads of things to break my trust like reaching out to his ex and although ive moved on from certain situations because i am forgiving i have overtime built up resentment against him which is why i agreed to him breaking up. he is extremely emotional and is manipulative/gaslights when he wants to get his own way but i checked his twitter today and he has posted self harm on my tattoo i made of him and all over his arm and he has told me if i broke up with him he woudl take his life and so i am really worried because i still love him but he is destroying me mentally and draining me, the reasonwhy i didnt want to see him is because last time he flipped out he came tomy house and took this £600 mirror we both paid for but it was partially a gift to me and i took it badly as i wanted that mirror for over a year i am so worried for his wellbeing because recently he has completely changed his mentality and i am scared i told him i am worried to see him because i am scared he is going to harm me because he told memany times he could kill me and i believe him because he shares the same mentality of someone that would kill a girl because the girl has broken up with him and i love him a lot so sorry if i am not typing normally i am just really worried for him and for me too and im scared hes going to take his life wether intentional or not because he has done heroinin the past to try and kill himself im so fucking worried man
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Anonymous 131596

>>130696

Not really, depressive men who kill themselves do it.

Men who tell women about it want something in exchange.

It's about time that if she does what he wants, unless she actually acts like a sane person and contacts a ward or his parents (if possible) to care for the problem. If she acts like if he deserves her time after being, what she described, then she would end up being manipulated if she does as you say. Obviously.

A handmaiden would take the matters as her responsability to care for the emotional needs of man who hurt her, as to feel a person.

A woman as a proper adult, will just contact the proper adults for this situation as a mentally ill man is not acting properly.

Anonymous 131742

>>130574
hey op i hope you are safe.

Anonymous 131852

Woooo!!!! Let him die! Let him die! Let him die!
Come back to us with an update in a few months. Of course, guys like this are histrionic attention whores, so I won't be expecting much of anything interesting to happen.

Anonymous 131966

>>130574
Its very rare for someone who threatens suicide to actually do it. Its a manipulation tactic like other nonas said already.

You could just push for him to get help and figure out his mental health. Preferably through social media and not DMs or private channels. Let everyone see you're done but still want whats best for him. Something like "Get help. I want you to fix your mental health but Im not dealing with it anymore. All the things that happened between us pushed me away." Then add examples of what hes done and local or national mental health services. IMO an aggressively neutral stance is best in these situations.

Anonymous 131978

>>130712
>>131596

I believe what's in >>130696 is called sarcasm



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i have a phobia of female role in sex which makes me dysphoric as fuck and sex repulsed Anonymous 126444[Reply]

anyone else??? i just find the role submissive and humuliating, i dont wanna post it on nsfw board bc i dont wanna see anons talk about wanting to do humiliating sex acts i have a phobia of
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Anonymous 131948

>>131940
Because he's still a moid. Having sex with any male is humiliating to me.
The random moid posting under this thread proves my point too, why would I wanna engage with creatures that hate me?

Anonymous 131949

>>131948
Are you straight? Sorry for the nosiness

Anonymous 131950

Octopi have interesting mating rituals, there's barely any contact involved

Maybe stop viewing humiliation porn

Anonymous 131952

>>131951
Excuse me. It appears you have used the word “female” as a noun to describe human women. The proper way to refer to human women is the word “women”. Thank you for your time.

Anonymous 131953

>>131951
fat fag



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I haven't had friends for ten years Anonymous 131946[Reply]

I'm a NEET. I live with my mother and she's the only one I talk with. Give me life advice.

Anonymous 131947

Do you want online friends or irl ones?
Do you have any qualifications/education? Are you a neet due to failure or health issues?
Do you actually care about being a friendless neet? Are you worried about what you'll do when your mom is gone?



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 131936

>>131934
None of those things will make god hate you less

Anonymous 131937

>>131936
Why would he hate

Anonymous 131938

>>131937
Shouldve asked that before doing your pointless dumb rituals LOL

Anonymous 131939

>>131938
That’s not an answer

Anonymous 131945

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if my laptop screen ever falls off I'll just buy a monitor and connect it via the hdmi cable or something. I got a bunch of ports in the back. yeah, that's a good plan



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every person I meet turns out to be cold while I want closeness Anonymous 126668[Reply]

So my first friend ghosted me without a word saying that she's not made for close bonds with anyone. My other friend said she doesn't feel the need to become close with someone. My yet another friend says the same. And my new friend said she doesn't get attached to friends and never feels deeply for them. Why am I so unlucky? And my closest current friend already had a best friend with whom she probably is close so with me she won't become close. I just want a deep connection and mutual attachment and obsession.
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Anonymous 126684

>>126668
Are these IRL friends or online “friends”?

Anonymous 126725

>>126668
These people are low functioning psychopaths. It might be more that you're subconsciously pulled to psychopaths

Ever asked yourself why? Ever noticed ?

Anonymous 126726

>>126676
This is true too though you might be needy

Anonymous 126742

people are either selfish/individualistic and believe in things like emotional labor. or they are hurt and reluctant to trust new people. or a combo of both.

someone without a history of friendships and relationships is a red flag. sometimes it has nothing to do with you and it’s just where other people are. sometimes you trigger something in someone else’s pattern recognition and it doesn’t even have to be a real thing about you. you just reminded them of someone else.

when you take it personally every time or view normal distance from strangers as an attack, it can change your vibe and people can pick up on that. when you’re going into something expecting pain and disappointment and rejection and maybe feel nervous or defensive, people feel that emotion and wonder what’s going on in the interaction to make you feel that way. sometimes it makes them angry sometimes it makes them nervous. sometimes people even take advantage.

all of this can literally be bypassed by confidence and level eye contact. not i’m above you but everyone is my equal. you don’t have to care what anyone thinks of you. they’re not the judge. and you can also probably name some stuff you don’t like about people if you really think about it. no one is above you. there’s no one to impress. if you can internalize that people will like start begging to be around you.

hopefully this posts i just put it in the wrong thread

Anonymous 131922

I want to be your virtual friend I promise I won't ghost you



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Child free/moid free Anonymous 131052[Reply]

I’m disgusted with a family friend’s son. I can’t stop thinking about how a woman spent years of her life raising this moid and digging herself into poverty only for him to turn into a smoking gamer porn addict who berates women online, calling feminists Nazis and contributing absolutely nothing of value to the world because he’s a “doomer”. He’s in his 30s and this is what his max potential is and for most moids. And it sickens me she parades him on social media calling her son a great man and beautiful boy. Why women bother having kids is beyond me, especially a son. Women really are this stupid it seems so it’s hard to even blame moids when women continuously volunteer to do this shit for free.

Anonymous 131278

>>131052
This was a very nostalgic and common post



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