Are all moids bad? Anonymous 316547[Reply]
17 posts and 7 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.Anonymous 316706
>>316704But this means having to touch rhe datingpoolat all. Sorting through any of that garbage is how they get you for the long con.
Anonymous 316708
>>316699>>316696Yeah because avoiding men(99% are hideous( and the dating cesspool is remotely retarded
Joining the dating hellscape is the opposite if advancing your life. If you find someone out of luck then that is fine, but actually trying to date? Plus most men are ass ugly
Anonymous 316709
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>>316708>>316706Dating apps are definitely AIDS. I met my bf who is romantic, protects me, cooks for me, helps with chores and is masculine at my local gym. His dad is also masculine and old school romantic too so I think he had a good influence growing up. I had lost all hope in my dating experiences beforehand and still think 99% of moids are shit.
Anonymous 316710
>>316709As long as it is organic and natural byt dating is the long con. Good for you btw.
Anonymous 316738
I feel like everyone is kinda retarded tbh. We want to pretend we're better but idk, a lot of people struggle with basic communication. In my experience the women here are conflict avoidant and struggle to communicate directly in the dozen or so relationships I've had with them, a problem that is applicable more generally to women as a whole. Or sometimes they're super aggressive all the time, as if different situations don't call for different approaches. Rarely, they even fail to understand basic boundaries or decent behaviour, something I'd only ever expect of a moid. But a lot of mental illness seems to swim in these waters too, I suppose it's to be expected. This leads to different issues.
Then men have a general lack of awareness for how scary they can be inherently, and an infuriating automatic response to scoff and complain about being painted as inherently bad which isn't even the point. Combine this with a gross dating dynamic that encourages men to chase chase chase and push push push the exact women who can't speak up and can't deal with conflict. Yeah, it's no surprise these two retards end up in a situation where boundaries get pushed. As for the really aggressive ones, they avoid most of the pushy guys but turn away a lot of benign men too. Being highly disagreeable in a relationship is not a generally desirable trait. Flexibility is key, balance is paramount.
Are all moids bad? No, but some of them are really bad. But most of them are just socially inept and quite honestly so are most women, especially the younger ones. Just work on yourself because let's face it, you're far from perfect, and eventually you will find one who's more aware and has the right balance of masculine and feminine traits. Don't lose hope, but also don't expect the perfect moid who is comfy and actively listens and is always so careful will just magically fall into your lap.
