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Hate Thread Anonymous 118525[Reply]

What do you hate and why?
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Anonymous 128304

>>128302
Youre hating on ugly women in an industry that commodifies them what

I get the hideous moid part but please name me some celebrity women that are ugly

This looks like more of the same basic primal bimbo shit

Anonymous 128313

>>128304
I never said any celebrity women were ugly what I said the men were ugly

Anonymous 129204

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Anonymous 129219

>>128302
Real as fuck. Male comedians piss me the fuck off

Anonymous 129273

realizing how many of my bad social traits and petty/spiteful impulses stem from being around actual retarded white trash faggots from discord who punished any form of sincerity and transparency in other people. i'm free now, i don't have to play by their rules



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Anonymous 129214[Reply]

How have you reacted to men sharing their feelings with you? Do stories like this one seem true?

Anonymous 129217

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These people (like in the image) don't want solutions, they just want a sounding board to feel like they are the center of the universe and that everything except them are the problem why they are feeling low. My autistic ass thinks solutions but when I try to give it to them, they get angry. Sometimes I try to talk about myself in an attempt to demonstrate that everyone goes through their problems and they accuse of making everything about myself. I can never win.

Anonymous 129223

Fuck moids. If he can't handle his own emotions, dump 'em

Anonymous 129224

I love advocating for moids opening up about mental healths, because it shifts power dynamics and control back to me

Anonymous 129225

Stuff like this makes me wonder the context of her reply. I would never talk to my boyfriend like this. It makes me wonder if he did something fucked up then tried shifting focus to his own feelings, like many emotional manipulators do.

Anonymous 129272

>>129217
I find that most of the time when people complain about issues in their life, they want validation or a "rubber ducky" to bounce off ideas and to get things out of their head, aka venting.

So usually I just say "damn that sucks" or the like and listen to them.

>>129225
It might be the case, but it might just be what I stated before, and not thinking about her view or how she thinks. Kinda shitty to make a post online about this and not talk to her in a mature manner but that isn't really uncommon in most current relationships.



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Unsent Single-Sentence Messages Anonymous 129271[Reply]

This thread is for short, unsent thoughts (1–3 sentences max). Use this space to post standalone unsent emotional messages that don’t need to be a full letter.

Please do not use this thread for conversation, replies, or back-and-forth exchanges. Each post should stand on its own.


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How to get rid of burnout? Anonymous 129269[Reply]

I am so exhausted. Im tired of everything, Im trying to hard but no matter what I do I cannot see myself improve in any sort of way and right now I feel as I have been running a mile. My bones are wary and my mind cannot think, my mouth is dry as well and I wish I could just wake up one day and feel better.

I have been setting time aside for myself to do my hobbies, like reading, watching movies, or playing my guitar and I DO feel better, and then I am back in the position I was in, and all of that good feel disappears and I am lost again.

So, does anyone know how to get out of the slump?

Anonymous 129270

I'd get all kinds of bloodwork done honestly just to see if there really is something you can do about it all and if it doesnt have to do with your health then I'd take a good look at whether your surroundings are not too much for you, like work or living situation



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I am sad ill never have him Anonymous 129232[Reply]

I'm so sad I'll never have a boyfie like Sheldon Cooper. He is so perfect. I love his aspie mannerisms, his intelligence, his facial expressions, his mischievous smile, his flat affect, I mean even when he is flirting he is still innocent and spergy. He is so charming to me I love him so much. The fact that he is not real and I'll never have him makes me feel hopeless. I can't imagine being with anyone else. When I am sad I imagine him holding me and telling me cool science facts, or helping me research historical shit I'm into at the moment. I love him so much, he is perfect and I would feel so safe with him. Him and Amy are my hopefuel too, it's the only show where an ugly autist girl gets a happily ever after with a moid that actually loves her. I so badly want a romantic aspie love with a moid exactly like Sheldon Cooper. My heart hurts
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Anonymous 129250

>>129232
i understand. sheldon is so qt and i hate that he's the butt of the jokes. he's the only reason i watch big bag theory

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>>129250
I know it always makes me sad when he gets teased, he doesn't deserve it even though I admit he is rude sometimes (unintentionally mostly but still). And same, I only watch bbt for Sheldon too. I can watch it over and over for him kek even thou the show gets on my nerves a lot

Anonymous 129260

>>129232
You could but you told them to fuck off and refuse to give the sheldons of the world the time of day.

Personal Accountability is a dirty term indeed.

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>>129260
I've never met a man like him in person before. I wish I had nerdy stuff around me so I could have more of a chance doe. But tbh I don't think men like him exist irl. He is so perfect real men could never compare. I mean he is quirky and cute, like and manic pixie dream boy. Too perfect to be real

Anonymous 129267

You don't actually like emotionally unavailable men, you just think you do



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finally had sex with a girl, but i cried after Anonymous 129205[Reply]

i've only been with moids my whole life, but last night i had an opportunity to have sex with a woman and it was very lovely at first, but i realised during it i wasn't really enjoying it, so we stopped.

after i had left her house i just cried so hard.
i never particularly liked having sex with moids, but i thought that was a moid thing.

i think i struggle with having sex with anybody, it just makes me really uncomfortable despite the fact i really enjoy intimacy and the company of others.
i really like to flick my bean, so its not like i have no arousal.. i just dont like having sex with people.

have any other nonas experienced anything similar?
i feel like im in a weird situation because i can't expect a long-term relationship with anyone if the thought of having sex with them terrifies me.
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Anonymous 129241

>>129239
This isn't just not liking casual sex it's obviously something psychological. Cause eventually Nona is gonna find someone she really loves and stays with for a while and she just won't be able to do anything. If she were truly asexual/not want to sleep with people she doesn't know well or something it would be fine.

Anonymous 129242

>>129237
Yes, especially since you were exposed to it so young. Consuming that stuff can alter the way you experience and act on attraction which is probably why you struggle despite wanting it. Imo as you are, don't worry about trying to have sex. You aren't in the right headspace, and your perception of it is probably screwed by watching it from childhood to your twenties.

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>>129239
yeah, but i've only had with men in committed relationships, i still disliked it.

although, the first time i had sex with a girl it was casual. it felt like less of a chore than sex with moids. i disliked how i felt afterwards; i felt used, despite it being consensual. also i was the pillow princess.

i dont dislike intimacy, sex just scares me. i love masturbating, though.



>>129238
how do i get in contact with such a person, through my doctor? all therapy i've had has been rubbish, but i may have some underlaying trauma.




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Anonymous 129263

>>129205
Honestly real. Sex is scary



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Anonymous 128905[Reply]

What is love to you? What does it mean to fall in love?
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Anonymous 129197

Love is coming over my bestie's house, joking, watching anime, cooking together, talking about our past troubles and future worries. I came over to help her prepare for a party she was throwing and to actually meet her bf who helped cook too. I brought a pie i made for it, and everyone enjoyed it and many wanted seconds. Love is being kind to yourself and showing that kindness to others. Most people will not reciprocate but those that do, and truly value your care, will love you and become like family.

Anonymous 129206

definitely not what your gooner picture portrays

Anonymous 129226

Love is cuddling under a heated blanket. It's him respecting my wishes to wait till marriage. It's us cooking for each other. It's us doordashing each other medicine or sweets even though we're too far away to get it ourselves. It's the stuffed animal he sewed by hand. It's the drawings he's made of us. It's the warmth I feel when he holds my hand. It's way we still are kind to each other after we get a little too heated during a discussion. It's the patience we have for each other when one of us messes up.

Anonymous 129230

>>129197
This is a good answer, Love this!

Anonymous 129261

Love is quiet and not flashy. It will still be there after the storm and is often confused for infatuation and temporary feelings that always pass. In the end its a life preserver that will always save you in a stormy sea of unknowns. It will only abandon you if you abandon and betray it first.



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I'm so mad im from da hood.. Anonymous 129188[Reply]

I am a black girl from da hood and I hate it so much. And no this is not self hating shit, I don't hate being black, I just hate that I was raised in a ghetto desolate city with no hope or future. It's just ghetto shit and I don't relate. I never did, when I was a kid I felt so alienated from everything in my real life so I retreated to the internet since it was the only way I could find non-normies. Everyone around me is obsessed with rap and gang culture shit so it's hard to find peoplel that admire classical and deep stuff with fucking meaning. I wish I was born in a small French town so bad. I want to learn French so I can join a nunnery there. I WILL fucking escape this life. I will make it out of here. A part of me dies every time I have to leave the house.
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Anonymous 129192

politicians and billionaires made it this way on purpose and they have names and addresses

Anonymous 129200

Go, escape. Build a beautiful life for yourself.
Don't let anyone tell you no. Your mind alone proves you deserve out of that environment.

Anonymous 129227

This is real but I hope sometimes soon you start realizing that other black people aren't 'wrong' for not liking the stuff you do. This might be a stretch but you seem to idolize European culture like there aren't artistic, spiritual, deep black people. If you want to see the people around you care more, become someone that cares. Quit thinking running away to France will solve everything. That isn't your only option. Go to some slam poetry event. Listen to rap that ISNT just about gang violence so that you can see how much of an art it really is. treat rap that is about gang violence like what it is: people finding a form of art to express their hard life. I'm not trying to be rude but your mindset is pathetic and you aren't the only black person that admires deep thinking and meaning, you just let yourself grow into a eurocentric mindset. I hope you grow out of it soon and start actually exploring the world around you with an open mind.

Anonymous 129231

>>129189
>>129200
>>129192
thx Nonas
>>129227
Ya, what you said is true. I don't believe all black culture is bad or anything. And I agree I came across as close minded. I'm just frustrated that so many people in our community praise gang culture shit. But not all rap or black culture is like that I know. A lot of aspects of it is very beautiful and I admire it a lot. and I don't praise only white culture since that's cringe I just want to get away from my horrible city kek. but I agree with what you said

Anonymous 129251

>>129188
not black, but i relate as a 'chav'.

i was mocked as a child often for not sounding like them (i have autism so my accent is very neutral/considered posh compared to where i live)

i've found a community through a music scene, indie of course. it may be hard finding something like that in your area but punk people are so lovely and accepting, even if youre anxious and feel out of place.

i wish you the best nona



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128957

You do not have access to me anymore. Any time I feel like I miss you I remember all the times you hurt me and lied to me and how many days i went not eating and sleeping because of you, cutting myself because of you. All the promises you made that you'll always be here and always love me only to leave me

I'm tired of wasting my time on you. Go fuck yourself. You should die alone

Anonymous Moderator 128961

Some posters have been using this thread to vaguely communicate with others and to spam dozens of one-liners one after the other. Don't use this thread as a chat thread. Your posts will be removed.

Anonymous 129151

>>128961
thank you.

Anonymous 129235

>>128239
Mom,
The older I get the more I understand you and realize the things you tried to tell me all along.
I see myself slowly become all the things I used to hate about you.
I was not a good daughter.
I sit and think about all the times you have asked me to come home. They play through my head and it hurts. I'm sorry I hurt you and I know you're right.
I'm too prideful to admit I was wrong.
I love you.

Anonymous 129244

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No, I'll never give the hunt up, and I won't muck it up
Somehow this is it, I knew, maybe fate wants you dead too
We've come together in the very same room, and I'm coming for you
Do you think I'd ever let you get away with it, huh?
He swooned in warm maroon
There's gas in your barrel, and I'm flooded with Doom
You've made a wake of our honeymoon, and I'm coming for you



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