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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 125810

>>125808
To steal and paraphrase someone elses comment… The thing depressed people want is company, and when shit is bad they want someone to help them. Psychiatrists, therapists and (to some extent) counsellers do not offer company and they definately do not offer help.

Therapists on reddit are just angry their ineffectual help is, inevitably ineffectual and get angry at the patient for being failed by themselves. They go around wokescolding people for saying "cheer up" to depressed people when they simultaneously expect all their patients to pull themselves up by the mental health bootstraps and magically cheer themselves up because they told their life story to the eighth therapist in a row.

Anonymous 125812

>>125810
i just dont know what else to do though… i dont have many friends to help me and the friends i do have i dont want to bother with this because thatd probably be exhausting for them to deal with and i dont want to lose them. cant seek therapy either. i live a very isolated life and i just cant find it in myself to fix it because of aforementioned mental problems

Anonymous 125814

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This poem makes me a bit sad and annoyed. I guess it made me think "Why starve for whole when I could feed on half? I don't want to lose it all searching for more."
It's the kind of mindset a person has when they've burned every bridge searching for something they may never find. Self-soothing and lonely.

Anonymous 125816

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Being loved makes me feel evil and guilty, like I've committed some horrible impropriety on the other person.
I don't know why I feel that way, but I always have. I think I feel the need to make sense of why some people pass me by, while others see something in me. If the latter are right, I'm a narcissist for thinking so. It feels more noble to hate myself, but accepting that I can be loved in earnest (and love myself) puts me on a pedestal I can fall off of anytime. Believing that whoever loves me isn't just deluded also means trusting them not to abandon me when I fall off the pedestal, and it's too scary. I want to overcome this thought pattern, but I don't know where to start. I'm worried I'm not making sense.

Anonymous 125817

>>125816
You should sui



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 125801

i really hope you don’t think some of the ones i’ve seen lately are from me. my brain is screaming at me like a demon about you occasionally still but i cannot hate you any longer. if i can fix this pain in myself i’ll be so strong nothing can ever touch me again. i can’t hate you and heal me. i can’t view you as evil without viewing myself as evil. i fucking hate that therapy works but it does.

Anonymous 125803

i don’t want you to ever get over me. not even when i disappear, not even when i say goodbye. i want you to keep a space for me even if it hurts. i want you to miss me when something reminds you of my voice. i want you to ache the way i do when i realize it’s not you messaging or reaching out to me. i want you to feel that hollow space i left. because i’m still here in the shadows, loving you in silence. even if my fear and shame always make me leave. even if i say things i don’t mean. even if i’m a storm you never asked for. just please don’t ever forget me. please love me forever the way i know i’ll love you forever. don’t replace me. not yet. not ever.

Anonymous 125809

i hope one day you realize that every thought you ever had about me was projection. we werent even friends but you built up this entire image of me that wasnt even close to reality. you took a couple of anecdotes and thought you knew me as a person. you scare me and i hope that was a one time thing rather than what your internal dialogue is always like. because im worried for the other women in your life and i hope you dont escalate that thinking.

Anonymous 125811

i really think you should stop trying to talk to me. this is between the two of us and your involvement has never helped either of us. you were never involved and i have no idea why people try to insert themselves into things to try and cause trouble for other people.

Anonymous 125815

i just dreamed of all of you and i meant that in a kind way. i hope you realize that.



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Anonymous 125813[Reply]

Why is life so hard to feel SAFE as a woman


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Outraged that I'm supposed to find most scrotes attractive Anonymous 125434[Reply]

It is more like 2% and I think they're all abominations. How am I expected to give a shit about anything when the world is a cesspit full of disgusting, backwards ugly scrotes and their shitty crumbling domain built on financial parasitism and environmental rape??? Theyre mostly a disease and indifferent to the big picture

So I should be attractive why? I don't want the ugly filth looking at me. How is that so hard for other women to understand though? Of course I don't want the monstrosities looking at me. Of course I don't want to be attractive. How is it possible you still have to explain this to other women in 2025?
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Anonymous 125770

They look hideous and sit back in their ass sweat stained chairs critiquing the shit out of every "flaw" in beautiful women. Seen so many scrotes cheat on objectively attractive girls for some perceived flaw meanwhile they looked like they crawled out of a sewage pipe

Anonymous 125774

>>125770
for real. my ugly ass brother does this all the time and he doesn’t even groom himself. where do these scrotes get their audacity?

Anonymous 125781

>>125483
This is how I feel towards all the women in feels lamenting no Nigel. It's not that great I know from experience.

Anonymous 125786

>>125770
Then when they are remotely young / attractive their personalities are intolerably manipulative and opportunistic in this cavalier way. They still act like everyone owes them everything, they can do no wrong even when their personalities are insufferable

Anonymous 125807

>>125770
This post screams that your only exposure to men is through imageboards. Most men irl are very stupid but mostly normal.



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how to know someone is a fuckboy? Anonymous 125779[Reply]

I met a guy (unfortunately through a dating app and I haven't had a kiss in the last 3 years, we are going to for a date this Monday but, I really wanna know if anyone here had dealt with a fuckboy before and how to notice if I'm just gonna lose my time, he said he is open for a long time relationship so, at least the "open" may mean something? I won't open my legs coz we met.

Yeah that's all
Wish my stupid ass some luck, he is really cute ngl

And he is a nerd, quite a big nerd tbh, someone that collects anime figures and paint warhammer stuff at the end of the day goes against the "i go to the gym and I have a six pack" type of guy only, or that's what I think, sighs…
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Anonymous 125795

>>125790
Agree. A lot of men have caught on to the fact that being nerdy is the new meta since girls don’t trust the traditional fratty fuckboys.

Source: My ex was a super nerdy dorky guy and he ended up cheating on me w two different girls

Anonymous 125797

adding onto the nerdy fuckboy thing too. it has been meta since around covid.

also men's consumption of pornography is around 78%-91.5%. Why do I mention this? Because nerdy men usually have more issues with porn addiction. In general men do, but I've noticed bad prevalence in the group you've mentioned. Obviously with earlier screen usage. Reason of this mattering is it's like being a lite fuckboy (misogynistic) that is obsessed more with images of women than you when the honeymoon phase is over causing dehumanizing effects or he has PIED or some weird shit.

hopefully he's normal. good luck.

Anonymous 125798

>>125779
How tall is he?

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Anonymous 125800

>>125799
It seems like a simple question to me.



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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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Anonymous 125670

My answer depends on this: why are you a neet.

Anonymous 125672

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I can hardly immerse myself in anything. Most I do is think and think and think

Anonymous 125674

>>125672
too bad! do it NOW
go to library and do not bring any phone or ordinator and you will have a gay time

Anonymous 125675

>>125672
I like the days where that doesn’t happen to me.

Anonymous 125791

A friend asked me to make a website so thats what Im gonna do now since Im still unemployed



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Anonymous 125548[Reply]

Are relationships supposed to be one sided?

>They only talk about themselves

>You have to talk about them or something related to them
>You have to ask questions and try to make it fun or interesting for them
>If you share something about yourself, they are instantly disinterested and don't care
>They don't care to ask you anything and don't want to know anything about you
>The moment you stop making any effort, everything stops
>They're sincerely not interested unless it's sharing something about themselves or their interests
>When they are having a bad day, you want to be there for them. If you are having a bad day, they don't care
>People who only ask how you are so they can talk about their problems
>Friends sometimes need more support after a bad day or life-altering event. That is normal. But if you have a bad day or life-altering event, they literally don't care
>They will dominate a whole conversation no matter how many people are present. If it's a one on one conversation then it feels like it's 90/10.
>Most advice about being a good listener and putting in effort is met with being totally one-sided
>People just talk about themselves constantly
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Anonymous 125552

No.

Anonymous 125553

Honestly sounds like it might be a point of view problem. Maybe you are underestimating how much effort the other parties are putting into the relationship. I did the same thing when I was younger.

Anonymous 125554

>>125548
Warren the Eagle?

Anonymous 125744

Nope.

Anonymous 125789

Theyll always gonna talk about themselves or their favorite football team no matter how much you dont give a shit about it. At least youll know what they are easier so thats a positive thing.



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bf attracted to other girls Anonymous 123128[Reply]

am i supposed to just accept that every guy is going to be attracted to other girls, even while he’s in a relationship with me? people say it’s normal, but honestly, it really hurts. i wish it didn’t get to me, but it does. my boyfriend always follows hot egirls on social media and sometimes even talks about how hot he finds them, celebs or not. it hurts. and yeah, even when it’s a celebrity, it still stings. i don’t really see a difference between him saying that about a famous girl or some everyday girl. it still makes me feel like shit. i’m struggling to come to terms with this ‘norm’, but it feels like i have to. seems like every guy is like this, and there’s no escaping it. it honestly makes me feel sick. what am i supposed to do?
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Anonymous 125647

>>125644
Nobody said otherwise idiot. I highly doubt you’re a woman and even if you were I have no interest in engaging with one who thinks women who critique degeneracy don’t enjoy sex. Very male centered way of inserting yourself into the conversation. Also just very out of touch. Do better dumbass.

Anonymous 125648

>>125647
Nta but you post like such a caricature of a radfem I wouldn't be surprised if you're a man deliberately trying to sow discord. Chill out nona

Anonymous 125649

>>125648
Zzzzzz

Anonymous 125650

>>125647
>I have no interest in engaging with one who thinks women who critique degeneracy don’t enjoy sex
never said that

Anonymous 125776

sounds like classic male negging. dated a guy just like this once. my favourite is when he denied why he would follow these girls in the first place. glad that’s over with. you can do better girl



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Anonymous 125487[Reply]

me and my bf aren't compatible

Anonymous 125489

Why does he not like mogeko games?

Anonymous 125680

same but we are 3 years in ahahaha

Anonymous 125775

why aren’t you guys compatible? don’t leave us hanging nona



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