You sound like a cringy tiktard trying it's hardest to larp as a genderbent 4chan moid. Insufferable whiny cunt

>>126883
she literally said he attempted suicide over his ex who treated him like shit he has issues

i think i misphrased it tho i was associating it with moids like the one she likes

its not about disability but many disabled moids will become incels bc their disability makes them undesirable and then they become kinda fucked up

>>126931
maybe you're autistic or something because that doesn't sound like very unreasonable to tell about (1 life event that explains visible life debilitating change) especially if op asked him or if they "hit it off" hard enough

>>126935
im an evil hag spirit

>>126830
I'm not sure cute outweights crippled + porn addict this doesn't sound like a good deal
I knew a guy who suffered nerve damage from a failed an hero attempt and the constant chronic pain makes it extremely hard to function and not to abuse painkillers/porn to deal with it

>>126931
I'd like your thoughts on this but I've come to believe inceldom is a cope that only losers use to explain being social rejects without having to face their own inner ugliness - this mix of indulgent laziness and entitlement to muh waifu that results in the bitter inceldom we know, in my experience moids who come to terms with their unattractiveness or take some accountability are less likely to fall into it

>>127033
On the bright side you are popular enough to sway entire social dynamics nona! He was an asshole but he can't take away that from you. Thanks, I'm gonna head off to bed now. Have a nice time of day wherever you are <3

i dont know what to do with my life sometimes i just want to run away from everything and im such a mean person and im so angry all the time everything just goes wrong all the time and money is so ao so so soooooo apalling i had to quit my job because it was degrading and insulting and now i cant find work elsewhere i became a nail tech and im not getting clients and no matter how much i try or good i get ot doesnt seem to go anywhere and im afraid it will never work out because i dont have that beautiful cute look that all the people im the beauty biz have nor the personality and im just pouring money down the drain and eventually im gonna have to go get a real job again which i dont even know if i am capable as i am always late no matter what its like im retarded or what even if i do wake up early or on time something always comes up and makes me late i am so stupid i have no real education o only have 3 years of highschool in a degree i dont gaf about no college cant afford to go to college i have a daughter that starts kindergarten soon and its too late to opt out and tell them hey she wont be going because theres no kids nearby and it would be good to socialize but what kind of fucked up is it to send your child away while you sit at home esentially doing nothing i hate cleaning i hate cooking and other chores i hate my life i love my duaghter but i am just such a mess she deserves so much better but i dont know how to do better i still live with my parents and everything is just shit shit shit i watch videos of couples or friends or just people hanging out and i imagine myself in them how different my life couldve been how i couldve been someone who is not me and every day i am just stuck thibking about how i could be someone else at times i dont even feel like im here i look in the mirror and i am disgusted at the fat ugly ogre i am..in the back of my head im still a cute skinny 15 year old and i just sit and look and everything just reminds me kf something else thats not here cold wind blows and im somewhere else i light a burnt cigarette i am somewhere else the sun is warm i am somewhere else and i just cry about it why cant i just fix my life and do better.i meet an online friend and im already deluded about her i think about how i could be her how she hangs out with her boyfriend and i am both her and her boyfriend or perhaps i sit and watch or we all hang out together or i live on a beach where nothing happens and water hits the rocks all day

>>127076
water hitting rocks on a beach is something happening. the ocean is very powerful. go sit by it and it’ll draw you in a friend with the tides. don’t trust any man who tells you he’s been having visions of you doing this however.

I can’t believe I just started this job a month ago and already developed a crush on this moid. He doesn’t even work with me since he’s in a different department but I wouldn’t describe it as a crush at this point but a borderline infatuation/obsession. I’ve never had one before so I don’t know if this is exactly normal. I’ve been isolated from other people for so long that I have no standard normal behavior to follow or emulate. I’ve stalked this moid on socials and went out of my way to create a Facebook just to see what he’s posted on his account. His account is just mainly normal posts and doesn’t seem very active. So it stood out to me to see that he’s finally posted last month for the first time in a year of him playing his guitar which I found cool. He’s easy to find online but doesn’t have too much of an internet fingerprint it seems. I even searched him up on those find people sites where you can see someone’s address and if they have any criminal records. Not sure exactly why I did that since I don’t really care to know where he lives but that’s when I realized I should chill. He comes across as an asshole at times even though I don’t interact with him much but I’m not sure what it is that I see in him. I think this might just be me feeling this way after he’s went out of his way to talk to me and help. He’s also lanky and has acne all over his face yet I’m still finding myself like this. I feel pathetic

>>127076
It's hard for you. I'm sorry it's hard for you. Sometimes things are hard and we need someone to struggle with us because then it doesn't feel like we've failed, it just feels like things are hard right now. Things are hard for me too, not in the same way, but I'm not in a good way at the moment and I hate cleaning too.

Your daughter is kindergarten age; it will be work but you can teach her some basic chores to help you out around the house. As she gets older she'll be able to help out more. I guess you could live your life for your daughter. Get her to try in school. Tell her you didn't and you wish you could've, how important an education is so she doesn't end up optionless. It's what my parents told me, and even though they were clueless about how bad things were going to get, I tried in school and I have options and I'm glad I tried in school if only because it means I don't need to worry about money now. I still worry about money, but it's a middle-class worry. I don't worry about money the way they used to worry about money, money as the progenitor of arguments. Money as an either/or. Either we have dinner or new shoes, so I better bear with these broken shoes. I'm glad to be out of that struggle, but I think being poor taught me a lot about resourcefulness, and how far you could stretch everything you had. When I was a child I found duct tape on the ground while walking to school, and I treasured it like gold. When you're poor, small things bring you great excitement and joy. I hope she loved the beach, it would've been nice.

Don't live through your daughter though (harder than it looks). Live for her. I don't have a child, I hope to have one some day, but I imagine I could love my child so much that I'd do anything to make their life better than mine. Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe I'd love that child and even if I couldn't do much for them, I'd try tell them all of my mistakes, and I'd try guide them away from those mistakes. I know it's futile; we learn through failure. I wouldn't force my child to get a job, I think school is a full-time job as is. I think I'd love my child so much I'd find a way to make things happen. A child deserves a chance, but I'm not American so I don't know how much opportunity the land of opportunity still proffers. I don't have a child so I don't know what it's like to have a child.

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>>127046
>the memories are yours forever

That's not what alzheimer's and dementia said

>>127048
Well then you’re just screwed and should find a way to euthanise yourself before you hurt your loved ones

you can’t take loved away.

People stay when they're getting something from you. Doesn't mean you're a bad person if nobody stays with you, just that you need to learn skills ppl need. It's like a job.

>>127064
this is so true it breaks my heart. and men only ever want one thing. i wish i’d never found out how quickly i would be discarded when i couldn’t provide sex temporarily

i know I will get hate for that, but femininity and masculinity is biological, it's not a social construct. Gender is biological. That's why I reject my biology. I hate my biological femininity and what it entails for us in sex.

I don't feel oppressed by men. I feel oppressed by my biology. Especially in sex.

>>126757
>I don't feel oppressed by men. I feel oppressed by my biology. Especially in sex.

Explain?

OP it sounds to me like you're taking what you see in p*rn for reality. I guarantee you it's not.

>>126663
This

>>126666
No they're fucking not. It is a skewed, reductive view of feminity.
You're so wrong that Satan himself blessed you with demonitc digits lmao

>>127072
i agree. you have to watch porn to have these thoughts. stop watching that shit

>can you ever heal from growing up unwanted + ostracized by your peers?
This one is really hard desu and requires a lot of support from others to recover. Bottom line is you need to be wanted and accepted by others.
If the extent of the damage done to you by ostracization was limited to your self-esteem, you'll probably have an easier time recovering by simply glowing up and changing your environment to a less racist one. You have an issue but you're pretty independent socially.
But if there was serious damage done to your socialization to a point where you're self-isolating weird etc then you'll need much more actual help.

>>125731
Not OP, but sometimes I think some women in spaces like these sort of take it as a slight against all women when a woman talks about feeling ugly, lonely or pathetic or like a loser or something, and they feel the need to overperform how much of an outlier she is or that she's probably a larping moid, like embarrassedly saying "she's not with us" in case an outsider conflates her situation with yours. I don't think that's very fair. This mindset is why I never feel like I can vent about never having a boyfriend before, as if that's somehow remotely implying that applies to everyone here. It doesn't and you shouldn't care what hatereading scrotes think, even with perfect optics they would still make up bullshit reasons to insult women anyway, as they always have done for centuries including back when female outcasts were less prevalent than today.

If anything, I think it's a bit of a horseshoe to imply all women naturally live fabulous lives free of any insecurity, stress or problems. And maybe I'm being a retarded schizo, but "pinkpill" seems like an Inglourious Basterds wrong fingers moment. I thought feminism is the purplepill, and the pinkpill is moid discord/preddit tranny shit.

I dunno. Just seems a bit strange to argue we need to ban women for feeling miserable or suffering, and assuming an anecdote of a girl being harassed by moidlets is actually unrealistic anti-woman propaganda.

>>125739
There has been some complaining about "embarrassing" posts here on /feels/ but really I don't think this thread falls anywhere under that umbrella

>>125731
I’ve only ever seen men have this experience you’re right.

Does anyone else have the urge to gain the attention of only the hottest people to compensate for all those years that you felt like you looked like a monster? Because I think that might be the thing that's ruining my life

>>127057
but I have no desire to be secretly evil or whatever. I think I act dumb so much that I don’t feel like being smart. it doesn’t feel bad when someone treats me dumb either. am I becoming a dog??

>>127066
It depends why you don't care, but I think it can be more good than bad, assuming it's not because your self esteem is just low and you agree with them. Like your judgement is less clouded by emotional hang ups and the other person reveals a lot more about themselves by treating you like this anyway.

>>127067
i agree i think it can be good to not be obsessed with people viewing you a certain way or needing to prove yourself

>>127067
I know I’m not dumb, but it’s just fun to be dumb? people say I’m clumsy and just gloss over anything intellectual with me which should feel demeaning but it doesn’t? but anyways this all stemmed from the horror of being normiefied! I was expecting the standard “don’t become a braindead normie” responses to op but nonas seem to generally agree it’s ok to normiemax?

>>127069
I generally believe you should be able to act like a normie when the situation calls for it. If you aren't truly a normie you won't turn into one by accident.

>>125779
just don't give it up
does open here imply the relationship is incidental?

>>127041
what i mean to say is: is he really just looking for sex?

tells you he’s never felt love before when he’s like thirty with half a dozen exes. that’s actually scary, baby, not a sign we are meant to be.

if he’s looking at his phone when he’s with you. he shouldn’t be online when you’re home ever. if he is he’s bored.

>>127061
and if he’s bored he’s monkey branching

>>126912
Also to add, I don't know if he truly means this but he says he would kill himself if I died and I freak out because wtf? He also just talks so poorly on himself that it's getting to me and I don't know what to do because I do believe in male mental health but he doesn't even know how to look after himself let alone be in a relationship with someone

>>126914
DO NOT MEET WITH HIM!!

>>126912
a man in his mid twenties love bombing a teenager he met online and now using suicide baiting guilt tactics on you?

i don’t know how to say this lightly but nona. he’s going to force himself on you. whether it’s sexual or forcing a relationship.

this is a jobless adult man who is resorting to dating teenagers because other people his age have apartments and engagements and degrees and careers. he has to date your age because it’s less weird to you at your age for someone to not have these things. but he isn’t a teenager like you. he is stunted and probably dangerous.

if i were you i’d pull a:
“hee hee i don’t remember you asking to be my bf!!!”
“ohhh well it’s a bit fast and i want to be able to meet someone before i decide”
“ohh im not feeling well and since i won’t be able to get what i needed to done, i’m going to have to push when we meet back!”
and then talk about all of your responsibilities and working towards having a life of your own and see how he either thinks he is more important and be repulsed or he’ll have to back off. and then i would slowly stop responding or respond less and less. he will probably freak out at you a little. don’t reply right away then pretend you’re super sorry and worried reply for a bit then have “something come up and you’ll be right back” you have to back out of these things slowly and carefully. idk how obsessed he is or how much do your info he has. he’s already threatening suicide with you cooperating. he WILL threaten you or harm you at least emotionally if not worse in the future if you don’t comply. think about how weird he is being when you’re being agreeable. THIS is his honeymoon phase?

nona you better run or we will all be disappointed in you. you know deep down already this man is a creep. you’re just a baby still. don’t worry. rejecting this man will open doors for new men to come and you’ll have a higher sense of self worth each time you reject a man. the higher your standards are the better. rejecting men like this is how you build your standards. you’ve already taken the first step in identifying this is a certifiable freak. that’s major. you know what you need to do deep down.

You are wasting both his and your time

>>127058
will someone PLEASE think of the man grooming a teenager online.. puhleeeaassee guys we have to caaarrrreeee about men’s time and feelings… please he must be so lonely having his entire social life over discord plssss can anyone help HIM

>>126739
That's terrible!

it’s only been a few days. breathe.

>>126739
I hate this "nonchalant" precept that zoomers follow religiously thinking it makes them cool. Ugh

>>127029
We've also got Millennials locked into permanent Dave Strider coolkid lowercase into their 30s and 40s, too.