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Jealous of other women Anonymous 129306[Reply]

I’m jealous of other women.
All of them. It feels like every woman in the world has something I don’t. Something I’m missing on a fundamental level. Not just looks. Not just personality. Something deeper. Like they were given a manual on how to exist as a woman and I wasn’t. I don’t measure up. Not in my appearance. Not in how I act. Not in how I talk. I feel like I missed whatever makes someone naturally normal. I feel like a failed version of what I’m supposed to be. Like some kind of glitch. Being around other women makes it worse. I don’t feel like I belong. I feel awkward and wrong, like they can sense that I’m different. I compare myself to every little thing, their confidence, their ease, their femininity, and I always come up short. What makes it worse is that I actually want connection with women. I want female friendships. I want that closeness. But I feel like my jealousy and insecurity just poison it before it can even start. I’m scared I’ll ruin it or that they’ll see through me and confirm what I already believe. That I’m not enough. The only people I really talk to are men, and I’m exhausted by it. Men only end up hurting me. But somehow I feel more comfortable there than with women, even though it’s not healthy for me. I’m just tired of feeling like a failure as a woman. Tired of feeling behind. Tired of feeling like everyone else got something I didn’t.

Anonymous 129313

Femininity is lame, so you're doing something right.
Anyway, connection and closeness is not something so mystical and wonderful. I think if you got what you wanted you'd realise it's just "okay" and you'd be just as fine on your own.



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Anonymous 129294[Reply]

Why are so many American women posting on Instagram about wwIII like it's funny. They defend it by saying they're coping as though they would ever truly be effected by it. you can't run a mile, you're psychologically unfit, and you aren't smart enough to be put into any specialized roles. You're about as safe as you can be.the worst I can think of in terms of us civilians being targeted in war is 9/11 and the reaction to that was sensationalized and turned into a bigger deal than it really was.
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Anonymous 129297

>>129295
That's Ukraine though. I'm talking about the United States.

Anonymous 129298

>>129297
Yes, it's just an example of how things could turn out. United States is not invincible.

Anonymous 129299

Agreed, with the caveat that men are absolutely making the world war three memes also.

Anonymous 129300

>>129299
Oh yeah I know about them I just don't pay a lot of attention to them, so it's a gripe I specifically have towards people I follow. I see now what it seemed like lol

Anonymous 129312

United States won't be invaded because it's so far away, but it will lose all its power, its money will be worth as much as a Zimbabwe dollar, it won't be able to get any food.



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Moid I had a crush on and then ignored me was dating someone already. Anonymous 128888[Reply]

O! So it wasn’t me, it was her. What a good moid, good moid. Scratch him behind his ear, he smelled a shark in the water and swam out to remain in fidelity. Doesn’t matter to me, I’m just happy it wasn’t because I was weird or anything. :) I actually have a chance with someone else!
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Anonymous 128890

>>128889 O fuck off, let a girl be happy on this wondrous day, I wish I was schizo, they would send me to some rent free facility until my end with free food, water, warmth and all of that stuff.

Anonymous 129308

absolute schizo

Anonymous 129309

I hate how orthodox most imageboard posters are. If you think these posts are "schizo" you have such a remarkably limited ability for the unusual you may as well fill the name field with "young Sheldon fan #1" for every post you make.

OP, I'm glad you had this experience. It was shit, but without experiences like that you end up a dimwit of no regard, like young Sheldon fan #1.

Anonymous 129310

You know you can steal a moid from his gf with 5 easy steps, right?

Anonymous 129311

What are the steps



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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>>129283
Then you would be one of many, but I doubt you are actually like that. If you do your best and your child matures they will realise all you did, even what you did wrong, was for their best. Very bittersweet. Roping is not worth it. Procreate.

Anonymous 129288

>>129283
You're lucky because being a good partner/parent can be learnt, and it relies on your efforts not your nature
also don't make the mistake of thinking having kids will solve all your problems, if anything they will add more problems on top of your own. However, their presence will make solving said problems worth it.

>>129216
>some even tell me I am entitled and privileged to be choosy about not wanting to get into a toxic job again
Fucking mentally enslaved goycattle

Also check >>129166 if not done already

Anonymous 129301

I told someone that ayatollah khamenei is dead and she said "oh no, that's so sad. i don't know who she is i'll go look her up."
I want to call her a retard but I'm too timid to say that out loud so I'll just shit talk her on here…

Anonymous 129302

>>129301
>oh my god [recent event] just happened!!
if anything, she's the based one here for being completely tuned out of the never ending actuality spiral

Anonymous 129307

I'm actually really upset that /x/ isn't more active



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sigh Anonymous 129284[Reply]

found a messed up game on bfs computer. magical girl hentai game with loli, rape, bdsm, bondage and torture. im done and lost. only so much i can forgive and look past. im tired. ijust want a normal guy. this was a mistake. should i leave or should i stay and use him for money.
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Anonymous 129292

>>129284
forgive him

Anonymous 129293

>>129284
There are no normal guys. If it upsets you that much leave but don't be surprised when you find out the next guy is also a sexual deviant. Not every dude is a loli freak specifically, but you gotta be realistic, girl.

Anonymous 129303

Does he play genshin impact?

Anonymous 129304

>>129303
girls also play that trash for some reason…

Anonymous 129305

>>129284
Is it Depravia?



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I am sad ill never have him Anonymous 129232[Reply]

I'm so sad I'll never have a boyfie like Sheldon Cooper. He is so perfect. I love his aspie mannerisms, his intelligence, his facial expressions, his mischievous smile, his flat affect, I mean even when he is flirting he is still innocent and spergy. He is so charming to me I love him so much. The fact that he is not real and I'll never have him makes me feel hopeless. I can't imagine being with anyone else. When I am sad I imagine him holding me and telling me cool science facts, or helping me research historical shit I'm into at the moment. I love him so much, he is perfect and I would feel so safe with him. Him and Amy are my hopefuel too, it's the only show where an ugly autist girl gets a happily ever after with a moid that actually loves her. I so badly want a romantic aspie love with a moid exactly like Sheldon Cooper. My heart hurts
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Anonymous 129260

>>129232
You could but you told them to fuck off and refuse to give the sheldons of the world the time of day.

Personal Accountability is a dirty term indeed.

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>>129260
I've never met a man like him in person before. I wish I had nerdy stuff around me so I could have more of a chance doe. But tbh I don't think men like him exist irl. He is so perfect real men could never compare. I mean he is quirky and cute, like and manic pixie dream boy. Too perfect to be real

Anonymous 129267

You don't actually like emotionally unavailable men, you just think you do

Anonymous 129274

nophono

Anonymous 129296

I want to hit him with hammers



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Anonymous 129214[Reply]

How have you reacted to men sharing their feelings with you? Do stories like this one seem true?
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Anonymous 129225

Stuff like this makes me wonder the context of her reply. I would never talk to my boyfriend like this. It makes me wonder if he did something fucked up then tried shifting focus to his own feelings, like many emotional manipulators do.

Anonymous 129272

>>129217
I find that most of the time when people complain about issues in their life, they want validation or a "rubber ducky" to bounce off ideas and to get things out of their head, aka venting.

So usually I just say "damn that sucks" or the like and listen to them.

>>129225
It might be the case, but it might just be what I stated before, and not thinking about her view or how she thinks. Kinda shitty to make a post online about this and not talk to her in a mature manner but that isn't really uncommon in most current relationships.

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>>129224
Ding ding ding. More women need to figure this one out.

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if they are my chums i will listen to a moid be sad chungus but if the moid whinges about how women won't shag him or he blames women for his problems I simply chortle and go on with my merry day
also it's rather gay how most if not all deep revelations and deep sadnesses expressed by y chromies is shit that i and my female peers have clocked when we were like 8

Anonymous 129291

I've always had good experiences because I don't compartmentalise men and women as different much. I have had male friends my whole life so I know how to interact with them and what is hurtful. I will also say they are times they (men in general) shared other feelings beside sadness and I was like hell no.



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finally had sex with a girl, but i cried after Anonymous 129205[Reply]

i've only been with moids my whole life, but last night i had an opportunity to have sex with a woman and it was very lovely at first, but i realised during it i wasn't really enjoying it, so we stopped.

after i had left her house i just cried so hard.
i never particularly liked having sex with moids, but i thought that was a moid thing.

i think i struggle with having sex with anybody, it just makes me really uncomfortable despite the fact i really enjoy intimacy and the company of others.
i really like to flick my bean, so its not like i have no arousal.. i just dont like having sex with people.

have any other nonas experienced anything similar?
i feel like im in a weird situation because i can't expect a long-term relationship with anyone if the thought of having sex with them terrifies me.
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>>129237
Yes, especially since you were exposed to it so young. Consuming that stuff can alter the way you experience and act on attraction which is probably why you struggle despite wanting it. Imo as you are, don't worry about trying to have sex. You aren't in the right headspace, and your perception of it is probably screwed by watching it from childhood to your twenties.

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>>129239
yeah, but i've only had with men in committed relationships, i still disliked it.

although, the first time i had sex with a girl it was casual. it felt like less of a chore than sex with moids. i disliked how i felt afterwards; i felt used, despite it being consensual. also i was the pillow princess.

i dont dislike intimacy, sex just scares me. i love masturbating, though.



>>129238
how do i get in contact with such a person, through my doctor? all therapy i've had has been rubbish, but i may have some underlaying trauma.




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Anonymous 129263

>>129205
Honestly real. Sex is scary

Anonymous 129280

>>129237
>do you think porn could be the issue?
It definitely is an issue, especially starting at an early age. And masturbation can re wire the brain to only like masturbation and not enjoy normal sex, masturbating to porn got many people into voyeur/cuckshit

>>129239
This

Anonymous 129287

>>129239
This.

Porn has nothing to do with it; maybe even helped in making you think casual sex is empty and overrated.

Go find real love, OP.



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i wish i was cute Anonymous 128827[Reply]

f19 and ive been bored recently and want to make an online presents with my face tied to it, im not gonna lie im pretty ugly, fat, and retarded LOL im abt 190 lbs and 5'9 so im gonna become a lolcow if i tried anything now but anyways does any one have advice, im already working out i know i need to stay consisent but its hard to stay motivated when i have such a slow metabolism

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Don’t capitulate

Anonymous 129278

keep going! you'll not only look better, but feel better too. :3

Anonymous 129279

>im not gonna lie im pretty ugly, fat, and retarded LOL
Same ;_; ive thought this exact same thing lmao.
But I mean just stay consistent with working out and I would say just try to make content you never know, your profile /might actually blow up so shit y not try. And people that make fun of people and lolcows on the internet are sad as fuck, so just ignore



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