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Vent thread Anonymous 132763[Reply]

Again we need to vent
Previous Thread >>>/feels/129800
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Anonymous 134039

>>134018
Never chase after males, they return when they feel you're done with them
Mine ghosted me for ~2 months and a week passed after I blocked him, and he came bck to me and he's now mentally my slave

Anonymous 134040

>>134029
He's enjoying stringing you along, he likes that you're on your knees at his mercy, stop this bullshit and realize when you're the one running away they start to chase

Anonymous 134054

>>132837

They're called "sneaky fuckers". Its a specific type of white knight man who pretends to have the morals/beliefs that he thinks will get him laid. It's a slimy way to get into your pants. You're better off trusting men who disagree with you because at least they are honest and won't lie.

Anonymous 134057

I'm almost graduating as a pharmacist. While I'm waiting to defend my master thesis i started working in retail pharmacy and fuck I hate this so much what the hell! Customers are a pain in the ass, I probably use 5% of what I learned and technicians that did a 9-month online course are doing the same I do for 100€ less, and have no worries or responsibilities. Can't wait to officially graduate, and move to either hospital or follow the academic route. They're shitty as well but at least I'll be a little happier. Oh well.

Anonymous 134073

Sorry, you don't get to see my poetry.

It's private.

For now…



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autistic and undersocialized Anonymous 134066[Reply]

I am frustrated by my autism, my poor socialization and my general naivete. I have only dated women for the past 15 years and hardly ever have to interact with men, and I consider myself lucky for it, but it also means I second guess myself a lot when do have to interact with them. Many years ago I had an awkward experience where a man hired me for a job but turned out to be interested in me instead. It took me a long time to realize this - like years after the job was over. I guess he realized I wasn't biting and backed off.

Now I'm getting into another job where I'd be working under a male acquaintance that I knew from when we were both young adults, and I'm scared that he might have ill intentions under the guise of a job offer. Or rather, that I don't have the experience with men and in the world in general to be able to interpret a man's intentions, especially when most conversations are in writing. But the few times we have met in person to discuss the job I feel like he stares too much at my cleavage and my body and I don't know if this is a normal man thing or a red flag.

What do i do s. I don't even know what my question is. are there any easy tells or signs to know where a man's friendly character ends and his ill intentions begin? am i being too paranoid? I'm not in a position to be refusing a job right now, especially as he's paying me three times as much per hour as my previous employer, and I won't find a rate anywhere near that good anywhere else.

Anonymous 134069

How did the job offer come around? He offered you unprompted, or what?



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Wanting to find a community of femcels again Anonymous 127816[Reply]

A few years ago, I used to be very active on femcel discord servers and made lots of friends through there. For the first time in years I felt seen by equally autistic and celibate women. We even agreed on a lot of TERF stuff which was based. Then I made the dumb decision to try normie maxxing. I left the femcel servers, found a relationship (didn't end up working out) and even tried befriending neurotypical women. Now I am more depressed and even worse off than I was before the femcel servers. My neurotypical friends don't get me and they ostracize me. I lost the relationship. I've even gotten more depressed and am a full NEET not leaving the house because I hate socializing anymore because people always find me disagreeable just because I'm not super liberal and don't coddle trannies. I just wish there was a way for me to rejoin the femcel discord servers I was apart of but I can't find any on discord anymore.

Anonymous 127821

>>127819
A femcel server I used to be on was a server called Femdom. Would you happen to know of it by any chance?

Anonymous 127822

>>127821
*Femceldom
My mistake

Anonymous 134068

I don't think femcel spaces can really exist without being fetishised, targeted or internally sabotaged. It's so grim. I wish they were around and immune to being ruined



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Prayer Thread Anonymous 122943[Reply]

For yourself, for others, for the world, any way you want to pray.
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Anonymous 131889

can i get a prayer. can i get a prayer, anyone

Anonymous 131964

>>131889
A prayer for anything specifically?

Regardless may god bless and keep you always friend. God stays with anyone who wants to be kind and better themselves in this world.

Anonymous 131975

>>131964
nothing in particular, all i wanted was to see who'd reply. thank-you

Anonymous 132057

i pray for your light to illuminate my face. Please show me your light.

Anonymous 134067

If a prayer can be contained in text, if I can send out a hope with no effort at all, if I can love and be loved without knowing a single bit of flesh, if I can ask God for anything, if I can be so presumptuous, if I can dare and deal with remaining unrewarded, could I ask, please, for the goodness in this world to win over the dark



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vent/tw!SA/Rape Anonymous 134056[Reply]

men claim femcels dont exist and then refuse to date or have romantic relations with a woman of specific ethnicity. They expect us all to have big tits or something. they get mad at us for saying something terrible about them, and then expect to get away with saying horrid things about women. yeah sorry we think rape and pedophilia is bad. They claim women are the main reason for their suffering and refuse to acknowledge that maybe their methods of living are the bigger problem. pisses me off. especially since i've seen the diabolical posts about women of specific ethnicities being made. slurs, all that. is it really harder being a man? they constantly claim femcels don't exist by offering to date ANYONE. they don't even mean it, they just wanna make some false sort of point. it's stupid as hell. the main cause of male suffering is other men. men clown on eachother much more than women do. women tend to be a lot more supportive with each other while men are just whole-hearted asses. they're the problem, not women. They're the source of each other's suffering. they cause majority of crimes and disgusting cases. They suddenly get all pissy about lindsey clancy and not about the hundreds of other men who've killed their own children. Not out of post partum depression or mental illnes, but from "getting annoyed" by their kids. remind me whos issue it is now? No matter the age, no woman is safe. I was five when my mother would constantly take me to these gatherings. They were mostly her friends and stuff. One of her friend's sons was around college age and would always lift up my skirt or dress to touch me. I was five. and he was in his 20's. I hate men for what they did to me. for what they've done to my sister, who had gotten brutally sexually assaulted in highschool. They made her lick the pee from under the urinals afterwards. They made her piss herself. made me just wanna throw up. Men are the source of all female problems. Misogyny gets women killed, misandry annoys men. fuck every man out there who's done terrible things.
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Anonymous 134059

>>134056
scrotes aren’t lonely enough. Im glad incels are suffering. It’s natural selection

Anonymous 134060

right? Loneliness isn’t enough. They’re calling their own mothers whores, I hate these subhuman rats with my whole being.

Anonymous 134061

men expect to get away with this behavior because they often do. so many women stay with horrible men and get trauma bonded and when they realize they need to escape it's too late cause they have a kid and the house is in his name, she doesn't have a stable job and he isolated her from her friends and family.
women that are lonely insecure and have trauma are ridiculously easy to manipulate and trauma bond. they literally say "my bf does [insert insanely horrible thing here] but he's nice otherwise what should i do> :(" and it's sad.
a lot of women are very lonely and will do anything for a crumb of affection and warmth from a man. and they used it to their advantage. most don't respect or love you but will pretend to be the nicest and sweetest guys you met.

Anonymous 134063

Forced celibacy due to a lack of safe and reasonable options for partners is not a sex specific phenomenon. I hate their bullying, whining attitude.

Anonymous 134065

I don't hate men of my own inspiration. They hate me first and I respond accordingly. None of them are true incels nowadays, just fakes who can't get stacy and feel wronged by nobody throwing pussy at them



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Anonymous 134047[Reply]

i'm tired of being therapisted

Anonymous 134064

Tired of getting sent to a therapist and it not helping? or tired of being a therapist friend? what do you mean



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Long Distance Relationships Anonymous 44204[Reply]

Thread to discuss Long Distance Relationships. The struggles, the pros… meeting the person for the first time… meeting them for the 50th time… vent both sad and happy things. LDRs can be quite a challenge but it's the right thing for some people.
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Anonymous 133817

>>133810
Does he have an equally generous and clingy friend by chance?

Anonymous 134050

I'm about to sponsor my bf of 3 years. Sometimes, I wonder if he's just using me for a visa and a lot of people say he is even without meeting him. We met online but we've also met in person. His only red flag is how secretive he is. He only uses Brave browser on incog and has 0 search history on his phone and his computer. He also does not want to post me on his social media (he claims he's just not active online). I fear he'll use me as a stepping stone into the USA and discard me when I'm no longer of use to him.

best case scenario:
>get to spend forever with someone I love.
>cheap rent

worst case scenario:
>he uses me for a visa
>we divorced
>I might be financially in a hole since I'll technically

even worst case scenario:
>he's a pyshco/ physically abusive

Anonymous 134051

>>134050
He clearly has something to hide. I've met people that aren't active and they've never cared whether or not you post on their socials.

Check his. Do not take no for an answer.

Anonymous 134055

>>134050
>>134051
As much as I hate to agree with this, this is probably true. The mature way to go about handling this is just to tell him how you're feeling about it and ask if you can see it. His reaction will tell you all you need to know. The best outcome is that he shows it to you without a fight, break up circumstance is if he fights over it and it's suspicious if he says yes but tries to make you wait for it.

Anonymous 134062

>>134050
Men hiding internet activity is always suspicious
He's probably into some illegal stuff or has multiple gfs like you
And yeah he could be using you for visa, did he invest inyou at all (send you money etc)



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Anonymous 132317[Reply]

help i don’t know if this is the wrong place to ask this or if this is gross and tmi but like i genuinely dont know if this normal
so everytime i masturbate by penetration i pee… is that fucking normal ive looked everywhere and it said that it’s just squirting but i don’t know if it’s actually that and i’m fucking scared that if i get boyfriend and we have sex i’ll fucking piss on him
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Anonymous 133870

>>133863
sounds normal, just make sure to put a towel under you

Anonymous 134046

very late to this but - it sounds like you might have a weak pelvic floor . it usually happens post-pregnancy but yours could be genetic or from incontinence from smth else. i'd just put a towel down when u guys have sex , maybe ask your doctor about it if you think it's really concerning.

Anonymous 134048

>>133863
The bladder is close to the "hidden" part of the clit. When it's full, it pushes against it. So when you masturbate with a full bladder you're basically having your clit stimulated from two sides at once.

Anonymous 134052

>>134048
holy shit

Anonymous 134053




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do bad things happen as much as ppl say? Anonymous 120729[Reply]

I have rly low empathy even for friends and I constantly find it very hard to believe that 'bad things' actually happen to people. I've had friends tell me about being assaulted and stuff and even though I don't show it on the outside I am internally thinking 'she is probably lying for attention'. I go through life and people are always really nice to me and they're generally pretty rational, polite, decent, so I find it hard to believe bad things like that actually happen as much as people say they do. Like every person I know seems to say they've been assaulted or something. Is this sort of thing actually normal or am I some kind of sociopath? Or is it just cuz I'm privileged? I can't help but believe people just make this stuff up for attention.
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Anonymous 121556

What do you mean, bad things? Robbery? Battery? Cancer? Rape? Getting felt up in a crowd?

I'm certain sexual assault is way underreported. I'm just an ugly weirdo who never goes out or talks to anyone and even I've been groped, and when I redeemed my free scrotoid thinking a romantic relationship would alleviate my loneliness, he pressured me into sex, held me down, tried to control me financially, all the usual things men do to socialize.

Anonymous 121557

>>120729
My hot and controversial take is that you're not wrong. Who knows what's good or bad?

Anonymous 121572

>>120729
you’re probably not even an actual sociopath, just an asocial neet who never leaves the house. nothing bad ever happens to you because i’m guessing very little at all happens to you.

Anonymous 121573

>>121556
women with male friends and partners, women who go to school, women who go to social events, women who use substances, women are socially naive or shy or easily pushed around, autistic women, any kind of woman who struggles with boundaries or are socially isolated.. like what do you think happens to shy lonely women who hang out with very few people and end up alone with a creep who sees they would lose everything socially for speaking up? do you think most boyfriends are patient when waiting to get laid? men will push women to over indulge on substances or pretend they are more wasted than they are to come on to women inappropriately. it’s fucking constant and most women at high risk have multiple risk factors.

Anonymous 134049

Most people are dumb and naive. They trust people easily and that's why they unfortunately end up being victims a lot. Some do learn from bad experiences and use that to have people pity them for extra attention, it's fucking weird.



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