I'm desperate. Anonymous 335398[Reply]
I know I'm not supposed to post here because I'm a man, and I apologize for that, but I'm genuinely desperate. I'm 26 years old, I've never had a girlfriend, and with each passing day, the loneliness hurts a little more.
Please, ladies, give me some advice. Anything. I want to find a partner. I want someone to love, cherish and spoil, someone I can share the very best that life has to offer with. I want to be there for her, support her through difficult times, celebrate her successes and do everything I can to make her happy.
I don't watch pornography. I can cook (or so I've been told, quite well, actually). I clean up after myself, and I've been taking care of my own household chores since I was 10. I look after myself, maintain good hygiene, make an effort to dress well and take care of my appearance.
I'm a little overweight, that's true. I'm not particularly handsome, that's true too. I'm not the most attractive man, and I haven't felt that way in years.
But I'm affectionate. I'm willing to listen, communicate, compromise and put genuine effort into a relationship. I've spent years working on myself, including two years in therapy, trying to work through the trauma I experienced during childhood. I know I'm not perfect, but I'm trying to become a better person.
I'm just so tired of loneliness. Tired of coming home every day to an empty house, knowing there's nobody waiting for me. Tired of falling asleep alone. Tired of having nobody to share the little moments of everyday life with.
I don't expect a perfect woman, and I certainly don't expect a perfect relationship. I just want someone who genuinely wants to build a life together, someone who chooses me just as I choose her.
Please, ladies, tell me what I should do. What am I missing? What could I change? I'm genuinely asking for advice.
Anonymous 335399
I know I'm breaking Rule 7, and I apologize for that. But please understand, I thought that since this imageboard is primarily aimed at women, I might have a better chance of receiving honest, well-informed advice here.
I have no intention of posting anything unrelated, trolling, or disrupting the board in any way. I'm not here to troll, and I'm being completely genuine about what I've written.
Anonymous 335402
>>335401That's a Cute little creature, but no. I've tried, on a few occasions, to show someone that I cared about them. I'm not particularly good at expressing my feelings, so I'd resort to little gestures: bringing them sweets, giving them small gifts or baking something for them.
But I never really felt that those gestures were appreciated. If anything, I sometimes felt like I was being laughed at. Eventually, it became too discouraging, and I started wondering whether I was coming across as a creep rather than someone who was simply trying to be kind.
Anonymous 335404
Of all the places you could of picked anon, you come here to the board full of misandrists, trannies, and women who are not into men.