I'm a biological/cis/afab (whatever you wanna call it) woman. There is no Discord, we don't even have a staff Discord anymore and I communicate with everyone involved in c.c 1:1. I removed all old mods a long while back and right now the only people I have on board are a female developer I know personally and 1 janitor (also female) who can't see IPs.
I don't share user information.
I hope this answers your questions, although you don't have more than my word for it. Thank you for using c.c!