>>126938>i think i would rather it have been a complete stranger who hurt me randomly than someone i thought i was safe with. yup, same
>i started out a perfect victim but i didn’t end up as one. i honestly would rather be a fighter than a martyr who just lays there and takes it. once again you're absolutely right
>to be fair his friend was also deliberately making the situation worse, probably to create the feeling of an us vs them and form some sort of false us against the world type bond. i’m sure she had some sort of reason too but it was scary for me and i thought she was going to hurt me. Yeah that's a fucking horrible ass dynamic and it's similar to one I had, your guy is an immature dependent dumbass I'm sorry, but he was so weak he literally couldn't see the destruction he created by acting like some resource to be fought over. I know a guy like this too lol, literally what happened to my friend recently where she invited him to a group chat and the guy brought along some bitch who attached himself to him and just attacked my friend. While he did nothing lmfao literally unable to take responsibility for his actions because he's so dependent on some psycho.
So yeah he's extremely immature, even more than I assumed. He can't even take responsibility for his emotions to the point where he feels them but won't take action to solve it.
>i guess at the end of the day he didnt/couldnt stop her from screaming at me and he didn’t say he disagreed. but he also didn’t yell at me himself or let her physically harm me. so i reacted pretty negatively to that and rubbed him calling me terrible before in his face while i lashed out and called him terrible namesSeems reasonable. Honestly it is something worth to be mad about, but moreso despite these people being literal pushovers they have a great potential for harm. This happened to me too more or less.
I wouldn't be surprised if your guy lowkey waits for you to take action or someone else to solve his shit cause he's so passive at life. Anyways your reaction is completely justified from what I see I wouldn't even say you need to apologize, but it's up to you.