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Anonymous 126292[Reply]

What does it feel like to be in a happy fulfilling relationship with someone you’re attracted both physically and emotionally?
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Anonymous 126324

It's pretty nice I enjoy it

Anonymous 126349

reading this post just made me want to smash my head against a wall. it's so bad that even the slightest mention of a "happy couple" sends me into a downwards spiral. i hate being lonely.

Anonymous 126350

>>126349
Don't chase the bonding chemical highs lol

Anonymous 126377

>>126350
people really get drunk on brain chemicals and then think when they’re depleted or you’ve developed a tolerance it means the spark faded. there was never a spark. he was just love bombing.

Anonymous 126960

No one has these anymore. Everyone just marries who they’re with when they turn 30 now.



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dating ppl you’re not physically attracted to Anonymous 126942[Reply]

dating ppl you don’t find attractive is actually one of the most selfish and cruelest things some ppl do to each other. i can’t stand how some ppl actually think this is a virtuous act and think this makes the love you have for someone more valid. stop doing this. you’re way better off alone than doing this to another person.

Anonymous 126943

>>126942
This happens like extremely rarely anyway

Anonymous 126948

>>126942
You're right, and you also helped double convince me against even thinking about messing with this guy tonight. I was caught between "is he cute or the only guy dressed well tonight" and that's probably enough of a reason to just not.
I've been on the back end of that scenario, it's not fun. he was a porn sick guy who really didn't care about the woman's looks so long as they had a large cup size. I am small chested and eventually he sprung the "gift" of implants on me. And yeah it would be using the guy in a gross way, even if he technically is interested (but with a presumably excited and willing partner which I guess I'm not). My thoughts for getting with him absolutely are not virtuous though, I am lonely and post bad breakup with the aforementioned asshole lmao. I think some girls with uggos are like me, and some probably have low self esteem too like one of my friends who absolutely could do better than her ogrish Redditor bf

Anonymous 126959

icl my boyfriend is hella ugly



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Anonymous 126886[Reply]

if a man in your experience tended to listen to songs that mirrored his emotional state. and it turned out he had been listening to music that was basically either throwbacks, soothing instrumentals you know he listens to for anxiety, and otherwise pretty much entirely songs about being in the wrong and the kind of man who ruins his partners life without trying so they should stay away. like music about realizing too late you were wrong and it’s too late to apologize or redeem yourself. wishing you could go back and undo what you did. that you didn’t mean to hurt that person. that they were evil and dark and beyond redemption. would you believe they were sorry? would knowing someone didn’t intentionally hurt you make you feel better? especially if he was presenting a happy face to everyone and his music taste was alarmingly suicidal when it wasn’t before. he did not send me the playlist and we use different music apps. he’s just been silently listening to this stuff for years. is he sorry? is this a truer indication of his feelings than him trying to contact me and apologize?
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Anonymous 126947

>>126946
unfortunately with how we left things last, he has to be the one to reach out to me. i don’t even know a way to contact him but i know he can find me if he wanted to.

Anonymous 126949

>>126947
if he actually cares about what he did being wrong and me being okay, he would risk reaching out directly to give us both closure. so it makes me think he doesn’t. the music is confusing.

Anonymous 126956

i’m anxious avoidant which is worse so i fucking get it like you wouldn’t believe. but staying away after harming someone because you decide it’s what you would want when you have an entirely different attachment style and emotional mindset than the type of person seeking closure or comfort during pain is selfish. different people need different things.

Anonymous 126957

>>126956
avoidants tend to want to escape the emotions of people when they’re anxiously attached to them and then regret it when they come back to center and reach for the healthy part of the attachment again

Anonymous 126958

>>126957
it hes unaware or hasn’t healed or doesn’t think he deserves to/is capable then nothing will ever change



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 126941

>>126940
What do you do for work nona?

Anonymous 126951

>>126941
i work in retail making shit dollars an hour </3

Anonymous 126952

>>126951
ooff, I can't say I blame you then, retail is soul crushing. I wish it was and appreciated more since retail is critical to a functioning capitalistic society.

have you thought about doing some courses in your free time? you can do something like AAT or Excel courses so you can put something down on your CV to help you find entry level office work

Anonymous 126954

>>126952
ahh thank u for the suggestion ! ive been wondering about getting into some sort of office job just to escape my job rn </3 ill def keep that in mind for the future bc i dont know how to use those programs as i am rn lol.

Anonymous 126955

>>126954
yeah, anyone with a modicum of computer literacy can do pretty much any office job, hiring managers just like to see stuff like this to back it up. you'd be surprised how many boomers working at offices barely know how to use a computer



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 126907

>>126904
i just want to say i’m glad you’re in a good place about this. you would have heard if he died. he’s a freak for leaving it hanging that he might have died and he probably knows it upset you and that was the point. i’m glad you’ve realized that man is toxic. i’m sorry that hes suicidal but that’s a really cruel thing to do to someone and even as i’ve been in the process of attempting to harm myself, i had the wherewithal every time to know to hide it from other people so they wouldn’t be hurt by it. that’s not something you do to someone you love. that’s something you do to someone you’re trying to punish. i hope you find your happiness nona.

Anonymous 126927

>>126904
im sorry I asked Nona. I hope that moving on has been easy, for both of our sakes.

Anonymous 126930

just send me a text saying hi.

Anonymous 126934

i’m not going to write or check here anymore. i don’t want to let someone writing fake shit fuck this up for me. i hope you apologize for real. you’re wrong that it wouldn’t change anything.

Anonymous 126953

i have a karmic debt number related to overcoming fear and you have one related to mistreating others. our only way out is helping each other. i don’t want to have to do this again.



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no friends Anonymous 126841[Reply]

i have no friends at all except for my husband, and it gets so so lonely and im so sad i wish i had girl friends that i could talk makeup and hair and cute stuff with but nobody wants to talk to me ever and nobody wants to be my friend how do i make friend
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Anonymous 126844

I'll be your friend! How ya doing today?

Anonymous 126847

>>126844
omg im doing fine what about you ??

Anonymous 126945

>>126847
3 days late… I'm so sorry.

Not bad tbh. Just got out of work and I'm about to get ready for bed. I got another shift tomorrow, then three more shifts next week.

Whatcha going to do for Thanksgiving?



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Ugh short guys... Anonymous 126821[Reply]

There's a gorgeous guy at my local library who genuinely looks like a fucking josei character irl. But he's unbelievably short. Like, literally around 5'4 compared to my 5'7. Such a shame…to have such a pretty and well defined face on the body of a little boy. This world is cruel.

Anonymous 126867

>>126821
this feels like a moid social experiment post

Anonymous 126906

>>126867
It literally is, he really expected women to be like "ohh that's so true sis slay" so he could take a screencap n bitch and moan in /r9k/ lmfao fucking loser

Anonymous 126908

>>126906
there’s like five women here and a bunch of men spamming. why do they care about this place? because it’s not morally evil inherently like lolcow is so they want to punish the women here more for just being nice and chill?

Anonymous 126910

>>126821
i miss u

Anonymous 126944

I'm 5'0" I'll take him



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Any sex repulsed blackpillers here? Anonymous 126937[Reply]

>be me
>be blackpilled cuz of female role in sex being blackpilling
>Try to meet more like-minded women
>Meet none
>Feel misunderstood and lonely

Anonymous 126939

>>126937
Yes but not as blackpilled/nihilistic as you probably
voluntarily abstinent/virgin and celibate never had a bf few can relate but it brings me mystical insight



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Anonymous 126830[Reply]

Nice girls really do finish last. I've been single for a few years and have not talked to any man until recently. I finally approached a guy I thought was cute. We hit it off but I did not know he was crippled. He explained he attempted suicide and shot himself but miraculously survived and now one side of his body is crippled. He ruined his potential over his ex who treated him like shit. And now I'm just here to pick up the pieces I guess since this is all I can get. Damaged, used goods. Fml
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Anonymous 126911

>>126858
why not just leave. this is unbelievably cruel and i’m not going to defend men at all. but theres no way you are not emotionally disabled in some way and are on here. like i have ptsd i’m an emotional cripple. you are probably stunted or broken in some way too. and i think maybe that fear of being unable to be loved because of it is causing you to have these thoughts and post these terrible things. because you secretly feel that way about yourself.

Anonymous 126923

You sound like a cringy tiktard trying it's hardest to larp as a genderbent 4chan moid. Insufferable whiny cunt

Anonymous 126931

>>126883
she literally said he attempted suicide over his ex who treated him like shit he has issues

i think i misphrased it tho i was associating it with moids like the one she likes

its not about disability but many disabled moids will become incels bc their disability makes them undesirable and then they become kinda fucked up

Anonymous 126935

>>126931
maybe you're autistic or something because that doesn't sound like very unreasonable to tell about (1 life event that explains visible life debilitating change) especially if op asked him or if they "hit it off" hard enough

Anonymous 126936

>>126935
im an evil hag spirit



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