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It's so hard to be an ugly woman Anonymous 128426[Reply]

I'm not talking about any surface level looksmaxxing shit here like acne or needing a better haircut, I'm talking about genuine sub-3 ugliness. Facial asymmetries, recessed jaw, stuff that would require frankenstein shit to fix it. It's fine, some people are just ugly. It should be ALLOWED to be ugly with the face you're born with

Aside from the obvious - getting mistreated mostly by moids every step of the way… not being ignored, but outright aggression and insults.
Insults disguised as advice, insults disguised as concern, insults disguised as compliments (The other day I got a "You look amazing today you should wear this more often" from a really catty and mean gay coworker when I wore a sweatshirt with a high collar and hid the lower half of my face in it)

You can't even be yourself online because unless you face reveal, people won't believe how ugly you are. Not unless you prove it, which I obviously don't want to do…

I mostly just move on and try to ignore it but it got to me today, because I realised that in most online spaces I'm basically railroaded into LARPing as someone pretty.

"I bet you're cute/pretty/whatever"
If you say "I'm actually ugly enough that strange men approach me in the street to tell me this regularly" the other person sees this as you seeking compliments
"Nooo you're so hot queen"
"No way you're that bad looking"
"I'm sure you're beautiful"

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Anonymous 128484

>>128457
what country are you from

Anonymous 128489

>>128484
These happened in the UK

Anonymous 128490

>>128489
I was just gonna ask the same question as the other nona and it's very obvious you live in the UK, boys are the most uncivilized I've ever seen there

Anonymous 128491

>>128489
>>128490
yeah i was the one who asked and i knew. you just live in one of those weird neggy countries nona. they’re half hitting on you when they do that it’s like they’re too chickenshit to cat call in a positive way.

Anonymous 128494

>>128491
THAT is how they flirt??

>>128489
Maybe ask them in a genuine question if they are 'half-hitting' on you or if theyre being mean assholes to you

Usually ppl dont like being assholes when they realize theyre being one so perhaps making things clear to 'em will fix that


Think a lot of ppl experienced smt where youd have prefered smb not to do or say a certain thing but at the same time know it wasnt malicious but still ugh



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128486

i think you know looking at that picture of your friends wedding you participated in that that is not up to your standards and i think you know you have fewer people and even less than those people did. it will be worse. please stop embarrassing yourself. hard restart. stop listening to these fucked up incels and the woman sad enough to cater to like three at once in front of you. it’s so desperate.

Anonymous 128487

it’s shocking seeing you at a rock bottom this low. i didn’t think you could go lower and now i see you’re in free fall. your life is like an episode of hoarders or my strange addiction. it is terrifying what she has led you to. the absolute degenerate way you are living where you’ll end up on the streets together is horrifying. you have no future like this. you look like you’re fifty. you’ve aged decades in the year you’ve been in that relationship.

Anonymous 128488

this is the lowest you’ve ever been and i’m terrified for you.

Anonymous 128492

three more days and i think that we could actually both be okay if you what you said to me before was true. i think we could meet somewhere in the middle and bury the hatchet. i don’t want you to die. i don’t want your entire life to be so depressing and awful.

Anonymous 128493

I'm bleeding because of you, my life hasn't been the same since I met you, I can't even live a normal life anymore

Coping with life while trying to deal with incontinence is almost too much, maybe if you got raped by a silverback you'd understand my feelings



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Anonymous 128476[Reply]

How can I tell if I’m an impressionable person?

Anonymous 128477

u probably are cause most ppl are impressionable so just assume ur impressionable and then you can not be as impressionable as most ppl



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I am so tired of the modern dating world Anonymous 127745[Reply]

I really don't understand. I'm about to cry actually. I am trying my absolute best all the time, I am dating all the time, trying to talk to guys, I meet so many nice and sweet and interesting ones but they are never taking me out on any dates. I always initiate. Is it really that hard. Like I am actually very cute, 6'0, long hair, I take very good care of my looks, clothes, I have an apartment, job, I own property, my mental is semi ok, except I'm clingy, I have a very nice body. I have lots of hobbies and I am well read sort of, I don't spend time on social media. I have everything going for me and even that's not enough. I can't even get a movie date. All I want is to be taken to the movies and to be given some flowers. That's all I want. I think it happened once but only when I suggested to the guy to do that. Why do none of them want to do that with me? Are they really all that lazy and stupid? I have truly lost all hope in men, especially modern men, they have absolutely no idea how to treat people nice. Or maybe I'm too crazy. I hate men so much. I am literally like this against my own will. Female incel. Unlovable
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Anonymous 128443

>>128429
It’s just really uncomfortable for us both physically. He likes the look of a girl in his t shirts with no pants on, gushes about his 4’11” ex looked like that. They’re crop tops on me. He can’t pick me up and he’s into that. I can’t sit on his lap. He can’t spoon me. I can tell both of us are dissatisfied physically.

Anonymous 128460

>>128443
Treading carefully in a reasonable response but I think he should learn to princess carry you

Anonymous 128471

>>128443
is it really that bad? i have a crush on a guy 4 inches shorter than me and this is my worst fear

Anonymous 128473

>>128471
it was BRUTAL in high school and college people my bff was 5’11 and she would get ghosted and have the boy she dated pretend he didn’t know her when his friends started taunting him about the height difference. idk how it is with adults. i will say she said the same thing about being even a little larger than the man sucked for cuddling and she wasn’t big enough he could be a good little spoon so it just sucked overall. she likes dating much taller men now.

Anonymous 128475

>>128473
>idk how it is with adults
Adults are just older highschoolers these days.



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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 128440

OP again, embarrassed that I'm still posting here. Things have been crazy. I'm heading to a manga cafe tonight and meeting with my welfare manager tomorrow. I hope she can help me make a plan. I'm suddenly feeling really scared about everything.

Anonymous 128450

>>128440
I cant even believe this thread is still here…..but four years later here we are.

Anonymous 128467

OP here. I'm going to a shelter. I feel weirdly calm about it.

Anonymous 128468

OP again. I started second-guessing myself. Husband keeps calling and threatening to call the police (what?) and show up at my workplace (I'm not there). Suddenly I'm worried the shelter won't take me. I don't know what the shelter will be like, which worries me. I don't know how I'll find another job.

But at least I won't be abused any more.

Anonymous 128474

On my way to the shelter. My husband showed up at my workplace so they're filing a police report.



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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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Anonymous 127493

>>127480
>anger issues as a child that were never resolved
>very bad reputation on campus
>our college had to move us into seperate houses
Clearly they are seeing something you are blinding yourself to. Please be safe nona.

Anonymous 127571

>>127492
hell no never

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>>127480
>marxist
>philosophy student (me too)

Anonymous 128466

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Pros
> very sweet and kind, he plans cutes dates for us and is always nice…
> very cute, extremely out of my league
> smartie pants
> puzzle master
> lets me drag him along because he always gets lost otherwise
> has sex witb me on my period
> good taste in films/kino
> very good kisser
> sensible political views for the most part
> not a big whore
> always nice to talk to, very compatible in that way
> really really funny
> gets really sweaty but in a cyte way during sex

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Anonymous 128470

>>128469
>ctrl + f hot
>photo
>hotdog
>photography
>shots
>hot tempered
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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 128379

I miss him so fucking much nonas. Fucking bipolar.

Anonymous 128416

I slept 11 hours and then took a 2.5 hour nap and I'm still so tired. Stress exhaustion is real. Coffee only helps a little.

Anonymous 128435

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Other women (dumb) love me, men (dumb) hate me.
Other women (smart) hate me or just kinda generally stay away, men (smart) love me.

Anonymous 128441

i truly have no one. i’m so painfully sad.

Anonymous 128462

I gave myself a hangover.



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Anonymous 128419[Reply]

feels like I'm excluded from womanhood because I have a hormonal condition (pcos) and I'm a tomboy
>Be me
>25 year old female ,who powerlifts
>Have a decent amount of muscle and deep voice due to pcos as well as body hair from the age of 12
>Join a women's only art discord server
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend,I say no
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped and instantly banned
>Had enough because this happens to me everyday,even in the women's bathrooms. Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod ,and get promptly banned again as expected (that's fair enough)

Damn

Anonymous 128422

lol what, I think it’s just them being permanently online. Is there anything that makes your art look masc in particular? Seems like a very odd comment from them

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>>128422
I'm not really sure ,I posted this photo of this painting I made of my boyfriend and they thought he made it. Even tho I explicitly said I did. They banned me because of my voice ,which I have a deep voice especially now since I'm going through premature menopause ( due to the pcos )

Anonymous 128424

This gotta be fake nobody's this retarded
Then again… i have been wrong before
If true they knew (and were just being malicious)

Anonymous 128425

>>128424
I wish it was ,but it's not. I'm very lonely and wish I had some female art friends. But women hate me because they think I'm trans

Anonymous 128461

>>128423
Is your boyfriend Jasper?



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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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Anonymous 128311

Besides satisfying my physiological needs, not much. I think a lot. From the moment i wake up i start thinking and i don't stop thinking until all my energy is depleted. It is lonely to be a thinker, to have realized things that take long time to realize, because you can't explain to others something that takes long time to realize for the same reason you can't learn a language by having someone explain it to you. It takes time and i have spent a lot of it. Now there is an abyss between me and other humans, it feels lonely, but at the same time i feel fortunate, i regret nothing. There is a way back to people, some day i might start helping them, but my compassion is still lacking.

Anonymous 128312

>>125667
Self study. Free courses online. Laugh at streams. Hobbies. Cloud watching, painting, woodwork. Explore. Go on virtual tours. Plenty of free crap to do online and IRL. Volunteer.

Anonymous 128320

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I'm over 30. It's possible that I have AuDHD but I never got diagnosed, and never will. I just watch useless videos, scroll useless sites, read useless things, argue with useless people online, and do useless stuff. I live with my parents and help around the house, and I watch movies during days where I don't feel guilty about wasting my time.

I have tried many attempts to change my life, but my attempts always crumble because I try to take drastic steps to change. I try to change to take steps that could be as simple as starting to go out for a walk or as drastic as getting an interview but I could never really make it out. The simple changes don't stick for more than a weak and the drastic changes are too overwhelming I just crash out the next days and completely hit rock bottom again.

Anonymous 128350

>wake ups
>feel distorted and scared
>eat
>think about watching an anime, reading a manga, finding a job
>don't
>it feels like I'm forgetting something important
>think about learning something
>don't
>eat
>sleep
>wake ups
>pain
>didn't I have this day already

Anonymous 128421

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Smoke ciggies like a real woman
But in all honesty I just do art all day and lift with my husband , I clean he cooks so it's a good dynamic



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