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i think my ex is gonna take his life Anonymous 130574[Reply]

i am 20 he is 24 he wanted to break up with me yesterday and i agreed, he then switched up and wanted to get back together and has apologised. i have ignored because he has done this before and i am really worried because he tried to force himself into my house whilst i was sleeping but my mum came to the house and she told him politely to go away so he gave her gifts for me. i did not want to break up with him but he never listens to my boundaries and has done loads of things to break my trust like reaching out to his ex and although ive moved on from certain situations because i am forgiving i have overtime built up resentment against him which is why i agreed to him breaking up. he is extremely emotional and is manipulative/gaslights when he wants to get his own way but i checked his twitter today and he has posted self harm on my tattoo i made of him and all over his arm and he has told me if i broke up with him he woudl take his life and so i am really worried because i still love him but he is destroying me mentally and draining me, the reasonwhy i didnt want to see him is because last time he flipped out he came tomy house and took this £600 mirror we both paid for but it was partially a gift to me and i took it badly as i wanted that mirror for over a year i am so worried for his wellbeing because recently he has completely changed his mentality and i am scared i told him i am worried to see him because i am scared he is going to harm me because he told memany times he could kill me and i believe him because he shares the same mentality of someone that would kill a girl because the girl has broken up with him and i love him a lot so sorry if i am not typing normally i am just really worried for him and for me too and im scared hes going to take his life wether intentional or not because he has done heroinin the past to try and kill himself im so fucking worried man
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Anonymous 130696

>>130574
his life and deaths are absolutely your responsibility. if he threatens suicide, thats a genuine cry for help. he has hurt you before but he definitely will not hurt you again when he has the chance. save this guy.

Anonymous 130712

>>130696
What the fuck are you talking about. This faggot moid needs to get over himself and stop manipulating this poor girl. Did you not read the part where he threatened to kill her before? Handmaids like you should stay quiet.

>>130574
Any updates?

Anonymous 131596

>>130696

Not really, depressive men who kill themselves do it.

Men who tell women about it want something in exchange.

It's about time that if she does what he wants, unless she actually acts like a sane person and contacts a ward or his parents (if possible) to care for the problem. If she acts like if he deserves her time after being, what she described, then she would end up being manipulated if she does as you say. Obviously.

A handmaiden would take the matters as her responsability to care for the emotional needs of man who hurt her, as to feel a person.

A woman as a proper adult, will just contact the proper adults for this situation as a mentally ill man is not acting properly.

Anonymous 131742

>>130574
hey op i hope you are safe.

Anonymous 131852

Woooo!!!! Let him die! Let him die! Let him die!
Come back to us with an update in a few months. Of course, guys like this are histrionic attention whores, so I won't be expecting much of anything interesting to happen.


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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131818

>>131816
>i want to sink into my solitude. i love living in my head. i love living alone and not having anyone in my space outside of the time i allow them in. i'm not sure i'm meant for romantic love
I didn't expect this post to actually hit home so hard. What you're missing is that you rely on other people more than you know. Did you build your own home? Do you grow or hunt your own food? Did you make your own clothing? What about the roads near your home? Did you clear those? Do you maintain them? You exist in a larger social structure and have come to rely on it just as it may rely on you to consume what it produces or pay taxes, etc. Unless you plan on learning many survival skills and living alone in the forest, I suggest you simply learn to coexist with others. An impossible feat you'd say but you don't realize the mountain exists only in your mind. With one thought, it would cease to exist. You control your reality

Anonymous 131827

I miss winter like you wouldn't believe.
>>131816
Break up with him, you'll feel like this until it's unbearable.

Anonymous 131838

>>131818
oh yes, i do rely on many people. especially my parents - they are the only reason i am here - i'm a sick person mentally and physically
however, i also only feel emotionally attached to them, and no one else. i feel thankful for my friends and my boyfriend and everyone else in my life for sure.
i'm an extrovert, actually - or at least i play one in public? i'm talkative and charismatic, but i prefer to only exist to people like this. i maintain a distance where i am only a bright spot in some people's lives that keeps popping up. if you try to reach me when i'm not there, you'll fail, and so most don't try outside of inviting me out. i think they can sense i do not want to me known? maybe?
to an extent, i also don't even let my dad in, and he is the closest person ever to me. my parents are the only ones i can feel in my space without feeling like they're trespassing into something i don't even want them to know exists?
i can rely on them without letting them in, you know?
>>131827
it is hard but i likely will have to. i never want to live with him, or anyone, no matter how perfect. he says he doesn't want that with anyone except me, but, i think he may just be too in love with me to realize i'm not the only special girl. there are girls with more open hearts, more empathy

Anonymous 131840

>>131838
You're fearful and guarded but I can't say I don't understand how you feel. Just remember you CAN change and things don't have to be this way. It is possible I promise you

Anonymous 131851

>>131816
either your boyfriend is boring asf (i know that feeling) or you simply can't experience romance. it's okay to only fuck dudes and not want a serious relationship, you'll probably be happier that way in the long run too. even if you loved him, you would fall out of love eventually.


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Has anyone else given up completely on their life? Anonymous 131845[Reply]

I work a dead end job, no higher education, I'm not saving for retirement, no real plans for the future unless you count Pinterest boards for the future lul, I have health issues I refuse to address, etc. I don't know, I'm just tired of hearing about self improvement everywhere. I genuinely don't care and would be happy just decaying on my desk chair while scrolling on the webs all day. Anyone else like this?

Anonymous 131848

>>131845
On the contrary, the last 10 years of my life have been fraught with seemingly insurmountable difficulties and now that I have a second chance at life, I don't intend to waste it and it's filled my soul with boundless energy. Don't take your life for granted. Life is beautiful

Anonymous 131849

>>131845
Please address your health issues especially if you are on your parents insurance. Regardless I feel somewhat similar, except I’ve worked really hard for a bullshit degree and career path that won’t work out. Sort of followed my dreams to a fault. I know I would not be happy doing anything else but I fear I cannot be happy doing this either and should have kept rotting like during Covid.

Anonymous 131850

you have a job so it's not so bad, you can always get a higher education and find your passion, maybe in 5, 10, 15 years, half of the population under 25 is in your exact same place. i'm in the same boat but with no income lol. you should start motivating yourself by doing little things, like skincare, painting, easy stuff, i've found a lot of interests that way that made me a bit less miserable. i'd also love to just bedrot and doomscroll forever but then the guilt hits


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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131647

stop giving her the attention she craves omg

Anonymous 131648

My body is ugly and I have to deal with mentally ill people gaslighting me on top of that

Anonymous 131709

How can i step out of my house when I see russian stacies with long bodies, long shapely legs, perfect angelic european features, wearing clothes that suit their body type made for them. Women with european features, long legs flat stomachs and perky boobs , seriously there's no cope. This summer is going to be suifuel again

Anonymous 131710

>>131709
Russian nona?

Anonymous 131711

>>131710
I wish


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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 131823

>>131815
I hope you feel better soon

Anonymous 131824

I finally got assaulted by a black nationalist today. Real hotep hours.

Anonymous 131825

>>131824
Is this a joke?

Anonymous 131839

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>bf 173cm
>me 160cm
That tfw feeling when you’re about to bring some new midgets into this world

Anonymous 131844

>>131839
get a 190cm one


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Anonymous 128419[Reply]

feels like I'm excluded from womanhood because I have a hormonal condition (pcos) and I'm a tomboy
>Be me
>25 year old female ,who powerlifts
>Have a decent amount of muscle and deep voice due to pcos as well as body hair from the age of 12
>Join a women's only art discord server
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend,I say no
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped and instantly banned
>Had enough because this happens to me everyday,even in the women's bathrooms. Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod ,and get promptly banned again as expected (that's fair enough)

Damn
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Anonymous 130605

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>Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod
Nigga why?

Anonymous 130609

>>128419
God I wish that were me (Revy). I'm weak and skinny

Anonymous 130610

>>130609
same

Anonymous 131438

>>128419
>sending nudes to strangers without consent

Anonymous 131836

>>128419
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped
>send my pussy and tits to the mod
>I posted this photo of this painting I made of my boyfriend who has big honkers
Yeah that happened
anon if any of this is true, I'd look into therapy because none of this is normal behaviour


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are women meaner or nicer when you look good? Anonymous 131767[Reply]

Since I've moved to a big city I've had this problem where I'll be minding my business in a grocery store and some crackhead middleaged woman will try and start a fight with me. It happens a few times a year. I never instigate, I always keep to myself and stay far away from people. They'll throw insults usually, but last week a woman tried hitting me with her cart.

I always look like a bum when I go grocery shopping. My friend suggested I dress up when I shop so that these women will feel inferior and leave me the fuck alone. Does that work? I thought they'd get jealous and the opposite would happen.

Idk. Let me know what you guys have experienced.
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Anonymous 131793

>>131778
Yes. /thread

Anonymous 131794

>>131793
No

Anonymous 131807

You probably seem harmless and kind, and that type of thug really likes to hit on women. If you dress better, they might think you have more money and want to ask you for more things; the best thing to do is walk around with a serious face, homeless people and drug addicts like to intimidate people who seem excessively kind.

Anonymous 131809

>>131808
No milf for canadians

Anonymous 131826

>>131772
Nod and walk away.


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there’s always another girl Anonymous 131762[Reply]

i don’t know why men can never just be satisfied with one girl. they always want something more from other girls in one way or another. one girl will never be enough for them. it doesn’t even matter how devoted and loving you are. in my experience that makes them want to do this sort of thing even more. without fail they always do this to me. this man has done this to me with multiple girls. my heart is broken. i am so devastated.

Anonymous 131763

>>131762
I'm sorry to hear someone has broken your heart. Unfortunately the kind of person who will be loyal and trustworthy in a relationship might not be as interesting or fun as the person who might cheat. It's really important to think about the kind of person you're dealing with when choosing a partner. You don't want to overanalyze every little thing they do but you should absolutely be paying attention if they say they're still close with their ex or if they're a person who has a tendency to do drastic spontaneous things. At the end of the day, love is ultimately a gamble and as any gambler will tell you, sometimes you're just going to lose. Keep your head up there are billions other fish in the sea.

Anonymous 131764

I hear a lot of ice cream helps and throw his clothes into the street

Anonymous 131765

i’m sorry nona :( men suck. take the advice sylvia could never follow through with herself.

Anonymous 131766

>>131763
I know what you are.

Anonymous 131792

Typical moid behavior.


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bf clothes smell like ferret Anonymous 131785[Reply]

i love my boyfriend desu
but clothes that hang up in his room smell like ammonia-y ferret droppings. not musky, like cat pee if it was even worse, and without actually coming in contact with the pee. he has to wash his clothes when he comes over. when i go over i have to keep my clothes shut in my zipped suitcase. my dumb ass just hasn't told him that i know the source of it
we're ldr and idk how to broach the topic that it is gonna be me or the ferrets if he wants me to move in with him. i have migraines and my ocd already makes me think i'm stinky
also it's bad for animal welfare i think
wtf i do
(i already am bitey when he doesnt do stuff to my standard in my home, he just says ok and does it tho)

Anonymous 131787

build a decontamination chamber in your house

Anonymous 131788

>>131787
do not worry
there will be no house if this is not dealt with somehow


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