>>130268Probably the most important post ever made on the state of men and women today. Here we have a woman perfectly describing how men naturally have always been, what they want from women; yet it's described in a way that comes off as sad, because women no longer fit a support class, they are brought up and trained to be men themselves. They end up becoming their own little person, so it's not easy to become a helper and comforter to a man, to conform to him, to give up yourself because you've built up so much.
Men only change in attitude for women when their wife is holy and graceful, as Paul describes in the 1st century.
Some women after being brainwashed do revert back to factory settings somewhat after school and follow a man, becoming a helper. But it's not women's fault that they're being severed from their femininity and becoming more independent. I don't think it's a good idea, I don't think it'll work in the end.
No man is ever going to care how much of a "person" you are. How full of your own ideas you are, what kind of person you made yourself out to be. So in terms of relationship, it's just a waste and will cause conflict. But act with devotion and grace and he will become a great gentle kind soul and become everything women gush over or whatever.
